How Jesus Offers Us Direction and Belonging

What does the Bible say about isolation? In the Book of Luke, God teaches us that no one is insignificant or alone, no matter the path they have walked. If you – like many of us – are feeling overwhelmed by loneliness in modern society, you are welcome here. Join us as Crossroads’ Senior Pastor Brian Tome shares the good news about a God who searches for the lost, provides direction, and restores hope.

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    - Hey, welcome to Crossroads.
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    And if you're watching this on real time,
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    I want to say Happy Father's Day
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    to all of my fellow dads out there.
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    Whether you're learning to change a diaper
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    for the first time, or like me, as a grandparent
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    you don't have to change diapers anymore,
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    or anywhere in between, I would encourage you
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    to keep showing up, keep loving your kids
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    as best as you know how. I'm Griff
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    and I'm the Director of Community Development
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    for our Crossroads Anywhere team.
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    And I'm there to help people get connected.
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    Just last week, I got to connect with some
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    with Anywhere folks in Florida, in Fort Myers
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    and Cape Coral, Sarasota, Tampa, Orlando,
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    and for the first time in person in Jacksonville.
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    So, just a shout out to all of our folks in Florida.
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    But really, no matter where you are
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    or what you believe, we're here to help you
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    find community, whether that's online or in person,
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    because we want you to truly belong to this family.
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    So reach out to us, chat with us online,
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    or email us at anywhere@crossroads.net.
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    We'd love to hear from you and figure out
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    how we can help you feel connected.
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    You know, thinking about being a dad today,
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    I always loved the times my kids
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    would acknowledge me or thank me
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    and just show up to say thank you.
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    And what we're getting ready to do is
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    do that with God, our Father in heaven.
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    So yes, we're going to worship together online,
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    even though that might seem strange to you.
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    Psalm 100 says this:
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    So no matter where you are right now,
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    I believe that God wants to connect with you.
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    He wants to speak with you.
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    He wants to infuse you with hope.
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    So let's lean in together and use this
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    as a time to do that right now.
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    - I love that song
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    and I also love this next song we're going to do
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    because I requested it.
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    Yeah, it's a it's a bit of a throwback.
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    It was popular several years ago, not so much anymore.
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    But I asked for it because it really ties into
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    really, well, what I'm going to talk about
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    in a little bit: What does it mean to be lost?
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    You know, today is... or this weekend is Father's Day
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    and Juneteenth all wrapped up in one.
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    Juneteenth, people didn't know they were free.
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    They finally... slaves finally got word,
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    figured out, you're free. Didn't know it.
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    Like everyone got big, big, big, big deal.
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    And yet Christianity is all about you can be free,
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    and there is a Father who loves you
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    and comes after you.
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    That's what a good dad does.
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    This song goes off of a passage
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    in the Book of Luke chapter 15,
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    where three times in a row, Jesus recognizes
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    that God looks for things that are lost.
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    It doesn't matter if it's one,
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    doesn't matter if it's insignificant, He looks.
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    If there's one sheep that is not found
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    and 99 sheep are with Him,
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    He leaves and goes to the one.
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    If there's one coin He can't find,
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    even if He has nine more, He goes to the coin.
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    If there's two sons, He has one,
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    but one's detached, one's disconnected,
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    He looks and He runs after them.
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    This is what God does for you.
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    It's the good news.
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    He knows where you are,
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    He knows who you are, and He comes for you
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    because you matter.
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    If you're the only one, you would matter.
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    That's the love of a Father that's come to set you free.
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    You know, I get asked, what is the song, Reckless?
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    What is this?
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    Because for a lot of us, we live such passive lives.
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    We don't do anything impulsive
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    that we hear reckless.
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    Reckless, that's your response? Are you saying God's reckless?
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    You're saying He's irresponsible?
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    You're saying He doesn't know what He's doing?
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    No. I'm saying that when God moves, He moves.
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    I'm saying that when God sees someone
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    who needs love, He just loves.
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    I'm saying when God sees a way to restore
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    and redeem all of humanity by dying on a Cross,
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    He does the reckless thing to His own welfare,
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    which is the death of His own Son, and goes forward.
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    That's how much He loves you.
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    That's what He wants: to connect with you
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    and be with you.
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    And what's crazy and reckless about it is
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    I don't deserve it.
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    I don't know about you, I don't, I don't.
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    God's not impressed with me.
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    He's not impressed with my holiness.
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    He's not impressed with my intentions.
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    I don't stack up to Him, and yet He loves me.
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    That's so reckless.
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    It's so... It's so unworldly.
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    It's so un-American what He does for us.
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    He's so good. Come on and sing that again. Come on.
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    - This is what He will do all for love.
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    - The Bible makes it so clear, there is nothing
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    that can separate you from the love of God.
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    Romans 8 says nothing, no matter what in your mind
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    thinks it separates you, makes you too far,
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    makes you sit in the back instead of sit up front,
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    or sit in the middle, or sit wherever you think you are.
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    You are not too far from the love of God.
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    He comes after you with passion, with life to give.
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    So I pray to You, Jesus.
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    I pray to You and just say thank You.
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    Thank You for Your love.
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    Pull me closer to You.
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    Teach me more about it,
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    because it's hard to receive it at times.
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    Make my heart open to Your love.
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    I thank you, Father.
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    I pray all this in your name, Jesus. Amen.
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    You can make your way back to your seats
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    if you want, but hey, before you grab a seat,
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    you know one of the smallest ways...
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    or you can grab a seat. I confused you there.
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    I said, go back to your seats. And then I didn't...
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    You can grab a seat. Grab a seat.
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    You get comfortable. There you go.
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    You good now? That's my bad. It's on me.
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    Hey, you know, one of the ways
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    that we respond to that love, and it's a small way,
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    I'll be honest, it's a small way, but it's costly,
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    is through financial giving.
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    Like, I give of my money because He's loved me radically.
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    And if you want to do that with us,
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    you can do that at Crossroads.net/give.
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    So glad you're here.
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    - I don't know if you've ever been lost before.
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    It's terrifying, actually,
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    if you know what's going on,
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    it's a horrible, horrible sensation.
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    We're looking for several weeks at what it means.
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    The gospel. The gospel means good news.
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    And to help us understand this good news,
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    there's a bunch of different metaphors
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    in the Bible that relate to us.
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    So, there are the poor who recognize
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    that we are the poor in in spirit.
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    There are the orphans.
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    There are those who are strangers or aliens.
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    We feel like we're strangers and aliens.
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    God adopts us. God brings us in.
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    These are all good news.
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    And the last metaphor we're going to look at
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    is the metaphor of being lost, or as I may say,
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    actually being disconnected.
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    Let's pray before I do anything else. Okay?
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    God, I want us to see You in a fresh way.
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    I want us to maybe feel You in a fresh way.
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    I want us to be able to just be overwhelmed
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    with Your love and the plan that You have for our future.
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    Help me to talk about that.
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    Help me to be clear.
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    Help me to be on point
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    with what You want said to Your people.
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    Thank You, God, for the privilege it is
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    to talk about transcendent, meaningful things.
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    I don't take it for granted.
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    And I pray these things according to
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    the character and identity of Jesus. Amen.
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    Well, today I'm going to tell you
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    one of my favorite stories in the Bible.
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    I love this story.
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    And I'm going to start with the end in mind.
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    The end of it comes from the book of Luke 19:10,
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    where it says, Jesus says Himself, the Son of Man,
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    it's how He refers to Himself in this situation.
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    The Son of Man comes to seek and save that which is lost.
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    Seek and save that which is lost.
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    This is good news. This is good news.
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    Good news is not a Bible word.
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    The word gospel is good news.
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    It's not a Bible word.
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    It was a word that was around in secular society.
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    It just meant good news is coming.
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    And I'm here to tell you,
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    if you've ever felt alone,
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    if you've ever felt disconnected,
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    if you've ever felt on your own,
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    if you ever felt like it's only up to you
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    and no one else, good news, that's not true.
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    Because you can be connected, you can be found.
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    The problem with this phrase of being lost,
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    like, the lost, the lost, the lost
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    is we don't really understand
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    in our current cultural context.
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    In fact, in our current cultural context,
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    it's very negative.
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    Like, no one wants to be called your lost.
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    "Dude, you are lost."
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    "No, I'm not. No, I'm not."
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    No one wants to be called, said they're lost.
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    I grew up in a school where there wasn't
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    really any physical bullying that took place,
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    but we were kids, we were, and we're people.
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    And people like to judge other people and laugh at each other.
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    And looking back on it, maybe we did
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    a little bit to one guy that we knew.
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    His name was Albert, and Albert was...
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    he talked a little different.
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    He was just... he was just a little odd.
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    You know, the kind of people
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    he's just a half bubble off, one of those kind of guys.
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    And he used to chew the end of his eraser off his pencil.
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    He chewed his eraser off,
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    and then he'd stick it in sideways his mouth
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    and keep chewing it.
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    And so we called him Albert Alligator Pencil Chomper.
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    That's what we called him.
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    We actually had a phrase for it, a song for it.
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    Albert Alligator Pencil Chomper.
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    Albert Alligator Pencil Chomper.
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    We had that Albert Alligator Pencil Chomper.
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    And we would talk about Albert, we would just say,
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    "Man, that dude he is...
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    That dude is lost. He is just lost."
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    And that meant to us, like, out of touch, strange, weird.
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    It wasn't a complimentary term.
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    I knew a guy when I was doing football
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    in high school, and you would go in and do two a days during the summer.
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    And everybody on the football team
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    would start with the same white sweatshirt,
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    long sleeve sweatshirt under your pads,
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    doing two a days in Pittsburgh humidity in August.
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    Not fun.
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    And you wanted to impress the coaches
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    and do well enough that you would advance.
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    And if they saw you progressing,
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    they would give you an orange mesh shirt.
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    And then if you got up to like starting level,
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    they would give you a black mesh shirt.
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    One guy we knew, his name was Steve.
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    I don't think he really liked football that much.
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    I know he didn't like being uncomfortable too much,
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    so he kept making up injuries.
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    At least it seemed like he kept making up injuries
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    because he just wanted to be around
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    the football field and he would just be
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    on the side, always with an ice pack on him.
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    And we started to notice this.
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    Finally we just started said, "Hey, Steve,
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    maybe someday you'll get an orange ice pack.
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    Maybe someday you'll get a black ice pack."
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    And we would say, "Man, Steve,
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    that dude is just lost. He's just lost."
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    It wasn't wasn't a complimentary term.
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    So when we hear Jesus says, "I've come to seek
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    and save that which is lost,"
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    our natural reaction is going to be,
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    "Well, that's not me. Lost is weird.
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    Lost is loser. Lost is has no other options.
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    Lost is just strange."
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    That's not what Jesus is talking about.
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    I want to propose a different word for us
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    to consider that might explain you,
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    or at least would have explained the way you have been,
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    and would explain a way to identify
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    and understand many other people. Let's read it.
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    The story comes from Luke 19, and here we go.
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    Jesus was the greatest show on earth.
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    Wherever Jesus went, people wanted to be there
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    because He was the greatest speaker
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    the world has ever known.
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    He was also the greatest healer the world has ever known.
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    He was a miracle worker.
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    People knew this, people saw this,
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    and it was spreading all over the place.
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    And so when He showed up someplace,
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    everybody showed up.
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    He was just planning on going to Jericho.
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    Well, what do you know?
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    The greatest show on earth comes to Jericho,
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    and the crowds and the throngs come.
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    One of these people is Zacchaeus.
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    Zacchaeus is a wee little man.
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    A wee little man was he.
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    That's a song that, like, every Sunday school plays.
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    You know, Zacchaeus is gonna be pretty ticked off
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    when some of you get to heaven
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    and you've been calling him a wee little man.
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    No man, no man wants to be called a wee little man.
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    Now he is short, he goes on the shorter side,
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    and there's some social dynamics that are happening here.
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    He's a tax collector.
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    That means, as the text said, he's rich.
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    And it also means he's hated.
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    The Jews were under oppression from Rome,
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    and Rome knew in order to get the money,
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    you had to follow the money trail.
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    And the way to follow the money trail
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    is to have somebody who told you
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    how business worked in Israel,
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    who knew the businesses, who now knew
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    how the money was flowing.
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    So they would hire Jews to help them collect taxes.
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    Zacchaeus was one of those people.
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    And so the Jews hated him.
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    The people in this town would have hated him.
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    They would have been staying away from him
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    with all that they could.
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    And so, Zacchaeus, he's not going to...
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    he's not going to just fight through the crowd
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    to get to the front of the crowd.
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    He can't see Jesus because he's a short guy,
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    as the text says, and he's not going to be able
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    to fight through the crowd to get to the front,
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    because there's going to be too many people
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    who are going to want to give him
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    an elbow to the face because he is hated.
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    He is not wanted.
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    So he thinks that he has it down
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    and he goes and he gets up a tree
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    to see what's going to happen.
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    Now Zacchaeus is very successful
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    and Zacchaeus is lost.
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    Well, what do you mean? I thought Los was stupid.
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    I thought it meant that you were...
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    No, what lost means, I think it's the better word.
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    I think if Jesus came and gave us
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    this verse today in our current vernacular,
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    I don't think He would say lost.
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    I think He would actually say he's disconnected.
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    He's not connected with God.
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    He's out of sync.
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    I don't like being disconnected.
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    I'm not talking about
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    I don't like not being on social media.
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    I love not being on social media.
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    I'm not talking about I can't put my phone away.
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    I can put my phone away.
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    What I mean is, I hate being disconnected,
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    meaning I hate being lost.
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    And when I'm lost, what that means is,
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    if I'm in a situation where it's possible
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    that nobody knows where I am
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    and I can't find my way out,
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    I start to get a bit freaked out about it.
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    So, therefore I spend money so that doesn't happen.
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    I have this little device, as you all may have.
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    We probably have used this device for anything,
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    for nothing more than the GPS. Right?
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    Being able to find where we are going.
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    It's a big, big deal.
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    But for me this isn't good enough.
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    What if my battery goes dead?
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    What if I am in a place that doesn't have cell phone service?
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    I've heard recently that Apple is going to have
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    legitimate GPS on these phones, the new iteration.
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    Maybe it's out right now.
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    That's awesome. That's great.
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    But I tell you what, this isn't good enough for me
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    because when I go hiking, when I go hunting,
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    when I go motorcycling in the backwoods,
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    when I do different things, I'm free.
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    So I... let me tell you,
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    I don't want to be disconnected.
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    So I've got a watch that has GPS capabilities on it.
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    And I love it, I love it.
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    I have another GPS.
  • 00:31:41
    I told you I have issues, I have problems.
  • 00:31:44
    I have another GPS that I only use on my motorcycle.
  • 00:31:48
    The right size of my motorcycle when I'm riding,
  • 00:31:50
    getting around. There it is.
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    I have another one for my truck
  • 00:31:54
    when I'm overlanding. Yes, this is amazing.
  • 00:31:57
    It's freaking awesome. It's great.
  • 00:31:59
    Everybody in my party, actually,
  • 00:32:02
    where they are on the road, it pops up on the road.
  • 00:32:04
    You can see where they are.
  • 00:32:05
    And doesn't matter if I have no cell phone service or not,
  • 00:32:07
    it collects the connects to Glonass
  • 00:32:09
    and all kind of stuff up there.
  • 00:32:11
    So I'm going to make sure I know where I am,
  • 00:32:13
    I'm not lost.
  • 00:32:14
    And then and then when I'm hiking, when I'm hiking,
  • 00:32:16
    when I'm hunting in the backwoods away from everything,
  • 00:32:19
    and I can't carry a big thing like that,
  • 00:32:21
    I have this little guy.
  • 00:32:23
    This little guy is awesome.
  • 00:32:24
    It's called a mini inReach Mini and it connects,
  • 00:32:28
    I can send text messages through it,
  • 00:32:29
    through the satellite, and I can see where I am.
  • 00:32:31
    And if... I was practicing this talk earlier
  • 00:32:35
    and a friend of mine on staff said,
  • 00:32:36
    "Yeah, yeah, you really don't like being disconnected."
  • 00:32:40
    Pulled it up on on her phone like,
  • 00:32:41
    "Hey, are you getting this? Can you get this?
  • 00:32:43
    Do you see me? Do you see me? Do you see me?"
  • 00:32:45
    So that's that's the way it is.
  • 00:32:47
    It shows where I am in the map, where it is,
  • 00:32:49
    where it's going. I don't want to be lost.
  • 00:32:53
    It's a horrible idea.
  • 00:32:54
    And I don't think any of us do either.
  • 00:32:58
    But being lost really comes about
  • 00:33:00
    because we're disconnected.
  • 00:33:02
    We're not connected where we need to be.
  • 00:33:04
    We're not in sync.
  • 00:33:07
    1 in 5 of us have never used a paper map.
  • 00:33:12
    That's crazy. 1 in 5 of us.
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    61% of us use a GPS at least once a week.
  • 00:33:20
    Just trying to make sure I get to where I'm going,
  • 00:33:24
    trying to make sure I know where I'm going.
  • 00:33:27
    17% of us couldn't get where we're going without a GPS.
  • 00:33:32
    In fact, neuroscientists are telling us this,
  • 00:33:34
    that because we're so dependent on our phones
  • 00:33:37
    and getting places, there's portions of our brain
  • 00:33:40
    that are no longer operating because
  • 00:33:42
    we're not learning how to find our way back place
  • 00:33:45
    or develop our sixth sense of sense of direction.
  • 00:33:48
    We're losing a piece of us, and it's because
  • 00:33:51
    we're all terrified of being lost.
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    We're terrified of being disconnected.
  • 00:34:01
    I went out to Oregon.
  • 00:34:04
    I'm going to talk about this in a little bit.
  • 00:34:06
    I'll do a deep dive on it, on a cattle drive recently.
  • 00:34:09
    So I was going out there.
  • 00:34:10
    I had to go to the airport to get there,
  • 00:34:12
    and I went in the restroom.
  • 00:34:14
    And they've got these tracts,
  • 00:34:17
    Bible tracts on the urinals that feed into
  • 00:34:21
    the fear of you being lost and being disconnected.
  • 00:34:24
    Now, I got to tell you, you know, I like the Bible.
  • 00:34:28
    I just don't like reading the Bible on a public urinal.
  • 00:34:32
    That's just not my thing.
  • 00:34:33
    I just... I don't know how many people
  • 00:34:38
    have come to know Jesus
  • 00:34:39
    reading and peeing at the same time.
  • 00:34:41
    I'm just not sure.
  • 00:34:43
    Especially reading the kind of verses they put up there.
  • 00:34:46
    It's, you know, it's mostly fear, doom and gloom
  • 00:34:49
    kind of stuff that's trying to feed into
  • 00:34:52
    the idea that you're lost.
  • 00:34:56
    I love the heart and attitude of somebody saying,
  • 00:34:58
    "I want to help somebody else," I love that.
  • 00:35:01
    But most of us just aren't ready
  • 00:35:03
    to admit that we feel lost.
  • 00:35:04
    We don't feel lost.
  • 00:35:05
    That's not a spiritual condition
  • 00:35:07
    that we're willing to identify with.
  • 00:35:10
    But maybe we could identify with disconnection.
  • 00:35:13
    I don't feel connection with God.
  • 00:35:16
    This is Zacchaeus. He has a disconnection.
  • 00:35:19
    He has a disconnection in culture.
  • 00:35:21
    Culture does not understand him.
  • 00:35:23
    Culture does not like him.
  • 00:35:24
    He also has a disconnection with God.
  • 00:35:27
    Disconnection leads to isolation.
  • 00:35:32
    When we're disconnected, we isolate ourselves
  • 00:35:36
    and this is not good.
  • 00:35:38
    When you start to understand that
  • 00:35:40
    most people you bump into feel disconnected,
  • 00:35:45
    you can start to have heart
  • 00:35:46
    and empathy for your fellow man.
  • 00:35:49
    Most people feel this way.
  • 00:35:50
    I'm telling you, if you want to crack the code
  • 00:35:52
    on human behavior, this is it,
  • 00:35:54
    that we feel alone and isolated because we have
  • 00:35:58
    a disconnection from God and a higher purpose
  • 00:36:00
    and a higher meaning.
  • 00:36:01
    This is why there's road rage.
  • 00:36:03
    This is why there's judgmentalism.
  • 00:36:06
    This is why there is backbiting.
  • 00:36:08
    We're trying to protect ourselves
  • 00:36:10
    until someone bites our back.
  • 00:36:13
    This is why there's polarization.
  • 00:36:16
    We feel disconnected and we feel like
  • 00:36:18
    others don't like us, because there's just
  • 00:36:20
    a lack of connection, specifically with God,
  • 00:36:23
    that then permeates to other people.
  • 00:36:26
    When you understand this,
  • 00:36:27
    you can start to have empathy with somebody.
  • 00:36:29
    This last week, I had a delivery guy came
  • 00:36:31
    and dropped off a grill at my house.
  • 00:36:33
    And I was helping him get the grill up
  • 00:36:36
    and everything, and I just felt a...
  • 00:36:38
    I felt a connection with this guy for some reason.
  • 00:36:40
    I could sense, maybe it was just
  • 00:36:42
    I was getting ready for this talk
  • 00:36:43
    and thinking about these things and praying
  • 00:36:45
    and studying these things.
  • 00:36:46
    And so I was just more in sync with people
  • 00:36:48
    and where they were.
  • 00:36:49
    And so I started talking with this guy,
  • 00:36:50
    and I learned he had a really difficult, difficult past.
  • 00:36:54
    And we had a little bit of conversation.
  • 00:36:56
    And then as I was leaving,
  • 00:36:58
    I was turning around from his truck,
  • 00:37:00
    I just I felt the Spirit of God just prompt me,
  • 00:37:03
    say, "Brian, you need to do something different here."
  • 00:37:06
    So I turned around and I said to him,
  • 00:37:10
    "Hey, are you okay if I pray for you?"
  • 00:37:13
    And he said, "Yeah, sure."
  • 00:37:14
    And he went to drive away.
  • 00:37:16
    I said, "No, no, no, no, no, no.
  • 00:37:18
    I mean, like, no, I'd like to, like, pray.
  • 00:37:20
    What can I pray for you right now?"
  • 00:37:22
    And he said, "Well, I really feel like
  • 00:37:25
    I'm in a dead end job and not going very far.
  • 00:37:29
    And I just, I just need to see
  • 00:37:31
    where I'm going to have a better job."
  • 00:37:33
    I said okay. I put my hand on him, prayed for him.
  • 00:37:37
    And it seemed to mean something to him.
  • 00:37:39
    In fact, I told him about Crossroads.
  • 00:37:41
    He lives down in Florence.
  • 00:37:42
    "Hey, dude, if you're here today
  • 00:37:44
    at Crossroads Florence, welcome.
  • 00:37:45
    You are not alone. Great to have you."
  • 00:37:48
    There's a [applause] Yeah, very cool.
  • 00:37:51
    But I could tell it was a connection.
  • 00:37:53
    And he's just an example of the way
  • 00:37:56
    most of us feel isolated who knows me.
  • 00:38:01
    This is the way that Zacchaeus felt.
  • 00:38:04
    There was an isolation. He didn't understand it.
  • 00:38:08
    Let's look at the next verse, 19, verse 5 and following.
  • 00:38:11
    And when Jesus came to the place.
  • 00:38:13
    He's walking along, Jesus is walking along,
  • 00:38:15
    the greatest show on the earth.
  • 00:38:16
    The crowds are coming.
  • 00:38:18
    And here ahead is Zacchaeus, up the sycamore tree.
  • 00:38:22
    And so the crowds are making their way
  • 00:38:25
    as Jesus is walking and talking, healing,
  • 00:38:27
    praying, whatever He's doing.
  • 00:38:46
    And received Him joyfully.
  • 00:38:49
    I mean, you can imagine this.
  • 00:38:51
    Zacchaeus goes from a place of people hating him
  • 00:38:54
    and wanting to elbow him
  • 00:38:55
    and him needing to stay away from people,
  • 00:38:57
    him disconnected people, to now being called out
  • 00:39:01
    in front of everybody by the hero of the day
  • 00:39:04
    and him coming down the tree.
  • 00:39:07
    He had to be terrified at first
  • 00:39:08
    when Jesus looks at him and says, "Zacchaeus."
  • 00:39:10
    He had to be up there going, "Oh my gosh!
  • 00:39:14
    Jesus is Jewish.
  • 00:39:16
    He's going to humiliate me in front of everybody.
  • 00:39:18
    This is going to be horrible."
  • 00:39:21
    And Jesus gives him the greatest compliment
  • 00:39:23
    you can give in an ancient culture,
  • 00:39:26
    the gift of community
  • 00:39:27
    and he invites Him over to his house.
  • 00:39:29
    See, we feel so isolated in our country.
  • 00:39:31
    We don't invite anybody over our house.
  • 00:39:34
    It's... we're so isolated.
  • 00:39:36
    We've lost the ability to even invite
  • 00:39:37
    somebody over to our apartment.
  • 00:39:39
    We've lost the ability to cook a meal for somebody.
  • 00:39:41
    We don't understand what hospitality is.
  • 00:39:45
    So this seems really crazy to us.
  • 00:39:47
    Again, it's because we're so isolated
  • 00:39:49
    and so disconnected.
  • 00:39:50
    That is part of the reason why
  • 00:39:52
    there's so much mental illness, so much suicide.
  • 00:39:55
    We're not living life right.
  • 00:39:57
    We're not living life the way
  • 00:39:59
    that God has designed it to be lived.
  • 00:40:02
    And Zacchaeus goes from stark terror of,
  • 00:40:05
    "Oh no, I'm busted!" To now Jesus says,
  • 00:40:08
    "I'm going to come over to your house."
  • 00:40:10
    He invites them over, because this is an honor.
  • 00:40:12
    "I'm going to come over to your house."
  • 00:40:13
    And Jesus goes... Zacchaeus thinks, "Oh, my gosh."
  • 00:40:16
    He scurries down because
  • 00:40:18
    he's feeling a connection with Him.
  • 00:40:22
    I think what Jesus is saying here,
  • 00:40:24
    "The Son of Man comes not just to seek
  • 00:40:26
    and save that which is lost.
  • 00:40:28
    The Son of Man comes to seek and save
  • 00:40:30
    that he or she who is disconnected from Me,
  • 00:40:33
    he or she who feels isolated from Me."
  • 00:40:37
    Isolation is terrifying.
  • 00:40:43
    I met a guy a year and a half or so ago
  • 00:40:47
    and a big cattle guy, like massive,
  • 00:40:51
    like massive acreage, number of ranches
  • 00:40:53
    in three different states.
  • 00:40:55
    And this is a picture of him.
  • 00:40:57
    This is from about ten years old this picture.
  • 00:41:00
    No question if you watch Yellowstone,
  • 00:41:02
    I have no doubt at all Taylor Sheridan
  • 00:41:04
    based Yellowstone off of this guy.
  • 00:41:06
    And I can't tell you his name because
  • 00:41:08
    he would defriend me, like, he hates any publicity.
  • 00:41:11
    But that's his right hand man. His name is Brett.
  • 00:41:14
    I actually call him Rip
  • 00:41:15
    because that's what he looks like if you've ever seen Yellowstone.
  • 00:41:17
    So when I first met him
  • 00:41:20
    and struck up a friendship with him, I finally did.
  • 00:41:22
    I said, "Man, one of my goals in life
  • 00:41:25
    is to do a cattle drive, a legit cattle drive.
  • 00:41:28
    I would love to come out, give you free labor.
  • 00:41:31
    I would love to do it. I'm pretty hearty.
  • 00:41:33
    I can work hard. I'm okay."
  • 00:41:35
    He says, "Well, yeah, you are.
  • 00:41:38
    You are a bit tough, but, you know,
  • 00:41:40
    you wouldn't be much help.
  • 00:41:41
    We just... You'd just be...
  • 00:41:43
    We'd be babysitting you as an Easterner."
  • 00:41:45
    That's what he calls me.
  • 00:41:46
    "We'd be babysitting you as an Easterner."
  • 00:41:50
    I was like, "Oh, such a lost loser," is what I felt like.
  • 00:41:55
    And I said, "Okay, I don't know how to rope cattle,
  • 00:41:58
    I don't... I've ridden a horse several times.
  • 00:42:01
    I'm not a maestro on it, I haven't.
  • 00:42:03
    Yeah, okay. Okay, fine."
  • 00:42:04
    Well, something happened to him where
  • 00:42:06
    a few months ago something changed his mind.
  • 00:42:08
    And he texted me and my friend Steve,
  • 00:42:10
    who we were with him initially, and he said,
  • 00:42:12
    "Hey, if you're if you're really serious about it,
  • 00:42:14
    you can come to this one branding we're doing."
  • 00:42:16
    He does like 45 brandings all over the place.
  • 00:42:19
    He's got ranches in three different states.
  • 00:42:22
    And so we go out and I see Bible tracks
  • 00:42:25
    at the urinals on our way out.
  • 00:42:26
    It's a very educational trip.
  • 00:42:28
    And we go out and now, okay, here we go.
  • 00:42:31
    Now, I know talking about this,
  • 00:42:32
    I know I get your emails,
  • 00:42:34
    I know we have vegans at Crossroads.
  • 00:42:36
    God bless you.
  • 00:42:37
    And then we have vegans who like
  • 00:42:39
    to get up in my grill all the time.
  • 00:42:40
    I know I bother you, I know I do.
  • 00:42:42
    I eat meat, I hunt, I kill, I know, I know, I know.
  • 00:42:46
    So, trigger warning here.
  • 00:42:47
    I'm serious, trigger warning.
  • 00:42:49
    I'm going to show something here that's going to bother you.
  • 00:42:51
    If you've ever, though, been a person who
  • 00:42:53
    eats protein, like, have you ever had a hamburger,
  • 00:42:57
    you have a steak, meat sauce in your spaghetti.
  • 00:42:59
    It all comes from cows that have
  • 00:43:02
    a ranching experience.
  • 00:43:04
    There's no cattle cattle factories.
  • 00:43:08
    It's not like chicken factories
  • 00:43:10
    or it's not like you know, the mass fisheries. No.
  • 00:43:13
    These are all cows out in the open, fenced in.
  • 00:43:16
    And there's still legit cowboys that have to go
  • 00:43:19
    and herd them to different patches of land
  • 00:43:21
    and then bring them in.
  • 00:43:23
    There's two bad days in a cows life.
  • 00:43:24
    Every day in a cows life is a great, amazing day,
  • 00:43:26
    except for two: their last day and then branding day.
  • 00:43:31
    So, I was there on branding day.
  • 00:43:33
    I did some branding.
  • 00:43:34
    I also did multivitamin behind the back shoulder.
  • 00:43:38
    I did that.
  • 00:43:39
    I also did immunizations in each shoulder.
  • 00:43:42
    They also do a branding. I did the branding.
  • 00:43:44
    I didn't do the castration.
  • 00:43:45
    I would love to... there's a whole message on castration.
  • 00:43:48
    There really is.
  • 00:43:50
    It was... it rocked my world.
  • 00:43:51
    In fact, if you subscribe to my letter
  • 00:43:54
    at BrianTome.com, my email,
  • 00:43:55
    you're going to get that email if you haven't already.
  • 00:43:58
    And there's a whole teaching on how
  • 00:44:03
    the castration is similar to
  • 00:44:05
    how we are castrating males today.
  • 00:44:07
    In fact, if you ever subscribed to my email list,
  • 00:44:09
    you want to do that.
  • 00:44:10
    I have different teachings come out
  • 00:44:11
    that don't ever make the stage.
  • 00:44:13
    You can do that at BrianTome.com.
  • 00:44:14
    We'll get you hooked up and we'll send you that article.
  • 00:44:16
    Anyway, all that to say, here's a little snippet.
  • 00:44:19
    Here's a little snip before I tell a story
  • 00:44:21
    of what I experienced.
  • 00:44:26
    [cows mooing]
  • 00:45:00
    - Yes, yes, I do chew tobacco,
  • 00:45:02
    unless, in case you're wondering. Yes.
  • 00:45:04
    And that was intense.
  • 00:45:06
    That second one, I didn't quite get him the first time.
  • 00:45:08
    First one doesn't seem to bother him,
  • 00:45:10
    but if you have to go back to make sure
  • 00:45:12
    the mark is clear, the second one bothers them.
  • 00:45:13
    So, I felt bad about that.
  • 00:45:15
    But that's what we did and the whole time.
  • 00:45:19
    But first you've got to gather the cattle
  • 00:45:21
    who are lost, who are disconnected,
  • 00:45:24
    who are dispersed all over the place.
  • 00:45:26
    I mean, they know where they are.
  • 00:45:27
    They're not worried about it,
  • 00:45:29
    but they're disconnected from the herd
  • 00:45:30
    and from from meaning and purpose.
  • 00:45:32
    So, we go out one day and we have a bunch
  • 00:45:34
    of cowboys that go over in this side of the land,
  • 00:45:36
    and a bunch of cowboys will go over
  • 00:45:38
    on this side of the land, and then me and the owner
  • 00:45:41
    come up the middle, and there's these rolling hills
  • 00:45:44
    that go up and down like this,
  • 00:45:45
    and we're meeting them up.
  • 00:45:47
    We're trying to drive them all up to a fence line,
  • 00:45:49
    drive them across, through the fence line
  • 00:45:51
    into another pasture, shut the gate
  • 00:45:53
    where there's more fresh grass. Okay?
  • 00:45:55
    So, we're going, we're going.
  • 00:45:57
    And the owner and I, my friend, are going
  • 00:46:00
    and he says, "You know, we've got some rolling hills over here.
  • 00:46:03
    There could be some cows down there.
  • 00:46:05
    Why don't you go down and check it,
  • 00:46:08
    check out, make sure it's okay
  • 00:46:09
    and kind of drive them up.
  • 00:46:10
    Just walk them up. Drive them up."
  • 00:46:12
    I said fine, they're herding animals,
  • 00:46:13
    so when they see a herder they're, like,
  • 00:46:15
    "Oh, we got to get out of here. Okay, fine."
  • 00:46:17
    And this is day three, so I was getting
  • 00:46:19
    better at my horsemanship
  • 00:46:20
    and they were incredible, incredible horses.
  • 00:46:22
    So I go off from him, I head down this hill
  • 00:46:26
    and I get out of eyesight of him.
  • 00:46:28
    In fact, I'm out of eyesight
  • 00:46:30
    and out of communication.
  • 00:46:31
    I have no GPS device on me.
  • 00:46:33
    I have no device at all.
  • 00:46:35
    And I get outside of any communication,
  • 00:46:37
    no visual signs.
  • 00:46:39
    I have no idea where I am
  • 00:46:40
    and I can't see anyone and no one can see me.
  • 00:46:42
    And I remember they keep saying
  • 00:46:46
    that there are rattlesnakes.
  • 00:46:49
    And I'm going down this steep hill on this horse
  • 00:46:53
    and thinking, "Man, this would be,
  • 00:46:56
    if I was a rattlesnake, this is exactly
  • 00:46:57
    where I would be, right here.
  • 00:46:59
    Like that rock, right?
  • 00:47:00
    That's exactly where I would be."
  • 00:47:01
    And I kept thinking, "If a rattlesnake pokes out
  • 00:47:05
    and scares this horse, this horse is rearing up.
  • 00:47:07
    And as good as I've gotten,
  • 00:47:09
    I've never done a hi ho silver on a horse.
  • 00:47:11
    If this horse rears up, I am going down
  • 00:47:15
    and no one will know where I am.
  • 00:47:17
    And I can't tell anyone where I am."
  • 00:47:20
    I felt utterly helpless and completely disconnected
  • 00:47:26
    and completely fragile and vulnerable.
  • 00:47:31
    Never, actually... I don't get scared.
  • 00:47:34
    It was maybe the most scared I've ever been in my life.
  • 00:47:37
    It's just utterly, for me, terrified. Terrified.
  • 00:47:41
    This is what it's like
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    if you feel like you're alone
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    and there is not a God who has your back,
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    there's not a God who doesn't care for you
  • 00:47:53
    and chase you down and is aware of you
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    and has a purpose for you and has love for you
  • 00:47:59
    and has second chances for you.
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    When we believe that these things
  • 00:48:03
    are all old bygone fairy tales
  • 00:48:06
    from previous religious generation
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    and there's not a living God today,
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    we are going to feel isolated
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    and we are one step away from being desperate.
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    Desperate.
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    Isolation, disconnection leads to desperation.
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    When Zacchaeus is coming down,
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    look at the reaction of everybody else in verse 7.
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    Jesus, oh, grumble, grumble, grumble.
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    Hey, let's all, let's do this.
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    Everyone say just, just say grumble five times.
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    Just go say it right now. Just go.
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    [community grumbling]
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    Yeah, that's what's happening. [grumbling].
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    That was kind of fun. Seriously, you too.
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    One. Two. Three. Go. [grumbling]
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    He's going grumble.
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    He's going to be the guest of the house of a sinner.
  • 00:49:03
    He's going to hang out with the sinner.
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    He's going to hang out with somebody
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    who we don't like.
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    He's going to hang out with somebody
  • 00:49:10
    who has a different moral code than we do.
  • 00:49:12
    He's going to hang out with somebody
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    who makes more money than we do.
  • 00:49:16
    He's going to hang out with somebody
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    who does things that we don't like.
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    See, we're all... we're all for the love of God,
  • 00:49:23
    so long as He doesn't love those people. Right?
  • 00:49:27
    So long as it's not the ones that bother us.
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    No, God loves those people
  • 00:49:32
    and those people would be surprised
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    that God loves you too.
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    This is what's going on.
  • 00:49:40
    They can't believe that Jesus is lowering Himself,
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    to connect Himself, connect Himself
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    to a guy that we don't like.
  • 00:49:50
    There's not a single person that God doesn't love.
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    Seriously. Not a single person God doesn't love.
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    Doesn't like our choices.
  • 00:49:58
    There not a single person God doesn't love.
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    I can just start naming out all of them,
  • 00:50:03
    not a single person.
  • 00:50:05
    There's not a Joe Biden supporter Jesus doesn't love.
  • 00:50:09
    There's not a Donald Trump supporter Jesus doesn't love.
  • 00:50:12
    There's not a heterosexual Jesus doesn't love.
  • 00:50:14
    There's not a homosexual Jesus doesn't love.
  • 00:50:16
    There's not a white person Jesus doesn't love.
  • 00:50:17
    There's not a black person Jesus doesn't love.
  • 00:50:19
    There isn't a Mexican person Jesus doesn't love.
  • 00:50:22
    There's not a millionaire, a billionaire Jesus loves.
  • 00:50:24
    Yeah, Jeff Bezos, loves him.
  • 00:50:27
    There's not a crack smoking person on welfare
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    that Jesus doesn't love.
  • 00:50:34
    Jesus wants to be connected to everybody.
  • 00:50:37
    He comes to seek and save that which is lost.
  • 00:50:41
    That's the reckless love of God,
  • 00:50:44
    reckless and open and going forward.
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    And He sees and He knows that we're desperate.
  • 00:50:52
    We have it.
  • 00:50:59
    When we're desperate the reason we're desperate
  • 00:51:01
    is because we don't have all the things that God brings.
  • 00:51:06
    It's not just that when God comes to us
  • 00:51:08
    we can have a personal relationship with Him,
  • 00:51:09
    but there's all the things that God brings.
  • 00:51:12
    There's a presence of a power that's greater
  • 00:51:14
    than you that He brings when He connects to you.
  • 00:51:18
    There is a personal reassurance that God gives you
  • 00:51:21
    that when you make a mistake, it's like,
  • 00:51:23
    "No, you're okay."
  • 00:51:24
    There's a personal word that God can give you.
  • 00:51:25
    I mentioned one, doesn't happen all the time,
  • 00:51:27
    but when I was walking away
  • 00:51:28
    from that delivery truck, I know God well enough
  • 00:51:30
    that I sensed God say to me like,
  • 00:51:32
    "Brian, go back and talk to that guy, pray for that guy."
  • 00:51:34
    And when I do that, and I saw his response,
  • 00:51:36
    I'm like, "Oh, God's with me.
  • 00:51:37
    I'm connected with God. He gets me.
  • 00:51:40
    He's using me."
  • 00:51:42
    There's a peace that passes all understanding,
  • 00:51:45
    even when you're in financial turmoil,
  • 00:51:47
    even when your marriage is falling apart,
  • 00:51:49
    even when you haven't gotten into the school
  • 00:51:51
    that you want to get into,
  • 00:51:52
    even when you can't find a date,
  • 00:51:54
    even when people call you Albert Alligator Pencil Chompler.
  • 00:51:59
    There's a peace that passes all understanding.
  • 00:52:03
    That's the power.
  • 00:52:05
    This isn't... the reason I'm so excited
  • 00:52:07
    to get people connected to Jesus
  • 00:52:08
    isn't because I want everybody to think like me.
  • 00:52:11
    It's, like, I don't know how you do without Him.
  • 00:52:14
    I don't know how I'd do it
  • 00:52:16
    when my wife went in for a stroke. I don't know.
  • 00:52:18
    I would've never got through that
  • 00:52:20
    if I didn't have Jesus as a backstop,
  • 00:52:23
    being connected to Him.
  • 00:52:24
    I don't know how you deal with life's traumas
  • 00:52:26
    and difficulties.
  • 00:52:27
    I was just talking with somebody
  • 00:52:28
    in a horrific situation just the other day,
  • 00:52:31
    horrific, like, death situation.
  • 00:52:33
    They said, "I don't, I don't know,
  • 00:52:35
    I don't know how people do it."
  • 00:52:36
    I said, "I know and you know what? They don't.
  • 00:52:39
    Some make it through, but man, there's a lot more
  • 00:52:42
    scars than we can possibly imagine."
  • 00:52:45
    There's there's a cost to when we're on our own.
  • 00:52:48
    What did we think would happen
  • 00:52:51
    as we have a culture have encouraged people
  • 00:52:54
    to walk away from the faith,
  • 00:52:57
    only see God as an impersonal force,
  • 00:52:59
    only see Him as a higher power?
  • 00:53:01
    What do we think would happen when many people,
  • 00:53:04
    not all, many who are philosophers,
  • 00:53:05
    just like to have mental masturbation
  • 00:53:08
    and be second thinkers with people
  • 00:53:10
    and try to sow seeds?
  • 00:53:11
    What do we think as we went down that path
  • 00:53:14
    and people actually got disconnected
  • 00:53:15
    from a source of hope, what do we think would happen?
  • 00:53:18
    Did we really think suicide would go down?
  • 00:53:21
    Did we really think happiness would go up?
  • 00:53:23
    Did we think mental illness would thrive
  • 00:53:25
    if we always, "Oh, so I am on my own.
  • 00:53:28
    Oh, so I am my own with really no help other than me.
  • 00:53:30
    Oh, that makes all the difference in the world.
  • 00:53:32
    I guess I'm good now."
  • 00:53:33
    Of course not.
  • 00:53:34
    We're seeing the signs of disconnection
  • 00:53:37
    all over our culture,
  • 00:53:39
    and maybe you are all over in your life.
  • 00:53:41
    Let's not talk about out there. Let's talk about you.
  • 00:53:44
    Do you feel that?
  • 00:53:45
    Do you feel disconnected from God?
  • 00:53:47
    Do you feel like there's something
  • 00:53:49
    that could be different,
  • 00:53:51
    but you're up in a tree just watching from afar?
  • 00:53:59
    Verse eight, Zacchaeus comes out of tree.
  • 00:54:07
    It's interesting he calls him Lord.
  • 00:54:09
    It's fascinating, like that.
  • 00:54:10
    It's not Jesus, he calls Him Lord.
  • 00:54:24
    Zacchaeus may be calling the bluff of everybody.
  • 00:54:26
    Everybody might have assumed
  • 00:54:27
    he was a swindler, cheating people.
  • 00:54:30
    Maybe he gives this call, "If I've cheated
  • 00:54:32
    on anybody form a line, I'll payback four X."
  • 00:54:36
    Maybe he's doing that to just say,
  • 00:54:39
    "You all think I've been jacking you, jacking you around.
  • 00:54:42
    No, I'm not, I'm not.
  • 00:54:44
    If I have, though, form a line get four X.
  • 00:54:46
    And then he says, "I'm going to give half
  • 00:54:48
    of everything I have to the poor, half,
  • 00:54:51
    everything to the poor.
  • 00:54:53
    It's really, it's, I mean, it's in the text.
  • 00:54:56
    I got to talk about this.
  • 00:54:57
    I find this fascinating.
  • 00:54:59
    This didn't... this wasn't after Jesus
  • 00:55:02
    gave a message on giving.
  • 00:55:05
    There wasn't any giving context.
  • 00:55:07
    He just comes out with this half, half everything.
  • 00:55:11
    He gives away half of his income.
  • 00:55:14
    Jesus isn't telling you to give away half your income.
  • 00:55:16
    He's not telling you to sell everything
  • 00:55:18
    and give to the poor. Really.
  • 00:55:19
    But, Zacchaeus, Zacchaeus does this.
  • 00:55:25
    If you aren't giving, it doesn't...
  • 00:55:29
    Not being generous doesn't mean you will be disconnected.
  • 00:55:36
    Not being generous doesn't mean
  • 00:55:38
    that God will disconnect you,
  • 00:55:40
    but it is only the connected people
  • 00:55:45
    who are ever generous.
  • 00:55:46
    Disconnected people always have a reason not to give.
  • 00:55:49
    Why? Because they feel alone and isolated
  • 00:55:52
    and God doesn't have my back.
  • 00:55:54
    You know all the reasons
  • 00:55:55
    why I can't give to Crossroads, all that.
  • 00:55:57
    I understand a lot of those,
  • 00:55:59
    there's a lot of abusive things out there.
  • 00:56:00
    All the reasons you can't give to
  • 00:56:02
    so and such poverty organization
  • 00:56:03
    because I don't know what they're doing.
  • 00:56:05
    I understand there's a necessary due diligence,
  • 00:56:07
    but those questions nearly always come
  • 00:56:10
    from people who are alone and disconnected.
  • 00:56:13
    Because when you give away power, which is money,
  • 00:56:16
    you are trusting that there is power that has your back.
  • 00:56:19
    You can only ever give if you feel connected to God.
  • 00:56:24
    Not giving is what people do
  • 00:56:26
    who don't feel connected to God.
  • 00:56:28
    They may have the right Christian beliefs.
  • 00:56:30
    We may go to church.
  • 00:56:31
    We may even have fire insurance.
  • 00:56:36
    But we don't feel connection with God.
  • 00:56:39
    There's no sense that God has my back.
  • 00:56:42
    It's a big, big deal.
  • 00:56:44
    Lack of generosity is the first, I think,
  • 00:56:47
    the most obvious way to find out
  • 00:56:49
    what you really believe.
  • 00:56:51
    Because if generosity doesn't come easy to you,
  • 00:56:54
    then you feel isolated and desperate and detached
  • 00:56:58
    from a power source that loves you
  • 00:57:00
    and can provide for you.
  • 00:57:02
    And that's the powerful thing
  • 00:57:03
    of what Zacchaeus does here.
  • 00:57:05
    It's crazy what he does.
  • 00:57:08
    This is why Jesus then says this.
  • 00:57:19
    There it is. He says, "He's a son of Abraham.
  • 00:57:23
    And today salvation has come."
  • 00:57:25
    Look at this guy he's operating.
  • 00:57:27
    He hasn't buyed his... buyed his... bought his...
  • 00:57:29
    buyed, bought.
  • 00:57:31
    He hasn't bought his way into heaven
  • 00:57:32
    by his generosity.
  • 00:57:33
    But Jesus looks at this act of generosity
  • 00:57:36
    shows that your heart is now connected with God,
  • 00:57:39
    and you are trusting with God.
  • 00:57:42
    It's so good when this happens.
  • 00:57:43
    There's nothing that's more exciting about it.
  • 00:57:46
    Nothing.
  • 00:57:49
    Last thing: Disconnection.
  • 00:57:50
    Disconnection leads to separation.
  • 00:57:55
    Disconnection leads to separation.
  • 00:57:56
    In other words, ultimate permanent separation.
  • 00:58:00
    This is what hell is.
  • 00:58:03
    Hell is ultimate permanent separation.
  • 00:58:06
    Hell is God's justice system.
  • 00:58:09
    There isn't perfect justice here on this earth,
  • 00:58:11
    but God sets the cosmos right by there being
  • 00:58:14
    a place called hell where injustice is handled.
  • 00:58:19
    Injustice gets handled right here and now
  • 00:58:21
    by giving my life to Christ
  • 00:58:23
    and allowing Jesus's death to cover me
  • 00:58:26
    so I don't have to die,
  • 00:58:27
    or my injustice gets handled in hell
  • 00:58:30
    where I pay for myself.
  • 00:58:32
    And how do I pay for myself?
  • 00:58:33
    I pay for being away from God,
  • 00:58:35
    which is people go to hell.
  • 00:58:36
    God doesn't send us to hell.
  • 00:58:38
    People go to hell because that's what they want.
  • 00:58:40
    They want themselves. They don't want God.
  • 00:58:42
    If someone doesn't want God here, why do we think
  • 00:58:45
    they would want God in the afterlife?
  • 00:58:48
    God giving us what we want.
  • 00:58:50
    But what happens is you lose
  • 00:58:52
    all the blessings of God that even people
  • 00:58:55
    who don't believe in God get to have.
  • 00:58:57
    There's blessings of God here.
  • 00:58:58
    There's love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness.
  • 00:59:02
    These are the fruit of the Spirit in the Bible.
  • 00:59:05
    And there's a system there.
  • 00:59:07
    And there's some of those in all of our lives,
  • 00:59:10
    because God is here and God is present.
  • 00:59:13
    But when we're in a place where there is no God,
  • 00:59:16
    then there is no love, there is no joy,
  • 00:59:19
    there is no peace, there is no patience,
  • 00:59:22
    there is there is no joy, there is no laughter.
  • 00:59:25
    As much as I used to love blasting out AC/DC
  • 00:59:29
    and on the Highway to Hell.
  • 00:59:31
    I still love that song. It's awesome.
  • 00:59:32
    Don't tell anybody I said that.
  • 00:59:35
    Actually, I just told you so I guess everybody knows.
  • 00:59:37
    I still love that song.
  • 00:59:38
    When I listen to it, I have to, like, remember,
  • 00:59:40
    I remember as great as the song is,
  • 00:59:42
    like, they're so, so wrong, so, so wrong.
  • 00:59:45
    You think you're going to have fun in a place
  • 00:59:48
    where there's none of the goodness of God?
  • 00:59:51
    Yeesh. No. Because any camaraderie you have
  • 00:59:54
    with your party friends, that's all gone
  • 00:59:55
    because you're going to have pure isolation.
  • 00:59:58
    Any sense of good feeling you have,
  • 01:00:00
    no, that's that's gone because you get darkness.
  • 01:00:02
    You get darkness.
  • 01:00:03
    Hell is the altered separation.
  • 01:00:06
    And that's why Jesus comes to save us, to seek us.
  • 01:00:10
    And we don't like talking about this in our culture.
  • 01:00:13
    In typing out my notes here I was trying to
  • 01:00:17
    deal with it and type it up and I couldn't.
  • 01:00:19
    Every time I would write hell in my Google document,
  • 01:00:22
    it would change it to H-E apostrophe L-L, he'll.
  • 01:00:26
    You know, he'll do it, he'll do this.
  • 01:00:28
    And I kept, I realized Google doesn't recognize hell.
  • 01:00:32
    I literally can't type hell without Google saying,
  • 01:00:35
    "No, no, no, you don't want that work.
  • 01:00:37
    You don't want that word. You don't want that word."
  • 01:00:39
    Try it, try it. We don't want that word.
  • 01:00:43
    We don't want that life, I understand it.
  • 01:00:46
    But that's God's justice system.
  • 01:00:49
    That's that's how it works.
  • 01:00:50
    That's how He ultimately sets things right.
  • 01:00:54
    Now, there are three kinds of people in here today:
  • 01:00:59
    Those who can count and those who can't.
  • 01:01:06
    There's three kinds of people there.
  • 01:01:08
    First kind of person is a person
  • 01:01:10
    who knows all the things to know.
  • 01:01:13
    They've heard this story many times,
  • 01:01:15
    they understand, and yet you still can't identify
  • 01:01:18
    anybody you shared your faith with.
  • 01:01:21
    Yet there's still never been somebody
  • 01:01:23
    who you've invited someplace, you've taken a risk on
  • 01:01:28
    and you've gone cold. You've gone cold.
  • 01:01:31
    It's just...
  • 01:01:34
    And I'll just ask you, what's going cold?
  • 01:01:36
    Have you lost the ability to connect with
  • 01:01:39
    the plight and the tension and the difficulty
  • 01:01:43
    that many people have who are not connected to God?
  • 01:01:46
    And then there's people in here
  • 01:01:47
    who walk and live in that.
  • 01:01:49
    In fact, there's people in here
  • 01:01:50
    who have people in here because you asked people here.
  • 01:01:53
    And you're like, "Man, I remember when I was lost.
  • 01:01:56
    I remember it. I remember when I was disconnected.
  • 01:01:59
    I remember when I felt like was I was on my own,
  • 01:02:02
    and it was horrible.
  • 01:02:03
    And I didn't even know it was horrible
  • 01:02:05
    until I gave my life to Christ."
  • 01:02:07
    And then there's people in here.
  • 01:02:08
    You came in here not knowing what you came in here for,
  • 01:02:11
    and here's why you came in here,
  • 01:02:13
    because Jesus says there in verse ten,
  • 01:02:16
    "The Son of Man came to seek and save
  • 01:02:18
    that which was lost."
  • 01:02:19
    He came here today for you.
  • 01:02:22
    He came, this whole service was for you
  • 01:02:25
    to come to receive Him
  • 01:02:27
    and to be eternally connected to him.
  • 01:02:31
    I'm going to pray for you and then we're going to...
  • 01:02:35
    Then we're going to go to a place
  • 01:02:37
    and we're going to hear the words of the Savior
  • 01:02:39
    over all of us.
  • 01:02:41
    So, God, I pray for those of us
  • 01:02:42
    who are going to get connected right now
  • 01:02:44
    for the first time, Jesus.
  • 01:02:45
    Jesus, for those of us, we just say to you,
  • 01:02:48
    "I want You in my life.
  • 01:02:51
    I want to be connected to You.
  • 01:02:54
    I asked You to forgive me
  • 01:02:56
    and fill me with Your Holy Spirit.
  • 01:03:00
    I vow to work as hard as I can
  • 01:03:03
    to be connected to You the rest of my life. Amen."
  • 01:06:10
    - He loves, you know. He loves you.
  • 01:06:12
    I mean, He really loves you.
  • 01:06:14
    He said He came to seek and save that which is lost
  • 01:06:16
    because He loves you.
  • 01:06:18
    He made a bold, reckless move unto abandonment
  • 01:06:24
    to give His life for you.
  • 01:06:26
    Oh, it's overwhelming His love.
  • 01:06:28
    It's mesmerizing. It's cataclysmic.
  • 01:06:30
    It's indescribable. It's unfathomable.
  • 01:06:33
    It's undiscernible.
  • 01:06:34
    As much as I talk and think about it,
  • 01:06:37
    I still don't understand it.
  • 01:06:39
    That's the song is about.
  • 01:06:40
    Why don't we stand and let's end our end with this song.
  • 01:07:25
    - We'll sing it again.
  • 01:09:53
    - Hey, thank you so much for joining us today.
  • 01:09:56
    But one more really important thing before you go,
  • 01:09:59
    if you're part of Crossroads,
  • 01:10:01
    but you're not part of a physical campus,
  • 01:10:03
    we want you to come to Anywhere Weekend,
  • 01:10:06
    July 19th through 21st.
  • 01:10:08
    We know it can be challenging
  • 01:10:11
    to be part of an online church,
  • 01:10:12
    that it can sometimes feel lonely.
  • 01:10:15
    Well, this weekend is built to encourage you,
  • 01:10:18
    to fill you up and connect you with other people
  • 01:10:21
    just like you that are part of Crossroads Anywhere.
  • 01:10:24
    I remember going last year
  • 01:10:26
    and even as we were setting up,
  • 01:10:28
    I met a guy that kind of looked familiar
  • 01:10:31
    and we were doing something together.
  • 01:10:33
    And then he just asked me out of nowhere,
  • 01:10:34
    "Hey, how is your daughter doing?"
  • 01:10:37
    And I was blown away.
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    Two months earlier, I had shared
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    a prayer request for her in our online community.
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    And then he tells me he's been praying for her
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    every day for two months,
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    and just wanted an update on how she was doing.
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    Are you kidding me? That was amazing.
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    And that's when I knew Anywhere Weekend
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    was going to connect people in real ways
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    and real relationships.
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    And it really has been amazing this year
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    to see how those connections have lasted
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    from last year's Anywhere Weekend.
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    So, we want you to check it out
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    at crossroads.net/anywhere,
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    and we will see you hopefully in July.
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    So happy Father's Day and happy Juneteenth.
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    If you don't know what that is,
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    maybe you should check it out and learn about
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    some of the lesser known struggles
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    we've had as a country,
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    and be able to celebrate our progress.
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    And we'll see you back next week.

Process, journal or discuss the themes of this article - here's a few questions to get the ball rolling...

Welcome to the Weekend-Follow Up! This is the group part of the Bible Challenge, so your questions are based on specific Bible passages from the weekend message. Each week, your group will discover what God might be saying to you, and how you can respond through a group discussion.

  1. What is your favorite summertime activity? What is your least favorite?

  2. What stood out to you most from the message?

  3. Think of a time or a situation when you were lost. How did you find (or try to find) your way back?

  4. Where in your life have you felt (or currently feel) disconnected, isolated, or desperate?

  5. Read Luke 19:7-10. Where have you experienced Jesus’ acceptance and forgiveness in your life? Where do you still need or want to experience it?

  6. What can make it difficult for you to empathize and connect with others?

  7. What is one step you can take to connect to (or be vulnerable with) Jesus this week?

  8. Let’s end with prayer. You can say something like, “Jesus, thank you for seeking us and wanting to connect with us. If we start to feel lost, seek us and bring us back to you. Let us experience your powerful love in our lives throughout this week. Amen.”

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Bonus Questions! Check these out if you’re on a roll and want to go a little deeper.

  • When you start to become disconnected or isolated, how do you usually respond? Is there anything about your typical reaction that you’d change?
  • Read Galatians 5:22-23. Where in your life have you experienced these fruits of the Spirit? Which one(s) could you use more in your life right now?

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