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- Hey, I'm Andy, and
today on Crossroads,
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we're talking about wisdom.
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Not the kind of wisdom
that social media offers,
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but real, lasting, godly wisdom.
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What is it? How do we get it?
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And what makes godly wisdom
different from worldly wisdom?
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Now that and more
in just a little bit.
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But first, we're going to
start off our time with music.
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Now, I heard about a
medical research study
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that happened recently
that I want to fill you in on.
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They actually found that
the most effective thing
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that we could do to
decrease our stress responses
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and actually our cortisol
levels was by a simple posture
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that you and I can
do any time, any day.
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And it was just to
stand for a few minutes
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like this with our hands raised.
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And isn't that
interesting that this is
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the same posture that we
often take when we worship God,
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when we say, "God, I'm
not in control right now.
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You are in control.
I surrender"?
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And what if over the
next couple of minutes
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you said that same thing to God.
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You said, "God, even in
the midst of the crazy things
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that are in front of
me or the uncertainty.
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Man, I want to take
a few minutes to say,
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God, I surrender.
You're in control."
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I've got my own ways in
which I'm doing that right now.
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My whole family, we've
been living out of suitcases
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for six weeks now, waiting
for a whole construction thing
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that's over time and over
budget, and it's insane.
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So for the next few minutes,
I'm going to be saying,
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"God, I trust you. You
are in control. I surrender."
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And I'd love for
you to do that too
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over whatever challenges
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or uncertainties
are in front of you.
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- That's our prayer
today, that the Lord
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would lead us in love
to those around us.
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Welcome to Crossroads. [cheers]
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Come on. My name's Eric.
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And I'm so glad to be
here with you, so glad.
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We got some friends
here with us today.
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Y'all, the Anywhere fam is here.
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Can we give it up for
the Anywhere folks?
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They're normally watching online
and they're here in the room.
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So glad you're here.
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I just wanted to say I love you.
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You know, and I'm not just
talking to Anywhere folks,
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I'm talking to all
of you. I love you.
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I love you because
God loves you.
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I love you because
you're special in His eyes.
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I love that He's brought
us all here for a reason.
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You thought you just
came to a service today.
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You thought you were
doing a Christian thing
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this morning by getting up.
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No, God wants to have
an encounter with you.
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That's why you're here.
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And so we're going to spend
some time worshiping Him.
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So why don't you stand
on your feet right now?
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We're going to continue
singing this song,
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Building our
Life, our intention,
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our affection on the
one who deserves it.
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Let's sing this together.
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Celebrate the goodness,
the work of the Lord.
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God, you're faithful.
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It's songs like that
that just remind me
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that there's nothing in this
world that I need more than You,
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that there's no
other place I can go
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to be filled up in the right
way than at Your feet,
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God, in your presence.
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That you're so good.
You're so faithful,
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you're so consistent.
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You're always showing
up for us, always,
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even in the moments
that we don't see it,
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even in the moments
that we don't feel it.
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Sometimes You're showing
up for us for the future
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that's going to happen for
the next thing that's coming.
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God, you're
stepping into our lives
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and you're doing the work now
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that we might not always be
able to see right at the moment.
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But God, we just say thank
you for what You're going to do.
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We thank you for the
ways that You're making,
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the paths that
You're opening up,
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the doors that You're
opening right now.
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We thank You because
You're a good Father
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and You know
exactly what we need,
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when we need it,
and you give it to us.
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There's nothing
that we want for,
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there's nothing that
we're lacking because
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we are children and
because You love us.
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So, Lord, we say thank you.
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Thank You for your presence
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and thank You for
moments of worship
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to remember exactly who you are.
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It's in Your Son's
name we pray. Amen.
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- Hey, if you live
in the Cincinnati
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or northern Kentucky area,
you should totally check out
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the world impact experience.
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But it's not about
coming to a church,
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it's about going and
being the church.
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Because we believe
that's what Jesus did,
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He went to those
who were in need
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and He went to those
who were hurting.
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And we just want to
follow His example.
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I've been to India, South
Africa, Nicaragua, Japan
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and more on adventures
with Crossroads
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that grew my faith
and my understanding
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of what it means
to follow Jesus.
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And I want that for you too.
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We actually have
two trips coming up
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that are special invite to
our Anywhere community
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where people like you watching
from all over the country
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and the world will be
traveling to Puerto Rico
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and to South Africa this year.
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There are too many bored
and boring Christians out there,
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so take a risk this year
and go some place.
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Now there's tons of things
going on around Crossroads
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and we go because we believe
that's what God asks us to.
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And we also give
because we believe
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that's what God asks us to do.
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We believe that
God owns everything.
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He created the earth
and everything in it,
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including you and me
and everything we have.
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So we use what God has
given us in ways that honor Him.
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And in doing so, we
operate more in line
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with how we were created.
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The Bible teaches in James 1:17
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that every good and
perfect gift is from above.
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So I recognize that all
the good things in my life
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are there because
God put them there,
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not because I put them there.
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And I get to operate
out of gratitude
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with the resources
that he's entrusted to us.
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Maybe you're new to
church and to Crossroads,
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and you might just not
be ready for this right now
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or actually be a
little bit suspicious,
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or maybe you've just
been waiting to join the team
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of faithful givers who make
things possible around here.
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Whether you're suspicious or
whether you're ready to jump in,
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the next step is the same:
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head to crossroads.net/give
for more info
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around how we spend money
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and how we invest in
world change all over.
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Now, today's all about wisdom,
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so let's learn more and
check in with Kyle right now.
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We all want a life that works.
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We buy books,
we listen to podcasts,
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and we follow gurus who promise
the secret to what we crave:
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a life full of meaning,
connection, fun and adventure.
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We look to those who
have done well before us
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and we ask ourselves,
How can I get some of that?
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We seek knowledge
and understanding,
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but we need something deeper:
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we need wisdom.
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The Bible gives
us a path to wisdom
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laid out in three Old
Testament books,
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often called The
Wisdom Literature.
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Proverbs, Ecclesiastes
and Job are the roadmap
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to understanding where
godly wisdom comes from
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and what God has to say about
how to live our lives well.
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- Well. Hey, good
morning, everybody.
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My name is Kyle, if
we've never met before.
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It's been a great weekend to
be part of Crossroads so far.
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We got the Crossroads
Anywhere crowd with us.
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If you're at another site,
you might not know that yet.
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We've celebrated them
here in Oakley already.
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We've got about 300 people
from around the country
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who call this church
home who are here with us.
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And I just want to say welcome.
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We're so glad you're with us.
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We got to go to the
Reds game together.
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You might have been
there and met somebody
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and you were like, "I just
met a person from Florida
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and they said, they're
part of Crossroads.
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How does that work?"
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That's the kind of
church that we are.
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It's been a great weekend.
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Brian threw out the first pitch,
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threw a strike, way to go, BT.
Never doubted you for a second.
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That was so great.
So great. [laughter]
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Crossroads Dayton,
Crossroads Dayton,
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you went to the
Dayton Dragons game.
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That's basically all of our
Reds players were there,
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like 18 months ago.
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So that's super great.
That's so good.
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We're in this wisdom series.
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If you're just joining
us and you're like,
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"I don't know who Brian is,
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I don't know what
Crossroads Anywhere is,
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I don't even know what
the Dayton Dragons are.
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I'm so confused right now."
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It's okay. It's okay.
We're glad you're with us.
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You're joining us, so you know,
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in the last part of
a wisdom series.
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We got this week and next week.
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We've been looking at the
wisdom literature in the Bible.
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That's what that
video just talked about.
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Primarily that's Proverbs,
Job, and Ecclesiastes
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from the Old Testament.
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And today we're asking,
what does it look like
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to find and apply God's wisdom
to the most complex problems
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and issues in our
life, in our world,
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the ones that we're like, I
have no idea how to handle this?
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You ever have a situation
like that in your life?
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Maybe you have one right now.
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I did just a few weeks ago.
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I was supposed to actually
start this whole wisdom series,
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kick off the whole thing.
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I was so excited about it.
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And then I got sick and
Paco had to fill in for me.
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Any of you remember that?
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By the way, Paco,
great job. Thank you.
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You did amazing,
amazing, amazing.
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I don't know what you would
say if someone was like,
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"Hey, in like, I don't
know, basically two hours,
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can you go talk to tens
of thousands of people
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about the Bible, just
kind of off the cuff?"
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And he was like, sure.
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What he said was
amazing, amazing.
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Now, that week,
you know, I got sick.
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But you don't know
what happened before.
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What happened before it
was this complex situation
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where I was, like,
I'm in over my head.
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I do not know what to do.
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Now to understand, I got
to back you up a little bit
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all the way to the
Flying Pig Marathon.
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My wife runs a marathons.
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She ran the Flying Pig
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and in the Flying Pig she had
hip pain, had to stop running.
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That's not really great.
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We took her to the
doctor the next day,
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and they diagnosed
her with a fractured hip.
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That's bad.
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Said she's on crutches for six
weeks, which is really tough.
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If you've ever been an adult
on crutches, you know this,
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but you basically
can't carry anything.
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You can't take cups of
water or coffee to the couch.
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You can't do anything,
so it's just really rough.
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Now, the week before I
was supposed to teach,
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that's the Sunday,
the week before,
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on the Wednesday, she was
supposed to get off crutches.
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She was going to
go back to the doctor,
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as they had told us six
weeks ends on Wednesday.
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And so on the Monday
before that Wednesday,
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we decide now is the
right time to get a puppy.
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Allow me to help
you for a minute.
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If in your life you're thinking,
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"Is now the right
time to get a puppy?"
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No, no, it is never,
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it is never the right
time to get a puppy, ever.
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Unless you're like, "I
want a toddler with teeth
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that's faster than me."
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It's basically a puppy.
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Now I'm like, I got two days.
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I can handle Monday
to Wednesday.
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I can handle the
puppy by myself. Right?
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All I got to do is
make it to Wednesday.
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But on Wednesday, Sarah
goes back to the doctor
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and they say, "Actually,
four more weeks on crutches."
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[laughter]
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I know you feel so bad
for me, right? Rough.
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Thursday night,
Gracie wakes up sick.
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She's puking in the
middle of the night.
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I'm up all night with her.
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Friday, I think we're okay.
I think we've passed it.
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I'm working on my
message. I'm getting ready.
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Saturday morning hits
and within about an hour,
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Ben, Eli, and Sarah
all start just erupting.
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Just -- that's all I can --
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It's like -- It's like
barfenheimer,
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you know, if it was a
movie, just explosions.
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I don't know what to do.
I'm doing my best, right?
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I got, I got the dog
peeing on the carpet,
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I got three people puking.
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So this is what I did.
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I don't know --
this is what I did.
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I was like, "Sarah,
you're upstairs.
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There's a bathroom up there.
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You can crutch your way
as fast as you can to that."
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That's the best
we got. You know?
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"Eli, you can have
the middle floor.
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There's a bathroom there."
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My only request,
this will matter later,
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do not puke on the couch.
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Make it off the couch.
Make it to the toilet.
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That's all. That's all I ask.
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And then, Ben, I put
Ben in the basement.
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There's no bathroom down there.
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So I found a red bucket
and I gave it to him.
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And I said, I'll be by every
once in a while to empty it.
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This is that bucket.
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I took this picture yesterday.
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It's by the hose because
I'm planning on cleaning it out
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someday.
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Now, I think I'm handling it,
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like, I think I'm
managing it, right?
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Like, doing the barf and
then the puppy pees on the rug
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and I clean up the puppy stuff
and I'm doing all this stuff.
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And then about
6:30, Eli has to puke.
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And so he jumps off the couch
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and he makes it
about a step and a half
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and then it just boom.
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But he doesn't stop,
he just keeps running.
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30ft. A trail is just blazed.
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It's horrible.
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The dog starts trying to eat it.
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00:30:01
I'm like, "No, why
did I get a puppy?"
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So I get the paper
towels, they're out.
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I get the bath towel.
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I'm just trying to
clean it up, you know?
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And I get the -- the dog,
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and I finally get it
cleaned up about 7, 7:30.
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And I stand up and I'm
like, "Okay, I think I made it.
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Oh, no. Oh."
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And then it happens,
just erupts. Awful. Awful.
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Now, the question I've
gotten asked the most
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when I tell this story to people
who don't want to hear it,
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which is the only kind
I've found so far, is,
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"Kyle, was it like,
was it like both ends?
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You know, was
it like both ends?"
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Yeah, yeah, yeah, it was.
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Now you might be
sitting there going,
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"What does that have to
do with wisdom, exactly,
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the series that we're in?"
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First, couple things.
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One, maybe when you're thinking
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is it the right time
to get a puppy?
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The answer is no.
Don't get a puppy ever.
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00:31:02
Two red buckets
really work in a pinch.
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And three, if you're ever sick
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and you need someone
to fill in, you at work,
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call Paco because that
worked for me. Okay?
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And then lastly, I know that
there are places in our lives,
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right, we all feel this
way, in over our heads.
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I don't know what to do. I
don't know how to solve it.
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00:31:20
And for a lot of us, those
places in those situations
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00:31:22
are much more
serious and long lasting
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00:31:24
than a bone that's going
to heal or a stomach bug
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that you're going to
get over in a few days.
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00:31:29
There issues that you've been
wrestling with for for weeks,
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00:31:32
for months, sometimes for years,
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00:31:35
there are these big
problems, the complex places,
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the places where we go,
"God, if You have wisdom
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and I can have some,
I was sure would like it
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in this situation in my
life, the complex ones."
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There's kind of two types
of these as by the way.
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There's the external
complexities in the world
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00:31:51
that we as the church
are actually called to.
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00:31:54
I don't know if you knew that.
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00:31:55
It says it this book.
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00:31:56
If you haven't picked one of
these up yet, definitely get it.
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00:31:59
It's super, super
cool, super interesting.
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00:32:00
And I love what it says
right inside the cover.
-
00:32:03
It says, "Why we go:
when it comes to solving
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00:32:06
the big problems of injustice,
poverty and exploitation,
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00:32:09
people often think that
someone else will step in.
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00:32:13
Congrats, your name
is someone else."
-
00:32:17
This is what God
says to the church.
-
00:32:19
He says these massive,
complex problems
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00:32:21
that governments can't solve,
-
00:32:22
that no one knows
how to deal with,
-
00:32:24
that's actually your
business to go run after.
-
00:32:26
It's like, whoa, how?
How would I do that?
-
00:32:31
And then there's
the internal ones,
-
00:32:33
the ones that are
inside of our lives,
-
00:32:35
inside of our homes. You know?
-
00:32:37
From what career
should I choose,
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00:32:40
what college should I go to,
-
00:32:41
what major should I pick to
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00:32:42
who should I date to
-
00:32:44
how do I know
when to get married,
-
00:32:45
how do I know who
the right one is to
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00:32:47
what do I pick for a career,
-
00:32:48
is it time to switch careers to
-
00:32:50
should I have kids,
-
00:32:51
how do I parent a 2 year old,
what about a 12 year old,
-
00:32:53
what about my 16 year
old who's dealing with
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00:32:55
problems I've never
dealt with in my life?
-
00:32:57
How do I handle
these situations?
-
00:33:00
And I find these are the places
where we get stuck in life.
-
00:33:05
We can end up paralyzed
not knowing what to do
-
00:33:08
because the complexity
is just overwhelming
-
00:33:11
and the world's not
helping us with this.
-
00:33:13
See, the world is actually
an increasingly complex
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00:33:16
and constantly changing place,
-
00:33:17
and it hasn't always
been that way.
-
00:33:19
The world's always been
somewhat complicated,
-
00:33:21
and sociologists are
starting to recognize this
-
00:33:23
and explain it this way.
-
00:33:25
They say complicated is
kind of like a car engine.
-
00:33:28
You know, there's lots of
parts, but it's understandable.
-
00:33:31
You could become a mechanic
-
00:33:32
and you could get
how it works together.
-
00:33:34
This gear turns this one,
-
00:33:35
and it has this predictable
kind of pattern to it.
-
00:33:38
And so if there's a problem,
you can diagnose the problem
-
00:33:40
and you can figure out
what to do, how to solve it.
-
00:33:43
But that's not the
world anymore.
-
00:33:45
Now, the world is complex.
-
00:33:46
It's so interconnected that
when you pull on one thread,
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00:33:49
it pulls on 100
others. We know this.
-
00:33:51
Think about the gas
pump for a minute.
-
00:33:55
At the gas pump, why are
gas prices the price they are?
-
00:33:57
Well, it's because
there's a Russian dictator
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00:33:59
who's invading a country
none of us could place on a map
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00:34:01
only two years ago.
-
00:34:02
The Saudis started a golf league
-
00:34:04
and there might be a
hurricane in the Gulf of Mexico
-
00:34:06
next week, maybe,
we're not sure. Right?
-
00:34:10
There's this interconnected,
complex world.
-
00:34:14
One of my favorite
thinkers on leadership
-
00:34:16
is a guy named General
Stanley McChrystal.
-
00:34:18
He led the joint task force
in the war in Afghanistan.
-
00:34:20
And that was kind
of the tipping point
-
00:34:22
where warfare went from
complicated to complex.
-
00:34:25
'50s, '60s, '70s,
'80s it's complicated,
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00:34:28
but somewhat predictable.
-
00:34:29
We get to this point and
because of technology
-
00:34:32
and communication
ability, all of a sudden
-
00:34:34
it's wildly unpredictable.
-
00:34:36
And so he wrote this book
called Team of Teams,
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00:34:38
kind of giving leadership
lessons on how to think about,
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00:34:41
understand, come to terms with
and deal with this complexity.
-
00:34:44
He wrote this:
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00:35:13
Isn't it interesting
so many more of us
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00:35:16
now feel stuck in some
of these big questions:
-
00:35:18
What's my purpose in life,
what career should I pursue,
-
00:35:20
who should I marry
than ever before,
-
00:35:22
despite the fact that
we have more access
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00:35:25
to expert knowledge
than ever before.
-
00:35:27
You can go on YouTube
and watch videos until you die
-
00:35:29
about any topic you
want to know about.
-
00:35:32
You can read articles,
you can access data,
-
00:35:34
you can sort through all of it.
-
00:35:36
Yet many of us are still stuck
in these places and problems.
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00:35:41
Now, in contrast to this
increasingly complex
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00:35:43
and constantly changing
world, the Bible presents
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00:35:47
never changing
incredibly simple wisdom.
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00:35:51
Here's an example from
the Book of Proverbs.
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00:35:53
This may be the
most famous Proverb,
-
00:35:55
certainly in the top 5 or 10.
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00:35:57
Proverbs 3:5-6:
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00:36:07
Now, the unchanging part
is pretty, pretty clear, right?
-
00:36:10
I mean, that hasn't
changed in 3000 years
-
00:36:12
since it was written in
Job, Ecclesiastes, Proverbs,
-
00:36:15
all about 3000 years old.
-
00:36:17
In fact, the newest
wisdom in the Bible,
-
00:36:19
the stuff that Jesus said, the
stuff in the New Testament,
-
00:36:21
that's 2000 years old,
hasn't changed at all since.
-
00:36:26
That means it doesn't know
about our modern culture.
-
00:36:28
It doesn't know about
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00:36:29
the current geopolitical
environment.
-
00:36:30
It doesn't know about
Twitter or Threads or TikTok.
-
00:36:33
It doesn't know about
democracy, capitalism,
-
00:36:36
postmodernism, Post Malone,
-
00:36:38
nothing, knows
nothing about them.
-
00:36:41
It's unchanging, but did you
also know how simple it is?
-
00:36:46
It's incredibly,
incredibly, radically,
-
00:36:49
ridiculously even, simple.
-
00:36:51
In the advertising world,
-
00:36:53
there's this kind of
common knowledge
-
00:36:56
about seven words or less.
-
00:36:57
And the idea is if you want to
get your message communicated,
-
00:37:00
your brand promise to people,
-
00:37:02
you have to communicate
it in seven words or less,
-
00:37:04
your slogan, your
billboard, whatever.
-
00:37:06
If you use more than that,
-
00:37:07
that proves people will
just ignore your message.
-
00:37:09
It has to be seven
words or less.
-
00:37:12
And so I was
curious with Proverbs,
-
00:37:14
how many words is
the average proverb?
-
00:37:16
I skipped one through nine,
-
00:37:18
because that's kind of like
the introduction to Proverbs.
-
00:37:20
They're not really
structured the way that
-
00:37:22
the classic Proverb
chapters are.
-
00:37:23
So I took Proverbs Chapter 10,
-
00:37:25
a classically structured
Proverb chapter,
-
00:37:27
and I counted the words.
-
00:37:29
And guess how many words
the average Proverb has.
-
00:37:33
No, not seven.
It's actually 16.3.
-
00:37:37
And then I remembered
something though,
-
00:37:39
the Bible wasn't written
in modern English,
-
00:37:42
it was written in
ancient Hebrew.
-
00:37:44
So I went back to the ancient
Hebrew and I counted again.
-
00:37:48
And guess how many
words the average Proverb
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00:37:51
has in its original
language? 6.85.
-
00:37:55
It's fascinating.
It's so, so simple.
-
00:37:59
And a reasonable question
to ask, reasonable question.
-
00:38:03
Isn't it foolish to rely on such
simple, unchanging wisdom
-
00:38:08
when facing the problems
of the modern world
-
00:38:10
are increasingly complex,
constantly changing world?
-
00:38:14
Isn't that silly?
-
00:38:16
And then to bring
this up because
-
00:38:17
I think this is
how it feels to us.
-
00:38:19
And so it's worth
vocalizing that feeling,
-
00:38:21
vocalizing that question because
we just tend to ignore it
-
00:38:25
when it feels so simple.
-
00:38:27
As a pastor, I get to counsel
people from time to time.
-
00:38:29
They'll come to me with
problems and questions.
-
00:38:31
And by the time you get to
me, it's not like a low level,
-
00:38:33
"Like, hey, man, I was just kind
of casually wondering about."
-
00:38:36
It's like, "My life's on fire.
-
00:38:38
I don't know what to do in
this situation. What do I do?"
-
00:38:41
And and they
always start with that.
-
00:38:42
They're like, "I
just have no idea
-
00:38:44
what God would want me to do."
-
00:38:45
And can I tell you that
almost 100 times out of 100
-
00:38:48
when I sit down with
them, yes, they do. They do.
-
00:38:53
I rarely ever give them
insight into the Bible
-
00:38:55
they haven't heard
before, they already know it.
-
00:38:59
It's just so simple that
they're discounting it,
-
00:39:02
completely overlooking at it.
-
00:39:04
Today I have one goal,
which is to convince you,
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00:39:06
hopefully, that God's
unchanging, simple wisdom
-
00:39:10
is actually the only thing
that can give you stability
-
00:39:13
and help you through
-
00:39:14
the most important
challenges of your life.
-
00:39:16
It's the only thing.
-
00:39:18
You can think about
it like an ice skater.
-
00:39:20
You watch the Olympics,
you know the ice skaters.
-
00:39:22
They rotate fast and fast around
-
00:39:23
and around and around
and around and around.
-
00:39:25
And you're like, how do
they possibly stay upright?
-
00:39:29
Well, the trick is you pick
a simple, unchanging spot
-
00:39:32
to focus on and you don't
take your eyes from it.
-
00:39:36
And no matter what happens,
-
00:39:37
what craziness swirls
around you remain balanced.
-
00:39:40
That's the wisdom of God for us.
-
00:39:42
That's the wisdom of God.
-
00:39:44
See, the myth of
wisdom, I think, is that
-
00:39:46
wisdom equals the ability
to understand complexity.
-
00:39:50
That if I were truly wise,
I would be able to look at
-
00:39:53
an issue in my life,
understand every angle,
-
00:39:55
analyze everything,
get all the expert inputs,
-
00:39:58
put it all together, put
it into a math formula,
-
00:40:00
and somehow know
exactly what to do.
-
00:40:02
The thing that I'll not just
be happy with this year,
-
00:40:04
but two years from now,
three years from now,
-
00:40:06
five years from now.
-
00:40:07
That's what wisdom is:
understanding complexity.
-
00:40:10
Well, not in the Bible,
that's not what it is.
-
00:40:14
In Matthew Chapter
five Jesus gives
-
00:40:16
the longest section of
wisdom uninterrupted
-
00:40:19
that He ever gave, or at
least that we have recorded.
-
00:40:21
It's called the
Sermon on the Mount.
-
00:40:23
And sermon is a little
bit misleading because
-
00:40:25
it makes you think that it's
kind of one themed thing,
-
00:40:27
you know, 45 minutes, an hour,
-
00:40:30
I don't know how
long on one topic.
-
00:40:31
That's not what it is.
-
00:40:33
I actually think it's Jesus
giving us His Proverbs.
-
00:40:36
It lines up really well with the
way Proverbs are structured.
-
00:40:39
It's kind of like little
nuggets of wisdom
-
00:40:41
after little nuggets of
wisdom, just thing after thing.
-
00:40:45
It's a lot of His most
classic teaching
-
00:40:47
that's 100% original to
Him is in this one section,
-
00:40:50
the Beatitudes: blessed
are the poor in spirit.
-
00:40:53
The idea of being
salt and light,
-
00:40:55
the call to go the extra
mile, to love your enemies,
-
00:40:58
to not judge, to not worry.
-
00:41:00
The call to follow the narrow
way versus the broad path,
-
00:41:03
and a whole bunch more.
-
00:41:04
There are all kind
of packed in there.
-
00:41:06
And not coincidentally, at
the end of this whole section,
-
00:41:09
Jesus goes directly
to the main contrast
-
00:41:13
of all Wisdom Literature, which
is the wise versus the fool.
-
00:41:17
So the Bible sets
out this picture.
-
00:41:18
It says, we will, you and I, end
up either as wise or as a fool.
-
00:41:22
There is no middle ground.
-
00:41:24
No, there's nothing here.
-
00:41:26
And I think most of us
wish that that was the case.
-
00:41:29
Most of us, we don't
want to be a fool,
-
00:41:31
but we're not
necessarily willing to do
-
00:41:32
what it would take to be wise
-
00:41:34
because of the
high call of the Bible.
-
00:41:36
And so we just try to land
here, but that's not an option.
-
00:41:39
You will become
one or the other.
-
00:41:40
This is how Jesus ends the
Sermon on the Mount, Matthew 7:
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00:42:12
Jesus says the dividing line
between the wise and the fool
-
00:42:15
is not the person who's
understands all complexities,
-
00:42:18
the person who's done
the detailed analysis,
-
00:42:20
researched everything
thoroughly, gets all of it,
-
00:42:23
considered every
angle. That's not it.
-
00:42:25
And it's not the person
who treated these statements
-
00:42:27
love your enemies
as like book titles.
-
00:42:30
Oh, what an interesting
idea to explore
-
00:42:32
at a later time with more depth.
-
00:42:34
He says it's the people
who took what He just said
-
00:42:37
and actually apply them,
-
00:42:39
actually start
trying to do them.
-
00:42:41
See, the wisdom of God is
often times seven words or less.
-
00:42:44
In fact, in my life, when it's
come to those key moments,
-
00:42:47
I can say I've never heard
more than seven words, ever.
-
00:42:52
And I've waited.
-
00:42:53
God, are you going
to give me more?
-
00:42:55
No, not until you act on these.
-
00:42:57
This is the wisdom
of God in the Bible.
-
00:43:00
And if that seems backwards,
why would God equip us
-
00:43:02
to confront this complex world
-
00:43:03
and this complex problem
with that simple wisdom?
-
00:43:06
Isn't that backwards?
-
00:43:08
I would say yeah, it's totally
backwards, totally backwards.
-
00:43:12
But should we expect anything
else from the God who said,
-
00:43:14
"If you want to be
first, you got to be last"?
-
00:43:16
The God who says,
-
00:43:17
"If you want to save your
life, you've got to lose it"?
-
00:43:19
The God who looked
at the world and said,
-
00:43:21
"This place needs rescued."
-
00:43:22
And rather than send
some giant warrior
-
00:43:25
sends a baby born in a
barn in a nowhere place,
-
00:43:29
in a nowhere
corner of the world.
-
00:43:30
That's the God of the universe,
-
00:43:32
He confounds the
wise of this age.
-
00:43:33
And He says, "If you want
to enter into My Kingdom,
-
00:43:36
you've got to
become like a child."
-
00:43:39
I took my kids to
Kings Island recently,
-
00:43:41
the amusement
park up north of here.
-
00:43:43
And they'd never
been there before.
-
00:43:45
That's that's my bad as a dad.
I was just dragging my heels.
-
00:43:47
So we finally, finally
took them there.
-
00:43:49
And I made them
this deal, right?
-
00:43:50
I was like, "Hey,
-
00:43:51
whatever roller coaster
you want to go on,
-
00:43:53
whatever ride you want to go
on, I will go on it with you."
-
00:43:56
For the record,
-
00:43:57
I have no personal need
to ride any of these things.
-
00:43:59
I did that once in my life.
-
00:44:01
It was great. I'm over
it now, you know?
-
00:44:03
And so we go in there and they
immediately see this new ride.
-
00:44:07
It's called the Sol Spinner.
-
00:44:08
Have you heard
of the Sol Spinner?
-
00:44:10
Okay, So it's like a
carousel, it goes around,
-
00:44:14
only if it went a
billion miles an hour
-
00:44:17
and also vertical
instead of horizontal.
-
00:44:19
It's like you take
a roller coaster,
-
00:44:20
cut off everything but the loop
-
00:44:21
and then just do the
loop again and again
-
00:44:23
and again and again and again.
-
00:44:25
It's like that, you know?
-
00:44:26
And they're like, "That one.
We want to ride that one."
-
00:44:29
I was like, "Oh, okay.
-
00:44:30
I would like some
more information
-
00:44:33
about it first, actually.
-
00:44:35
It's brand new, you know,
how do we know it's safe?
-
00:44:38
It's got -- maybe maybe
we should just kind of,
-
00:44:40
you know, let's watch
some people ride it first
-
00:44:42
and see about -- do they
look happy? You know?"
-
00:44:45
That's what I was thinking.
-
00:44:47
But my kids are like, "Let's get
in line. Let's go, let's go."
-
00:44:51
See, I think a lot
of us are in this spot
-
00:44:53
as adults where we
want more information.
-
00:44:55
There's this massive
temptation to balk
-
00:44:58
at the simple wisdom of
God until we know more.
-
00:45:02
But I just want to warn
you about something.
-
00:45:03
If you're waiting
to act in your life, I
-
00:45:05
don't know what that
complex situation is,
-
00:45:07
I don't know if it's get
married or not get married.
-
00:45:09
I don't know if it's
switched careers or not.
-
00:45:11
I don't know if it's go
on the trip, don't go.
-
00:45:13
I don't know what it is
for you, but I'm telling you,
-
00:45:15
if you're waiting for
complete information
-
00:45:17
before acting on the
simple wisdom of God,
-
00:45:19
you will never,
ever get it. Ever.
-
00:45:22
The Bible has a
promise about knowledge.
-
00:45:25
It comes in 1
Corinthians 13, it says:
-
00:45:31
Prophesy means
our ability to look
-
00:45:33
beyond this moment
into the future,
-
00:45:36
our ability to see that
is partial right now.
-
00:45:50
Paul, who wrote this, he
says, "Look, a time is coming
-
00:45:53
when you will
have full knowledge.
-
00:45:55
How awesome is that?
-
00:45:56
It's just not going
to be in this life.
-
00:45:59
So don't wait for it."
-
00:46:01
That's why the Proverb says
-
00:46:03
trust in the Lord
with all your heart
-
00:46:06
and lean not on your
own understanding.
-
00:46:09
In all your ways submit to Him.
-
00:46:10
He will make
your paths straight.
-
00:46:13
Is there anything in
that Proverb sound like
-
00:46:15
make sure you
understand every angle,
-
00:46:17
make sure you've
done your homework?
-
00:46:20
You know, I think
that's how we treat it.
-
00:46:21
We would like to know
more before we move,
-
00:46:23
but God kind of says
-
00:46:24
you're not going to know
more until you move.
-
00:46:27
This is the story of me
coming to Crossroads
-
00:46:29
and this is the story
honestly, of people
-
00:46:32
who I respect in their life,
who've made big decisions,
-
00:46:34
who've gotten
through complexities
-
00:46:36
and have a life
that I would want
-
00:46:37
all have these common
stories in their life
-
00:46:40
where they say they
reached a moment
-
00:46:41
where the simple wisdom of God
-
00:46:43
would almost be compelling
them to take a step
-
00:46:46
that felt like
stepping off a cliff.
-
00:46:49
In the moment of decision
was will I step or not?
-
00:46:52
Will I trust in the Lord
with all of my heart,
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00:46:54
or will I lean backwards
on my own understanding?
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00:46:58
This is the story of me
coming to Crossroads
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00:47:00
years and years ago.
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00:47:01
I had a great corporate career
and a great path plan for me,
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00:47:04
but I felt like God
was telling me
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00:47:06
literally move to
Cincinnati. That's it.
-
00:47:09
And I was like, Cool. That's
the start of a conversation.
-
00:47:12
Why? To do what?
-
00:47:17
And as I prayed
about this, as I sat on it,
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00:47:19
the sense I got from God is,
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00:47:21
"I'm not going to tell you
what until you go where.
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00:47:24
I gave you enough to get moving.
-
00:47:25
Go, get there.
You'll figure it out."
-
00:47:27
And so I told people
in my life, wise counsel,
-
00:47:29
I said, "Hey, this is
the call that I'm feeling.
-
00:47:31
I think I'm supposed
to go into the ministry.
-
00:47:33
I think God's saying, quit
my job, move to Cincinnati.
-
00:47:35
What do you think?"
-
00:47:36
They were like, "Yeah,
-
00:47:37
that sounds like
the right thing to do."
-
00:47:39
And I was like, "Okay,
maybe I said something wrong.
-
00:47:43
I don't have a job there.
-
00:47:45
I don't know what
I'm going to do there."
-
00:47:47
That was the moment. Move, go.
-
00:47:51
And I had to decide will
I step off the cliff, or not?
-
00:47:57
Do I trust God, or will I lean
back on my own understanding?
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00:48:03
When I taught my kids to swim,
I took them to my parents pool.
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00:48:05
They have like a classic
kind of diving board
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00:48:07
that goes out, you know?
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00:48:08
And I would take them all to
the end of the diving board.
-
00:48:11
I put them on the diving board,
-
00:48:12
and then I would get
in the water like this
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00:48:14
and I go, "Okay,
just jump, Go ahead."
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00:48:18
And all of them
did the same thing.
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00:48:19
Maybe your kids,
they'd walked to the edge
-
00:48:21
and they were like,
"Okay, actually, Dad,
-
00:48:23
a couple of questions first.
-
00:48:24
Just -- Just checking. So
you're going to catch me?"
-
00:48:28
Yes. I'm totally
going to catch you.
-
00:48:30
"You're not going to
let me go underwater?"
-
00:48:32
I will sure attempt to
not let you go underwater.
-
00:48:34
If you do a little bit, I'll
pull you right back up.
-
00:48:36
It's going to be just fine.
-
00:48:38
"Okay. Okay.
-
00:48:40
I just want to review
that one more time.
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00:48:42
You're going to catch?"
-
00:48:43
Like, it was just like
that every time, right?
-
00:48:45
This hesitancy.
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00:48:46
And I think about
some of us in this room,
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00:48:47
we're in that moment of our life
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00:48:49
where we're on the
end of the diving board
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00:48:51
and God is in the water
like, "kay, come on, let's go."
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00:48:54
And we're like, "Ah, I
got a couple of questions.
-
00:48:59
Just -- I just want to make a
couple of questions for you."
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00:49:02
And it can feel like isn't
this wise? You know?
-
00:49:06
Isn't it wise to make
sure that we really are
-
00:49:10
supposed to follow
these directions of God?
-
00:49:13
Isn't it wise to wait on the
Lord? That's in the Bible.
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00:49:16
And it is.
-
00:49:17
It's actually in the
Bible all over the place.
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00:49:19
But I'll tell you as
I've been researching
-
00:49:21
and digging into this and
talking to other pastors,
-
00:49:23
I've yet to find a
single place where
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00:49:24
there's an example of
somebody in the Bible
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00:49:27
who God calls to wait until
they get more information.
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00:49:30
You won't find that scene.
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00:49:32
What you will find
are verses like this one
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00:49:34
in Isaiah 40:31, it says:
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00:49:46
See, the word wait
in Hebrew is Qavah,
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00:49:48
and it doesn't have
connotations of stillness.
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00:49:51
It actually has connotations
of activity, of motion.
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00:49:53
There's this forward
leaning anticipation
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00:49:56
and excitement in it.
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00:49:58
Henri Nouwen is a famous
Dutch Catholic theologian
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00:50:01
who wrote about this
concept of waiting.
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00:50:03
And he says the best
picture for understanding it
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00:50:05
is actually the
trapeze in the circus.
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00:50:08
So one day the
circus came to town.
-
00:50:09
He saw the trapeze
act and he was like,
-
00:50:11
"Man, this is really cool.
I want to understand it."
-
00:50:13
And so he befriended
the guy who ran the troupe,
-
00:50:15
a guy named Rodleigh,
-
00:50:17
and just ask him questions
about how it works.
-
00:50:19
And Rodleigh told him in the
trapeze act there's two roles.
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00:50:22
There's the flyer, the
person who jumps,
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00:50:24
and then there's the catcher.
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00:50:26
This is their conversation:
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00:51:09
The flyer does nothing,
you just wait, you jump,
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00:51:13
you hope with
outstretched hands.
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00:51:15
God, would you catch me?
-
00:51:18
If you have yet to have
a moment in your life
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00:51:21
where it's felt like that,
-
00:51:23
"God, I'm following you
in this, I think, I hope,"
-
00:51:27
then you have yet to experience
the fullness of faith.
-
00:51:30
There's more for you.
You have yet to move.
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00:51:33
There's wisdom of God that
could compel you forward.
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00:51:36
Job 11, one of our pieces
of Wisdom Literature says:
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00:51:44
That picture, the
same exact picture.
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00:51:46
And if you think about
that, that in motion
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00:51:49
kind of I'm waiting
for you to catch me
-
00:51:51
and get me moving thing,
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00:51:53
all of a sudden Isaiah
40:31 reads differently.
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00:52:04
God says, If you'll trust me,
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00:52:06
if you'll take the leap, I
have a promise for you,
-
00:52:09
either you're going to fly,
-
00:52:11
you're going to run,
or you're going to walk.
-
00:52:14
He says, for some of
you, if you'll trust me,
-
00:52:16
if you'll take the leap, I
will catch you in mid-air
-
00:52:18
and I will enable you to
fly right over that problem.
-
00:52:20
You will be amazed
how fast it passes.
-
00:52:23
You'll be amazed how
fast I get you through it.
-
00:52:25
Others of you, you're
not going to fly over it.
-
00:52:27
That's not what I have for you.
-
00:52:28
But when I catch you in motion,
-
00:52:30
we're going to set you
down and you're going to
-
00:52:32
run right through that
thing like a bulldozer.
-
00:52:35
He says others of you, you
won't be able to fly over it.
-
00:52:37
You're not going
to run through it.
-
00:52:39
But I promise I will catch you.
-
00:52:41
I will set your feet
firmly on a straight path
-
00:52:44
and you will walk through
it and you will not stumble.
-
00:52:47
This is the promise
of God to the wise.
-
00:52:51
This is the God I want to
connect to you, the wise.
-
00:52:55
See if you're doing something
and following God in wisdom,
-
00:52:57
it's going to feel like
foolishness to the world,
-
00:52:59
but it's wisdom to
God. It's wisdom.
-
00:53:03
That verse doesn't say:
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00:53:22
It doesn't say that.
It doesn't say it.
-
00:53:26
You know, I got to talk at
one of our college nights,
-
00:53:29
a few of them at Uptown
back in the spring.
-
00:53:32
And it was such
amazing interactions.
-
00:53:34
And some of them
I just did open Q&A.
-
00:53:36
Hey, just ask me anything.
-
00:53:37
And a lot of the questions
you get from college students
-
00:53:40
are the things you might expect,
-
00:53:41
these kind of big
questions. You know?
-
00:53:43
What should I major in?
-
00:53:45
And I don't know
if I should stay here
-
00:53:46
and how do I know
what job to pick?
-
00:53:48
And I've been dating this person
-
00:53:49
and I don't know if we
should get married or not.
-
00:53:51
And how do you know?
-
00:53:52
And what's my purpose in life?
-
00:53:53
All these monumental,
complex issues, right?
-
00:53:57
Then one kid at the end of it,
-
00:53:59
he asked me this
question that I love.
-
00:54:00
He said, "How do you know
-
00:54:03
that you're making
the right decision?"
-
00:54:05
I said, "Oh, man, that's a
-- that's a great question.
-
00:54:08
You don't. That's
the life of faith.
-
00:54:14
It's not called
certainty for a reason."
-
00:54:16
See we think that what
we want is we want wisdom
-
00:54:18
to be insurance against
the need for faith.
-
00:54:21
That's what we want.
-
00:54:22
I won't need faith,
-
00:54:24
I won't ever be in
that vulnerable position
-
00:54:26
where I trust God
to catch me because
-
00:54:27
I'm just going to
have enough wisdom
-
00:54:29
that I'm going to see
it from every angle.
-
00:54:30
I'll be certain of the
right course of action,
-
00:54:32
and then I'll move. I
won't need any faith.
-
00:54:34
That's not what wisdom is.
-
00:54:36
And if that's how
you live your life,
-
00:54:38
you will never, ever follow God.
-
00:54:39
And I'm just telling you,
you will miss out on Him.
-
00:54:43
You'll miss out on the
beauty and the wonder
-
00:54:44
and the adventure of Him.
-
00:54:46
God's call is to go before
we know everything. Go.
-
00:54:51
You won't have
all the information.
-
00:54:53
You've got to move anyway.
-
00:54:55
As a church, I think that's been
one of our strengths, actually.
-
00:54:59
And if I'm honest,
it probably is what
-
00:55:01
drew me to Crossroads
most in the first place.
-
00:55:03
I saw a church who was
acting, who was going.
-
00:55:07
As a college student
I had heard about
-
00:55:08
the Aids epidemic
in South Africa,
-
00:55:10
which at that time was this
giant humanitarian crisis.
-
00:55:12
It was this big thing.
-
00:55:13
No one really knew
how to deal with it.
-
00:55:15
Churches weren't
doing a great job.
-
00:55:16
It was scary because if
you caught the disease,
-
00:55:18
it could still kill
you at that point.
-
00:55:20
It was this this massive thing.
-
00:55:22
But when I read my
Bible, which I started doing
-
00:55:25
more seriously as
a college student,
-
00:55:26
I came across this
one passage that was
-
00:55:29
somewhat frustrating,
but also convicting to me.
-
00:55:32
In the passage, Jesus said,
-
00:55:34
"Love your
neighbor as yourself."
-
00:55:35
It was five words.
-
00:55:37
And then these really
complex thinkers, the Pharisees,
-
00:55:40
who had studied every
word and interpretation
-
00:55:43
and all this stuff, were like,
"Hey, we got a question for you:
-
00:55:45
Who is my neighbor? Right?"
-
00:55:48
And Jesus is like, your
neighbor, basically --
-
00:55:51
this is my interpretation --
-
00:55:53
anybody you know
that needs help. That's it.
-
00:55:56
And so I felt this conviction
of wanting to help,
-
00:55:58
wanting to do something.
I didn't know everything.
-
00:56:00
I didn't know how to help.
I didn't know what to do.
-
00:56:02
But then I heard
about Crossroads,
-
00:56:04
who was building the largest
privately funded Aids hospice
-
00:56:06
and sending 300 people
on the first ever Go Trip
-
00:56:09
to help open it, and I went.
-
00:56:11
This is a picture of me and
Sarah on that first ever Go Trip
-
00:56:14
from years and years
and years ago. Amazing.
-
00:56:17
And to say this trip changed
my life is an understatement.
-
00:56:21
When we went on this
trip, she was Sarah Lord.
-
00:56:23
Five months later,
she was Sarah Ranson.
-
00:56:25
That's how significant that
trip was in our marriage story.
-
00:56:29
I didn't know that.
I couldn't plan that.
-
00:56:31
If I was drawing a
straight path for my life,
-
00:56:33
I would have never
put that in there.
-
00:56:35
I would have never guessed.
-
00:56:36
I just went and I followed God.
-
00:56:38
That's it. That's
the life of faith.
-
00:56:40
And in the summer of
2021, our board asked me
-
00:56:43
to go to the border of
the US and Mexico border
-
00:56:47
and see what was happening,
-
00:56:48
check out the border crisis,
similar to that situation.
-
00:56:51
See if there's anything
our church could do to help.
-
00:56:53
Now, I knew nothing.
-
00:56:55
I had very little information
to go on. This is how little.
-
00:56:59
I got to the airport, I
got through security,
-
00:57:02
got to my gate, got out my phone
-
00:57:03
and Googled border
crisis question mark.
-
00:57:06
You know, I'm trying to make
sure no one else sees me.
-
00:57:08
Yeah, I need know
a lot about this.
-
00:57:11
I get down there and
everyone uses the same word
-
00:57:15
that we've been talking
about today: complexity.
-
00:57:17
It's so complex. It's so
complex. It's so complex.
-
00:57:19
And it really is. You know?
-
00:57:21
When I was down
there, I talked to
-
00:57:22
the assistant director of the
Rio Grande Valley District,
-
00:57:26
which is the most
heavily trafficked,
-
00:57:27
by far, section of our border.
-
00:57:29
I went on a patrol
with border agents.
-
00:57:31
I took a ride in the Rio
Grande with armed guards,
-
00:57:34
watch the cartel shuttle
people across the river,
-
00:57:36
talked to migrants
on both sides.
-
00:57:38
And it was, it's very
complex because
-
00:57:40
you have all these parties
with all these agendas
-
00:57:42
meeting in this one place.
-
00:57:43
And in the middle
of it all, though,
-
00:57:46
were the people,
like Anna, who I met
-
00:57:49
in a migrant camp
in Reynosa, Mexico.
-
00:57:52
Anna was a pharmacist in
a Central American country,
-
00:57:56
and the cartel
moved into her town
-
00:57:58
and started to exploit
her, small at first.
-
00:58:00
"Hey, you need to pay
us to keep you safe."
-
00:58:02
And then every
month they'd step it up,
-
00:58:04
pay a little bit more,
pay a little bit more,
-
00:58:06
until she was giving
them everything.
-
00:58:07
And the point at which she
was giving them everything,
-
00:58:09
they came to her and they said,
"You need to give us more
-
00:58:12
or we will kill you
and your entire family."
-
00:58:13
And she's like, "I
don't have any more."
-
00:58:15
And they said, "We'll
be back next week."
-
00:58:18
And so Anna did what
you and I might do.
-
00:58:19
She didn't want to
leave. This was her home.
-
00:58:22
She packed up and she fled north
-
00:58:25
with her seven year
old daughter in tow.
-
00:58:27
By the way, the only way
she could pay to get north
-
00:58:29
was to sell her body.
-
00:58:31
Painful. Horrible.
Right? Devastating.
-
00:58:36
And when I talk to people
like Anna, I just got angry.
-
00:58:40
Why isn't government
doing anything?
-
00:58:42
They could do something.
-
00:58:43
The Mexican government,
-
00:58:44
these people on Mexican
soil, they could do something.
-
00:58:46
The US government,
-
00:58:47
they could send supplies
across or something.
-
00:58:49
I don't know. What
about business?
-
00:58:50
There's plenty of
money in business
-
00:58:52
on both sides of the river.
-
00:58:53
Why can't somebody do
something to help them?
-
00:58:55
Or what about the Red Cross?
Why aren't they here?
-
00:58:57
I just got -- I just got angry.
-
00:59:00
Then in His wisdom,
God put those five words
-
00:59:03
back into my head: Love
your neighbor as yourself.
-
00:59:07
And then six more words:
It is your job, not theirs.
-
00:59:11
That's it. That's it.
-
00:59:14
And so our team who
went to investigate.
-
00:59:16
We came back with this
conviction, not the knowledge.
-
00:59:19
Not the knowledge on what to do.
-
00:59:21
Not all of the information
gathered, not even close to it,
-
00:59:25
but a conviction that what
it would mean to follow God
-
00:59:28
would be to step into this
problem and see if we can help.
-
00:59:31
And so for the past
couple of years,
-
00:59:33
that's what we've
been doing, just looking.
-
00:59:35
How can we help? Could
we do this? Could we do that?
-
00:59:37
And I'm so pleased
to tell you that
-
00:59:39
we've relooked at
some of our work
-
00:59:40
in those Central American
countries where people flee from
-
00:59:43
and we've determined that
what those folks really want,
-
00:59:45
this is what they'll tell you
in those migrant camps,
-
00:59:47
is they don't want
to leave home,
-
00:59:48
just like you don't want
to leave your home.
-
00:59:50
They want to stay.
-
00:59:52
And so we said, man, the
thing we could start with
-
00:59:54
is how do we make home a
place to never have to leave?
-
00:59:56
How could we invest
where they are?
-
00:59:58
And so we've been looking
at that with Nicaragua,
-
01:00:00
work we've had
going for a while.
-
01:00:02
And I'm so pleased
to announce to you
-
01:00:04
that we're adding a new country,
Guatemala. Check this out.
-
01:00:16
- So some people might be
wondering why Guatemala?
-
01:00:19
This part of the world known
as the Western Highlands
-
01:00:22
is one of the most
afflicted areas
-
01:00:24
with poverty in
the entire world.
-
01:00:27
See, this area is full of,
not just any type of poverty,
-
01:00:30
but systematic and
generational poverty.
-
01:00:32
And one of the things that
-
01:00:34
combats that type of
poverty is education.
-
01:00:36
See, when you
are living in poverty,
-
01:00:38
you don't have
access to education,
-
01:00:39
you don't have good
jobs, and you don't have
-
01:00:41
really a way to get out of
-
01:00:44
that systematic and
generational poverty.
-
01:00:47
And so we've partnered
with an organization
-
01:00:49
down here in Guatemala
-
01:00:50
that is looking to
change that narrative.
-
01:00:51
See, 1 in 3
Guatemalans are illiterate,
-
01:00:54
and that number
actually used to be
-
01:00:56
2 in 3 Guatemalans
are illiterate because
-
01:00:58
we know that when
folks have education,
-
01:01:00
when people have
access to education,
-
01:01:02
when people have
access to technology,
-
01:01:04
they can have better careers,
they can have better jobs.
-
01:01:06
And we can change the narrative
-
01:01:08
of this generation of
poverty that exists here.
-
01:01:10
We're coming alongside an
organization that wants to go.
-
01:01:13
And Crossroads is so excited
to be a part of that going
-
01:01:16
because we know that we
really can change the world.
-
01:01:19
And so our partner
down here is doing things
-
01:01:21
like handing out books.
-
01:01:23
Students are going to
school on scholarship
-
01:01:25
and learning more
and more each day,
-
01:01:27
and they're getting
more and more access
-
01:01:29
and they're taking that
access and not only
-
01:01:30
are they're giving
it to their families,
-
01:01:32
but they're raising families
with this newfound intelligence,
-
01:01:35
with this newfound education.
-
01:01:37
And it's changing Guatemala.
-
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And we cannot believe
that we get to be a part of it.
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And I'll tell you what,
some of the work
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that we've been doing
has not been easy.
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It's been hard. It's
been a little bit intense.
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And maybe if you come here,
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you'll see how intense
some of the situations are.
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But it is powerful.
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It's powerful to see what folks
can do when they come together.
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It's powerful to see what people
can do when they have access.
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And it's powerful to
see what we can do
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when we come alongside someone
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who's already doing
something great.
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And we're going
to do it great, too,
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because we believe
God has empowered us
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to change the world.
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- I don't know
where in your life
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God's calling you with wisdom.
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Maybe it's to another country,
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maybe it's to go on a trip,
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or maybe it's an
internal issue in your life.
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Maybe He's calling you to
the trouble in your marriage
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to finally do
something about it.
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Maybe He's calling you
to get closer to your kid,
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that one who you just
don't connect with at all.
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Maybe He's calling you to
rethink your career choices.
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I don't know what it is,
the big, complex problem.
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I just promise He's
going to send you into it
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with simple instructions.
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Now, I know there may be
one last objection you have.
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You might be
going, "Kyle, I get it.
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I'm not going to
know everything.
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And God's not really going to
be okay with me just waiting,
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knowing something, but
not doing anything with it.
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That seems obvious.
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But, Kyle, I don't
have what I need.
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I don't have what I need
to repair my marriage.
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I don't have what I need to help
my 16 year old with a problem.
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I just don't understand.
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I don't have what I need.
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I can't. I can't do it.
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What do you say to that?"
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I'll tell you what
Jesus said in Luke 10
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He sent out 70 disciples.
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It's the first time He
sent a big group of people
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to go tackle the
problems in the world.
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Here were His
instructions, Luke. 10:3::
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Jesus says, "Hey, I'm
sending you out into danger.
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If you sense that
part, If fear is going,
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'Whoa, that looks
dangerous.' You're right.
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In fact, it's lambs
among wolves.
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It's worse than you thought.
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Therefore, don't take any money.
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Don't take a backpack
full of supplies.
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Don't take any shoes."
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And this isn't Ohio,
Kentucky dirt, by the way.
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You know, soft, rich soil,
grass between your toes.
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This is Israel.
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Snakes, scorpions,
rocks like razor blades.
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Don't wear shoes,
just get going.
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Why in the world
would He do that?
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It's because He's
trying to train them
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to get used to never
having what they need,
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ever, when they follow Him.
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See in your life, the
situation God's calling you to,
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the place He's saying,
"Step into my wisdom,
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as simple as it may be.
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You will not have
what you need."
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When he says it's time to go,
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you'll look around and go,
"I don't have everything."
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He'll say, " That's cool.
Let's go, let's roll."
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And if in that moment
you try to say to Him,
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"God, I don't have the money
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it would take to
fix this situation."
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He'll say, "That's okay."