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- Hey, happy Father's Day
and welcome to Crossroads.
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I'm Andy, online pastor,
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and this is a church
that you can be a part of
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no matter what you believe or
where you are watching from.
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Today on Crossroads
we're talking about wisdom,
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not the kind of wisdom
that TikTok offers,
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but real, lasting dad-ly wisdom.
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No, no, no. Godly wisdom.
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What is it? How do we get it?
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And what makes godly wisdom
different from worldly wisdom?
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Crossroads isn't just content.
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We're actually a community.
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We'd love for you to
chat with us any time
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during today's episode online,
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and we'd love to talk with you,
get to know you a little bit.
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Maybe you want to know how
you can be a part of Crossroads
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or how you can get
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more information
about a specific topic,
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or maybe there's something
going on in your life
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and in your world that you just
want to process with someone.
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And those conversations are
my favorite part of the week.
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Now, today we're going
to start with worship
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because we believe that
our wisdom comes from God,
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not from social media
or any place else.
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And when we put our time
and our attention towards Him,
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He gives us
everything that we need.
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So think about these words and
what they mean for your life.
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Anticipation matters, like
our approach to things matter.
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And I'm just going to
tell you, I've walked in
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like you just walked in
about ten minutes ago
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countless times
bringing my kids in.
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I fought the
parking lot traffic.
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Can I get an amen?
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You come in, you
drop your kids off,
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or maybe you come in
not knowing many people
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so your anticipation,
your approach is a little bit,
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like, I don't know
what I'm walking into.
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And if it's your first time,
then you're in the right place.
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But our anticipation matters and
sometimes in this experience,
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I don't know that we're
able to give it much thought
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what we came in to do.
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Anybody willing to say that?
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Like, I just kind of showed up
because I show up a lot. Right?
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It's okay.
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Did you come in anticipating
that the God of Creation
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wants to meet with you today?
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Did you come anticipating
the God of Hebrews 11:6
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that says I reward
those who seek Me?
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Did you come in anticipating
the God who says,
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I see your footsteps out
of your car, into the way,
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online, into this room, in
this space as a seeking Me.
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This God who says I bring
living water, fresh water,
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fresh life, fresh
peace, fresh words.
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You didn't just show
up to a space today.
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You didn't just show
up to Crossroads.
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You showed up for an interaction
to happen with the living God.
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He's so good and generous.
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And so I know we're like
13 minutes into this thing.
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I just want to give you space
to point your heart towards Him
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and say I came here
because I want more of You.
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So, lyrics --
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we've got a volunteer that
runs lyrics every weekend.
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Can we give it up
for that volunteer?
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They serve us every weekend.
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Up on lyrics I need
you to go to the chorus
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of the last song we just sang.
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Because I don't want
to miss it from the top.
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So lyrics, pull up the lyrics
that say come like a flood.
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We got it on the
screen? Look at that.
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Give it up for em
up top. [applause]
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And now let's
pray this together:
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We anticipate You, God, we
want more of You. So we say:
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Let's pray together.
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Father, we can only sing
those words about You.
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You're truly faithful.
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That you're not like
You can't put kind of
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or you're a lot of
faithful before that.
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It's just the word faithful.
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You are faithful and you're
the only one that's true.
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Time after time,
generation after generation,
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across this world in every
language, You are faithful.
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So I give you my heart today.
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I give you my
attention this morning.
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I pray all this because
of you, Jesus. Amen.
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It's great to be here together.
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It's great that you showed up.
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I see some friends in the
place today. It's awesome.
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Maybe you showed
up for the first time.
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I'll say it again, you're
in the right place.
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My name is Justin, and I get
to do some music around here.
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You can clap for new
folks who are in here.
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That's right. [applause]
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Don't let one person clap.
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You're in the right place.
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And we try in every way
possible to make this big place
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feel small because
relationships matter.
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So before you grab a seat,
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why don't you turn to
somebody, introduce yourself.
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Say, I'm glad to
be here with you.
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Well, just like on Father's
Day for me, I'm a dad.
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I'm a dad of four.
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I've got two daughters
who are ten and nine
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and two sons who
are eight and six.
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Ten, nine, eight, six.
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My wife is just tired
all the time, and me too.
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But just like this,
if my kids said,
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"Dad, I love you.
Happy Father's Day."
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And they made
me a beautiful card
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that they picked out
at the dollar store.
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If they were mean to
me the rest of the day,
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if they gave me no
attention or no heart
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or no affection any other time
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but just this, it falls
short. Right? Right.
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So when we say, man,
we give our songs to God,
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I respond to who He
is and say, "I'm trying.
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I want to give You all of
me, not just a piece of me."
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So we have people
across the board that
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do that through
time and resources,
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like the volunteer we
celebrated this morning
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running lyrics for us.
We have people who do that.
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We also have, and my
family and I follow suit,
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finances are a part of my life,
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and so I want to give
my whole life to God.
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And so I do that
also with my money.
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Every month we give a
portion of our income to say,
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"God, you're the giver
of every good thing:
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skills, resources, time, money.
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And I want it to all go back
to You." So we try to do that.
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If you want to join us in
giving financially like that,
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you can go to
Crossroads.net/give.
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Like I said, that's not
the only way we give.
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We give time, skills, resources.
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And when this place
is made up and it runs
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on people who
do that every week.
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And so I want you to hear some
of their stories this morning.
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We're glad you're here.
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- You know, Brian
Tome always talks about
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the benefits of being outside.
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And I get to be outside
at least an hour every day
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when I start my
week, I get to dance.
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I get my steps in.
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I recommend it to
anybody. It's so much fun.
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- When I first started
serving for Kids' Club,
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I thought I was just signing
up for community service hours,
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but I ended up finding
connection with the staff,
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the other volunteers
and especially the kids.
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And now it's something I
look forward to every Sunday.
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- Sometimes when
you just come to service,
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you take things for granted.
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And what I found out was
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how many people
are behind the scenes
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helping out and how I've
been able to contribute to that.
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- When I started
serving at Crossroads,
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I thought it was going to
be an experience for me
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to learn how to do electrical
work, how to do plumbing.
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But it actually turned
into finding a friend
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here at Crossroads and it
became about relationships.
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It was labor that
was in the trenches
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but enabled me to
connect with God.
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- I found that serving here
at Crossroads just gives me
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a huge sense of purpose
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and being able to
help this community
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spread the Word
of God to people that
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are perhaps watching
this around the world.
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It's just awesome to
be able to take the skills
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that God has blessed me with
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and be able to give
back to our community.
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- I signed up for volunteering.
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I felt that it was going to
be maybe burdensome,
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it was going to be long
days and exhausting.
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What I found is that it's
a great opportunity for me
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to share my gifts
with my community
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and I find myself
being closer to God.
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- Hey, thanks for
singing with us.
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Now, Crossroads is a church
with people all over the country
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and all over the world.
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Crossroads is one church
with multiple locations.
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Now we have ten
physical buildings,
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but we are so much
bigger than that.
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We meet everywhere from
dorm rooms to bars to homes
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and even inside prisons.
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If you don't live near one
of those physical locations,
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we know that being a part
of Crossroads Anywhere
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can feel maybe a
little distant sometimes.
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Like who else is out there?
Or is it just me and a screen?
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That's why we started
the Anywhere Home.
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It's a home base for us
to connect with people
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all over the world who
call Crossroads home
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but don't live near
one of those locations.
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There you can meet other people.
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You can find out who's near you.
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You can ask questions,
get special family content
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for you and your
family to do at home.
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You can talk about the
service and grow together.
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We're adding new
elements to it every month,
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and we'd love
for you to join us.
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Just head to
Crossroads.net/Anywhere to join.
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If you've been around for
the last couple of weeks,
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we've been talking about how
God has made us for movement,
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how we weren't
meant to sit still
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or to stand on the sidelines.
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One of the things that's,
like, legit changed my life
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has been volunteering.
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It's been understanding more of
how God has uniquely made me,
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how He wired me
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and how the world
actually needs those gifts.
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So wherever you live, we've
got opportunities for you
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to put your gifts to
use to change the world
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one person at a time.
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Head to crossroads.net/volunteer
for more info.
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Coming up, Kyle is
going to explain to us
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what biblical wisdom
really is and how to get it.
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- We all want a life that works.
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We buy books, we
listen to podcasts,
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and we follow gurus who promise
the secret to what we crave:
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a life full of meaning,
connection, fun and adventure.
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We look to those who
have done well before us
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and we ask ourselves:
How can I get some of that?
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We seek knowledge
and understanding,
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but we need something deeper.
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We need wisdom.
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The Bible gives
us a path to wisdom
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laid out in three Old
Testament books,
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often called the
Wisdom Literature.
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Proverbs, Ecclesiastes
and Job are the roadmap
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to understanding where
godly wisdom comes from
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and what God has to say about
how to live our lives well.
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- Well, hello and
welcome to Crossroads.
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My name is Paco and I'm on
the content team around here
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and my day job is to
partner with our teachers,
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the folks you see up
here each and every week
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and sort of help them
sharpen their talks,
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help them format it,
helps make sure that
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what they're saying comes
across the way they want to say,
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it comes across in a clear way.
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I basically partner
with our teachers.
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That's what a content
director does around here.
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Also, I schedule our teachers
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and we usually do that
about 2 to 4 months out.
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And today, as we're
kicking off wisdom,
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we had Kyle scheduled
to speak today.
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Kyle texted me yesterday
around noon and said,
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"Hey, man, I got a sick
wife and three sick kids.
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My wife's on crutches,
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so I don't know what's
being passed around,
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but it's like a
stomach bug of sorts
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and just give you a heads up.
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I might need someone
to pinch hit tomorrow."
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I said, "Cool, man.
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There's no way he's not going
to be here. There's no way."
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I said, "Okay, cool."
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Threw the phone in
the back seat. It's fine.
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I got a text about
8:30 last night saying,
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"Hey, and I quote,
'I'm puking my guts out.
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I'm going to need
someone to pinch hit.'"
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So here we are. [laughter]
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I love -- [laughter]
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I don't -- I don't think
it's it's by accident
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that substitute teachers
in school play movies.
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So we're going to watch
Shrek for the rest of our time.
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Enjoy this -- [laughter]
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No, I'm just kidding.
I'm just kidding.
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I'm going to do my
best to pinch hit for Kyle
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and what I hope to
do today with all of us
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is I hope to set up a framework
so you and I can experience
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the summer and get the
most out of our time together
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at Crossroads this summer.
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This summer is all about wisdom.
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Like wisdom on today,
right? It's not an accident.
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It's not an accident
that that Kyle
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was going to start wisdom today
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and that he chose
the wise choice
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to take care of
his family first.
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It's not by accident that you're
here today to experience this.
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It's not by accident
that we would start
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a collection of talks about
wisdom on Father's Day.
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Happy Father's Day, by
the way, dads. [applause]
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None of that's an accident.
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You know, God in His --
God, in His eternal wisdom,
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like, God is like outside of
the first person point of view.
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If you understand
that, God is eternal.
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So His perspective is eternal.
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So He sees outside of sort of
the timeline of our life, right?
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And God, in his wisdom,
chose today because I think
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He has some special
encouragement,
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especially for fathers today.
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And I want to start our time
just encouraging you dads.
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In his eternal wisdom,
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God chose you to be
the father of your kids.
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Like, God gave that to you.
God chose you to do that.
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You know what that means?
That means He has equipped you.
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He has qualified you.
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And it might not always
feel like that. Right?
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Because fatherhood
starts really fun for dads.
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Like, cool. That's great.
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And then mom makes a whole
baby without using her hands,
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and then she delivers the baby
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and what feels like
15 minutes later,
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you've got a whole human
you got to bring home.
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I have two kids.
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I have a four year old and
a nine month old, both girls.
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Girl dads in the
house, what's up? Cool.
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Our first kid I was
super nervous. Right?
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Super nervous. Like, walk in.
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The nurse was like, "I'll
walk you down to the car."
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I was like, "Good.
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Hopefully you come with us
home and be with us." [laughter]
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And so she she walks us
down and she was so beautiful
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and so, so kind to us.
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We got mom loaded up, the
car seat, the baby situated.
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She -- beautiful smile.
She said, "Here you go."
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And I went, "No thanks."
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I said, "No thanks to my kid."
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I was so nervous because
I didn't feel qualified.
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You got a whole human, you got
a whole human to take care of.
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And it comes with
no instruction manual.
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And you're a dad,
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you wouldn't read the
instruction manual anyway.
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Who are we kidding?
[laughter]
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If you walk into any room
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and you see a dad with
an instruction manual open,
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just know whatever he's
working on has already broken.
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He broke it and he's trying to
fix it before you get in there
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and notice that he's
got to buy another one.
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No, dads, this is a great day.
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Fathers, Father's
Day is a is a great day
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because fatherhood is a
thing that's like a great joy.
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And so my encouragement to
you dads today as we get started
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is if you're in the trenches
and you're doing it, well done.
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You're going to stumble
through some parts,
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you're going to have some
high, some lows, but well done.
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Fatherhood is a gift and
you are a gift to your children.
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You are the dad
that your kids need.
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Don't forget that. All right.
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So with wisdom, I want to
start this seven weeks off
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in an important way to
kind of give us the outline that
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we're going to use every single
week with all of our teachers.
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00:32:43
We've got a great
lineup this summer.
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We chose wisdom for this
summer as teachers because
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we have seen that the world
is full of foolishness, right?
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00:32:54
I mean, there's a lot
of wild stuff happening
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00:32:56
and you might hear
that and immediately go,
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Yeah, political
so-and-so is a fool.
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00:33:00
And this person is that
and the proverbial theys.
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00:33:02
And we're not talking
about any of that.
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00:33:04
We're talking about is we're
talking about like godly wisdom,
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00:33:06
because the reality is
every era of humanity
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00:33:10
has had a level of
foolishness, has had a level of,
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00:33:13
like, what were they thinking?
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00:33:15
Do you ever look back and
go, "What was I thinking?"
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00:33:17
I'll give an example.
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00:33:19
Before 1970 something,
people were like,
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00:33:22
"You know, what's a great
idea? Let's put lead in paint."
-
00:33:25
Remember when that was
like, "Oh, that's a great idea."
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00:33:28
Anybody in the 80s, born in
the 80s or grew up in the 80s
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00:33:31
and can hear my voice. Okay.
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00:33:32
You guys and gals thought
it would be a great idea
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00:33:36
to put as much hairspray as
you possibly can in your hair
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00:33:39
and no one can
see in front of you.
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00:33:43
No one can see behind
like that, Oh, yeah.
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00:33:47
Any 90s kids in the
house? 90s kids. Yeah.
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00:33:51
You're not off the hook.
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00:33:52
You guys are walking
around looking like this.
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00:33:56
Remember this guy?
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00:33:57
This was the guy who was
like, is that guy homeless
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00:33:59
or is he in Pearl
Jam? Which one is he?
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00:34:03
Now, if you're young
in here and you're like,
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00:34:05
"Man, old people are weird."
Yeah, you're right, they are.
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00:34:07
But you're not off
the hook either.
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00:34:09
Those TikTok
dances you're doing,
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00:34:10
they live on the Internet
forever. [laughter]
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00:34:13
Good luck.
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00:34:15
Every era, every
era has something
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00:34:18
that seemed wise in the moment,
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00:34:19
but it actually
was kind of foolish.
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00:34:21
And the world is full of
what looks like wisdom
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00:34:25
or what's false wisdom,
and God has more for us.
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00:34:28
And it's important
to recognize that
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00:34:29
as we get started in
these seven weeks,
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00:34:31
because there's no neutral
ground when it comes to wisdom.
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00:34:35
You see, Jesus talks
about our spiritual enemy.
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00:34:37
He calls him the father of lies.
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00:34:39
And you ever believed a
lie and felt like a fool after?
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00:34:44
See the father of lies, he
wants you to believe those lies
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00:34:48
to ultimately become a fool.
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00:34:49
You see, the stakes are
high when it comes to wisdom.
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00:34:52
That's why all of our
teachers in the next few weeks
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00:34:54
are going to be unpacking
what does wisdom look like
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00:34:56
in different aspects of life?
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00:34:58
What does wisdom look
like with our finances,
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00:35:00
with our time, with
our relationships,
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00:35:03
with our conflict,
with suffering?
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00:35:07
What does wisdom look like
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00:35:08
from God's point of
view with those things?
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00:35:10
Because there's an enemy
out there that wants you
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00:35:12
to believe lies about wisdom
and wants you to become a fool.
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00:35:14
But God has wisdom for you
and He has wisdom for me.
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00:35:16
And we're going to
unpack that this summer.
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00:35:18
So I'm really excited
for this summer.
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00:35:20
Let's pray before I
continue on. Cool?
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00:35:23
God, thank You for today.
Thank you for Your Word.
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00:35:27
I thank You for the
opportunity to just unpack it
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00:35:31
and learn more about who You are
and what You've called us to.
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00:35:33
God, would you give us
the ability to understand,
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00:35:38
the ability to know
and the ability
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00:35:39
to walk this thing
out every day?
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00:35:41
We love You and
we trust You. Amen.
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00:35:45
So wisdom to a lot of us might
feel like an optional pursuit.
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00:35:48
It might feel like
something like, yeah,
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00:35:50
I can either choose to
be wise or or I can not
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00:35:53
or I can, like, lean in to
like that spiritual elite-ness
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00:35:57
and, like, be a
pastor and be wise
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00:35:59
or be a group
leader and be wise
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00:36:00
or be a Bible study
person and be wise.
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00:36:02
Or I can just be
kind of, like, normal.
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00:36:04
That's not the case.
Wisdom is for all of us.
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00:36:07
God has created wisdom
for all of us to pursue it,
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00:36:09
and the benefits
of wisdom are huge.
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00:36:13
In the Book of Proverbs,
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00:36:15
which is one of the
books in the Bible,
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00:36:17
noted as Wisdom
Literature. Okay?
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00:36:20
It's Proverbs, Ecclesiastes,
and it's Job. Okay?
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00:36:24
Proverbs written mostly by
King Solomon, Ecclesiastes also;
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00:36:27
Job is written by someone else.
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00:36:28
And we're going to be unpacking
all three of those books as
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00:36:31
we think about, like, what does
wisdom look like in our lives?
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00:36:34
Proverbs 3 is where
we're going to start today
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00:36:36
as we start on this journey.
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00:36:39
It says this, verse 13:
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00:37:10
That's the benefit of
wisdom, like precious rubies,
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00:37:13
precious jewels, this treasure
that's, like, so valuable,
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00:37:18
it's worth everything too.
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00:37:20
Like, that's what wisdom
gives us in our lives.
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00:37:23
When we come to follow
Jesus, we receive His power
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00:37:26
and we receive the Holy Spirit,
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00:37:27
and then we get to walk
out these days in wisdom.
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00:37:31
And Solomon, who wrote
these words, it's important
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00:37:35
you recognize that Solomon
was a king in ancient Israel.
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00:37:38
And he has this interaction with
God where God basically says,
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00:37:43
"Hey, Solomon, ask for
anything, anything you want,"
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00:37:46
like Aladdin, the
three wishes, right?
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00:37:49
Like, he doesn't do that.
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00:37:50
But he says one thing, I want
you to ask me for what you want.
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00:37:54
You know what Solomon says?
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00:37:55
Let's read what
Solomon says. He says:
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00:38:05
You know what
Solomon asks him for?
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00:38:07
Solomon asks him for wisdom.
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00:38:09
And guess what God
does? He grants it.
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00:38:11
Listen to how God responds.
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00:38:52
Solomon was the
wisest person to ever live.
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00:38:55
Now, you might be like, "Wait,
isn't Jesus the wisest person?"
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00:38:58
Yes, but he was God. Okay?
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00:38:59
Solomon was the
second wisest person.
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00:39:00
He was the wisest
man to ever live.
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00:39:03
And he wrote down these
words in Proverbs for you and I
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00:39:07
to realize just how
important godly wisdom is,
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00:39:10
how important this
idea of pursuing God is
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00:39:14
and what it looks like
to actually live it out.
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00:39:18
And one of the frameworks
as you read Proverbs,
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00:39:21
which I recommend, by the way.
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00:39:22
I recommend you read
Proverbs, you know,
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00:39:24
if you have a summer reading
list or something like that,
-
00:39:26
I recommend putting
Proverbs at the very top of it.
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00:39:28
It's 31 chapters.
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00:39:29
You can read like
a chapter a day
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00:39:30
and you can be
through it in a month.
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00:39:32
It's really powerful,
especially, especially
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00:39:35
if you're just starting
your faith journey
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00:39:37
or you're just starting
to dig into scripture.
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00:39:39
It is a really helpful framework
for life written by Solomon,
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00:39:42
who lays this thing out.
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00:39:44
In all of Proverbs,
you're going to see
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00:39:46
kind of two things contrasted.
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00:39:47
You're going to see wisdom and
you're going to see foolishness.
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00:39:52
And the reason why he
does that is because there are
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00:39:55
really only two outcomes
when it comes to living wisely.
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00:39:59
You're either
wise, or you ain't.
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00:40:02
You're either a person
who walks wisely
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00:40:04
or a person who
walks like a fool.
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00:40:06
There's not like a
neutral in-between of that.
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00:40:09
Proverbs 3:35 says this:
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00:40:17
All throughout Proverbs, there's
different sort of synonyms
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00:40:20
that go hand in hand
with wise and foolish.
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00:40:22
Let me read some of them
that are described as wise.
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00:40:25
So the wise person
is described as
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00:40:27
prudent, diligent,
discerning, upright.
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00:40:32
The fool, on the other
hand, described as
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00:40:35
scoffer, drunkard, simple
-- Dang -- mocker, right?
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00:40:41
Like, stuff that we don't want
to be described as. Right?
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00:40:43
There's only two options here.
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00:40:45
There's not a middle ground.
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00:40:47
The wise follow wisdom,
and fools follow folly.
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00:40:52
And you and I, we get
to pick which one we are.
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00:40:55
We get to pick
which one we follow.
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00:40:59
And as I was talking through,
we were talking through this
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00:41:01
as a team, as a teachers team,
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00:41:03
to kind of, like, so what
do we want to lay out?
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00:41:05
We want to lay out like
where wisdom comes from,
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00:41:07
the wisest person with the
Proverbs and all of the wisdom
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00:41:10
that come from
and that sort of thing.
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00:41:11
And we also wanted
to lay out, like,
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00:41:13
are there multiple
kinds of wisdom?
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00:41:15
Are there, like, different
kinds of wisdom?
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00:41:17
And it really came
down to this, okay,
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00:41:18
there are, there are
two kinds of wisdom.
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00:41:21
It's God's wisdom as
found in the Scriptures,
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00:41:25
and then there's
everything else.
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00:41:27
And so a way to find
out if it's wisdom or not:
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00:41:29
Does it line up with the Bible?
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00:41:32
Does it line up with
what is in the Scripture?
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00:41:35
And the idea of this
isn't confined to just, like,
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00:41:38
the Wisdom
Literature in Proverbs.
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00:41:39
You see this sort of
throughout the Bible.
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00:41:41
And the apostle Paul, who we
talked about a few weeks ago,
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00:41:43
he writes this in
Colossians 2. He says:
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00:41:57
You see, there's like
this thing that looks wise,
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00:42:00
it looks like wisdom
and it sounds cool,
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00:42:02
but it's not actually
godly wisdom.
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00:42:04
We have a lot of phrases like
that in our world, don't we?
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00:42:07
We have phrases like
make a name for yourself.
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00:42:09
I work with a lot
of young people,
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00:42:11
a lot of like young
professionals, a
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00:42:13
nd the big lie that
they all walk in,
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00:42:15
"I got to be the smartest
person in the room.
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00:42:17
I got to know all the answers.
I got to get it all done."
-
00:42:19
Like, hey, relax there,
wild one. It's cool.
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00:42:24
Here's another one,
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00:42:25
here's another one
that is pretty popular:
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00:42:27
Pull yourself up
by your bootstraps.
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00:42:29
You guys know that one?
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00:42:31
You never actually seen anyone
do that physically in life.
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00:42:33
But the idea of, like, you've
got to do it on your own.
-
00:42:35
That sounds like
wisdom on the surface,
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00:42:38
but really it's just
the principle of men.
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00:42:40
Here's another one:
Your faith is private.
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00:42:45
That's a big one, right?
Especially today, right?
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00:42:48
Like you believe
what you believe.
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00:42:50
I believe what I believe.
We won't talk about it.
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00:42:52
And I'll try to
keep my grass cut
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00:42:54
so that we don't have
neighborhood arguments.
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00:42:57
That's not in the Scriptures.
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00:42:59
Be true to yourself, that's
a big one, especially today
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00:43:02
in an individual society, right?
-
00:43:06
Everyone's an individual,
and everybody, be true to you.
-
00:43:08
I heard somebody say
recently, choose you.
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00:43:10
Like, that's not
in the Scriptures.
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00:43:12
That's not godly wisdom,
but it sounds cool.
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00:43:15
You see the need for
wanting to -- to need to unpack
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00:43:18
who God says we are and
what God says about wisdom,
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00:43:21
as opposed to just
kind of following along
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00:43:23
with the folly of the
world, folly of culture?
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00:43:26
So what is godly
wisdom have to offer?
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00:43:28
What are the benefits?
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00:43:29
Well, we've read them earlier,
but there's one in there
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00:43:31
that I think gets
looked over a lot.
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00:43:34
So I want to read the Proverbs
3 verse that we read earlier.
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00:43:38
Let's read it again.
The first part of it.
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00:43:46
Happy, that sounds
nice, doesn't it?
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00:43:50
I'd like -- anybody
like to be happy?
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00:43:52
Yeah. Sometimes
in church, you're like,
-
00:43:54
"Am I allowed to be happy?"
-
00:43:55
Yes. It clearly says it here:
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00:43:57
Happy is you if you
find wisdom, if you gain,
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00:44:00
you will have a product in
your life that will be happy.
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00:44:05
Too many times I know in
my past I believed that, like,
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00:44:08
if I gain godly wisdom,
then I got to be like a monk
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00:44:11
and I got to, like,
turn off all electronics
-
00:44:13
and go live in the caves
of Tibet and go, like,
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00:44:16
chill up there and do whatever
they do up there all day.
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00:44:19
I don't know.
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00:44:21
But no, no, no. God's
saying, look, a product of
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00:44:23
you finding wisdom
is that you're happy.
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00:44:27
So that means this, that
means if we pursue wisdom,
-
00:44:30
the result is happiness.
-
00:44:33
Too many of us
switch those, don't we?
-
00:44:35
We pursue happiness
and hopes to get wise.
-
00:44:40
God saying, No, I'm going to
lay this out for you in order.
-
00:44:43
I'm going to lay
this out to you
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00:44:45
in order that you
should pursue it.
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00:44:47
Proverbs 4:7:
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00:44:57
I'll see you guys next week.
This has been fun. [laughter]
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00:45:01
It's really clear.
-
00:45:03
It's really clear in Scripture
that wisdom is the thing.
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00:45:05
Like it is the thing,
-
00:45:07
that's why we've
dedicated seven weeks to it.
-
00:45:08
That's why we've
got to uncover it.
-
00:45:10
That's why we've
got to beat back
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00:45:12
all the lies and
the noise around it.
-
00:45:13
It's because it is the thing.
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00:45:17
Now finding godly wisdom,
I wish there was a magic pill.
-
00:45:21
I wish there was,
like, a DoorDash for it.
-
00:45:23
Which you can get anything
on DoorDash, by the way.
-
00:45:25
I don't know if you know
that, literally anything.
-
00:45:27
Name a product, we
will buy it on DoorDash.
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00:45:29
It'll be here by the
middle of next service.
-
00:45:32
I was at a wedding
recently in Florida,
-
00:45:34
and my friend had a teenage
son that something happened
-
00:45:39
with plumbing at the
home. He needed a plunger.
-
00:45:41
So at the wedding, we
just ordered him a plunger
-
00:45:43
from four states away, and
it showed up in 30 minutes.
-
00:45:46
It was fantastic.
-
00:45:47
Like, we live in a really
sweet time in history
-
00:45:49
where you can just do that,
-
00:45:50
and you could pick up like
chicken wings on the way.
-
00:45:52
So someone would give you
a plunger and chicken wings
-
00:45:54
and Pepto all in the
same -- [laughter]
-
00:45:58
It's an amazing thing and
it doesn't take a lot of effort.
-
00:46:02
Godly wisdom is not like
that. You've got to seek it.
-
00:46:04
You got to work. You
got to work towards it.
-
00:46:06
It's not a mistake that we just
came out of the Book of Acts,
-
00:46:10
all about movement, all about
the acts of the early church
-
00:46:13
and the acts of the Holy Spirit.
-
00:46:15
It's not by accident that we
did that and then wisdom,
-
00:46:18
because if you want wisdom,
it's going to require action.
-
00:46:21
It's going to require movement.
-
00:46:23
And you've got a
seek it from God.
-
00:46:25
Let's read Proverbs 1:4-6.
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00:46:39
If you seek her as silver.
Who's her? Her is wisdom.
-
00:46:42
Solomon had this really
interesting personification
-
00:46:46
of wisdom where he describes
wisdom as a righteous woman,
-
00:46:49
and he describes foolishness
as like an immoral woman.
-
00:46:54
And he says, "Listen, if you
seek her, if you seek wisdom
-
00:46:57
as you search for
hidden treasures,
-
00:46:59
then you will understand God.
-
00:47:01
You will understand wisdom."
-
00:47:06
I wonder how many of us
are seeking wisdom like that.
-
00:47:10
I wonder how many of us in our
in our everyday lives are like,
-
00:47:13
Man, I just want to be wise and
show up wise in this situation
-
00:47:16
or I want to have godly wisdom
here in my life right now,
-
00:47:19
at my job, at home, or wherever,
-
00:47:22
or when so and so
cuts us off in traffic,
-
00:47:23
which oh, Lord, if
that happens again.
-
00:47:28
Are we seeking wisdom like that?
-
00:47:29
Or are we like,
Nah, we got it all.
-
00:47:30
It's cool.
I got it figured it out.
-
00:47:32
I know a little bit of
this, a little bit of that.
-
00:47:34
I got my Bible verses.
-
00:47:35
I show up to church within
five minutes of it starting.
-
00:47:37
No one knows. It's fine.
-
00:47:40
Or are we seeking wisdom?
-
00:47:41
You see, because people who
are wise, they keep seeking.
-
00:47:47
The Christmas story,
-
00:47:48
not the movie with
the kid with the thing,
-
00:47:50
but the the actual Christmas
story in the Nativity scene
-
00:47:54
features three wise men.
-
00:47:57
And the origins of those
wise men are Jesus was born
-
00:48:00
and they are off doing
their thing in a faraway land.
-
00:48:03
And they see a star and they go,
"Something's happening there."
-
00:48:06
And they start to pursue
that and they risk their life,
-
00:48:10
they risk a lot to get
there. You know why?
-
00:48:14
Because they were never
satisfied with what they had.
-
00:48:16
They always knew that
God had more for them.
-
00:48:19
And when it comes to
wisdom, if you're satisfied
-
00:48:21
with where you are,
you will not grow.
-
00:48:23
You've got to seek.
-
00:48:24
You've got to get up
and actually seek wisdom.
-
00:48:28
And God wants to give it to you.
-
00:48:30
He's not hiding from you.
-
00:48:32
He's not hiding wisdom from you.
-
00:48:37
They understood, the
wise men understood that
-
00:48:40
they had wisdom that
God had given them,
-
00:48:42
but they needed more.
-
00:48:45
They weren't just
wise in their own eyes.
-
00:48:47
They wanted to be
wise in a godly way.
-
00:48:49
Proverbs 3:7:
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00:48:53
People who are wise in
their own eyes, they're like,
-
00:48:55
"Yeah, okay, cool.
-
00:48:57
Like, I'll just kind of
hear this stupid thing
-
00:48:59
and then continue
on with my life."
-
00:49:00
People who want to seek wisdom
are growing, are taking steps,
-
00:49:04
are stumbling towards it
even when it's uncomfortable.
-
00:49:06
That's what God has for you.
-
00:49:08
That's what God has for
me as His followers, wisdom.
-
00:49:11
God wants you and
I to grow in wisdom,
-
00:49:13
and there is a biblical
framework on how to get there.
-
00:49:16
And this is the part that
I'm really excited to unpack
-
00:49:19
with all of our teachers over
the next couple of weeks.
-
00:49:21
There are like, it's like
a three part approach
-
00:49:24
to how do you get wisdom?
-
00:49:26
And it starts in
Proverbs 1:6, it says this:
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Oftentimes in our
world, we sort of, like,
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put wisdom, knowledge,
understanding
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sort of on the same playing
field, but they're different.
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They're similar words,
but they're very distinct
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and they're distinct
on purpose in the Bible.
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In Proverbs 9, it says it again.
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It's all throughout Proverbs,
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knowledge,
understanding, wisdom.
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And there's an important
breakdown that we need to have
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as we explore the next
couple of weeks together
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on what wisdom looks like
in whatever area of your life.
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Step one, right, the first
part of understanding
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what godly wisdom is and getting
to godly wisdom is knowledge.
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Knowledge. Those are the facts.
Those are the facts. Okay?
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Knowledge is sort of a commodity
in our world right now.
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It's not like super treasured
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because we have it at
our fingertips. You know?
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You can get AI to
basically write you anything.
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Have you ever used
AI to write you an email?
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Fantastic life hack.
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Also, it just gives you
knowledge. That's it.
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It doesn't give you anything
else. It just gives you facts.
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It spits those back
out and that's all it has.
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It can't be the
end result for us
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if it's the beginning
result in godly wisdom.
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You see, we're often looking
for knowledge and that's it.
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And if you turn on the
Internet, you're often seeing
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people throwing
facts back and forth.
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A lot of the problems
we have with each other
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is because your facts
don't line up with my facts
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and his facts and so
everybody's got these facts
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that they're just tossing
around randomly,
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and we're never
getting the knowledge.
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Let me read you what it
says here in Proverbs 1:7.
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The word fear shows up a
lot as you're reading Proverbs
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and the Wisdom
Literature, fear of the Lord.
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It's important we know
what that word means. Okay.
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Fear of the Lord here translated
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doesn't mean like
scary movie fear, right?
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It doesn't mean like Michael
Myers or Freddy Krueger
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or whatever the little
doll thing that runs around,
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which is a weird concept of
a movie, by the way. Right?
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That little doll,
kick it, movie's over.
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But it's not that kind of fear.
It's not horror movie fear.
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The fear of the Lord here
is describing reverence.
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It's basically taking
God seriously.
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So translated another way:
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taking God seriously is
the beginning of knowledge.
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So you don't get to
knowledge of God
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without taking Him seriously.
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What does that mean for you?
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That means digging
into His Word.
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That means being around other
people who are following Him.
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Getting knowledge about
God is taking Him seriously.
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And that is step one. That
is step one in godly wisdom.
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It's foundational that we seek
knowledge and continue to seek,
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but then that can't end there.
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We have to go to the
second word: understanding.
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Understanding is basically like
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the connections
between the facts.
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So there are facts that sort
of live sort of in outer space,
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but someone has to
connect them all to see, like,
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to understand what
the bigger picture is.
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You've got to see the facts.
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You got to understand the facts.
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You got to put the
connection between them.
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I saw this ad on social media.
It's a shoe advertisement.
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I want to show you it
real quick. There it is.
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It's a advertisement for shoes.
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And here's their tagline: The
closest to barefoot you can get.
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I don't know everything
about everything,
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but the facts
that I know is like,
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there are shoes.
People need shoes.
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I thought people needed shoes
so that they weren't barefoot.
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I was like, is this
company hot in Kentucky?
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Like, what's happening
they want to be barefoot?
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What's going on? [laughter]
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I love Kentucky and
the people down there.
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It was weird. It's like,
I don't understand.
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Why would you market shoes
that make you feel barefoot?
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It's like going to a restaurant.
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No restaurant has ever
been like, "You hungry?
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Good. Come eat with us.
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The closest to
hungry you'll ever feel."
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That doesn't make any sense.
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But then we went to go
buy a pair of these shoes
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and they were sold out.
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Turns out there's a market
for people who enjoy the feeling
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of being barefoot
but also want to shoe.
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Not my people, but there
are people like that, right?
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See, I had to put
the facts together
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to be able to understand.
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And my understanding
was limited.
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My understanding of
the situation was limited.
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That's why I need
understanding outside of myself.
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And in the same way, if you
are going to have understanding
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about the knowledge of God,
about the facts about God,
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you have got to have people
helping you along the way.
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And more importantly,
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you've got to have
God's voice in that as well.
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There's a call to gain
godly understanding,
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and also a call to not lean
on our own understanding.
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Here's what it says
in Proverbs 3:5-6:
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Trust in the Lord
with all your heart,
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and lean not on your
own understanding.
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Starting with knowledge,
getting the facts,
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leaning on understanding
to put them all together.
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And then we get to wisdom.
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And wisdom is simply acting on
what you know and understand.
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That's it. That's the magic.
There's no magic pill to it.
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It says acting on what you
know and what you understand.
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The most important
thing about biblical wisdom
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is that it is an action.
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Jesus calls this out in a
really great way in Matthew 7
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in one of his most famous
sermons, He says this:
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Whoever hears these
sayings of Mine and does them,
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that person is wise.
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Now, when we think
about this framework,
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we're going to be unpacking it
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in different spheres
of life every week.
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I've got an example for you that
I think is going to hit home.
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I think it makes sense. I
think it's a real world example.
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I'm going to share it with you.
Okay. It comes from my life.
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I grew up in South
Florida. Okay.
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My family migrated here
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from Trinidad and
Tobago when I was a kid.
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They came, I grew
up in South Florida.
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I moved to Pittsburgh
for a few years.
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Now Pittsburgh, they
got a football team there.
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Here we go. Here we go.
"We don't have a mascot."
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The Steelers are a good team.
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They're a historically
great team.
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They got six rings over there,
like, it's a thing, you know?
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Their record 68 and
39 versus Cincinnati.
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Like they've been
dominating. Those are the facts.
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Those are the facts.
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Understanding would lead
me to say, "Well, Pittsburgh's
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just a historically better
franchise than Cincinnati."
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But wisdom would
tell me -- [laughter]
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that we got a pretty
solid team this year.
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You know what I'm saying?
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We got a quarterback
that can do his thing.
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We got some support there.
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We got a little thing happening.
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So wisdom might tell me
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the Steelers ain't
got it this year, boys.
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So wisdom would tell me
to put all of that together
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and as we walk that out, I'm
praying for a Super Bowl win.
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I don't know if you're allowed
to pray for a Super Bowl win,
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but I'll give it a try.
Aggressive mistakes. No.
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Wisdom is looking
at the knowledge,
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but looking at the facts,
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putting them together
and acting it out.
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When I was in Pittsburgh,
I had a job that had me
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traveling the country
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doing different ministry
events for young people.
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We would do 3
or 4 events a week
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in different cities
along the way.
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So we were always on the go.
We were always moving, right.
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And it was a great run.
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And I had a great time doing it.
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I met a lot of awesome people.
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I met my wife doing that.
It was it was fantastic.
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And I had this, I
had these facts
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that that window
was closing for me.
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Like, I was getting
a little bit older.
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I felt like I needed to kind
of plant some roots, right?
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Because I wanted
to raise a family.
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I wanted to have
a family one day.
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So the facts told me like, hey,
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if you want to
raise a family well,
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you should probably
plant them in a certain area
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and, like, let them
develop and grow there.
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Those were the facts.
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So my understanding as I tried
to tie these facts together
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was one of the facts was
there was an opportunity
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in Cincinnati to come serve.
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And there was a place
called Crossroads.
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This was ten years ago, by the
way, a long time ago it feels.
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Ten years ago and it felt
like it was the right place.
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It felt like this was the
place too that that, like,
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lined up with what my
wife and I were about.
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And it was, like, a place
we could call home.
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It was also my
understanding that
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we didn't know anything
really about Cincinnati,
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like, we knew
Cincinnati as that city
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that had the really sweet view
when you came in from the north.
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And we knew
Cincinnati was that city
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where I-75 was under
construction a lot.
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Remember we thought to
ourselves, "It'll be over soon.
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You can't have construction
forever." [laughter]
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Didn't tie it together. Right?
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And so we moved here
and so we moved here.
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We took that knowledge and
we took that understanding
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and we put it to
practice and we moved.
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Now today, ten
years later, I recognize
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that was us activating
godly wisdom because
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we had knowledge that
this is what we needed to do.
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We had understanding that
this was an opportunity to do it
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and that the dots
started to line up.
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And so we started
walking it out.
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Now, has it been all
roses? No, absolutely not.
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There's something
powerful about having to stay
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in a community even though
things don't always go your way.
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There's something
powerful and growing
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about having to stay in it, and
not look for the eject button.
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See, when I was traveling,
I was out in two days.
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So whether or not it
went well or not, I was like,
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Deuces, I'm going
to the next one.
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It was easy, but now I'm
a part of the community.
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I'm a part of a church.
I'm a part of a body.
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I'm part of a movement.
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And we're planted here and we're
seeing that wisdom activate.
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We're seeing the wisdom
of God show up in our lives
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in new ways that we
didn't even expect.
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We have deep friendships now.
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It took a while to get there,
but we kept going after it.
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We have people that we can call
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if there's a crisis
now in our lives.
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It took a little while
to get there, but man,
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I'm telling you it works.
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When you take your knowledge,
take your understanding
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and put it into practice,
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God shows up and
you get godly wisdom.
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I'm a better leader, father,
and all of those things
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because of this place,
because we stepped into
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what God had for us here.
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And God wants the
same thing for you.
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God wants the
same thing for you.
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He wants you to
activate that knowledge,
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activate that understanding, and
start to actually walk it out
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before you have all
the details figured out,
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before you know the exact
answers to all the questions
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He wants you to get up and move.
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You grow in wisdom by doing it.
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It's like you grow in
fatherhood by doing it.
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That's how you
grow in godly wisdom,
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and that's the way
God has set it up
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and that's what
He wants for you.
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You will have to act on
incomplete knowledge
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and understanding.
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You will have to move on that.
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Here's what 1
Corinthians 1 says:
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You see that there?
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Do you see it there
tucked away in the verse?
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In Christ Jesus, who has
become for us wisdom.
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See, when you allow
Jesus to come into your life,
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He gives you power, He
gives you access to Himself,
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He gives you a model for life,
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and He gives you Himself
as a source of wisdom.
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So where are you in
life? Where is your thing?
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Like, where is it that
you need wisdom?
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What aspect of your life
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do you want the wisdom
of God to show up
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and not be like anything else,
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but be more powerful
and more potent?
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As we start to
wrap this thing up,
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I want you to think about
your life for a second.
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But I want to do something
different to end our time here.
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Everybody, stand up real
quick. Just stand up with me.
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Stay where you. Stand up.
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Don't start packing
your stuff up yet.
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Just stand up for a second.
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And I want you to
think about your life.
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Another portion of
scripture, Jesus says,
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I am the Way, the
Truth and the Life.
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There is a way to godly wisdom
and it goes through Jesus.
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Last verse I want to share with
you today is from James 1:5:
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You lacking wisdom
today? Ask God.
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You need more wisdom in a
certain situation in your life?
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Ask God, who gives generously
to all without reproach.
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That means God has
wisdom He's ready to give you,
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all you've got to do is take
the step and actually ask Him.
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He's got something for you
that's more than you could ask
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or imagine, that will be the
thing that needs to happen
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in the situation that you're
in, and He is waiting for you
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to ask Him, and He's
going to give it to you freely.
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He's given us His Son freely.
He's given us Jesus freely.
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And He's given us all
that comes with that.
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You want to be a
better dad? Ask him.
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You want to be a
better spouse? Ask him.
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You want to be a better
teacher, a better student,
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a better roommate, a better
person in your neighborhood?
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Ask him. He has it for
you. He's good like that.
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He's good to us.
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So maybe your first big step
as we get into the wisdom thing
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is simply asking Him.
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Where do you need wisdom
today? Where do you need it?
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I'm going to say
a prayer for us.
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And while I'm praying,
I want you to be praying
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and just saying, "God,
I need Your wisdom."
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Insert the blank wherever it is.
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Ask Him from your
heart right now.
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God, thank You for this time.
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Thank You for Your
wisdom and Your goodness.
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Thank You for the
way that You love us,
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the way that You lead us.
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God, thank you for the
knowledge of who You are.
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Thank You for understanding
how all of that ties together
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and is relevant to our lives.
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And God, we're
asking for wisdom.
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We're asking for wisdom in
our home, wisdom at our job,
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wisdom wherever it might be.
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We need You, Lord. We
need You, God, to show up.
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We're asking You, God,
please give us wisdom.
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We know You want
to give it to us, God,
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so we thank you in advance.
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Now with your heads bowed
and your eyes closed real quick,
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just, hey, if you're
a dad in here,
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I just want you to
put your hand up
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really high for me real quick.
Just put your hand up.
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So if you're around
a dad or with a dad,
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just put your hand on
their shoulder just real quick
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or put your hand
out towards them
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if it's weird to touch them
or whatever, that's fine.
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I just want to pray a special
blessing over fathers today
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on Father's Day as
we get into wisdom.
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Being a father requires a lot
of wisdom and we all need it.
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So let me say a
prayer for you, dads.
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Father, thank You for
the way that You love us
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and the model that
You have given us
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so that we can
give to our children.
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And God, I pray for all
of the fathers in here.