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- Hey, everyone, and
welcome to Crossroads.
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We are so glad that you're here,
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whether it's your first time
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or your 1000th time joining us,
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we are so glad that you're here
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for week two of
Who Was Jesus Really?
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My name is Hannah
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and I produce experiences
here at Crossroads.
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- And I'm Kyle the
Community Pastor
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for Crossroads Church online.
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And that question,
Who Was Jesus Really?
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Is critical to ask because
the answer is wildly important.
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And also like they're very
different answers out there.
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Last week in this
series we talked about
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how Jesus kept all of the rules.
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This week we're talking about
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how Jesus also broke the rules.
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- And you know, what happens
when you break the rules, Kyle?
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- "Go to your room"
is what happens.
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- That's close, but
what else happens
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when you break the rules?
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- One time I broke the rules
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and I had to go to
the principal's office.
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- That's closer. That is closer.
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Our senior pastor,
Brian Tome, is actually
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going to tell us what happens
when you break the rules.
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So let's catch up
with him right now.
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- He probably knows, too, right?
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- He does
- I feel like he does, yeah.
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- There are rule keepers
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and there are rule breakers.
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I'm in place right now,
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which is where the
rule breakers go,
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specifically the capital
offense rule breakers go.
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I'm in solitary confinement
in the exact same place
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where Shawshank
Redemption was filmed.
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Andy Dufresne was right here.
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I am geeking out on
this big, big, big, big time.
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We're going to talk about
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how Jesus was a
rule breaker today.
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But there are,
all of us are either
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rule keeper or rule breaker.
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I'm not saying that there's --
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All of us who are going
to create capital offenses
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or I'm not saying
all of us are going
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to do five finger
discounts or all of us
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are going to take advantage
of somebody physically.
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I'm not saying that.
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I mean, those kind of rules that
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maybe don't matter so much.
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Like I'll just tell you
what those rules are like.
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That's like me. I'm a
rule -- I'm a rule breaker.
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Like, I've never
seen a sign that says
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"Wet Paint, don't touch"
and have not touched it.
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I've never walked by a lawn
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where there's a sign that
says, "Don't walk on the grass,"
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and not just taken one
foot and put it on the grass.
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I know, I've got problems,
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but then that's just kind of me.
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A few years ago I was on
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an adventure
motorcycle riding trip
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and it was actually in winter.
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It was in December.
It was through West Virginia
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and there was
snow that was down.
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And one of the things
that really irks me
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is when I'm in a public
land area, National Forest,
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and all these beautiful roads
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would be perfect for
off-road motorcycles
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are shut down and gated.
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They're there, they're created,
it just kind of bothers me.
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And I can tell you, and
no one's using them.
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No one's walking on them.
No one's riding a bike on them.
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In other words,
they're just not used.
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So I can't tell you
how many times
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I've actually gone
around a gate.
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One time I went
around it in West Virginia
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and it wasn't a good idea,
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not just because I
was breaking the law,
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but because snow
was on the ground
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and a ranger came by
and he saw a motorcycle
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or motorcycles
had gone around it.
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And he opened up the
gate and he came back
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and he gave us a ticket.
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And he was not
happy, justifiably so.
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He drove us back to
where our campsite was.
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And he'd cooled
down a little bit.
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And he wrote out this ticket
for me and gave it to me.
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I said, "Officer, is this is
this ticket good for all day?"
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And he said, "It's not a
pass, sir. It's not a pass."
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Please hear me, I shouldn't
have gone to run that gate.
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I don't think I've gone
around to gate since that time.
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I'm just trying to
say my proclivity is
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to kind of push on rules.
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And some people
just geek out on rules.
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They love rules. They
love enforcing rules.
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Some of you will
be shocked to hear
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that Jesus was
actually a rule breaker,
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the rules that were
in the religious culture
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in which he lived,
He broke those rules
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again and again and again.
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Either the people who
he touched who were sick
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or the people he hung out with
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who may have been
a woman in public
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or may have been somebody
who is a known sinner
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or some of the
things that he taught
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that went against the grain
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of what the established
religious order had done.
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Again and again and
again and again and again
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and again He actually
broke the rules.
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You and I have
got to see this idea,
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this element of Jesus
being a bit of a radical,
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being a bit of a rebel,
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being somebody who's
coloring outside the lines
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for us to fully
understand His life
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and understand the life
that you and I could have.
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Jesus broke the rules.
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Jesus broke the rules
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and He cared for rule breakers.
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Here's an interview
I did with Kim Elliott,
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the executive director
of the Four-Seven,
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an organization
that is committed
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to equipping the lives
of the incarcerated
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and their families with
tools and resources
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that lead to transformation.
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Kim, it's great to be with you.
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We've sent so many
volunteers through you
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and your ministry
called Four-Seven.
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Tell us about what you do.
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- Well, I am the executive
director of the Four-Seven.
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And what I get to
do is just run hard
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after those that are lost,
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after those that are broken,
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and with a group
of people that realize
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that none of us are
our worst mistake.
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And so therefore, what we
do is we go into the prisons
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or any other place
where Jesus would go.
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We're not taking
anything into the prison
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that we have to
be there to provide.
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But we know that
Jesus is already there,
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so we go there to meet Him.
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- Jesus talks a lot
about prisoners,
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setting the captives free.
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Have you done much thought
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as to why He does
that so frequently.
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- Well, I think
because all of us
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are imprisoned in some way.
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I truly do believe that if
we all look at our lives,
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there is something
that we're holding on to.
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So being imprisoned isn't
just your outer circumstances.
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We're imprisoned on the inside
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long before we actually
walk through any prison doors.
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So I believe that
when Jesus talks
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about setting the captive free,
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He's referring to that,
our internal brokenness,
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as well as the things
that we may have done
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that separate us
from our loved ones,
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separate us from one another,
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separate us from society even.
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- So, for everyone
who is in an institution
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like this where we go and serve,
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there's other
people on the outside
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who have been
hurt by the actions
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of somebody who's in prison.
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And sometimes those
folks can feel like,
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"Hey, we're not
talking enough about
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the real pain and
heartache that's happened
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as a result of these
people's choices."
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What would you say to them?
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- That pain is
real, first of all.
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As I said before,
we run hard after
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those who are in that situation,
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we also make it a
point to make sure
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that they understand,
"Hey, we get it,
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that right now is a time
for you to work on you."
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But we also want
them to realize that
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there are always going to be
consequences for the actions.
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You know, repentance
means turning
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and going the other
way, but it does not mean
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that we forget what
led us to what we did.
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And so for someone else,
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if they're still
struggling with that,
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they're still struggling
with the hurt,
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they're still struggling with
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the consequences
of what you did,
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you have to be compassionate
towards that as well.
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And realize that it
may take time for them
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to accept the fact that
you've made a change.
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They may never accept it.
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And that may be something that
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they have to give to God
and God has to help them
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to work through
forgiveness on that issue.
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- Yeah, the hurts and the pains
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and even the bitterness
is understandable
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and actually justifiable.
- Absolutely.
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- We just can't --
We can't dismiss that.
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Kim, we're just
so thankful for you,
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the work you do,
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the work of all the
volunteers at Crossroads
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that are building into
folks in institutions like this.
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So just on behalf of
for all of us, thank you.
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- Thank you for the opportunity.
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- Jesus was a
rebel, He broke rules.
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This should really
resonate with our culture
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because more than
ever we're breaking rules.
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No one wants to be a conformist,
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specifically, no one
wants to conform
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to somebody else's ideals
who we don't respect.
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Jesus challenged the
status quo in every way,
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and that meant breaking rules.
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He broke rules about
having women followers.
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He would talk to
women in public.
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He would shun politics
and talking about politics.
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He virtually never, ever, ever,
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ever talked about politics.
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He would make outrageous claims,
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miracles that people could
have if they follow Him,
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miracles and blessings
people could have
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who didn't deserve it.
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We can learn a lot about
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how to challenge the status quo
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by following the
footsteps of Jesus
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and unlocking that
little rule breaker
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that lives inside of all of us.
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Specifically and
especially as it relates
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to the rules of religion.
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Religion is really
about control,
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trying to tell you
how to live your life.
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This is the way
that you should pray.
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These are the kind of
people God doesn't like.
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This is how to
make God like you.
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It's all about what you
do and keeping the rules.
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Religion can be a form of power,
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and power makes the rules.
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The ultimate power,
not the ultimate power,
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but an awfully
powerful force in our life
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is the power of sin.
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It's this need to
rebel against God.
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It's this need to break
His commandments,
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things that we
shouldn't be breaking.
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But these -- this sin
that always is enticing
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on the front end always
ultimately leads to bondage.
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It's because there's a
bigger, more powerful force
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that is needed to
break those rules.
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And Jesus, in a weird
oxymoron kind of way,
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is that powerful force who
does break the rule of sin.
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But Himself, He also
breaks the small R rules.
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The Book of Matthew,
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which is a book in
the New Testament
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that's written
specifically and especially
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to Jewish religious people,
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we can see this again
and again and again.
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In Matthew 8:2 it says this:
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When somebody had a
disease that people could see
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by the rules of religion,
they should be shunned,
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they should be outcast.
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Jesus not only does
shot him, He touches him.
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In touching him, by the
religious laws of that day,
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he would be making himself
simultaneously unclean.
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There's certain
stories in the Bible
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that are told a
couple different ways
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from different perspectives.
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In the book of Mark,
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it talks about this
exact same story,
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but they add a little
interesting emotional twist
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in here I want to
make sure we see.
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Here's what it says. It says:
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Jesus is always the
smartest person in the room.
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And He knew that when
He was breaking the rule
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by touching and
blessing somebody
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that the religious
people were shunning,
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He knew they were judging Him.
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He knew they were
angry and He gets angry.
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"I can't believe that you people
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have these rules
that are so ridiculous."
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He's angry over the
condition of their heart
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and He breaks their rules
and He touches this guy
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and He blesses and heals him.
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These people who are religious,
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they didn't keep all the rules.
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You could look at their
life and you could see
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that there were
all kinds of rules
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that they were breaking
that God really cared about.
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The very God Himself
in flesh was right there
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and they were breaking
the rule of worship
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by not honoring the
one ultimate God.
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We all like to break rules
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and so many of us
love to make rules.
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I said earlier, there's rule
makers and rule keepers,
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rule followers and rule keepers.
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It's one of the things that's
been happening with the masks.
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I'm pro masks.
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I've worn a mask.
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I don't like it, but I have.
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But haven't we all
noticed that there's
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just some people who get
their jollies off on masks?
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It's their new way
to find a new rule.
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Some people are
not religious at all,
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but they're
incredibly rule driven.
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Rules on how you should
separate your recyclables,
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rules on how you
should wear your mask.
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And some of us just
really geek out on this.
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Sometimes, those
of us who feel like
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we're the most
enlightened following
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these various man-made
rules are often times
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those who are farthest
away from Jesus.
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And often times those
of us who are keeping
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all of our religious
rules inside church,
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going to Sunday
school, also are those
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who are furthest
away from Jesus.
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While Jesus broke rules,
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He also did understand certain
rules, relationship rules.
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He was a relational guru.
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He was friendly with
people who had broken rules
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and had sin in their life.
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Now, He's not friendly with sin.
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These -- all of these bars here,
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these cells contained people
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who had some
serious sin in their life.
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I was looking at
the placard of people
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who were in here for everything
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from breaking and
entering to cutting,
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I'm not sure what cutting was,
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bigamy, and all kinds of stuff.
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People were in here
for real, legitimate sin.
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Jesus is not friends at
all with the concept of sin,
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with the actions
of rebelliousness
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that hurt others and
get us away from God.
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But -- but the
person inside of here,
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the people inside of here,
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the people inside of
our church right now,
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the people inside of
our broadcast right now,
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He is incredibly friendly with.
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In fact, He broke the rules
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of having unscrupulous friends,
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people who had problems
and people who had issues.
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Perfect example is
one of his key followers.
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His name was Matthew
and he was not respected.
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He was not liked by anybody.
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Here's how the story goes
of Matthew 9:10 and following:
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Matthew is a tax collector.
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Now, most people
don't like tax collectors
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in today's modern
culture because
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it reminds us we owe the
government something.
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No one wants to owe
the government anything,
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but tax collectors are
a whole different deal
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way back when.
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They actually worked
on commission.
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So they would give
Rome what Rome wanted
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and they could keep
everything else themselves,
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or at least Rome didn't care.
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And these tax collectors
were Jews who understood
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all the different economic
veins of their system
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and understood what
what Harry did for a living
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over here and how much
he was likely making,
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and this person over here.
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And they use that
to extort money
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out of their fellow countrymen
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who they supposedly
shared the religion with,
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but they didn't.
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And they were utterly hated.
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And when Jesus invites
Matthew into relation with Him,
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they're thinking,
"No, you should be
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inviting him into a cell,
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that's what you should do,
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00:16:40
you should be inviting
him to be locked away."
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00:16:42
But He actually says, "I
want you to follow Me."
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00:16:45
And He goes and He
has a party at his house.
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Gosh, that's unbelievable.
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That is -- that is really
invigorating for me
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to think about, that
no matter what you do,
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Jesus wants to have
relationship with you.
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00:16:59
Let me say that again.
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No matter what you do,
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00:17:02
no matter what you have done,
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00:17:04
no matter what you will do,
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whether you're in one of these
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or you should be
in one of these,
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00:17:09
Jesus wants to have
a friendship with you.
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00:17:13
In 2020 I had two friends
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who had been indicted
on felony charges,
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both of them make the papers,
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and both of them maintain
their innocence, by the way.
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One is convicted,
one's awaiting trial.
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And I get emails like,
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"How can you be
such and such's friend?
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00:17:31
How can you -- how can you?"
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00:17:33
And I just go, "Hey, if
Jesus is a friend of sinners,
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as He said He was and as He was,
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I'm a friend of sinners."
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00:17:41
Jesus didn't justify the
sin in His friend's life.
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I'm not going to justify the sin
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or at least the alleged
sin in my friend's life.
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00:17:48
I'm not going to give testimony
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00:17:50
and try to convince
people that they're innocent.
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00:17:54
But no matter what you do,
I'm going to be your friend.
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00:17:58
I want to walk with you
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and Jesus wanted
to walk with us.
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00:18:02
There's so many things we
don't understand about Jesus.
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00:18:05
Maybe it's the
rule breaker piece
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or also the humor of Jesus,
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00:18:09
or specifically the
sarcastic humor of Jesus.
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00:18:13
When we read this,
you've got to see
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Jesus as sarcastic or it
doesn't make any sense.
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00:18:19
When He says, "I've
not come for the healthy,
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00:18:23
but for the sick."
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00:18:25
When He says that, when He says,
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00:18:27
"I've not come
for the righteous,
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00:18:28
but I've come for
the unrighteous,"
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00:18:31
He's not saying that there's
anybody who's righteous.
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Because the Bible's very
clear, none is righteous.
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00:18:36
No, not even one.
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00:18:38
He's not saying that
there's some of us
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who are naturally
spiritually healthy.
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00:18:42
Nobody is naturally
spiritually healthy.
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00:18:46
He's sarcastically
saying, "Well, if you think
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00:18:49
that you're healthy, then I
guess you don't need me.
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00:18:52
Well, if you're one of
those righteous people
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00:18:54
who never sins and
does everything right,
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00:18:56
Well, then you
don't need my help."
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00:18:59
It's complete sarcasm.
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00:19:02
He says, "I'm here for people
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00:19:04
who recognize
they have problems,
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00:19:06
who recognize
they've broken rules,
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00:19:08
big, important rules.
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00:19:10
And I want to be your friend."
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00:19:13
Everyone in here,
everyone in these cells
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00:19:16
had broken rules
and every one of them
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00:19:19
probably had a line of
friendships that were lost.
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00:19:23
And Jesus doesn't
abandon us when we broke
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00:19:26
a rule that we
shouldn't have broken.
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00:19:29
This is who He is
and you would think,
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00:19:31
wait a minute, God's this way?
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00:19:33
Well, shouldn't God
be just shunning us
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00:19:34
and throwing us in hell?"
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00:19:36
There's a place for hell
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00:19:38
and there is a
place called hell.
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00:19:39
But that's not where
we are right now
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00:19:41
and that's not what Jesus
wants with you right now.
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00:19:43
He wants a
relationship with you.
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00:19:47
I've got a friend of mine
who leads a search firm
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00:19:51
to help churches
fill pastor positions.
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00:19:55
And so when he recommends
somebody to a church
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00:19:58
saying, "This should be
your new senior pastor,"
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00:20:00
he's really putting
his neck out on the line
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00:20:02
because he doesn't want
a dead body to turn up
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00:20:05
and all of a sudden
they've got to fire this pastor
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00:20:07
and he and his firm look
like they've done an awful job.
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00:20:10
So in the process
he's interviewing
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00:20:12
this final candidate,
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00:20:14
he'll say, "Now look, is
there any moral failure
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00:20:18
in your life I need to be
aware of, any moral failure?"
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00:20:21
He doesn't want to find that
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00:20:23
there's been an adultery
that no one knew about
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00:20:25
and all of a sudden the church
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00:20:26
is thrown up in a tizzy over it.
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00:20:28
One person he said,
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00:20:29
"Hey, is there any moral
failure I need to know about?"
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00:20:32
This guy paused and he went,
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00:20:33
"My whole life is
a moral failure."
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00:20:40
And he's like, "Oh, yeah,
I guess that's the gospel,
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00:20:44
that we are moral failures,
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00:20:47
that we are unrighteous,
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00:20:49
that we are sick
and we need Jesus."
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00:20:53
If your life is in
the moral failure,
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00:20:56
then you don't need Jesus.
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00:20:57
He didn't come for you.
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00:20:58
Yes, my life was a
total moral failure.
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00:21:00
I do things. I'm
embarrassed about,
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00:21:02
I've done things
I'm embarrassed by.
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00:21:03
I say things that
I shouldn't say.
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00:21:05
I do all kinds of things
that I shouldn't do.
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00:21:09
And I never have to worry about
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00:21:11
Jesus abandoning
me as a result of it.
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00:21:14
He breaks that
rule of quid pro quo
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00:21:16
of if you don't like me
then I don't like you.
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00:21:19
He breaks that rule.
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00:21:21
I need Jesus death on the Cross.
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00:21:23
I need His friendship.
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00:21:25
I need Him to break rules.
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00:21:26
And He has for me and
He will for you as well.
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00:21:30
I am so loving being
in this environment.
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00:21:32
It's one of my
greatest sets to film on
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00:21:35
that I've ever been on.
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00:21:37
I'm absolutely
going to leave here
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00:21:40
and go home and watch
Shawshank Redemption for,
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00:21:43
I don't know, the
umpteenth time.
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00:21:44
I think one of the things that
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00:21:48
inspires me so much
about that movie
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00:21:50
is how we're seeing
an element of people
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00:21:53
that's beautiful when
you're not expecting it.
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00:21:55
You're expecting
all these convicts
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00:21:58
to just be awful
people and you find,
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00:22:00
no, they're people created
in the image of God.
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00:22:03
And there's these little
snippets of humanity,
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00:22:06
I would say snippets of Jesus
where people get humanized.
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00:22:09
Jesus would humanize people.
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00:22:11
I love that scene.
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00:22:12
I actually asked if we
actually get on the roof,
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00:22:15
the roof when Andy and
others are re-tarring the roof
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00:22:19
and they're working.
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00:22:21
And then there's that moment
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00:22:23
where the guards and them
are fellow human beings,
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00:22:27
where the guards
give them a beer
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00:22:30
and they drank a beer,
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00:22:31
just like a bunch of dudes
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00:22:32
that are sitting
there hanging out.
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00:22:34
It's like there they're
breaking the rules.
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00:22:37
Guards aren't supposed to
be fraternizing with prisoners.
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00:22:40
Prisoners aren't supposed
to be having beer.
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00:22:42
And yet it's in the breaking
of that rule, the rules,
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00:22:45
there's this beautiful
moment of grace,
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00:22:48
of connection that I
think is astounding.
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00:22:51
And I think we have more grace
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00:22:54
and we have more
connection with one another
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00:22:56
if we break more rules.
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00:22:58
Seriously, it's okay
to break some rules.
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00:23:01
Let's break some rules
if it brings harmony,
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00:23:04
if brings oneness,
if it brings joy,
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00:23:07
if it brings levity.
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00:23:09
That's the kind of things
that Jesus broke all the time.
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00:23:14
So where in your life
do you need Jesus
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00:23:15
to break chains,
to set you free?
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00:23:18
Someone had to
set these people free.
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00:23:22
All of us are in some sort
of prison of our own making.
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00:23:26
Do you understand
that Jesus not only
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00:23:28
comes to visit you
as a friend in prison,
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00:23:32
but He comes to open up
the door and set you free.
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00:23:36
He wants to set you free from
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00:23:38
the rules of culture
that wipe you out.
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00:23:41
He wants to set you
free from expectations
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00:23:43
of religion that
you cannot uphold,
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00:23:46
and probably many
of them you shouldn't.
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00:23:47
He wants to set you
free from your past.
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00:23:50
He wants to set you free from
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00:23:52
the oppressive expectations
that culture puts on us.
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00:23:55
He wants to set us free.
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00:23:58
In every poll that I see
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00:24:00
shows that fewer and
fewer of us believe in God,
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00:24:03
fewer and fewer of us actually
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00:24:06
are reading the Bible
and believing the Bible.
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00:24:08
And maybe that's why more
and more of us are frustrated,
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00:24:13
more and more of us are unhappy,
-
00:24:16
more and more of
us are depressed,
-
00:24:17
more and more of
us are anxiety ridden,
-
00:24:20
more and more of us are drawn
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00:24:22
to some sort of
suicidal tendency,
-
00:24:24
more and more of us are drifting
into some mental illness
-
00:24:28
because we are being crushed by
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00:24:30
what our culture
is putting on to us
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00:24:32
and we're refusing
to turn and look to
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00:24:35
the one who comes
and visits those of us
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00:24:38
who are in prison
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00:24:39
and those of us who recognize
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00:24:41
that we are naturally in prison.
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00:24:43
I am naturally in
prison and so are you.
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00:24:45
And the good news
is there is a God
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00:24:48
who has broken rules for you
to come and break you free.
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00:24:52
Let me pray for you right now.
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00:24:53
God, I thank You for
the clarity You give us
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00:24:56
that You don't live
by anybody's standard
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00:24:59
except Your own
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00:25:00
and that Your standards
and Your ways work.
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00:25:03
Lord, thank You for
breaking rules for me
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00:25:05
and You for breaking
me out of my prison.
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00:25:08
I pray right now for some of us
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00:25:10
who want to receive
You right now.
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00:25:11
We say, "Jesus, I
want to receive You.
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00:25:15
I want to be busted
out of my prison.
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00:25:18
I ask Your forgiveness.
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00:25:20
I ask you to fill
me with Your Spirit.
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00:25:23
As best as I can,
I will walk free
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00:25:25
and I will live the way
that You want me to live
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00:25:28
and nobody else, Amen.
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00:31:23
- Jesus is the chain breaker.
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00:31:25
I don't know where you
feel trapped in your life,
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00:31:27
where you feel
stuck, but He came
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00:31:29
and He broke the rules
so that you could be free.
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00:31:32
We would love to help you
experience that freedom.
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00:31:34
We're here to be your
church, which means
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00:31:36
take care of you
however you need help.
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00:31:39
If talking to somebody who
would help you right now,
-
00:31:41
you can chat into our
website, crossroads.net.
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00:31:43
Just click the chat button,
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00:31:44
a real live person will
be there and talk to you.
-
00:31:47
Or you can email me
kyle.ranson@Crossroads.net.
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00:31:50
I'd love the chance
to help connect you
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00:31:53
to the resources that
you need to experience
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00:31:54
the freedom that
Jesus has for you.
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00:31:56
- And that freedom that
Jesus has, it compels us
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00:32:00
and it compels us to worship,
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00:32:01
to gratitude, and even giving.
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00:32:04
If you want to participate
in giving right now,
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00:32:06
you can go to
Crossroads.net/give.
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00:32:09
- Oh! - Whoa.
- Hey, football.
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00:32:11
- What is that about?
- Foosball.
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00:32:13
- Oh, my goodness.
Well, you know what?
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00:32:15
It sounds like you're
going to have to
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00:32:16
come back next week to find out
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00:32:18
what this football
thing is all about.
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00:32:20
We'll see you next time.