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- 2024 was more than just
another year in the books,
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it was a year of
explosive growth,
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both physically and spiritually.
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So before we hit
the ground running
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for an even bigger 2025,
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let's turn back the
calendar and see
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how God moved
around here in 2024.
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We Go. It's a part of our DNA
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to go out into the
world and make change.
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982 people traveled
across the globe
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to places like Nicaragua, Nepal,
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South Africa and Alabama.
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We traveled a total
of 238,776 miles.
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That's enough to fly
around the world 9.5 times.
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We know if you want to grow,
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you need to get out
of your comfort zone.
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That's why our camp
experiences are continuing
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to expand with
nine different camps
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and getaways
throughout the year,
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we saw 7,529 people get
to experience community
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and freedom that
our camps provide.
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There was record breaking
heat at Woman Camp,
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with 1672 campers and
heat as high as 94 degrees.
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Sheesh!
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Followed by the largest
Man Camp with 2270 men
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that braved hurricane force rain
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and wind gusts up
to 60 miles an hour.
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But that wasn't enough for us.
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Just a few weeks later, we held
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our first ever Revival
at Base Camp,
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where we almost
shut down the highway
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because over 8500
people showed up.
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But what happened inside
our buildings was just as big.
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For the 22nd time, we held
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our Super Bowl of Preaching
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with 21,500 hot dogs eaten,
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24 random props
and one Sasquatch.
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We saw friends and
family get to hear about God
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in a language that
they understand.
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We've had over 250 people get
miraculous physical healings.
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Over 2000 people
said yes to Jesus
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and got baptized this year.
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737,200 instances
of Scripture read
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in the Crossroads app
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and 4.1 million prayers prayed.
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We had 13,120 TFD and Go!
Pantry boxes
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donated to our neighbors
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and our cities and
families devastated
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by Hurricane Helene
in North Carolina.
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We had over 11,000
Christmas gifts donated
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to families who are
down on their luck
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or with incarcerated parents.
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And we pushed ourselves
to see what it would take
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to have 10X growth in ten years,
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with all of us coming
together to make
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a financial commitment
of $200 million
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over the next three years
to see more and more
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and more of the amazing
things that God has for us.
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Well done, team.
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And let's see where
God takes us this year.
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- Well, hey,
welcome to Crossroads.
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You're joining us for a
unique weekend online only.
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Brian's here,
and we're actually in
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the brand new
Crossroads Dayton space,
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set to open in 2025.
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And we're here because
we're talking about
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the new things that are
going to come up this year.
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And I have a hunch, okay.
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This is usually the time
of year people like to,
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like, reflect backwards
on what happened
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and all the things.
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I have a feeling you
want to reflect forwards.
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- I like reflecting backwards,
don't put me in a box.
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I could do backwards,
I could do forwards.
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I could do either one.
- You can do anything,
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you're versatile.
- I am so capable.
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- That's awesome.
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I mean, it was an amazing
year at Crossroads.
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Absolutely incredible year.
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So let's actually start there.
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As you think about
the year we had,
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what's the thing you're
taking forward with you
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going, "Man,
I'm so thankful for blah"?
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- Well, it's hard not to
mention the most obvious.
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I'm just thankful for how
the whole Push for 10X went.
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We all started that
thing off a little queasy,
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a little uncertain.
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We knew there was gonna
be a financial component
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at the end of it, and therefore
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that's tough for all of us,
myself included.
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I was on that journey
longer than anybody,
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just figuring out if I wanted
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to bring it out to the masses.
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And how that thing went.
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I was just over
having a dinner party
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with some friends
just the other day,
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and they said, "man,
we went into this
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with our feet dragging,
but this was
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the perfect thing for me,
the perfect thing."
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So I don't even think about the,
you know,
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the -- I'm not even
thinking right now
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of what $200 million-ish
does for our ministry
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and for the Kingdom.
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I'm thinking about
stuff like the revival.
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- Yeah.
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- That was -- to have
lines and masses
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coming in to a place
where they hadn't been
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and just kids and
people all over the place.
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And people we
know who actually got
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literal physical healing there
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and the beauty of the the
worship down in the woods.
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- Yeah.
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- I had like guffaw
cries when Lib and I
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went down that woods,
the woods worship.
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We were down
there about midnight
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and it's just like [crying].
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It was stunningly
beautiful and powerful.
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So everything about that,
The 10X Push,
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I mean,
let alone talking about the end
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where everyone came in
and consecrated themselves
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and made their commitments.
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It was a magical,
magical season for our church
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and one I don't
think I'll ever forget.
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- Yeah, it's interesting,
the Revival weekend,
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you know,
you and I were it was sort of
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a little bit of a divide
and conquer, right?
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You were like, "Hey,
I'm going to take The Revival."
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I did week one of The Push.
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Came with my
family to The Revival,
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waited in line for an hour.
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It was like, "Holy crap,
I can't -- I --
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We're just waiting.
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I guess we're waiting
to go to church?
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That's never happened
before in my life."
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And then I will never forget,
you know, again,
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a little bit behind
the scenes stuff,
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but I think it's interesting,
and convicting honestly,
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I thought doing The
Revival in week one
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of The Push on the same weekend
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would mean that everybody
went to The Revival,
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and of course,
no one was going to want
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to show up for the
start of the thing
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that we were very,
very clear about
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would end in you
being asked to make
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a three year above and
beyond financial commitment.
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Of course,
no one's going to show up.
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And I'll never forget
walking out Sunday morning,
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first service, and I
just look out and it's full.
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And not just like normal full,
like, overfull.
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I think that was the
moment I went, like,
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"Wait a minute,
God -- God's in this."
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- Right.
The spiritual energy, the fire
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from that Revival just
spread into all of our sites.
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- Yeah.
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- The other thing for
me that's so significant is,
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you know, you're dealing,
it sounds like
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you're dealing with a
little bit of a cold here.
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- Yeah, a little bit.
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- And you're
dealing with it why?
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- Uh...
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Because you bore
significant weight in The Push.
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- Yeah.
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- That's why,
your systems are run down.
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I know that.
Been there, done that.
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That's the way it's
happened to me
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every single push
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or campaign-like
thing that we've done.
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This is the only one
that I felt great afterwards
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because people like you
were bearing a lot of weight.
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You just mentioned
you gave the opening,
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opening talk for the whole Push.
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Like, I would have never
had somebody else do that.
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I would have always been the guy
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who had the ball
in that situation.
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And you were the right
guy and did amazing.
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And that's part
of why you're sick.
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You just -- you've
borne a lot of weight here
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over the last couple months.
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And, man, well done,
good and faithful servant.
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- Thanks, man. - Sucks to be you
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because I feel nice and healthy
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because you did so much work,
but not me.
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- I'm just got to find
somebody next time
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to do the thing I'm doing.
- Right. Exactly.
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- The trickle down effect,
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a pyramid scheme,
I think is what it's called.
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Yeah. It was an amazing year,
amazing year.
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And couldn't be more excited
about where we're going.
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So let's turn the page
to where we're going.
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2025 about to kick off.
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What are you most excited about?
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- I'm most excited about, okay,
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well, let's go back to The Push
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and then I'll get
to The Push Part 2.
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I'm most excited that the things
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that we felt God
asked us to expand
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the territories that we have,
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unless we have
miserable failure,
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miserable completion rates,
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those things are
going to get done.
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And that's a lot of fun
ministry to start doing in 2025.
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For you, for me,
for all of our volunteers,
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that's going to be great.
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But closely related to that,
but not the same,
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is I do feel like God
has taken our church
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to another level.
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I do feel like
revival is in the air.
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I do feel like people
are open to the Spirit
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in ways that we weren't before.
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I do feel there's a
deeper level of devotion.
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I do feel like there's
an openness to
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the X factor of the
presence of God
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that's infiltrating our church.
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And I think that's some --
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That's going to be
taken off in 2025.
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Even just just this
this last talk I gave,
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well, a couple weeks
ago when I did Die Hard.
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By the way,
we all know now, right?
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We all know the Die
Hard is a Christmas movie.
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We all agree, right? - Oh, 100%.
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You know the biggest
piece of evidence
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for why it's a Christmas movie,
you didn't say?
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- Well, what is that?
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- It ends in a kiss.
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Every single, the Netflix
Hallmark Christmas movies,
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it always ends with the couple
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that you want to
be together kissing.
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- Oh. - There you go.
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- Where were you in run-through?
I needed that.
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- Sorry. Yeah, I know. My fault.
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- Oh my gosh.
But this will maybe tie into
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where I want to go in 2025,
it's an interesting thing.
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In that talk, it was fun.
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I smoke a cigarette on
stage is always good.
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- Can I do that in my next talk
too, you think, is that a --
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- Yeah,
but it wouldn't be authentic
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because you never smoke.
So it wouldn't work.
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- I do sometimes, yeah,
out in the workshop. Yeah.
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- Fine. Fine. People watch like,
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"Is he actually inhaling?"
Yeah. Yeah.
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I inhale. It was wonderful.
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But I'm still stunned
by two things.
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One, on the more simple level.
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No complaints about that.
No complaints.
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It was just sort of
our church at its best.
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We were doing that kind
of thing very avant garde,
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out on the edge,
doing some earthy things.
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And God used it in a great way
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and our church
is in line with it.
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It was really, really cool.
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The second thing, I was
telling you about this earlier,
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is one of the -- I had
a chance to be part of
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one of the more miraculous
things that I've seen.
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- Oh, yeah, yeah. - Sheesh.
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Which ties into what I want to
challenge people for in 2025.
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You know, I talked about
we don't ask people for prayer
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and Jesus doesn't respond,
generally,
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He doesn't do miracles
unless someone asks.
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It's an act of humility.
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I think there's only one person,
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one person where I preached,
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which was a Thursday
night in Oakley,
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three on Sunday.
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There was only one
person who came up
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and asked for prayer
for healing, one person.
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And that person got healed.
- Wow.
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- Literal physical healing,
Dave Stansbury
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dealing with recovery
from throat cancer
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and all this stuff.
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He hasn't been able
to produce saliva
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or taste food for years.
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Carries around a
Camelbak or bottled water
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to give himself moisture.
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And I prayed for
him to have saliva.
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And I was probably the straw
that broke the camel's back.
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A lot of people have
been praying for him,
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but the first time I actually
put my hands on him.
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He humbly came forward and said,
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"Hey, would you pray for me?"
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I put my hands on
him and all of a sudden
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he started producing saliva,
spit in my hand,
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hasn't been able
to spit for years.
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- It's crazy.
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- He went out and
did taste tests of foods.
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Has his taste back.
And I just thought,
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"Wow, it's really wild, like,
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the one person who asked, one,
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and a miracle took place.
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- Of the people who asked.
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- A verifiable miracle.
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- 100% that weekend got healed.
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That's interesting
to think about.
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- Right, right.
Now, I probably pray for some of
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the people who had
family stuff or something,
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but as far as I remember,
physical healing
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there was just
one and that was it.
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It was 100.
It was one for one, 100%.
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Only one guy you could
also look at and say
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only one guy was
humble enough to ask.
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I mean,
how many other people were there
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that had a need,
but maybe they just didn't want
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to bother me, which is fine.
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Maybe they went to
somebody else, which is fine.
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Maybe they're busy. Fine.
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- It would be a waste of time.
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God's not going to heal me.
Whatever.
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- One person made the ask,
and one person got the gift.
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- Wow. Okay, so to carry
that forward into 2025,
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what does that mean for us?
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- Okay, so a couple of things.
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Book of James says you
have not because you ask not.
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And one of the
regular things I do
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with my family
every year is write,
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it's either New Year's
or Christmas Eve.
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It can be either one.
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So you gather the whole
family up and you read
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the story of Jesus
and Blind Bartimaeus,
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which is from Mark chapter ten,
where Jesus asks him,
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"What is it you want
Me to do for you?"
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And we go around and
we have everyone say,
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"What I want Jesus
to do for me this year."
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And then I write them
down and track them.
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And then next year we
ask the same, same thing
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with all my kids and their
spouses and all that stuff.
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And then we compare
what happened last year,
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who's got what they asked for.
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And then we also have
our ask for the next year.
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But again,
it was that thing of Jesus,
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He makes him ask,
He makes him humble himself
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and say, "What is it you
want Me to do for you?"
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I think most of us
are afraid of that.
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We don't want to
waste God's time
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or actually really,
what it is, I think,
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is we're afraid of
being disappointed.
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Like, if I ask and then
there isn't an answer of yes,
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then God doesn't care about me.
God isn't real.
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My problems aren't real to God.
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Whatever. Whatever the thing is,
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some people just
feel it as rejection.
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So better to not ask
and not be rejected.
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And for sure,
with all those things,
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Jesus doesn't do
everything we want Him to do.
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He doesn't, but He sure
as heck isn't going to do
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what He could
do if we don't ask.
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We ask not because
we don't have not.
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And this is a year where we
as a church need to be asking.
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We need to be asking God
to use us for an awakening.
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We need to be asking
Him for things that
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our bank account
can't provide because
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maybe some of us don't
have a bank account anymore.
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Bank account can't
provide anything.
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This is the year
to go out and say,
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"Why wouldn't God
bless our community
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and use us in a crazy, crazy
way in the Kingdom of God?"
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So that's where
I'm going this year
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and I hope all of us join me.
- That's amazing.
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I mean, one,
that exercise is incredible.
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I'll do that with my family.
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- And they love it.
It's a tradition.
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00:14:29
They go, oh,
and I go back to them,
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00:14:31
I have the notes and I
go back to it every year
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00:14:33
and everyone
looks forward to it.
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00:14:34
It's around the fire.
It's really fun.
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00:14:36
- You guys commit
to pray for each other
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00:14:37
throughout the year,
or is it just like,
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00:14:39
hey, we share this
and we kind of check in?
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00:14:41
- Yeah, we share it.
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00:14:42
We don't check
in for a whole year
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00:14:43
to see if God did it
over the next year.
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00:14:45
- That's awesome.
- Yeah.
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00:14:46
And it's, you know,
some of the things people put
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00:14:49
are really good things,
but I always have to say,
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00:14:52
"This is not goals
that you have to do,
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00:14:55
which is fine.
You can have that list.
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00:14:57
These are things that
you know that can't happen
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00:15:02
unless God gets involved."
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00:15:04
- Wow.
Okay, so you are about to answer
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00:15:08
that question for yourself.
What are some of the things
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00:15:11
you're thinking
about asking God for?
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00:15:12
- Oh, gosh.
Well, one of them is going to be
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00:15:15
just what I just said,
I want -- I want a, um,
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00:15:22
I want to see an awakening.
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00:15:23
I want to be a part
of an awakening.
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00:15:25
Yeah, I want that.
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00:15:28
Another one is I've
got some stuff with kids
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00:15:31
that I just can't share.
You know,
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00:15:33
I don't want to share publicly,
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00:15:34
but I'm going to be asking
for them to ask for that.
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00:15:38
Uh,
I'm also going to ask that I get
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00:15:41
the biggest buck I've
ever gotten because
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00:15:43
I had opportunities
this last year
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00:15:45
and they were heartbreaking.
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00:15:46
- We should put up in the,
can we put up
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00:15:48
in the video the
photos of this buck
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00:15:49
that you were chasing this year?
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00:15:50
- Yeah, yeah, it's fine,
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00:15:52
but there's actually
two of them.
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00:15:53
You can put them up,
put both of them up.
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00:15:55
It's, yeah. Horrible, horrible.
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00:15:57
You know,
just a little background because
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00:16:00
this is -- most people
find this incredibly boring.
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00:16:02
But just let me enlighten you,
okay?
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00:16:06
Deer hunting is really,
really hard.
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00:16:08
Now for everybody
who's listening
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00:16:09
who doesn't hunt deer,
you're going, "No it's not."
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00:16:11
- They're freaking everywhere
in my yard all the time.
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00:16:13
How hard is it?
- They're everywhere.
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00:16:15
You know why they're everywhere?
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00:16:16
You know the answer
why are they everywhere?
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00:16:18
- Because they
feel safe in my yard.
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00:16:19
- Right, because they know
they're not going to get killed.
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00:16:22
- Because I'm not going to.
Yeah.
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00:16:23
- And because they feel safe,
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00:16:24
they also don't care
about human smell.
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00:16:26
None of that stuff because
they know they're safe.
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00:16:28
No one's going to kill them.
They don't --
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00:16:30
They never known
anybody who's gotten killed
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00:16:32
unless it's been a coyote
or something like that.
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00:16:34
When you get out in
the country where I hunt,
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00:16:36
it's not that way.
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00:16:37
There's hunters there,
there's coyotes everywhere.
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00:16:40
And if you do the slightest
thing wrong, they're gone.
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00:16:44
If you're in a tree
stand and the wind shifts
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00:16:48
and they're 200 yards away,
they smell,
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00:16:51
"Oh, that's a human."
They're gone.
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00:16:53
If you go out,
you've got a corn pile,
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00:16:54
which has happened
to me the first time,
-
00:16:56
and you say, "I'm going
to try something different.
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00:16:58
Just put some other
nice tasty morsel on here."
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00:17:00
I did that,
this massive elk of a deer
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00:17:03
starts coming in and he
gets about 15 yards away
-
00:17:06
and he stops and he goes,
"Something doesn't smell
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00:17:09
the way it normally does."
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00:17:11
And he turned around
and just walked away.
-
00:17:14
I just had a comedy of errors,
-
00:17:15
everything has to line
up great to get a big buck
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00:17:18
because they're big, because
they're really, really smart
-
00:17:20
and they have super human
or super animal senses.
-
00:17:23
And so that's one thing I'm,
like,
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00:17:25
it's a heartbreaking year,
utterly heartbreaking for me.
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00:17:27
So let me ask for this
year for God to deliver
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00:17:29
the right buck
at the right time.
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00:17:31
- So some of your stuff is,
like,
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00:17:33
more spiritually
sounding stuff and help
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00:17:36
and some of it is just like,
I just want to have fun
-
00:17:38
and I want to do
the thing I love
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00:17:39
and kill an awesome buck.
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00:17:41
You think God cares about that?
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00:17:43
- 100%. Look,
the only way your faith lasts
-
00:17:47
is if you believe you have
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00:17:49
a Heavenly Father who loves you.
-
00:17:51
That's the only way it lasts.
-
00:17:53
And if you believe that
your Heavenly Father
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00:17:57
is only there to
motivate you to do
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00:18:00
the utilitarian things
that He needs,
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00:18:04
there's not going to be much
of a love relationship there.
-
00:18:06
You've got your kids.
-
00:18:08
You want to bless them, right?
- Absolutely.
-
00:18:10
You want them to come
and ask you things, right?
-
00:18:13
It's part of the relationship.
-
00:18:14
So if I don't take
those things to God,
-
00:18:17
it's a sign that
the relationship
-
00:18:19
has really gone cold.
-
00:18:21
And basically, I'm on the
verge of being a slave then.
-
00:18:23
- Wow.
-
00:18:25
- I'm just gotta hit my marks
and do what He says to do.
-
00:18:29
And there's there's
no joy in that.
-
00:18:31
There's no relational
intimacy in that.
-
00:18:33
So yeah,
you need to be looking at things
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00:18:35
that just you want.
-
00:18:36
Jesus, when He says to
the blind man, He says,
-
00:18:38
"What do you want
Me to do for you?"
-
00:18:40
He wasn't saying, "Hmm.
Uh, let me tell you
-
00:18:43
what you should be asking." No.
-
00:18:45
"What do you want
Me to do for you?"
-
00:18:46
Maybe the guy's biggest
need wasn't that he was blind.
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00:18:50
And by the way, when he said,
what do you want me to do?
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00:18:53
He also doesn't say one thing.
-
00:18:55
He doesn't say,
'What's your one thing?"
-
00:18:56
I always have to
remind everybody that
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00:18:58
when we do this, people
just want to do one thing.
-
00:19:00
I say, "No, you can.
You can do more one.
-
00:19:02
You can do two,
you can do three."
-
00:19:03
Jesus said, "What is it
you want Me to do for you?"
-
00:19:07
- So He could have been like,
ah, da da da da da.
-
00:19:09
He's asking a genuine question.
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00:19:11
- 100% he could.
He could, who knows?
-
00:19:13
He could have asked
for an American apple pie.
-
00:19:16
He could have. He could
have asked for anything.
-
00:19:18
- Anything.
-
00:19:20
- Jesus said, "What is it
you want Me to do for you?"
-
00:19:22
And I think that the
reason why many of us
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00:19:26
are reacting against
this is appropriately so,
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00:19:29
we've seen the health and
wealth gospel abuse this.
-
00:19:34
We've seen people, you know,
getting the blessing of God
-
00:19:38
and riding a Rolls-Royce
-
00:19:40
on the backs of
other people's giving.
-
00:19:42
We've seen bad theology about
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00:19:45
God doesn't allow
any pain and suffering.
-
00:19:48
He does allow it
for whatever reason.
-
00:19:51
So we can see that all
those things are abuses,
-
00:19:54
all those things are
untrue and still say,
-
00:19:57
"There's a Heavenly Father
who wants to bless me."
-
00:19:59
Jesus says,
"Which of you as a father,
-
00:20:02
when his son asks
for a piece of bread,
-
00:20:04
gives him a stone?"
-
00:20:06
He says, "No, no, that's not how
-
00:20:07
our Heavenly Father operates."
-
00:20:09
So I'm not talking about
viewing God as a genie,
-
00:20:13
having my faith linked
to material blessings.
-
00:20:17
I'm just saying,
if I'm not going
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00:20:19
before the creator of the
universe who loves me
-
00:20:23
and has created me
and wants to bless me,
-
00:20:27
I'm not opening my
life up to Him, it shows
-
00:20:29
there's really an outage
in our relationship.
-
00:20:31
- Yeah, yeah. That's awesome.
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00:20:33
Okay, so I also know about you,
Mr. Brian Tome.
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00:20:38
You're a man who prays
and a man who does.
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00:20:43
So as you think about 2025,
is there anything
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00:20:46
you go, like, "Yeah.
I'm going to ask God,
-
00:20:47
I want to see these
things happen"?
-
00:20:49
Are you going to work
at anything differently
-
00:20:51
or different for
a different thing
-
00:20:53
than you did last year?
-
00:20:55
Well, I feel like this year
is a discernment for me.
-
00:20:59
- Yeah.
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00:21:00
- You know,
this is my last year at 59.
-
00:21:05
My last year in the
decade of the 50s.
-
00:21:07
And then I go in the 60s.
-
00:21:09
And I have a mentor of mine,
Bob Beal,
-
00:21:12
who wrote a book on the decades.
-
00:21:13
And his conviction is your 60s
-
00:21:16
are the most productive
decade of your life.
-
00:21:19
- Wow.
-
00:21:20
- Your 60s,
which is really countercultural
-
00:21:24
when most people
are looking for their 60s
-
00:21:26
to be the least productive.
-
00:21:28
- That's when you finally
stop being productive.
-
00:21:30
- Right,
it's when you stop doing things,
-
00:21:31
that's when you,
yeah, do all whatever
-
00:21:33
you want to do because
you put in your time.
-
00:21:35
Well,
I've had a really good life.
-
00:21:37
I've had a fun life.
-
00:21:38
I have time to do a lot of good,
fun things,
-
00:21:41
so my 60s, I want them
to be the most productive.
-
00:21:44
[So 59 I'm really looking
to get a game plan]
-
00:21:49
for how to best organize my
time and my life for my 60s.
-
00:21:53
And certainly what's
happened with the 10X Push
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00:21:55
is a piece of that.
-
00:21:57
And you know,
your role where you are
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00:22:00
and doing the amazing
work you are also
-
00:22:02
has sort of laddered me up
-
00:22:04
to be able to think
in those ways.
-
00:22:05
So that's really what I
need in my, in this year,
-
00:22:09
is a clarity about
where to put my time,
-
00:22:12
my focus, all that.
-
00:22:14
So I've got to actually
after this taping,
-
00:22:15
I'm meeting with a guy to
talk about just that very thing.
-
00:22:18
The guy's coming in to see me
-
00:22:19
and I've got some other stuff,
-
00:22:20
so I'm working
on that pretty hard.
-
00:22:22
- Wow. That's awesome.
- Yeah.
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00:22:23
- Okay, we're about done,
-
00:22:25
but I'm just going
to ask you this.
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00:22:27
Is there anything
for those of us
-
00:22:30
who are watching right
now who have heard
-
00:22:32
you kind of push us on prayer,
-
00:22:34
anything you want
us to think about
-
00:22:35
in these last couple of minutes
-
00:22:37
as we head into our New year,
-
00:22:39
or anything you
want to pray for us?
-
00:22:41
We can do that too.
-
00:22:42
- Well, I turn on you.
-
00:22:44
You've asked me some
really good questions.
-
00:22:45
What do you think? What?
-
00:22:47
What kind of things do you think
-
00:22:48
that we should be
praying for as a church?
-
00:22:50
- I was convicted when
I was putting together
-
00:22:55
the week one message
for The Push that
-
00:22:58
my prayers were very
practical and, um, you know,
-
00:23:03
they weren't, like,
not small or insignificant
-
00:23:07
or not meaningful,
but they weren't --
-
00:23:09
They weren't dreams.
-
00:23:10
And there's this verse
in the Psalms that says,
-
00:23:12
"When the Lord restored
the fortunes of Zion,
-
00:23:15
they were like
those who dreamed."
-
00:23:17
And since then I've
just been going like,
-
00:23:19
"Lord,
what does it mean to dream?
-
00:23:20
What am I, what am I,
what am I selling short on?
-
00:23:23
You know?
What am I -- what am I not --
-
00:23:25
Am I just thinking
is impossible?
-
00:23:27
And how do I, how do I
pray towards those things?"
-
00:23:31
Um, so for me, part of
that's impact of Crossroads,
-
00:23:35
part of that's
impact of my kids.
-
00:23:37
And just, I just I don't
want to be the dad
-
00:23:40
who's goal for my kids,
and this isn't a bad goal,
-
00:23:42
by the way.
I mean, this is part of my goal.
-
00:23:44
But it's just, you know,
when they leave my house,
-
00:23:47
they're well-rounded
human beings
-
00:23:49
with a decent path in life.
-
00:23:50
And then I know I want
him to change the world.
-
00:23:53
I want millions of people to
know Jesus through our family.
-
00:23:56
Like,
that's a -- that's one example.
-
00:23:58
And so I think as I
go through to 2025,
-
00:24:01
that's kind of what I'm doing.
-
00:24:02
And I don't have an answer.
-
00:24:03
I mean, if I did, I'd say it,
-
00:24:04
but I think it's that,
going, "Okay. God,
-
00:24:07
what dream do
you want this year?"
-
00:24:10
- Yeah.
-
00:24:11
- "And how do I start to ask?"
- Yeah.
-
00:24:14
- So that's mine.
-
00:24:17
- I think Crossroads
just needs to be aware of,
-
00:24:19
hey! Get ready. Like this is it.
-
00:24:21
The church starts all over new.
-
00:24:23
We're right now in
a brand new facility
-
00:24:26
that will be up and
operable here in Dayton.
-
00:24:28
That's the latest
iteration of what
-
00:24:31
a building for us looks like.
-
00:24:32
It's going to be great.
-
00:24:33
It's a big, big, big, big,
huge step of faith.
-
00:24:35
I mean,
the number of people we have
-
00:24:37
coming to little middle
school does not equate
-
00:24:39
to the amount of space
that we've put here. Right?
-
00:24:43
- Yeah.
- You know?
-
00:24:44
We've got massive
plans that are happening
-
00:24:46
out in Base Camp.
-
00:24:47
We're going through
the appeal process
-
00:24:49
for the lake that we're
trying to get approved
-
00:24:51
out there right now.
-
00:24:52
We are challenging ourselves,
you know, internally.
-
00:24:56
Like, how does Crossroads
structure for awakening
-
00:24:59
instead of only growing 20%,
only is great.
-
00:25:02
That's awesome. If we grow 20%,
-
00:25:03
it's part of your job,
growing 20%.
-
00:25:05
Awesome if we can do that,
that's fine.
-
00:25:06
But how do we
structure for awakening?
-
00:25:09
- Yeah.
-
00:25:11
- Figuring that out,
we're going to be having
-
00:25:13
to take new ground
this year in prayer.
-
00:25:16
I've challenged some
people internally,
-
00:25:17
like, what is the next iteration
-
00:25:20
of what prayer looks like for us
-
00:25:21
corporately as a church?
-
00:25:23
We've got a real prayer
system for staff members,
-
00:25:26
our rhythms, praying together.
-
00:25:27
But we need to get
them for the whole church.
-
00:25:30
Awakenings break out
when there's corporate prayer,
-
00:25:32
and we're all in on that.
-
00:25:34
And so we're going to be
taking new ground there.
-
00:25:36
It's going to be a --
-
00:25:37
It's going to be a
year of firsts for us.
-
00:25:39
- Can't wait.
- Yeah.
-
00:25:40
- Would you pray for us?
- I would love to.
-
00:25:43
Lord, thanks for giving
us the ability to dream
-
00:25:46
and fortify those dreams
with actual responses.
-
00:25:50
Thank You for how You
responded with The Push for 10X.
-
00:25:54
Thank You how You
moved Your people
-
00:25:56
to reallocate your
cattle on a thousand hills.
-
00:25:59
Thank You for dreams
and visions of revivals
-
00:26:04
and awakenings and for healings.
-
00:26:07
Lord, we want to see
more of that this year.
-
00:26:09
Lord, look at Your servants.
-
00:26:10
I think we've
proven pretty faithful.
-
00:26:12
Whatever You've
got going on for us,
-
00:26:14
whatever You've got going on,
we're up for it this year.
-
00:26:17
Whatever it is,
whatever You've got going on
-
00:26:18
in the Kingdom in 2025,
we'd like to be included.
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00:26:23
I pray these things in
Your name, Jesus. Amen.
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00:26:25
- Amen. Well, hey,
thanks for watching today.
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00:26:28
If you're with us and you want
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00:26:30
to share this with somebody,
you can do that.
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00:26:32
We will restart regular
service both in person
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00:26:35
and online next weekend.
We'll see you then.