Simple Steps to Refuel and Refresh- Oakley

Ever feel like life’s a bit of a rollercoaster? With many ups and downs that can leave you just feeling pretty darn drained. Come and experience what Jesus has to say about truly living to your fullest potential and walk away feeling more recharged and refreshed than you have in a long time.

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    - If that was refreshing to you,
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    maybe you didn't even know your soul was thirsty,
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    maybe you didn't even know it was dry.
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    But if that was refreshing to you, good news,
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    because we have so much more of that.
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    My name is Greg. I'm the community pastor
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    at one of our sites here in Oakley.
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    And if you're watching online, welcome.
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    We're glad you're joining.
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    In fact, everyone in Oakley,
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    can we welcome everyone online
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    who's joining right now? [cheers]
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    So honored you're part of our church.
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    Just consider me Andy Reider with a haircut
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    if that will help you feel at home.
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    Labor day is a little bit of a misnomer
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    because Labor Day weekend,
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    it's the unofficial end of summer.
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    And I feel like when you get to Labor Day,
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    you're sort of supposed to feel refreshed.
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    Didn't we all have a nice summer?
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    And if you're a parent
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    and you just put any kids back in school,
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    refreshed is not in your vocabulary right now.
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    It is not.
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    Labor day is sort of a pump fake.
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    It's like going on vacation with young kids
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    and having someone ask you, "Are you rested?"
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    You go, "No, no, I'm not rested."
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    In this Thirsty series that we've been in,
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    we've been talking about what happens
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    when we go to broken cisterns,
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    what happens when we go to dry wells.
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    And we've talked about things like sex
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    and pornography and comparison.
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    And our goal on this Labor Day weekend,
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    whether you came to a site or whether you tuned in,
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    was one thing: we want you to have living water.
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    We want you to know that Jesus says,
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    "I am living water, and whoever drinks from Me
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    will never thirst again."
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    That's the promise that we're after.
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    It's something that we at Crossroads aim for
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    all the time, to offer times of refreshment
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    for thirsty souls.
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    Right now is the time where you can join a group,
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    and one of the core aims of a group is that
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    you have people around you
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    who are regularly refreshing you.
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    That is, you go after Jesus together,
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    you're refreshed together.
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    And there's no better time to find community
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    in this place, whether it's an online cohort
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    or a group that meets in a site, then next month,
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    as these all kick off.
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    You can go to crossroads.net
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    and find a group that works for you.
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    And if there are any men
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    who are in need of refreshing,
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    the best possible opportunity is coming up
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    in just a couple of months, we call it Man Camp.
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    400 acres overlooking the Ohio River,
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    where thousands of souls, one at a time,
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    have been refreshed as they come face to face with Jesus.
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    Sign ups for Man Camp our closing this weekend.
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    You can go to Crossroads.net to sign up.
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    There's a promise that we're going to look at tonight.
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    And by the way, if you got a cup,
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    either when you came in,
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    or if you're watching online,
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    it doesn't have to be a plastic cup like this.
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    But I'd love for you to get one because
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    we're going to wrestle with this empty cup.
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    But I promise at the end of tonight your cup
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    will be full and you will drink water.
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    It's the promise that comes from
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    the Gospel of John chapter seven, where it says:
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    John says the Holy Spirit is a water carrier,
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    and when the Spirit comes, He brings living water
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    and He brings refreshment.
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    So, God, that's what we're asking You for right now.
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    We showed up today because
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    we're in need of Your living water.
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    And whether our souls are just getting a little dry
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    or they're so brittle they could crack,
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    we pray that You would refresh us tonight.
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    Holy Spirit, come. Amen.
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    Why don't we stand on our feet.
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    We're going to worship together.
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    - Come on.
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    If you need more of the Spirit in your life,
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    just lift your hands out.
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    - Come on. Come on. Let's sing this out.
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    - Everything we sing is a response to Him.
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    - Maybe you came in today thinking like,
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    "I'm exhausted, but I'm just going to --
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    I'm going to show up."
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    God didn't show up exhausted for you today.
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    He never shows up exhausted.
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    He came running towards you today.
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    He says, "I'll show up for you."
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    And so maybe those words are too hard to sing.
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    I just invite you to take a risk.
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    Take a risk. What have you got to lose?
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    You're here. You're online with us.
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    You're in the room with us.
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    Take a risk and be willing to say, "Okay,
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    I'll try to believe that Your goodness
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    would actually be running after me,
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    not him or her, but me."
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    God never grows weary. He never grows tired.
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    Try to say it. Try to believe it.
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    It's worth the risk.
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    - Jesus, I believe that.
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    I found it to be true time and time again.
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    That You fill my bucket, my heart, my soul,
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    like nothing else and no one else.
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    So I want everyone, I want everyone
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    to sense that tonight, today.
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    I want every single one to know You as living water
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    because You've been it to me.
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    So what it looks like right now for us, God,
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    is to say that You can have everything.
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    Well, I don't have everything in my pockets right now,
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    but what I have is my attention.
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    And so I give You my attention
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    right here in this moment where I am today,
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    to say You have my attention
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    and I want to trust You as living water.
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    I'm thirsty and I need you.
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    I pray all this because of you, Jesus. Amen. Amen.
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    - Yeah. Yeah.
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    - Hey. So glad that you joined us online.
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    Stick around.
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    We got some great stuff for you in store.
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    And if you're in the room, why don't you
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    turn to somebody next to you and just say,
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    "Hey, I'm glad to be here with you."
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    Then you can have a seat.
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    - If you have been tracking with this series
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    that we're in, Thirsty, you know,
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    some weeks we have worship at the end,
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    some weeks we had worship at the beginning.
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    I hope you don't mind, but this weekend
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    we have worship at the beginning and the end.
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    So more of that coming.
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    If you're online, I feel like we just met,
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    but I apologize for the claim I'm about to make.
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    In 2024 I believe that the McElfresh family
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    is the least thirsty of any family in America.
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    We are the least thirsty.
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    I say the McElfresh family.
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    I am the sole male of the family.
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    I live with four women, my wife and three daughters
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    and they are not thirsty
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    thanks to one company named Stanley.
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    Stanley has been hydrating my wife
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    and daughters for nine months now.
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    And the photo you can see
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    right as I took it last night,
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    Kevin, our goldendoodle, jumped up
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    in the middle over the couch because
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    he also wanted to be in the photo.
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    Kevin is his name. Kevin.
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    We had two Christmas dogs.
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    One was Ralphie from A Christmas Story.
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    Kevin, Kevin McCallister.
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    And yes, we say his name all the time
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    like the movie, "Kevin,"
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    is most often how we say Kevin's name.
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    Kevin actually doesn't like Stanley's.
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    He prefers drinking from the toilet.
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    So you should know that about Kevin.
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    I don't know what it is about having
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    a metal two liter with a handle on it.
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    It doesn't fit in their backpack.
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    It tips over. They're $40 a piece.
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    And now I hear nine months later, the Owala
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    is actually the preferential water carrier.
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    And so I don't know what we're going to do with these.
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    Maybe we'll auction them on eBay or something.
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    But I've stopped teasing about the Stanley's.
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    I've stopped, and it's because
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    when I went on summer vacation,
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    I came back with one of these.
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    It's not made by Stanley. It's made by Yeti.
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    And we call it affectionately my Manly.
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    So if you're wondering what a male Stanley looks like,
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    it's made by Yeti. It's called the Manly.
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    And I, unfortunately, unfortunately,
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    it came with a side effect.
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    I turned 40 last month.
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    I am more hydrated than ever, and I also wake up
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    to pee every single night at 4 a.m.
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    so I'm not sure if it was a good trade off or not,
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    but I recommend the Manly.
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    We heard a song at the beginning of our time,
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    that man, I'm just wondering, is there anyone else
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    who would say they were in a 90s youth group
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    and sang As The Deer to an overhead transparency
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    in a church basement?
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    Because it took me right back.
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    That song is actually lifted straight out of Scripture.
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    It's going to be a scripture
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    we spend just a few minutes in.
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    The Psalmist writes this in Psalm 42:1:
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    As the deer pants for the water.
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    Now, I don't know about you, that imagery
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    has never really stood out to me,
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    maybe because I knew the song first,
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    and so I just sing the lyrics.
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    But I've never actually seen a deer pant.
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    I've seen a dog pant on a day like today
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    where it's in the high 90s and your dog comes in
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    wearing a fur parka, they are going to pant.
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    But a deer, well, the context of Israel,
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    their deer aren't hiding in woods.
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    Their deer are in open arid desert landscape.
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    And if you see a deer panting, it means that
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    this deer has been under attack by a predator.
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    It's running for its life.
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    And when a deer gets to panting,
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    it's a matter of life or death because
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    it's in need of refreshment.
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    So the Psalmist says, "My soul is so thirsty,
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    it's like a matter of life or death.
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    My soul is so thirsty, if I don't get water right now,
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    the end of my life may be near."
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    And I just wonder what that brings up for you.
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    What is your deepest longing?
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    What's the thing that it feels like
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    no matter how much you drink,
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    no matter you go to a dry well after dry well,
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    your heart still longs for it?
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    What is your soul panting for?
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    Chances are, if there's a thing that
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    came to your mind of something that your soul longs for,
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    it's going to be a really easy thing
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    that a shiny, broken cistern or dry well
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    would be put right in your path because
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    there's knowledge of what your soul longs for.
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    And so counterfeit after counterfeit
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    steal for its attention.
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    I'll tell you, for me as a young man,
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    I don't know if it's because
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    I grew up in a trailer park.
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    I don't know if it's because I had grandfathers
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    who were businessmen and had ties and shiny shoes,
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    but I knew from a really, really young age
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    my deepest longing was for a paycheck,
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    promotions and praise,
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    paycheck, promotion and praise.
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    I wanted those things more than anything else.
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    I don't know if it's because maybe I wanted
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    to show the world someday, "Look who I became."
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    I don't know if it's because I wanted to
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    do whatever I wanted with the money I made.
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    But really, really early,
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    I'm talking second grade photo,
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    gelled hair, blue Oxford, pink tie.
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    I was dressing the part because
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    it was a deep longing for me.
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    I actually went to a church camp as a teenager,
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    gave my life to Jesus at 14,
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    and felt called into full time ministry at 15.
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    And I went home and I shared
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    with some people around me, people who loved me,
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    people had my best of intentions and they said,
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    "Man, that's great, Greg,
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    but you are too smart to go into ministry.
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    You should make a lot of money
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    and volunteer at a church in your spare time.
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    A lot of people do that."
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    And I took it as really wise, great counsel,
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    and so I shifted my perspective.
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    I shifted my perspective.
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    And I got great grades in school.
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    I got into a to a program that here in Cincinnati,
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    a benefactor named Carl Lindner was paying for
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    people's full ride business scholarships.
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    I didn't pay a dime of college.
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    I met my wife there.
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    We went through five years,
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    international study abroad, co-op,
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    the best program there was.
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    Graduated magna cum laude, graduated in June,
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    got engaged, got married in September,
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    bought a house in a prevalent neighborhood
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    in Cincinnati and we're making six figures
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    with my wife at the age of 23.
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    And it was because I was being driven
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    by a desire for paycheck and promotion
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    and praise of others. And I got all three.
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    I got all three.
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    This story came back up
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    and it was top of mind for me because
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    as I was driving to an overnight with my wife
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    to celebrate my 40th birthday, said,
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    "Hey, we met when we were 19.
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    What would it look like if on this couple hour drive,
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    what if we try to find a milestone
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    from each year that we've been together,
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    starting at 19? What do we remember?"
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    Oh, we remember that 4th of July trip
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    where we saw the fireworks on the National Mall.
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    And we got we got to 23, 24 and she was quiet.
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    And I'm driving and I say, "Hey, what about these?"
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    And she goes, "Those were some of
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    the worst years of our life." "Really?"
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    She goes, "You don't remember?
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    You were miserable. You were miserable.
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    You hated the job you were in so much
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    that you hated Sunday night because
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    you knew Monday morning was coming.
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    And before long, you didn't just hate Sunday,
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    you hated Saturday.
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    And when you're married to someone
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    who hates the weekends as well as their job,
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    it's not very fun."
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    And I just started to go, "Oh, my goodness,
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    that's that's right, that's right."
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    I remember going on Sunday night
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    shopping sprees to Target.
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    I have a collection of DVDs that I've never opened
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    because I just wanted to buy something
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    to show I can do something with this money.
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    I can do something with this.
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    It doesn't have control over me.
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    But I got to tell you, the pursuit of a paycheck,
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    the pursuit of promotion,
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    the pursuit of the praise of others,
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    it did not just have me drinking from an empty well.
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    I felt like all that pee had me drinking from the toilet,
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    and I was pissing away the best years of my life,
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    pissing away the best years of my life
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    in pursuit of something that would never satisfy.
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    Now, by the grace of God, I was a part of this church.
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    I was in a small group.
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    We were in a study where a question came up.
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    I remember I was sitting in my living room
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    and it said, "What is God calling you to surrender?"
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    And I felt immediately: your job, your job.
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    And then I was flooded with, "Oh, there's no way.
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    My family is so proud of me.
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    I didn't pay a dime for the education I got.
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    I got a job during a recession
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    that people would kill to have.
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    Not only that, if I quit,
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    there's no way I'm going to find one."
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    And some very wise people, by the way,
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    interesting tidbit, our Lead Pastor Kyle Ranson
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    was in my living room.
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    He said, "That sounds exactly like God.
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    That sounds exactly like God because
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    you're not who he made you to be right now.
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    And so if you're feeling like He says that,
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    we support you."
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    My wife that evening said, "Hey,
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    I don't know what this means, but I'm behind you.
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    I'm behind you."
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    I think I thought that, well, if I heard from God,
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    He's going to like, take this one
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    and give me a dream job right away. Right?
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    Wouldn't that make a great video testimony?
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    Like, "I heard God, I quit,
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    and now He gave me my dream job."
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    And that did not happen. It didn't happen.
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    In fact, I realized no one's hiring.
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    People would say, "We'd love to hire you,
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    but we're in a hiring freeze."
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    And so I showed up in an atrium of Crossroads,
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    and I met with someone and said,
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    "I don't have a job, but I got a lot of time.
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    Can you use me? Can you use me?"
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    They said, "We're going to a student camp tomorrow.
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    Fill out this background check. You can go."
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    And it started the beginning of 18 months going
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    to Wendy's with middle schoolers after service.
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    Learning that I had a little bit of a leadership gift
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    and invitations to teach on a stage
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    and get feedback,
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    the ability to lead entire services on my own.
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    I have to tell you that I didn't have a paycheck,
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    I didn't have a position,
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    and I was the most refreshed and watered
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    I had ever been in my life.
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    It was my first time tasting living water.
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    It was my first time seeing that all those things that I wanted,
  • 00:37:29
    I'd been going to broken wells.
  • 00:37:30
    I've been drinking from the toilet
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    and Jesus was showing me
  • 00:37:33
    when you drink from streams of living water,
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    everything changes.
  • 00:37:37
    Now I got to tell you,
  • 00:37:38
    I am hesitant to ever share this story.
  • 00:37:41
    I'm hesitant because if you're in this room
  • 00:37:44
    and you're in a tough spot in your career,
  • 00:37:46
    the answer is not quit your job and work at a church.
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    I don't want that to be the thing that you hear.
  • 00:37:53
    And I'll just confess that sometimes
  • 00:37:56
    I go back to those Ps.
  • 00:37:58
    Sometimes I look around and go, "Wait,
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    my friend just turned 40
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    and he has way nicer toys than me.
  • 00:38:05
    Did I? Did I jump track too soon?"
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    Or I look at an authority figure,
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    like our senior pastor Brian Tome, and I go,
  • 00:38:12
    "Does he approve of me?
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    Does he think I'm doing a great job?
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    Does he want to do something different about me?"
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    And when that happens, I remember, "Wait a second,
  • 00:38:22
    wait a second. I've been here before."
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    I love the Psalmist describes it like this, verse 5.
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    Where is your soul downcast?
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    Where's your soul feel like
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    it's so brittle it could break?
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    Where's the place where your spirit
  • 00:38:46
    is discontent within you
  • 00:38:48
    and you know it, but you don't know why?
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    What are we to do?
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    What are we to do when our soul is downcast,
  • 00:38:54
    we thirst after God?
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    Well, I'll just keep reading
  • 00:38:57
    because verse 5 continues like this, it says:
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    Hope in God. Hope in God.
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    I got to tell you that being on a stage
  • 00:39:16
    at a church feels like a pat answer.
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    Okay. Hope in God.
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    But how do I do that? How do I do that?
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    I don't know if you notice the language of the Psalmist,
  • 00:39:23
    but he's not preaching to someone else.
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    He's preaching to himself.
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    So why are you downcast?
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    Why are you so downtrodden?
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    Hope in God. Hope in God.
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    Fix your gaze. Put it back where it belongs.
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    Earlier this year, I picked up running
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    mainly because I knew I was 40.
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    I knew I needed to lose some weight,
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    and people take very unflattering photos
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    of me on stage.
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    And so I thought, I've got to fix this once and for all.
  • 00:39:53
    And so I started running.
  • 00:39:54
    And I did it at first and I hated it.
  • 00:39:57
    And the more I did it, the more I actually thought,
  • 00:39:59
    "Man, I like this, I crave that sort of
  • 00:40:02
    I'm not really thinking about anything."
  • 00:40:03
    I love being outside.
  • 00:40:05
    I hate being on a treadmill.
  • 00:40:06
    I love running outside.
  • 00:40:08
    And last week, Justin, who you just heard
  • 00:40:11
    lead some worship, Justin did a triathlon.
  • 00:40:15
    This man did a triathlon.
  • 00:40:16
    He biked and swim and ran and lived to tell about it.
  • 00:40:20
    So I thought, I'm curious how fast I can run a mile.
  • 00:40:24
    So I put my shoes on and I ran out of my house
  • 00:40:26
    onto the sidewalk, and I set my watch
  • 00:40:28
    and I just started running.
  • 00:40:29
    I just started running.
  • 00:40:31
    I thought, "Okay, I can keep this.
  • 00:40:33
    I can keep this pace."
  • 00:40:34
    And like halfway I thought, "Oh no,
  • 00:40:36
    I started way too fast. I started way too fast."
  • 00:40:38
    And by 0.9 miles I was literally preaching to myself,
  • 00:40:42
    "Greg, you can do this.
  • 00:40:43
    I know it hurts.
  • 00:40:44
    I know you want to stop, but you can do this.
  • 00:40:47
    You've been running all year. Don't give up.
  • 00:40:49
    You know at that tree, your watch is going to beep
  • 00:40:51
    and it's going to tell you you made it to one mile.
  • 00:40:53
    Keep going, keep going."
  • 00:40:55
    That's what I had to do to run.
  • 00:40:57
    That's what you have to do to your soul
  • 00:40:59
    when it drinks from the wrong place,
  • 00:41:01
    when you find yourself drinking from a broken well,
  • 00:41:07
    when you find yourself drinking from a dry cystern.
  • 00:41:10
    The Psalmist says you have one option,
  • 00:41:13
    it's to put your hope in God.
  • 00:41:17
    That's why Jesus says, "I am the living water."
  • 00:41:21
    Jesus doesn't say something that
  • 00:41:23
    you get one time and then you're done.
  • 00:41:25
    He uses the thing that He knows we need on a daily basis,
  • 00:41:29
    or else we will not survive.
  • 00:41:31
    Jesus says, "No, I'm the living water
  • 00:41:34
    and you're to drink to me."
  • 00:41:35
    What does the Psalmist say?
  • 00:41:36
    "Again, I put my praise in You,"
  • 00:41:38
    again and again and again, because after this
  • 00:41:42
    I'm going to step off the stage and I'm going,
  • 00:41:44
    "Man, I hope, I hope I have the praise of others,
  • 00:41:46
    I hope I do." I go," Wait a second.
  • 00:41:48
    Don't drink from that.
  • 00:41:49
    Don't drink from the toilet again.
  • 00:41:51
    Fix your eyes on Jesus. Put your hope here."
  • 00:41:54
    Jesus is the only way that we can put our hope
  • 00:41:56
    in a place that will never disappoint.
  • 00:41:59
    And I've just been reminded time and time again.
  • 00:42:02
    You really want to fixate on a paycheck
  • 00:42:05
    because you went 18 months without
  • 00:42:07
    and God was a provider that you could have never matched.
  • 00:42:10
    Do you really want to go after a promotion
  • 00:42:12
    because your Bible says that He chose you
  • 00:42:15
    before the foundation of the world was laid?
  • 00:42:17
    He calls you holy and blameless, and He calls you a son.
  • 00:42:21
    Why would I go after the eyes of men
  • 00:42:24
    when that's what my Father says about me?
  • 00:42:26
    And so I want to give you an opportunity
  • 00:42:31
    to not just know what the longing of your heart is,
  • 00:42:36
    to not just look at the dry well
  • 00:42:40
    that you've been drinking from,
  • 00:42:41
    but to actually take your hope
  • 00:42:44
    and to put it back where it belongs,
  • 00:42:47
    to fix your eyes on Jesus.
  • 00:42:51
    Justin and I went to student camp together,
  • 00:42:54
    and we did this song. - Yeah.
  • 00:42:57
    - And it it sort of wrecked us.
  • 00:42:59
    - It did. Just like sort of your world changed
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    in middle school ministry years ago.
  • 00:43:05
    About a month ago, we were at middle school camp.
  • 00:43:07
    And I tell you, we've said it from the stage
  • 00:43:10
    a bunch of times, but what's happening
  • 00:43:12
    in our student ministries across our church
  • 00:43:13
    is amazing.
  • 00:43:14
    And we got to stand in an arena and hear
  • 00:43:17
    a thousand middle schoolers just
  • 00:43:19
    sing the name of Jesus, sing the name of Jesus.
  • 00:43:23
    And I had never heard this song before
  • 00:43:25
    and thought, "Oh man, it's just so simple.
  • 00:43:28
    It's so good."
  • 00:43:29
    And then why I'm going to play it here
  • 00:43:32
    in this moment is because a few weeks ago,
  • 00:43:34
    it was over in our chapel.
  • 00:43:36
    I don't know if you knew Crossroads had a chapel.
  • 00:43:38
    That sounds very not like us.
  • 00:43:40
    - It is a beautiful chapel. - It's beautiful.
  • 00:43:42
    And we were just around the piano,
  • 00:43:45
    singing songs and singing this song.
  • 00:43:48
    And it was a friend who said, "Hey,
  • 00:43:50
    that week that's coming up on Living Water,
  • 00:43:53
    where we just want to give our people living water,
  • 00:43:57
    that song has to be played."
  • 00:43:58
    So that's why we're going to play it.
  • 00:44:00
    That's what we're doing.
  • 00:44:01
    - Whether you're watching or you're in a room,
  • 00:44:04
    you may not be ready to proclaim this name,
  • 00:44:07
    you may not be ready to sing it or to even say it,
  • 00:44:11
    but I believe that there's power
  • 00:44:12
    in it even being sung over you.
  • 00:44:16
    So that's what we're going to do right now.
  • 00:49:18
    - It is as simple as that.
  • 00:49:21
    It is as simple as that as when your soul is thirsty,
  • 00:49:24
    when your soul is downcast,
  • 00:49:27
    to put your hope back in Him,
  • 00:49:29
    to fix your eyes on Jesus.
  • 00:49:33
    As part of this Thirsty series,
  • 00:49:36
    they they made a funny video.
  • 00:49:38
    They would ask if some of the community pastors
  • 00:49:40
    would participate in.
  • 00:49:41
    And maybe you've seen these viral videos,
  • 00:49:43
    but there's a box with hidden liquids,
  • 00:49:46
    beverages, and straws sticking out of the box.
  • 00:49:49
    And you have to take a drink and guess what it is?
  • 00:49:52
    I did not want to do this,
  • 00:49:53
    but I participated anyway.
  • 00:49:55
    And the first one really took me by surprise.
  • 00:49:59
    I didn't know what it was.
  • 00:50:01
    The second one. Okay, this tastes a little chalky.
  • 00:50:04
    And by the third I went, "Oh right, we're thirsty.
  • 00:50:07
    The funny commercial we're doing energy drinks.
  • 00:50:09
    Right, right. Energy drinks."
  • 00:50:11
    So I went for the fourth and I took a big swig
  • 00:50:15
    and I about spit it out and said,
  • 00:50:16
    "Oh my gosh, what is that?
  • 00:50:18
    It's awful. It's terrible."
  • 00:50:20
    They said, "Are you serious?" I said, "Yeah."
  • 00:50:22
    They said, "It's just water. It's just plain water."
  • 00:50:28
    I think the analogy holds true though,
  • 00:50:30
    because when we're so used to drinking
  • 00:50:34
    from the false source, we don't even know
  • 00:50:37
    what living water tastes like anymore.
  • 00:50:39
    We don't even know what Jesus can do for our soul
  • 00:50:43
    because we've been drinking from the toilet.
  • 00:50:47
    I can put a bowl of ice water in front of my dog,
  • 00:50:50
    or I can leave the lid open
  • 00:50:52
    and I know what he will choose every time.
  • 00:50:55
    Don't do the same thing.
  • 00:50:57
    Don't do the same thing.
  • 00:50:58
    Because Jesus says, "I am living water
  • 00:51:01
    and I can refresh you.
  • 00:51:02
    I can make streams of living water come out of you.
  • 00:51:05
    You can refresh others who are in need."
  • 00:51:08
    And so right now, whether you're at home
  • 00:51:12
    and you've got a cup or whether you're in here
  • 00:51:13
    and you have one of these, we want you to taste
  • 00:51:17
    cold, refreshing, delicious water.
  • 00:51:22
    At home you can fill it up with any ice water,
  • 00:51:25
    whatever would quench your thirst.
  • 00:51:27
    And in this room we've got
  • 00:51:29
    beautiful vessels of water
  • 00:51:31
    across the front of the stage
  • 00:51:32
    and the backs of the room.
  • 00:51:34
    And we're going to continue to worship.
  • 00:51:36
    And if at any time you go,"
  • 00:51:39
    I need some living water.
  • 00:51:41
    Jesus, I'm going to step out
  • 00:51:44
    and I'm going to come to You because
  • 00:51:45
    You're the only one that can satisfy."
  • 00:51:50
    Lord, I pray that as we drink
  • 00:51:53
    this cold, refreshing, crisp water,
  • 00:51:58
    the way that it feels going down into our chest,
  • 00:52:03
    that it would feel like a fresh filling
  • 00:52:05
    of Your Holy Spirit, and that Y
  • 00:52:07
    our Holy Spirit would bring streams of living water.
  • 00:52:13
    Amen.
  • 00:52:14
    Let's stand up as we worship again.
  • 01:05:00
    - We've only got an hour more, so...
  • 01:05:02
    We don't. Here's what we got.
  • 01:05:10
    I'll take you right back to Jesus's words
  • 01:05:12
    in John 7 Jesus said this to you and to me:
  • 01:05:19
    If anyone thirsts, let them come to Me and drink.
  • 01:05:25
    For whoever believes in me,
  • 01:05:28
    just as the Scripture has said,
  • 01:05:30
    out of your heart will flow rivers of living water.
  • 01:05:34
    It's a promise of our Savior and our King,
  • 01:05:39
    and our fountain that never runs dry.
  • 01:05:42
    I hope you walk out of here with a full cup today.
  • 01:05:49
    In the name of Jesus, I bless you as you go.
  • 01:05:51
    Have a great week.
  • 01:05:53
    Glad you're with us online. We'll see you all.

Process, journal or discuss the themes of this article - here's a few questions to get the ball rolling...

Welcome to the Weekend-Follow Up! This is the group part of the Bible Challenge, so your questions are based on specific Bible passages from the weekend message. Each week, your group will discover what God might be saying to you, and how you can respond through a group discussion.

  1. Let’s start with Highs and Lows. What was your High and Low for the week?

  2. What stood out to you most from the message?

  3. Think of a moment when you have been mentally, emotionally, or spiritually thirsty (it can be from the past or present). What were some things that you wrestled with?

  4. What are you drinking right now to quench your thirst, but at the end of the day doesn’t bring satisfaction?

  5. Read John 7:37. What area of your life needs the Living Water Jesus offers?

  6. What would it take for you to drink that everlasting Living Water this week?

  7. Let’s end our time praying together. You can say something like, “Jesus, thank you for your sacrifice and becoming the Living Water for all. Help us to turn to you and trust that you are the source of a full life. Amen.”

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  • Jesus’ Living Water is always there for us to drink. Why can it be difficult for you to trust and rely only on him for hydration?
  • Think of someone in your life who could use Living Water from Jesus. What is one way you could encourage them in the next few weeks?

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