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- Wooh, welcome back
to the Good God Journey,
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we're asking this
question of is God good?
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My name is Kyle.
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- And I'm Hannah.
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And we are so glad that
you're here with us today.
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As you know, if
you've been watching,
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we've been doing
something every week
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to spread just a
little bit of goodness.
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And so this week, of
course, we came prepared.
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Ready to see it?
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We've got a ball pit.
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- Come on, a ball pit in van.
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It's the best thing
in the entire world.
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- It's pretty fantastic
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and it's one of the best
ways to spread goodness,
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wouldn't you agree?
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It's probably also one of the
best ways to spread diseases.
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We thought about this.
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These are brand new
sanitize ball pit balls.
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We thought about
just one lucky family
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will get a one time, only
one use of this ball pit.
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- So let's get --
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We're extra prepped.
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- Let's get our gloves on here.
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- We've got our
gloves, our mask.
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- We've just got
to find some kids
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to convince to get into our van.
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- That sounds terrible.
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So we've got to
find a family, right?
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- Yeah. Yeah,
that sounds better.
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Yeah. Let's go. Let's go.
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- Hi, guys. I'm Hannah.
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- I'm Kyle and we
have a question for you.
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Could you guys use a little
bit of God's goodness today?
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- Yes, yes.
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- OK, we have a surprise
for you. Follow us.
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- Come on.
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- Are you ready
for the instructions?
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Give me a head nod like yeah.
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In there Kyle has a large egg
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and it is filled up
with giant candy.
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And it is stuff that
you might want.
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The team that
does it the fastest
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is going to get an
extra special giant prize.
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- Yes.
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- Are you ready?
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Let's get our good handshake
going. Fist bump, bump, bump.
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OK, we got to do
this the fastest. Go.
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Come on. There
you go. That's right.
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Get those out of your
way. We've got to win.
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[cheering]
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Ok, there's one more in there.
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Come on, you've got this.
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- You got this, let's go, girls.
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You're so close. Yes, good job.
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Oh, yes, give yourselves
a big round of applause.
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Team Kyle.
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- Team Kyle, we can do it,
we can do it.
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- Oh, she's ready to go.
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- Go, go, go, go, go, go, go.
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- Come on.
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- Keep digging.
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- She's not going to beat
us, don't worry. We've got this.
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- I love the energy. Yes!
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- What?
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- What? That was record. Yes!
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- We have a prize for
the winner. What is it?
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- Whoa!
- Yeah.
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- You know what?
That's a good duck
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and God's goodness
is for everyone.
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Everyone is getting
a special prize today.
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- What?
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- Isn't that wonderful?
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Do you want to see what it is?
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Yeah, that's amazing.
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- Is that incredible?
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- That's incredible.
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- I think we've gotten
off to a good start today.
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- We've seen a little bit of
God's goodness. Amazing.
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- Yes.
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- Let's catch up with
Chuck as he talks about
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some of the obstacles
that may come against us
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when we're trying to
find out is God good.
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- Throw this back in there.
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- Is God good?
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Is He good on day one
of working from home?
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How about day 180?
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Is God good when
school is online?
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Is He good when your
business is struggling?
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Is He good even when
everything in the world
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makes you want to scream,
"Good God, what is going on?
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And where are you?"
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That's a fair question
and actually a great prayer
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because we believe there is a
good God with good answers.
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- Hey, I'm Chuck Mingo,
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and this is one of my
favorite things to do.
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I love leisurely casual
walks in the woods.
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We're in this Journey
where we're talking about
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a good God, right?
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God being a good Father
and Him being a good King.
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And today, we're going
to continue to talk about
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how do we live that out
over the long haul of our lives.
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But I want to ask
you a question.
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Think about your favorite movie.
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Now, think about the plot
line of your favorite movie.
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Let me say a couple of mine.
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I love Remember the Titans.
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You remember that one, right?
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It's the one about
the football team
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that wins a championship.
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I'm also a big fan of
the Star Wars universe,
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all nine of the main movies
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and everything else that
they've come out with.
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I love it all, right?
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Star Wars, you know that one.
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That's the one about Luke
Skywalker becoming a hero.
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And I definitely and my
family has a favorite superhero,
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it is the Black Panther.
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And you know that one.
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That's the one about
the guy who became king.
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But aren't those
movies boring or at least
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they sound boring when
I describe them that way?
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You know why?
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Because I'm not
describing the adversity.
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Remember The Titans
is a great movie because
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that football team had to
struggle through racial tension
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to become a team that
won a championship.
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Luke Skywalker
had both the internal
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and the external struggle
of overcoming the dark side
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to become the hero
that we know him to be.
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And yes, Black Panther
became the king,
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King T'Challa forever,
Wakanda forever.
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But the reason was because
he overcame Klaw and Killmongar
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and even his own
family legacy in the past
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to become the king
that we knew him to be.
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Great stories require adversity.
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We love that in our movies.
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We just don't necessarily
like it in our lives.
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In Psalm 34:8, a verse
we've been looking at
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over and over in this
series, this Journey, it says:
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we all love the first
part of that verse:
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Taste and see that
the Lord is good.
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And He is good.
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God is good all the
time and all the time...
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That's right, God is good.
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I just took some of you back
to church. You know that.
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But, that other side
of needing a refuge,
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what does that mean?
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Well, you only need a
refuge if life is a place
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where you may find
yourself under assault.
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Guess what? That's
the reality of life.
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And so we've got to figure out
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how do we walk
in God's goodness.
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And the way to do that
is that we have to take
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a long-term redemptive
view that God is doing good,
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that He's writing a
good story in your life.
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He is a good Father
and he is a good King
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and he has a good
story planned out for you.
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We're going to talk today
about how to believe that
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when life is not good.
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You and I have a
fundamental flaw
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when it comes to
our view of the world.
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It's one of the reasons
why we struggle to believe
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that God is good
in our real lives.
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Because I want life to
be a walk in the woods,
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but the truth is, life
is an obstacle course,
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life is a struggle.
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It is a struggle
in so many ways.
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And actually, the Bible
helps us to see that.
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It helps us to see that this
issue of God's goodness
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has to take place in the context
of our crazy, crazy world.
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I think about it this way.
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Can you imagine if
you were taking a walk
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on Normandy Beach
on June 5th, 1944.
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That' might have
been a great day
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to walk on Normandy
Beach. I don't know.
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But I'll tell you what,
not on June 6th,
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because on June 6, it was D-Day.
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On June 6, Normandy
Beach became a war zone.
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And that's what
the Bible actually
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describes the
world that we live in.
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It says we live in a war zone.
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Ephesians 6:10-12
puts it this way:
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"Finally, be
strong in the Lord,"
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Paul is writing to the
early Christians, he says:
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See, when you're in a
war zone, you understand
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that there's going to
be collateral damage.
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And as I look at our lives
and I look at our world,
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I see the collateral
damage of a world that is
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disrupting and destroying
itself because of sinfulness,
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because of the
brokenness of humanity
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and all the things
that unleashed
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in terms of evil in the world.
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Now let me make a
very clear point here:
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I am not saying that
God calls bad things good.
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God doesn't call
bad things good.
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Cancer, sickness,
illness, death,
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those things are not good.
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In fact, that's one of the
schemes of the enemy.
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One of the schemes the
enemy is to make us think,
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God is behind all that bad stuff
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that's happening in your lives."
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No, God never calls
these things good,
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but God uses those things,
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even the things that
he doesn't cause,
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things that happen because
there's collateral damage,
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He uses those things for
our good and for our growth,
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only if we take a
long-term redemptive view.
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I wonder, what
are the obstacles?
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What are the things right
now in your life that are
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keeping you from walking out
God's goodness in your life?
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Maybe one of those obstacles
is sin and sin patterns.
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I know in my life,
man, I have felt like
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I have been on this web, right,
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of behaviors that
I want to change,
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things in my life that
I can't break through.
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I can feel stuck and maybe
you can identify with that.
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Maybe sometimes those
sin patterns keep you
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from believing that
God's goodness is for you.
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Maybe they keep you
stuck in patterns of shame
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and that's one of the
reasons you struggle
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to believe God is good.
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Or I wonder, you
know, I know we've got
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young parents that
are watching, right?
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You've got kids that aren't
sleeping through the night.
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Man, talk about feeling
like Groundhog Day.
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"Will this wall ever
end? My goodness."
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Maybe you have adult
kids and it's the same thing.
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You're like, "My goodness, will
these kids ever leave the house?"
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You know, and so
many times in our lives,
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the struggle for us
and God's goodness is,
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"God, I've been
here long enough.
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Will I ever be able
to overcome this thing
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that seems to be an
ongoing challenge in my life?"
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You know, for some of us though,
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the struggle is really around
taking those steps of faith
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when things are
shaky and uncertain.
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Maybe right now you're
struggling with the job market.
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It's a really tough time
economically for many people,
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for business owners.
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And you're struggling to say,
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"God, if I keep
taking these steps,
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are you going to be with me?"
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Maybe you're someone
who's been single
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and you thought, "By now
I thought I'd be married.
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I thought I'd have kids by now."
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Maybe you are married,
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but you're struggling
with infertility.
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There are all kinds
of things in our lives
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that require us to just put
one step in front of the other
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and believe that even though
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we haven't reached
our destination yet,
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that God is good and
He's worthy of our trust.
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I don't know what the
obstacles are for you,
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but I bet you all of us
have situations in our lives
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where we pause and we
ask ourselves the question,
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"Can anything
good come of this?"
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- I really resonate
with what Chuck said.
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Sometimes life can
feel like a war zone
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with all of these obstacles,
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and you have to ask
yourself that question:
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can God be good
through all of this?
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- It's an important
question to ask because
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it turns out that
life doesn't get easy
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when you trust in God as good,
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but God does show
up and have your back.
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One of the places
I've seen that in my life
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is with my money.
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God invites us to structure
our money in a way
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that is honoring to
Him and put Him first.
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And we can trust Him to be good
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by following a biblical
principle called tithing.
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- If you want to
join me and Hannah
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and thousands of others
who have taken that step,
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it's easy, just go to
Crossroads.net/give.
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Right now we're going to
catch up with a friend of mine
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who share his story of
trusting the good God so much
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he decided to get baptized.
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- Well, thanks for talking
with us today, Brian.
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You've got an
amazing story I know
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about seeing God's goodness.
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Take me back to the
beginning of your story.
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- So my papaw
practically raised me.
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My dad was a truck driver,
so he was on the road a lot.
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My mom owned her
own little beautician.
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But my dad, he was a
good dad when he was there.
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And I think he tried.
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My mom was a little abusive.
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She came from abusive family.
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They divorced when I was four.
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She would later
meet another guy.
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He became my stepdad and
he was very abusive to her.
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So I got to see a lot of
my mom getting hit on a lot
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and that bothered me.
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I just didn't get a whole
lot out of the church.
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It wasn't till later on my aunt
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would take me to the
Super Bowl of Preaching.
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That's what kind of led me to
starting to come to Crossroads.
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I was still partying and
and going out at night
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and then I'd come
to church on Sunday
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and ask for forgiveness.
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And I could communicate
with people there.
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Like, I feel like these
people like me, you know?
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I kept coming back.
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I would come back
every Sunday by myself
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just learning who God is.
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And I stayed with it.
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And I think that's what has
brought me to where I am now.
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- So you started
going to Crossroads,
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but not everything was
magically perfect in your life
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from that moment on.
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And you struggled with
some addiction issues?
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- Yes, sir.
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I started doing concrete
work when I was about 16, 17.
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I was with a group of guys
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that I probably
shouldn't have been with.
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And, you know, they introduced
me to pain medication,
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but I was a functioning addict.
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I mean, people did not
know that I was doing,
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you know, what I was doing.
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It just kind of
spiraling out of control.
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But, you know, what's done
in the dark comes to the light.
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It was time to make a choice.
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I started digging into the
Bible a whole lot more.
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I mean, I was
trying to get my mind
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away from the outside stuff.
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Some of the passages in
the Bible that I would read
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felt like they were
speaking to me.
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That He let's walk
through green pastures,
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lay in green pastures.
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And just I wanted
that. that good life.
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It was just time to
move on with life
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and get over a huge, huge thing.
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- So I know you made a
bold decision this summer
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to declare in front of everybody
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that you believe God is good.
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It's a decision that I'm
sure people around you
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might even thought,
like, "What are you doing?
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You're crazy, man?"
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So tell me about that
moment this summer.
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- We were actually at The
Cove on the good old Ohio River.
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And I was sitting in
the field and Brian said,
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"If you want to be forgiven
for your sins, stand up."
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So I, I mean, I felt God jerked
me off the field, you know?
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And my buddy Mike
was with me, stood up.
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And two guys from
Crossroads came over
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00:14:59
and asked us if we'd want
to get baptized in the river.
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00:15:02
I was like, "Oh, my gosh,
that would be awesome. Yeah."
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00:15:05
I've always wanted to
get baptized, like in a creek
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00:15:08
or a lake or a pond,
some kind of water
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00:15:10
or something outdoors.
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00:15:13
I was baptized as a
child as a Catholic,
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00:15:15
but I don't -- I didn't
get to make that choice.
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00:15:17
So now I got to
make this choice.
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00:15:19
And I've had so much
guilt just from the past.
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00:15:23
When I came out of that water,
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00:15:24
I mean, it just felt so good.
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00:15:26
I felt like I could breathe
and chains are broken off.
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00:15:30
To get rid of that
guilt and resentment
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00:15:33
that I had towards
myself, just to let things go,
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00:15:36
mainly, you know?
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00:15:38
I even did it with a mask on.
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00:15:41
So that really broke down
the wall between me and God.
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00:15:47
I bond with Him more.
I call Him a Father.
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00:15:50
He's my rock, my salvation.
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00:15:53
The things that He's
putting around me,
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00:15:55
the doors that He's opened,
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00:15:57
the opportunities that I've had,
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00:16:00
my wife, my kids, my
life, my house, my car.
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00:16:03
I just -- we owe it all to
Him, you know, it's all His.
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00:16:07
I feel like I'm part
of the family now
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00:16:10
that I wasn't part of before.
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00:16:15
- Man, baptism is
such a powerful step
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00:16:18
and that story was
so impactful, so good.
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00:16:21
He took this bold
step to say to God,
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00:16:23
"I believe You are a good
Father and a good King,"
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00:16:26
and declared it through baptism.
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00:16:27
If you want to take that
same step of baptism
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00:16:29
that Brian took, you can.
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00:16:30
Great news, we're
working on plans for you.
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00:16:32
Coming up the last
week of the Journey
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00:16:34
so go to Crossroads.net/baptism
to find out more.
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00:16:37
- Let's head back to Chuck.
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00:16:46
- You know, one of
the things that I love
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00:16:47
about the Bible is
there are many people
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00:16:49
who Jesus interacts with
who are asking that question,
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00:16:51
can anything good
come out of my situation?
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00:16:54
One of those is a man
who brings his son to Jesus
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00:16:58
because his son is
demon possessed.
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00:17:01
Yes, I know that sounds weird,
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00:17:02
but we see that over and over
again in the New Testament,
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00:17:04
people who literally
have been infected
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00:17:07
and affected by a
spiritual presence.
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00:17:09
That spiritual power
that we talked about
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00:17:11
in Ephesians that
is not God's power.
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00:17:13
And this boy is one of them
and he's having seizures.
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00:17:15
And it's been
happening for a long time.
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00:17:17
And he comes to Jesus and
he just wants help for his son.
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00:17:21
In fact, the story
picks up with Jesus
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00:17:23
interacting with him and his
son and Mark 9:21, it says:
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00:17:42
See, this is not
a surface problem
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00:17:43
that this father's
coming to Jesus with.
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00:17:45
This is a demonic problem.
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00:17:47
There is a real spiritual
force coming against him,
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00:17:50
and it's a problem
that's had a long duration.
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00:17:52
It's been happening
since his boy was a child.
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00:17:55
And this father, as you
can imagine, is desperate
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00:17:58
and he is doubtful.
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00:17:59
And I relate to this father
because, you know what?
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00:18:02
He's hit a wall.
He's hit a wall.
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00:18:04
Have you ever hit a wall
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00:18:06
in your spiritual
journey with God?
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00:18:08
If you haven't, you're going to.
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00:18:10
This is just the reality of the
broken world that we live in,
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00:18:13
this war zone that we live in,
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00:18:14
that we come against
things in our lives
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00:18:16
that we just can't
seem to get over.
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00:18:19
And this wall stands is
just a very clear reminder
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00:18:22
of the brokenness of this world.
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00:18:24
Actually, Janet Hagberg
is a writer, an author.
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00:18:28
She's done a lot of research
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00:18:29
on what is a spiritual journey?
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00:18:31
What does it look
like when you're
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00:18:32
on a journey of growing
your relationship with God?
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00:18:34
And she actually would say
the wall is part of the process.
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00:18:37
She puts it this way, she says:
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00:19:11
Man, I've hit some walls.
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00:19:13
I'll be honest and tell you,
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00:19:14
month two of this
pandemic I hit a spiritual wall.
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00:19:17
Every part of my
life was struggling.
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00:19:19
My marriage was struggling.
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00:19:20
I was struggling at work.
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00:19:21
I was struggling to adjust to
all the changes in the world.
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00:19:24
I hit a spiritual wall.
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00:19:26
I was walking
through some difficulty
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00:19:27
in my own personal
life that led me
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00:19:29
to places of depression
and discouragement.
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00:19:32
And I was in a slump.
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00:19:33
I didn't know what
to do to get out of it.
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00:19:35
It was just where I was.
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00:19:37
I hit another wall this summer,
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00:19:39
first with the killing
of Ahmaud Arbery,
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00:19:43
then Breonna Taylor
and George Floyd.
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00:19:44
All of the things that
happened this summer
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00:19:46
put me in a place of
saying, "God, again?
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00:19:48
Are we here again when it
comes to race in this country?"
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00:19:53
And I've got a
track record of walls.
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00:19:55
At age 30, I hit a wall
that led to anxiety attacks
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00:19:58
and ultimately me needing
to change my career.
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00:20:01
A loss of a parent, went
through that wall recently.
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00:20:03
Miscarriage of a child.
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00:20:06
There are all kinds of
walls that I've experienced
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00:20:08
in my life so I can
relate to this father.
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00:20:11
And Jesus says this to
him, after he comes to Jesus
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00:20:14
and says, "I'm struggling,
I'm in a difficult place.
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00:20:17
Jesus, can you help me?
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00:20:18
If you can do
anything, help me."
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00:20:19
You know what Jesus says to him?
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00:20:27
But I love the fathers
honest response.
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00:20:36
Friends, these might be the
most honest words spoken
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00:20:38
by anybody in the Bible
besides Jesus and God Himself.
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00:20:43
I believe, I believe,
look at my life,
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00:20:45
look at all the obstacles that
God has walked me through.
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00:20:48
I know what God can do.
I know that God is good.
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00:20:52
But I'm at a wall.
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00:20:54
I believe, but help my unbelief.
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00:20:56
And I love that Jesus
doesn't scold this guy
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00:20:59
for being honest about
where he was in his faith.
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00:21:02
You know what Jesus does?
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00:21:03
He listens to him. He
empathized with him.
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00:21:06
He was present with him.
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00:21:08
And I want you to know, when
you hit your spiritual wall,
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00:21:10
it may not feel like it.
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00:21:12
It might seem like
Jesus is distant,
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00:21:14
but he is not distant.
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00:21:15
He is listening to you.
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00:21:18
He is present with you.
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00:21:20
He is empathizing with you.
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00:21:22
One of the reasons is
because Jesus knows
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00:21:23
what it's like to hit a wall.
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00:21:26
Mark 14:36, we see
Jesus in one of His walls,
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00:21:30
the wall called the
Garden of Gethsemane,
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00:21:32
where Jesus knows the next
day He is going to experience
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00:21:36
unbelievable torture
as He dies on a cross
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00:21:38
for my sin and for your sin.
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00:21:41
And Jesus says, "Abba, Father,
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00:21:42
all things are
possible for you."
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00:21:45
In the Garden of Gethsemane, He
says, "Remove this cup from me."
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00:21:48
Jesus knows there's pain
ahead and He's at a wall
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00:21:51
and He's saying,
He's asking His Father,
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00:21:53
He's saying, "Father,
if there's any way
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00:21:55
to get around this
wall, I want that.
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00:21:57
But I want to follow you more.
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00:22:00
Not what I will, but
Your will be done."
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00:22:04
Jesus hit a wall in the
garden, He'd be put on trial,
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00:22:08
He'd be wrongly convicted,
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00:22:09
and then He would die one
of the most torturous deaths
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00:22:11
that humanity has ever
invented, crucifixion.
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00:22:16
And Jesus knows that
as He meets with this man
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00:22:19
who all this father
can see is the wall.
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00:22:21
He doesn't know what's to come,
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00:22:23
he doesn't have a sense
of what Jesus is about to do.
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00:22:27
But Jesus doesn't just
empathize with him,
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00:22:29
He does something else.
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00:22:30
The story goes on and says:
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00:22:34
Jesus cast the
demon out of this boy.
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00:22:36
But it says:
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00:22:48
I want you to hear those words:
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00:22:50
Jesus took the boy and
He lifted him on his feet
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00:22:55
and he stood up.
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00:22:57
Now, listen, I don't
want you to take this
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00:22:59
to mean that
everything in your life
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00:23:00
is going to have a
happy ending right now.
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00:23:02
That's not the point
here. That's not the point.
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00:23:04
But here's what I
do want you to know.
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00:23:06
I want you to know that
Jesus will walk with you
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00:23:08
until everything that is broken
is ultimately made whole.
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00:23:12
Hey, let me tell you something:
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00:23:13
God is good because
if the story isn't good,
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00:23:16
then the story isn't done.
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00:23:18
I think about a friend of
mine who worked in a country
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00:23:22
that really had, quite frankly,
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00:23:24
an epidemic of sex trafficking,
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00:23:27
young girls being
raped for profit.
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00:23:30
And when you're
close to that work
-
00:23:31
and you see both the successes,
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00:23:33
but also a lot of times
when the pimps get off
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00:23:36
and the girls are re-trafficked,
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00:23:37
you have to ask yourself,
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00:23:38
"How can you stay
hopeful in that kind of work?"
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00:23:41
And I'll never forget
what my friend said to me.
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00:23:43
He said, "Chuck, one of
the things I had to believe
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00:23:45
and still believe is that
God has all of eternity
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00:23:49
to make it right."
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00:23:51
Friends, let me
tell you something,
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00:23:52
as much as the walls
in my life, I would love
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00:23:56
to get over all of them
on this side of eternity.
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00:23:59
The truth is, it's a war zone.
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00:24:02
And in a war zone,
there's collateral damage.
-
00:24:04
In a war zone, people die.
-
00:24:06
In a war zone, pain
will keep happening.
-
00:24:09
But the hope that
we have is that
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00:24:12
this isn't the end of our story.
-
00:24:14
If the story isn't good,
then the story isn't done.
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00:24:18
And I believe what
Jesus was doing
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00:24:20
when He lifted that boy
up and raised him up
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00:24:22
was He was prophetically
communicating
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00:24:25
what He was going
to experience Himself.
-
00:24:27
Jesus himself was
going to go down
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00:24:29
and be as if He was dead.
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00:24:31
He actually was dead, but
three days later, Jesus got up.
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00:24:34
And so we had the
hope of the resurrection.
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00:24:36
We have the hope that
our story isn't limited
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00:24:38
to what happens in the
80 years or the 75 years
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00:24:41
or the 55 years, or maybe
sadly younger than that years
-
00:24:44
that we live on this
earth, because our story
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00:24:47
is connected to the
story that Jesus is telling
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00:24:49
of a resurrection, of a
life that is yet to come.
-
00:24:52
Let me tell you why
I know God is good.
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00:24:54
I know God is good,
because what I'm promised
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00:24:57
is that I will experience
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00:24:58
the same kind of
resurrection that Jesus did.
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00:25:02
That doesn't mean
that I'm not going to have
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00:25:04
a lot of setbacks on
this side of heaven,
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00:25:06
but it does mean that one day
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00:25:08
all of those setbacks
will be made right.
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00:25:11
I love what it says
in 1 Corinthians 15,
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00:25:14
and I want to encourage
you with this scripture.
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00:25:17
This is after Paul
has written some of
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00:25:19
the most beautiful words
about the resurrection of Jesus.
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00:25:23
And he finishes all of that
by saying this. He says:
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00:25:42
Friends, your
labor is not in vain.
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00:25:44
The difficulty is not in vain.
-
00:25:46
The hard times are not in vain.
-
00:25:48
Going through the
wall is not in vain.
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00:25:49
God doesn't waste anything
and He will redeem everything.
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00:25:56
The story isn't good
and the story isn't done.
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00:26:00
When you face a wall, I
want you to look for the rope.
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00:26:03
I want you to look for the rope.
-
00:26:05
I want you to look
and understand that
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00:26:06
in the midst of your wall,
-
00:26:07
in the midst of
your circumstances,
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00:26:09
God is doing something.
-
00:26:10
He has not abandoned you.
-
00:26:12
He's present with you.
-
00:26:13
He's listening to you.
-
00:26:14
He's empathizing with you.
-
00:26:16
He will empower you and me,
-
00:26:18
and He will enable us to
experience His goodness.
-
00:26:20
I think about the the wall
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00:26:22
of the second month
of the pandemic
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00:26:24
and how it taught me some things
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00:26:27
that are making me a better
husband now to my wife
-
00:26:29
because of the difficult
things we went through.
-
00:26:31
I think about the
wall of the summer
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00:26:33
and how amidst all of the pain
-
00:26:35
of the racial division
in our country,
-
00:26:37
I am seeing seeds of
hope and God is allowing
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00:26:39
and inviting me into
the work of hope.
-
00:26:41
I think about that every
time I think about a wall.
-
00:26:44
I don't know what your wall is,
-
00:26:46
but I want to encourage
you to look for a rope.
-
00:26:49
I want you to know
that Jesus wants
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00:26:50
to reach out His hand to you.
-
00:26:52
God is good and He will
reach out His hand to you
-
00:26:54
in the midst of the circumstances
that don't seem good,
-
00:26:57
that He will take
you up by your feet
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00:27:00
and He will stand you up in
His goodness and in His love.
-
00:27:04
Friends, if the
story isn't good,
-
00:27:08
then the story isn't done.
-
00:27:12
As we listen to this song,
-
00:27:13
think about what obstacles
you need to lay down to God
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00:27:16
and in a minute we're going to
go through that wall together.
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00:31:45
- To walk in the
goodness of God,
-
00:31:46
you've got to
press into the wall.
-
00:31:49
And how do you do that?
-
00:31:50
Well, I think that father
in the story shows us how,
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00:31:53
it's total surrender and
connection to Jesus.
-
00:31:56
I love in the moment when
Jesus is about to heal his son,
-
00:31:58
he has totally surrendered
to whatever God is doing
-
00:32:00
in that moment, even to
the point of being honest
-
00:32:03
about his struggle to believe.
-
00:32:05
And I think God
wants the same of us.
-
00:32:06
When we remember that God
is a good Father and a good King
-
00:32:10
that can totally be surrendered
to no matter what we think.
-
00:32:12
And even with our struggle,
-
00:32:14
we experience more of
His goodness in our lives.
-
00:32:16
One of the ways we
practice that is by singing
-
00:32:18
these songs that are
really prayers set to music
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00:32:20
that remind us of
God's goodness.
-
00:32:22
They remind us that He's a
good Father and a good King.
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00:32:24
So I want to encourage
you to press in
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00:32:26
and let's sing together.
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00:41:16
- Man, don't let anything
stand between you
-
00:41:19
and the goodness of God
-
00:41:20
that He has for you
right around the corner.
-
00:41:22
- Yeah, and what Chuck
talked about with surrender,
-
00:41:25
if that's something
you're interested in,
-
00:41:26
you want to maybe
surrender through baptism,
-
00:41:28
you can go to
Crossroads.net/baptism right now
-
00:41:32
to find out more information.
-
00:41:34
And if you want to
chat with us any time,
-
00:41:36
you can go to Crossroads.net.
-
00:41:38
- Next week on a
Good God Journey
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00:41:39
we're going to wrap
things up by talking about
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00:41:41
the family of God
that He invites you to.
-
00:41:42
And that's not just any family,
-
00:41:44
it's a family with
an amazing mission.