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I've been painting for years, but
it wasn't until about four
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years ago while I was studying abroad
in Spain that God gave me
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a vision for Hosanna revival.
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I had this idea to rebound
and paint my bilingual Bible because
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it was plain black and I
wanted it to be beautiful and
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personal, a reflection of the way
that the words on the inside
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really made me feel.
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There God sparked in me a vision
to use my artwork for something
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way beyond what I could
have ever imagined, something that
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would draw other women
closer to him.
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The vision was simple: use beautiful
artwork to attract women to
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scripture.
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It seemed crazy at first, and
it really wasn't being done
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anywhere else, but God showed
me where it could go.
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The question was, was
I willing to follow?
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Once I stopped wrestling and
said, yes, that spark finally
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caught and everything took
off from there.
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God makes cells, volcanoes, and literally
puts the stars in the
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sky.
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He makes every single
thing that exists.
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And I'm painting replicas
of his creations.
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God, the original creator, created me
in his image and sharing
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that with Him is such a gift.
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I think no matter what we're
creating, whether it's food in the
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kitchen or spaces for people
to feel welcomed and loved,
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knowing that our creations can really
draw people to Jesus is a
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fuel to the fire.
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And that's absolutely
why I create.
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I'm Katie and God is igniting
life in me through helping women
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discover the true creator.
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Yeah, I love hearing from people
who love what they do.
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It may not be my thing all
the time, but if you're passionate
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about what you're doing, then I
want to hear more about that.
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So, if we haven't met yet, my
name is Justin and one of the
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things I'm passionate
about is music.
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Music helps center me, it helps
ground me in a moment.
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It helps me express some things
that just other things can't or
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don't.
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And so around here we use
music to connect to God.
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We sing songs about
Him and to Him.
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And that's how we're
going to start today.
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So if you're in the room
with us, stand with us.
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If you're at home, turn it up.
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We're going to singing together.
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Jesus, the very whisper of
your name cancels out darkness.
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Jesus, your name destroys every single
thing that has tried to
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work against us to keep us down.
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Your name, Jesus, is enough.
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It's enough.
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So, God, I just pray over
every person in this room, every
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person watching, God, that they would
hear Your name and feel
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darkness flee.
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Got, that they would hear your name
and feel the weight come off
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of their shoulders.
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God, that they would hear Your name
and know that You know them.
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You know what they're going
through and you will lift
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burdens just with the
whisper of your name.
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So God, we praise
You, we thank You.
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We love You.
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In Your precious holy
name we pray. Amen.
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It was amazing
worshipping with you.
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Seriously, it's an honor to
do this with you all.
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So we want you
to know each other.
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So why did you say hi
to someone next to you?
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Maybe tell them what you did
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yesterday. And then after you do that, have a
seat. I"m glad that you are here with us.
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It's no secret if you'd been around
a length of time that I like
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motorcycles, but you might not know
the origin of how that came
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about.
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It was the craziest, most stupid
idea I thought that I'd ever
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heard up to that point.
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I was in a group meeting with
a bunch of men in the mornings.
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We were meeting for
a couple of years.
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Then one of the guys said, "Hey,
why don't we -- Why don't we
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take our wives, fly out to
Vegas, rent motorcycles and like
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hang out for four days
or so with everybody?".
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And I thought that
was utterly ridiculous.
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It was outside my mind of
how someone should spend their time,.
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outside my mind of how
someone should spend their money.
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I hadn't written a motorcycle since
I was twenty two years old
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and I was married for three weeks
and I sold it because we were
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low on cash.
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And I hadn't written a motorcycle
since and I hadn't thought of
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riding one since.
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And my body was on
overdrive, medically speaking, my adrenal
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glands were fried.
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They were open all the
time worrying about budget things,
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staffing things, preaching things,
all kind of stuff.
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And so play was nowhere
on my mind at all.
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We decided to go because I put
in my mind of, "Oh, well, this
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will be sort of ministry, so
I could actually make it work
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because I'm trying to build on
these guys and their marriages.
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So I'll be able to do that.".
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And what I experienced
blew me away.
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I got restored, I got refreshed,
and it actually opened up an
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entire new lease on life.
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Two things I've learned that make
life work, purpose and play.
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If you don't have purpose,
your life won't work.
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And if you don't have
play, your life won't work.
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I can think of
these on two axis.
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I've kind of devised this.
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I've been thrown around people and
it seems to make sense.
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We have the x axis, which is
purpose and the y axis which is
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play.
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These are two things that if
you don't have these things, your
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life is not going to work well.
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What is purpose?
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Purpose is when you have a point
for living that day, when you
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have a to do list, you have
things you've got to get done.
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You've got people you've
got to talk to.
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You've got something that's propelling you
to get up in the day.
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It's moving your day forward.
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That's why I like it
on the x axis.
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You're kind of moving.
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It's like chop,
chop, chop, chop.
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What is play?
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Play is utterly unproductive.
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You're not moving.
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You're not chop chop.
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If you are moving and chop chop
on a motorcycle at 80 miles an
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hour, you're moving and chop,
chopping because you're not
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thinking about anything else that's
going to add to your
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paycheck.
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You don't thinking about anything
else that's going to increase
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your notoriety with people.
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You're not thinking about anything
else that's going to justify
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that time.
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You are off and you
start to get restored.
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When you see that the intersection
of purpose and play, if you
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see somebody who has in the
lower right corner, who has all
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purpose, they're going where
they need to go.
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They're work in bookoo
hours every week.
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I don't even know what bookoo hours
is, but bookoo for you might
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not be bookoo for you.
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It's a matter of
your own personal capacity.
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When you see somebody that's all
about where they're going, what
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they're doing, and that's all
they're doing, it's all they're
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about, their life eventually
becomes painful, becomes painful.
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This is where I was.
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My adrenal glands were fried.
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I was breaking down physically,
gaining weight, back getting
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worse and worse.
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I was having to convince myself
to do things like preach, which
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I love and I know is important,
but I was having to convince
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myself and try to fire
myself up for it.
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There was all kinds of fraying on
the homefront and all over the
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place because I was about
working, building a church, doing
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stuff was important stuff and
without any sense of distraction
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or play, life
became incredibly painful.
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If you are all play, all
being off, not really doing anything
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that is productive.
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If that's all --
That's another extreme thing.
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If you're in the upper left.
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If you're all the way up
there, your life becomes pointless.
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What is the point to your life?
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This is, by the way, why these
things are very clear, when you
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retire and your goal is just to
not have purpose, it's to golf
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or watch Price is Right
or whatever it is.
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When you do that, statistics are
very clear, you die sooner
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because we all need to
point to our life.
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And so we're only playing,
we're only detaching, we're only
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watching TV, we're only reading novels,
we're not going to have
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something, it's going
to be pointless.
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If you have no play in your life
and you have no purpose in your
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life, you have a pitiful life.
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It is pitiful. Nothing
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is good going on in
your life at all.
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Where I want to get more of us
to, it's where I am right now, I
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have been for a while.
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I want to get more and more
people to, in fact, we're going to
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do a journey in this fall.
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A journey is something we haven't done
for a year and a half and
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we're going to do on this fall.
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It is a -- it is a full
on creative press to try to bring an
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area of spiritual growth
to our lives.
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We're going to do it this fall.
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So we will shut things down
around Crossroads and we have the
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best services we possibly can that
coincide with groups that we
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all get in and awesome stuff we
can do at home if we want.
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And it's going to be
around this upper right progress,
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quadrants.
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It's going to be around
this entire matrix actually having
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purpose in play.
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It's going to be getting to
a place where you prosper.
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Where you prosper.
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When you have a high degree of
play and when you have purpose,
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your life, there is a
prosperity that comes to you.
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Now, I hate to use that
word almost because unfortunately that
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word prosperity has been
hijacked by the televangelists.
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And that word is only used
by some pastors in relationships who
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you should give, you should give
more so God prospers you.
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And to be clear, I'm
a big fan of giving.
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The closer I get to Jesus, the
more I want to be like Him.
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He gave His life.
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So that's a
great, great message.
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But that is such a fine
smidgen of what prosperity is worth.
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Thirty one hundred times in the
Bible the word prosperity is
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used.
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Over thirty one hundred.
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Let me say it, over thirty one
hundred times in the Bible the
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word prosperity is used.
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Here's one of the early ones.
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Deuteronomy 22:9:
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You may prosper.
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You may succeed and all you do.
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Having prosperity, it's being in a
land that is lush, it's being
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in land where there
is -- there's purpose.
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It's being in a land where
you don't feel impinge upon and
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squashed on.
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It's like there's
wide open spaces.
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You're just -- you're just --
you're just living large, enjoying
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and cruising through life.
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And this is why God talks about
this word, there's all kind of
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angles to this word.
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Over thirty one hundred times.
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The Book of Jeremiah
44:17, it says:
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Man, it's an awesome thing when
you have plenty of food.
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In fact, when all your needs are met
and a heck of a lot of your
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wants are met.
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That is amazing.
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One more, Psalm 1:3, it says
this: He -- Who is he?
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He is somebody who is being blessed
by God, who is close by
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God.
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Now, there's a lot
of going on here.
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We imagine or you can see this,
there's a body of water here
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that's going by here.
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And you've got this
tree that's growing.
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And whenever a tree is growing and
its roots are going into the
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ground, it's going into ground
that's right beside the water
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table and it's an
incredibly moist ground.
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It's luscious, moist ground.
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Some of us really don't like
that word moist, I know.
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Do you not like the word? Who
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doesn't like the word moist?
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Just raise your hand.
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I will not say moist anymore.
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So, it's this land where all
the vitamins and nutrients are in
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there and the roots are growing.
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And when this happens, this
tree starts blossoming, growing.
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It's a figure for what our life
should be like, we should be
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planted beside God, where we're
feeling His presence and where
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the our hearts going deeper and
we're getting more and more
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grounded in character and
in His truth.
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And while this happens, it
says: Fruit comes out.
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Now, I think it's
interesting that it's fruit.
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It doesn't say vegetables.
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It says fruit.
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I am pro vegans.
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I am pro vegetarianism.
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I'm not one because
animals taste too good.
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They just do.
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But I am pro it because every day,
I have a lot of salads and I
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just I --every time I'm like,
"I think I could become a
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vegetarian. I really could."
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It's wonderful.
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But like I said that I like
the taste of animals too much.
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But here is here is the
thing that's interesting about this
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And people are very specific when
you want to really, really be
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healthy and you want to get
vegan, they're more specific saying
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it needs be a
plant-based diet, plant based.
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What are they saying by that?
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Well, it's basically vegetable
based, plant based.
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Fruit is God's dessert.
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Fruit is God's way to
play with our taste buds.
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Fruit is God's way to give
us strawberries and blackberries and
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explode.
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If all God was concerned about
was the purpose, the purpose of
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you having fuel and energy to do
the stuff that you need to do,
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then there wouldn't be any
need for fruit because desert.
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If you really want to be healthy
and you want to not eat
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animals, you need to do broccoli
and spinach and all that.
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And I like all those things.
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But it's interesting, this
verse says fruit.
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So when we prosper. there
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is an advance in our life.
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We feel like we're advancing.
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We feel like we're
getting things done.
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We can see points
on the scoreboard.
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The metrics are looking good.
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There are things that
we can measure.
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And we're feeling pleasure and
we're playing and our tastebuds
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are dancing just because God is
good and because we are human
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beings, we aren't human doings.
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If all we're doing is that
stuff, we're gonna hurt ourself.
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So my request for you is
this summer, the rest of the
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summer, take care yourself.
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Don't leave vacation days
on the table.
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Take care of yourself.
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Know what it is you
need to accomplish every week.
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As we get closer to this fall
we're going to amp this up because
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we want the best view it's gonna
be called the Play and Purpose
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Journey and it's going
to be really effective.
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Man, it's good to be with
you, my name's Lena Schuler.
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I'm the Crossroads
Anywhere Community Pastor.
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And just last week, we were
out visiting our community in
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Newport Beach, California.
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One of the people in that
community who's part of the watch
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party that happens there
is my friend Meghan.
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And Meghan's got a
pretty sweet story.
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And she actually might be the
most joyful person that I know.
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So, why don't we check out
what Meghan has to say.
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Hi, I'm Meghan, and I'm out
here in Orange County, California.
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[ cheers and applause ]
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We gather friends from Cincinnati and
friends who are locals to
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meet and do life together.
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I'm from Cincinnati originally and
actually met Jesus while
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I was a college student at
the University of Cincinnati through
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Crossroads.
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When I was a college student, this
is a great way to invite your
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friends to church if
you ever need one.
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I had some friends who said, "Come
over for a girls wine night.
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We're having wine at our
house in our living room.".
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Great way to bait and switch
your friends into a Bible study,
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which is what I walked into
in my friend's living room.
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I met Jesus there.
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I got baptized in a bar.
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It was awesome.
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And now I live in Orange
County, California, and do life with
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some awesome people out here.
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Just this last weekend, I had
an opportunity to talk about what
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life is like being in community when
I had a friend come visit
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California and say, "How did you
make so many friends after
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college? Nobody makes friends
after college that easily.
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00:25:11
And that's super hard to do.
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00:25:12
What is your secret?".
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00:25:14
And I said, "The
Crossroads Anywhere map.
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You obviously just go to church
and you make friends at church.
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Like what does other -- what
does any 23 year old do?
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That's super normal.
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And encouraged her to go seek that
out because I have found the
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most amazing community out here and
get to encourage her on
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towards her faith and getting to
seek that out for herself
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because that is where joy comes
from, is from friends and
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having community like this.
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When I was in college and met
Jesus, it was not easy at first.
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It was super crazy to be in
a world filled with people who were
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always wanting to go out.
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And I used to want to
do that and I still did.
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But I didn't want to at the
same time, because I really wanted
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00:25:55
to live the life that God had for
me and walk away from some of
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00:25:59
those things as hard as it was.
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00:26:00
So when I met Jesus, I was
living with my best friend at the
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00:26:06
time, literally sharing a room.
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00:26:08
And my friends, my roommates, people
I was in class with would
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00:26:11
say things like, "Why
aren't you fun anymore?
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00:26:14
Like what happened to you?
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00:26:15
Why don't you do the
things you used to do?
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00:26:18
And I actually got to say all
the time, "Well, I go to this
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00:26:24
awesome church, you should
come with me.
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00:26:26
I want you to
have your life changed.
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00:26:28
And I want you to experience
the joy that I've experienced in
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00:26:31
that community and knowing
life with God.
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00:26:33
So please come with me, because
that's the best gift you can
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00:26:37
give a friend is to invite them
to know the God who made them
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00:26:41
and who loves them.
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00:26:42
So at the end of college,
right after graduation, I actually got
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00:26:45
to baptize my best friend, who I
was living with at the time.
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00:26:48
And there is no greater joy in
the entire world than getting to
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00:26:53
do that.
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00:26:55
We're on a Go Trip together
and it was the coolest thing.
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00:26:59
And she gets to live in that
same joy and we get to share
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00:27:02
stories of what God is doing in
our life all the time now,
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00:27:05
which is so incredible.
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00:27:08
Now, in the workplace, I just
recently had something happen in
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00:27:12
my professional life, which most people
think has nothing to do
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00:27:16
with your church life or with
God, but really it does.
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00:27:20
I've learned a lot about money.
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00:27:21
I've learned a lot about how
to be a hard worker.
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00:27:23
I've learned a lot about how to let
my -- do the things I say
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00:27:27
I'm going to do and how to be
good on my word and really be a
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00:27:30
great employee because of the
things I've learned in church.
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00:27:34
I was in my desk recently
and had the funniest, coolest thing
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00:27:38
happen.
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00:27:39
I found out I was getting a
tax return and I live in California.
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00:27:42
So, if you don't know that, that
means no one gets a tax return.
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00:27:45
It means that you don't
get a tax return.
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00:27:47
It's not a thing that happens.
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00:27:49
But because I was tithing and just
giving the way that I learned
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00:27:54
to handle my money.
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00:27:56
My co-workers asked me, "Well, how the
heck did you get a tax
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00:27:59
return? You know, what
do you do?".
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00:28:01
And I got to talk to them
about giving and why I give.
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00:28:04
And that's -- that was not
a big deal for me.
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00:28:08
So recently in a staff meeting, I
had a co-worker say to me,
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00:28:13
"You know, I've really been
thinking differently about how I
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00:28:15
want to spend my money and how
I want to be generous because of
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00:28:18
what you said.
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00:28:20
And because of what
that inspired in me."
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00:28:22
So that was a really -- I mean,
that brought me so much joy to
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00:28:25
be able to experience someone else
taking that on for themself
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00:28:31
and hopefully getting to now
be generous as well.
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00:28:35
So in all of these different
stages of life, or whether it's
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00:28:40
someone from the past reaching
out, saying, "Hey, I've noticed
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00:28:44
your joy on social media.
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00:28:47
I'm going through a really hard time
and you just are full of
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00:28:50
joy and you have great friends.
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00:28:52
And that's not really common in
the world we live in today.
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00:28:56
What's what's the secret?".
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00:28:59
Well, the secret is Jesus.
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00:29:01
The secret is you go to church
and you make good friends and you
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00:29:05
live in community with other people
and you get to do fun
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00:29:08
things together and you get together
in homes like this with
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00:29:12
amazingly hospitable people.
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00:29:14
And you get to do
that because of following Jesus.
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00:29:18
So in any different setting in
life, in any different scenario,
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00:29:22
there is so much joy in
sharing Jesus with friends and in
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00:29:27
inviting them with you to experience
the life that you have
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00:29:31
because of your life with Jesus.
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00:29:34
And it's brought so much joy to
my life, and it will bring so
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00:29:38
much joy to your life as well.
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00:29:41
And if you're on the Crossroads
Anywhere map and are looking for
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00:29:44
somewhere to go on vacation or
take your group, your living
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00:29:49
room full of people on a domestic
go trip, come join us out
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00:29:51
here in California.
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00:29:52
It's amazing.
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00:29:54
And this is the best place in the
world to do church and do life
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00:29:57
So... [ cheers and applause ]
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00:30:04
I couldn't even count the number
of times that I've been sitting
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00:30:08
around a table or someone's
living room and the conversation
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00:30:11
has come up, "What am
I doing with my life?
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00:30:15
What's my purpose? Is
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00:30:17
what I'm doing meaningful,
does it matter?"
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00:30:20
I can think specifically of one
dinner I had, it was shortly
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00:30:24
after I graduated college and my
very best friends came over
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00:30:28
for dinner in my apartment.
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00:30:31
We were sitting around the table
in the kitchen and we're just
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00:30:33
talking about how life is going.
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00:30:35
And most of my friends, all of my friends
took 8 to 5, 8 to 6, 9
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00:30:42
I don't know,
corporate jobs, OK?
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00:30:45
And so we're sitting around this table
and I was the only one in
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00:30:48
my friend group that didn't go
work at a big company after
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00:30:52
college.
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00:30:54
And I remember sitting there and
we're just talking about how
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00:30:57
work's going, how life's going.
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00:30:59
And one person after another around
that table at some point had
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00:31:06
a bit of an emotional breakdown.
-
00:31:09
And the conversation went a
little something like this.
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00:31:12
"I just don't know what
I'm supposed to be doing."
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00:31:17
"I don't know if I'm
even passionate about this job.".
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00:31:21
I don't know if I have
any purpose at 10:00 a.m.
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00:31:24
on a Tuesday or 4:00 p.m.
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00:31:26
on a Friday."
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00:31:28
And person after person had
the same feelings, the same
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00:31:33
experiences.
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00:31:34
And I was sitting there and for
the maybe the first time, I
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00:31:38
wasn't the one crying
around the table.
-
00:31:41
Usually I'm, I can
be fairly emotional.
-
00:31:44
And I wasn't for myself in that
moment, but my heart broke for
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00:31:48
my friends who just were feeling
so lost and purposeless and
-
00:31:54
like they didn't have meaning.
-
00:31:57
And I can honestly say I don't
-- I don't feel like that right
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00:32:00
I didn't feel like
that then either.
-
00:32:01
I felt this sense
of purpose and meaning.
-
00:32:04
And it's not because I
work at a church.
-
00:32:08
It actually has nothing to do with
the fact that I work at a
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00:32:11
church.
-
00:32:13
And so there's this whole
idea of a meaningful life.
-
00:32:15
Like, how do we get it?
-
00:32:16
Is it even possible?
-
00:32:17
Is it a myth?
-
00:32:19
Is it magic?
-
00:32:20
Is it math?
-
00:32:21
It's really simple, actually.
-
00:32:24
It's just going deeper into
your relationship with God and
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00:32:28
inviting other people into
it with you.
-
00:32:31
It's inviting other people to
experience whatever it is that
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00:32:34
you're experiencing.
-
00:32:36
And whether that means that you
believe in God this much, you're
-
00:32:40
not even sure yet
really if He's real.
-
00:32:44
Or if you and God are tight
and you've been in this powerful,
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00:32:48
amazing relationship with God for
the last 20 years.
-
00:32:51
Wherever you are on that spectrum,
God wants to do something in
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00:32:55
He is doing something
in you right now.
-
00:32:59
And if you choose to invite other
people into it and share it
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00:33:03
with the people that you're around
day in and day out, the
-
00:33:05
people that mean the most to you,
your life is going to have
-
00:33:08
meaning, it's gonna be purposeful,
it's going to matter.
-
00:33:12
I really, really,
truly believe that.
-
00:33:13
And I believe that
because I've experienced it.
-
00:33:16
And again, not because I
work at a church.
-
00:33:20
It actually has nothing to
do with my job.
-
00:33:23
It's all of the time and all
of the opportunities outside of my
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00:33:28
Monday through Friday, 8:00
to 6:00 job.
-
00:33:33
I am the person that loves
sharing the new things that I
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00:33:37
experience.
-
00:33:38
I love it.
-
00:33:39
So if I see a great
movie, you're gonna hear about it.
-
00:33:42
If you're looking for a date
night and you live in the
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00:33:44
Cincinnati area, let me plan in it
for you, because I want you
-
00:33:48
to experience the best restaurants
and the best things that
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00:33:52
I've experienced.
-
00:33:53
Shout out to Sotto,
Nada, and Boca.
-
00:33:55
David Falk, I hope I get
a gift card out of this.
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00:33:58
Best restaurants you'll ever
go to in Cincinnati.
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00:34:01
Anyways, if I get a great deal
on shoes, I'm gonna tell you when
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00:34:05
you compliment my shoes, I'm gonna
tell you how much they cost
-
00:34:07
because you better believe that
they were on sale.
-
00:34:09
And I want you to get the good
deal and I want you to get to
-
00:34:12
celebrate the good
thing with me.
-
00:34:14
That's just part of who I
am and how I'm wired.
-
00:34:17
And here's the thing with your
relationship with God, I can
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00:34:20
remember sitting standing in my
kitchen in college, actually.
-
00:34:24
And one of my roommates, I wasn't
really sure where she was in
-
00:34:27
her faith.
-
00:34:28
I wasn't really sure kind of what
she believed at all about God.
-
00:34:32
And I just flat out
asked her one time.
-
00:34:35
She was getting something out of
the freezer and she said to
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00:34:37
me,.
-
00:34:38
Well, yeah, I believe in God.
-
00:34:43
But it's it's just kind
of between me and God.
-
00:34:46
It's a thing that I
actually think is really personal.
-
00:34:50
And then she went back to the
freezer and did the thing that she
-
00:34:52
was doing.
-
00:34:54
I remember thinking.
-
00:34:56
Between you and God.
-
00:34:59
Is that right?
-
00:35:00
Is it just between you and God?
-
00:35:03
And now I believe, no.
-
00:35:06
Whatever you're experiencing with
God, whatever your
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00:35:08
relationship or lack there of with
Him is, it's not just
-
00:35:13
between you and God.
-
00:35:14
It's between you, God, and
everybody that you meet, everybody
-
00:35:17
that you touch, everybody that
you do life with.
-
00:35:20
It is not a thing
between you and God.
-
00:35:23
It's a thing between you, God and
all of your friends and your
-
00:35:26
family and your roommates.
-
00:35:27
When God's doing something in you
and you're experiencing Him in
-
00:35:32
new and fresh ways.
-
00:35:34
So as a kid growing up in
church, you know, there were those few
-
00:35:38
Bible songs, those few church songs
that we all kind of learned
-
00:35:42
in Sunday school or Kids' Club, whatever
you were a part of as
-
00:35:47
You know the songs like the
B-I-B-L-E, yes, that's the book for
-
00:35:51
me. I stand alone on the
word of God, the B-I-B-L-E.
-
00:35:56
Do you know that one?
-
00:35:57
If you didn't, you should learn
it because it'll help you spell
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00:35:59
the Bible.
-
00:36:00
But there were others too.
-
00:36:02
One of them was This
Little Light of Mine.
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00:36:04
Do you guys remember that one?
-
00:36:06
It went: This little light of
mine, I'm gonna let it shine.
-
00:36:11
This little light of mine,
I'm gonna let it shine.
-
00:36:15
It goes on and on and it
says, hide it under a bushel.
-
00:36:19
No, I'm gonna let it shine.
-
00:36:21
Don't let Satan it
out (poof) it out.
-
00:36:23
I'm gonna let it shine.
-
00:36:25
And it goes on to just talk
about how we've got this little
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00:36:28
light and we should
let it shine.
-
00:36:31
Well, that actually comes
directly from the Bible.
-
00:36:35
We just made a kid's song out of
it that's kind of cheesy, but I
-
00:36:39
remember it 28 years later.
-
00:36:42
And this is where it comes from,
it comes from the book of
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00:36:44
Matthew, in Chapter 5.
-
00:36:46
And Jesus, man, Jesus
had a meaningful life.
-
00:36:49
Jesus had a life that mattered.
-
00:36:50
I mean, we're here in 2019,
still referencing him, talking about
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00:36:56
I'm actually modeling my life after
His, trying to be like Him.
-
00:37:00
I'd say his life
was pretty meaningful.
-
00:37:03
And so He gives us some,
like, instruction on how to live.
-
00:37:08
And he's doing this to a whole
crowd of people on a mountain in
-
00:37:10
Matthew 5.
-
00:37:11
And this is what he says:.
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00:37:39
Jesus was living such a meaningful
life that crowds of people
-
00:37:42
were following Him and just
like sitting there listening,
-
00:37:46
wanting to listen to what
He had to say.
-
00:37:47
And this is one of the
things that He says to them.
-
00:37:50
And we hear Jesus referred to as
the light of the world, but
-
00:37:54
right here you know
what He's saying?
-
00:37:56
He says, "You are the
light of the world."
-
00:37:59
You.
-
00:38:01
That means if Jesus is doing something
in you, then you are the
-
00:38:05
light of the world.
-
00:38:06
And what He's doing in you is
going to light up your house, your
-
00:38:10
family, all of your friends.
-
00:38:13
And so if God is doing something
in you, you can't hide it under
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00:38:16
a bushel.
-
00:38:17
You can't hide it
under a basket.
-
00:38:19
It should be on a lamp
stand lighting up your whole home,
-
00:38:22
lighting up all of your
friendships, lighting up your
-
00:38:25
workplace.
-
00:38:26
And I found that when I let
my light shine, when I let what
-
00:38:32
Jesus is doing in me out for
other people to see and other
-
00:38:36
people to experience.
-
00:38:38
Oh, my gosh, the amount of
meaning and purpose that is brought
-
00:38:43
to my life is unbelievable.
-
00:38:45
And so I just want to share with
you some of the things that I
-
00:38:49
do, some of the things that
I've been practicing and trying to
-
00:38:54
get better at to
let my light shine.
-
00:38:56
Some of the things I've been
practicing trying to get better at,
-
00:38:58
to invite people into experience
God with me and
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00:39:05
it's been giving me purpose.
-
00:39:06
And I hope that it might
give you some purpose, too.
-
00:39:09
So here's the first thing.
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00:39:11
I regularly choose to pray.
-
00:39:14
Now there's all kinds of ways we
can pray, all kinds of things
-
00:39:17
we can pray about.
-
00:39:18
But specifically, I pray for my
friends who I want to experience
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00:39:23
God.
-
00:39:24
I pray for them by name.
-
00:39:26
I pray for them regularly
in a regular rhythm.
-
00:39:30
And so one of the things that
we started doing as little kids in
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00:39:34
my house growing up was
we had a paste list.
-
00:39:39
This was a list of names that
went on our bathroom mirror that
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00:39:42
every time we pulled out our
toothpaste and brush our teeth
-
00:39:46
twice a day for 60 seconds
apiece, as the dentist says, we'd
-
00:39:50
stand there brushing our teeth.
-
00:39:52
Brush our teeth.
-
00:39:53
And, you know, you're kind of
standing there looking at yourself
-
00:39:54
in the mirror.
-
00:39:55
Maybe you're like thinking
about your day.
-
00:39:57
And instead, what you could do
is you actually could look at
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00:40:00
that list of names on your
bathroom mirror and for 60 seconds,
-
00:40:04
twice a day while you brush your
teeth, you can pray for your
-
00:40:07
friends and your family by name
who you want to experience
-
00:40:11
Jesus
-
00:40:12
I do this right now.
-
00:40:13
We just moved into a brand new
house and I just wrote the names
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00:40:16
on my mirror yesterday.
-
00:40:18
Here's a picture of the names.
-
00:40:21
Hopefully you can't actually really read
them because if one of
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00:40:24
you is here and watches this
it might -- it's fine.
-
00:40:28
And so these are the names of
people that I love dearly, that I
-
00:40:32
want to experience God the way
that I'm experiencing God right
-
00:40:36
now.
-
00:40:37
You know, we can work.
-
00:40:38
And when we work, we work.
-
00:40:41
And when we pray, God works.
-
00:40:44
And so there is an opportunity for
us to pray regularly for the
-
00:40:49
people that we want to experience
God the way that we are
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00:40:53
experiencing him.
-
00:40:56
I Timothy 2:1-5 says:.
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00:41:17
One of these people that I
did this with was Meghan.
-
00:41:22
Meghan, The Spark Talk that you just
saw was someone who I met
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00:41:25
as an eager beaver freshman
wearing a lanyard walking around
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00:41:30
campus.
-
00:41:31
And she was so far from God.
-
00:41:34
And she wouldn't mind me telling
you that because she believes
-
00:41:37
that to be true
and she tells everybody.
-
00:41:39
And I put her name on the
mirror in my bedroom in college.
-
00:41:43
And every time I curled my hair
or straighten my hair or did
-
00:41:47
anything to my hair, I
would pray for Meghan.
-
00:41:51
And man, three years after that
first prayer, I actually got to
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00:41:56
watch Meghan receive Jesus.
-
00:41:58
I got to be part of that.
-
00:41:59
I got to baptize her.
-
00:42:00
And now Meghan is
sharing her faith.
-
00:42:03
Meghan is sharing what she's
experiencing with God with all
-
00:42:07
kinds of other people all
the way across the country.
-
00:42:10
And it's beautiful.
-
00:42:12
And. oh, my is that fulfilling and
does that bring meaning to my
-
00:42:17
life.
-
00:42:18
Now, here's the second thing that I
do is I actually use my
-
00:42:25
words.
-
00:42:26
I talk to the people that I
want to experience God and I share
-
00:42:31
with them what He's doing in
me, what he's doing around me.
-
00:42:36
And I want them to know, I
want them to hear my story.
-
00:42:39
And this doesn't mean that, like,
I have this five minute deal,
-
00:42:43
this spiel that I tell people from
start to finish tied up with
-
00:42:46
a bow of how God changed
my life and everything's amazing.
-
00:42:49
No, not at all.
-
00:42:51
It means when someone asks me
the question, "Hey, what's new?"
-
00:42:54
I intentionally think about what's
something I could share that
-
00:43:00
might pique their interest in
what I'm experiencing at the
-
00:43:04
or might pique their interest in
what I'm experiencing with God.
-
00:43:09
And so I intentionally have to think
about how am I going to use
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00:43:13
my words to share with
other people what God's doing?
-
00:43:18
One of these times -- I have
a friend who a few years ago,
-
00:43:22
really unexpectedly lost her
mom of cancer.
-
00:43:29
And so when I say unexpectedly, I
mean, none of us expect to
-
00:43:32
lose a parent at
20 something, right?
-
00:43:36
Before we get married, before we
have kids, before we hit all
-
00:43:39
these major milestones.
-
00:43:41
And so we were actually at one
of the local bars together, the
-
00:43:47
big group of friends.
-
00:43:48
And it was the day that
her mom had, passed away.
-
00:43:51
And so she came in just
emotional and really not well.
-
00:43:57
And I debated, I was
like, should I? Should
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00:44:00
I say something, should I
not say something? Like
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00:44:03
what's helpful in this moment?
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00:44:05
And I felt like, man, I've
really experienced the comfort of
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00:44:10
God.
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00:44:11
I've experienced the peace
that surpasses all understanding.
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00:44:14
I've experienced hope that comes
after death, maybe way, way
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00:44:19
after death.
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00:44:21
And I wanted that for her.
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00:44:23
And I didn't want to
keep that a secret.
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00:44:25
I didn't -- I didn't want to
just sit there and have a beer
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00:44:29
with her and pretend
like nothing happened.
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00:44:30
And so I just asked her, I
said, "Hey, you know, one of the
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00:44:35
things that's been really helpful
for me is just prayer.
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00:44:38
Like when I talk to God,
I actually feel something different.
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00:44:42
And I know that this is really
crappy and this is really hard.
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00:44:46
I would love to just pray for you
to be able to feel comfort in
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00:44:51
the midst of this if
you're OK with that.".
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00:44:54
And of course, she's through
tears like nods her head.
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00:44:57
And so I get to pray
for my friend who's experiencing something
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00:45:00
terrible.
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00:45:01
But I had to use my words.
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00:45:03
I had to actually go outside of
my comfort zone and say, "Hey, I
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00:45:07
believe in this thing and
I've experienced this with God.
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00:45:11
I'd like to share it with you.".
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00:45:14
Now, I don't know if her
life is totally different now.
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00:45:17
I don't know if she has
this major deep relationship with God
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00:45:20
right now.
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00:45:21
But what I do know is that in
that moment, I believe I did what
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00:45:25
God wanted me to do.
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00:45:27
I shared Him.
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00:45:28
I shared what I was
experiencing, what I have experienced
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00:45:32
And so -- and
maybe you've been healed.
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00:45:35
Maybe you've experienced
a miracle.
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00:45:36
Maybe you're in the
midst of a miracle.
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00:45:38
Maybe God's brought you comfort that
doesn't make sense or peace
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00:45:43
that surpasses
all understanding.
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00:45:45
Or maybe He's pulled these puzzle
pieces together in your life
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00:45:48
that shouldn't have
come together.
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00:45:49
But they did come together.
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00:45:51
And you've got friends who
are experiencing something hard or
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00:45:55
something new or who are
longing for what you have.
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00:46:00
You can use your words to
share with other people what God's
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00:46:04
done in you, what He's doing
in you, what you've seen, felt,
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00:46:08
experienced.
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00:46:10
And you can share that and
hopefully pique some interest for
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00:46:14
your friends to want that.
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00:46:16
It then says:
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00:46:39
So at the time Jesus was
walking around with people, He was
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00:46:42
saying, "Yeah, pray for people and
tell people when I'm doing
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00:46:47
something.
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00:46:48
Tell them, I want
them to be amazed.
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00:46:50
I want God to get the glory
for what he's doing through prayer
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00:46:56
and through the
work of sharing."
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00:47:00
And lastly, one of the other things
that I do is I choose to
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00:47:04
invite.
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00:47:06
I choose to go one more
step beyond just sharing and actually
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00:47:10
invite people to experience
God with me.
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00:47:14
So this is
really simple, actually.
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00:47:16
Three words to remember.
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00:47:18
If you're trying to figure out
like, how do I invite this
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00:47:20
person?
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00:47:21
If you can remember:
you, I, and so.
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00:47:29
It's a really simple
way to invite.
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00:47:30
So you start with a, "Hey. You
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00:47:34
right now, you just had
a brand new baby.
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00:47:36
How exciting.
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00:47:37
Congratulations.
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00:47:39
I just had a baby a year ago,
and when I had my baby, I freaked
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00:47:44
I was like, "I don't know
how to be a parent.
-
00:47:47
No one trains you in
how to be a parent.
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00:47:49
But at Crossroads, we've got this
great thing called Kids' Club
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00:47:53
that I would love for
you to experience with me.
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00:47:56
So do you want to
come with me sometime?
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00:47:59
Do you live near
a Crossroads site?".
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00:48:00
That might be a really easy way
for you to invite your friends.
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00:48:04
Or maybe it's something like what
happened with my friend a few
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00:48:09
And you say, "Man, you are
going through something really tough
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00:48:14
that I hope nobody else has
to go through because it's really
-
00:48:19
hard to lose your mom.
-
00:48:21
I've not experienced that.
-
00:48:23
I don't know what that's like, but
I almost lost my mom once.
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00:48:29
She had a stroke and we thought
that she wasn't gonna make it.
-
00:48:33
And in the midst of that feeling I
had to lean on God and I had
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00:48:39
people that I could call to pray
for me that I've met through
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00:48:42
the church.
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00:48:44
So would you maybe want to come
and watch church with me in my
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00:48:48
living room with some of my
friends who experience church that
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00:48:53
way and who would be great people
to pray for you when you
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00:48:56
experience something crappy?".
-
00:48:59
You, I, So; really simple.
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00:49:02
And if you've got friends who
are maybe entering into a brand
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00:49:04
new life stage: new baby,
new home, new marriage, or
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00:49:08
ones who are going through
crisis: divorce, loss of someone
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00:49:12
they love.
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00:49:15
Those people. they're
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00:49:16
longing to experience comfort and
peace and community, the
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00:49:21
things that maybe you've experienced
in the midst of the
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00:49:24
church.
-
00:49:25
Those are great people to invite
in to experience what you're
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00:49:30
experiencing, whether it's through showing
up to a church
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00:49:33
building or watching something online
or listening to a
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00:49:36
podcast.
-
00:49:38
We've gotta pray
for our friends.
-
00:49:39
We've got to share with them
what God is doing in us.
-
00:49:41
And we have to
invite them into something.
-
00:49:44
Invite them into
community with us.
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00:49:49
1 Corinthians 9 says:.
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00:50:09
I want you to do everything to
share the good news and to share
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00:50:15
in its blessings.
-
00:50:18
God has uniquely made you with
specific gifts and talents and
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00:50:22
passions and desires.
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00:50:24
And He's made you to have
a meaningful, purposeful life that
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00:50:30
matters.
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00:50:31
I got to meet and get to know
a family who, man, they have a
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00:50:36
meaningful life right now,
their life is mattering.
-
00:50:39
They're impacting all kinds of
other families and individuals
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00:50:43
who live in the
Los Angeles area.
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00:50:46
And they've got a
pretty cool story.
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00:50:48
I'd love for you to just meet
them and see what God's doing in
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00:50:52
their lives and in their home.
-
00:50:54
Let's meet the Byerlys.
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00:50:58
Hi, I'm Stephanie Byerly.
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00:51:01
And I'm Robert Byerly and we
live in Newport Beach, California.
-
00:51:05
I think we started going to
Crossroads before we moved to
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00:51:08
Cincinnati in 2003.
-
00:51:09
The first journey that we were
part of was the Consume Journey.
-
00:51:13
And I think for us, that was
the first time that it's ever
-
00:51:16
really been explained to us that
everything we own is God's.
-
00:51:23
And that was really impactful for
Robert and I because of the
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00:51:28
way it changed our thinking.
-
00:51:29
And we also just grew a lot.
-
00:51:31
We grew in community
during that time.
-
00:51:34
So super impactful for us.
-
00:51:36
So we moved to California
the first time in 2012.
-
00:51:39
I had an opportunity with my job
and we came out and had the
-
00:51:42
choice to live in
a couple different places.
-
00:51:45
And we landed on Orange County.
-
00:51:46
So we had met
some families through school.
-
00:51:50
Stephanie had hosted a Labor Day
back to school kind of hangout
-
00:51:54
brunch at her house.
-
00:51:55
Everyone shows up at 11 o'clock.
-
00:51:56
And people ended up just hanging
out until early afternoon, 4:00
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00:52:00
or 5:00.
-
00:52:01
It was really the first group
of people that we've connected to
-
00:52:04
with that we really liked.
-
00:52:05
So Stephanie had suggested,"Hey, why don't
we do a journey deal
-
00:52:10
together with all of you?".
-
00:52:11
And they're like,
"What's a journey?".
-
00:52:12
And when we went on to explain,
it was a small group deal and
-
00:52:15
we just created a place
where people can hang out.
-
00:52:17
We say, bring your kids,
come late, which is --
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00:52:21
Always happens in California.
-
00:52:24
Our goal was really just
to build friendship and relationships
-
00:52:27
with other people.
-
00:52:28
It wasn't to keep some
kind of timely schedule.
-
00:52:31
And that's how it started.
-
00:52:32
So if it weren't for the idea
of the Journey group, if it
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00:52:35
weren't for the idea of inviting
people into your homes, we
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00:52:38
wouldn't have had invited them
over and made that connection
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00:52:41
with them.
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00:52:43
I'm Meghan, and in part
at the Crossroads Anywhere Community
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00:52:46
here in Newport
Beach, California.
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00:52:48
So when I finished college, I
accepted a job in Orange County,
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00:52:52
California, after graduating from
the University of Cincinnati.
-
00:52:56
Literally, besides my job, I had no
idea where I was going to
-
00:52:59
live or really what life was
going to look like at all.
-
00:53:03
I was super scared to move.
-
00:53:05
Then at the same time, when
I got to California, I
-
00:53:09
roadtripped out here with
two friends from Crossroads,
-
00:53:10
actually.
-
00:53:11
And when I got to California sent
them on a plane home and
-
00:53:15
literally had nowhere
to move into.
-
00:53:19
I found a place
to live, thankfully.
-
00:53:20
Following that, the goal
was to find community.
-
00:53:24
So I had put myself
on the Crossroads Anywhere map.
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00:53:28
I put my pin on my office,
actually, because I didn't know where
-
00:53:30
I was going to be living
yet before I moved out here.
-
00:53:33
And then once I moved out here,
I put my pin on my home
-
00:53:36
location.
-
00:53:37
They had seen me on the map and
we actually met in person at a
-
00:53:42
Young Life dinner.
-
00:53:44
They said, "Oh, we're Robert
and Steph and we're from
-
00:53:46
Cincinnati."
-
00:53:48
I said, "Well,
I'm from Cincinnati.
-
00:53:50
What are you guys
doing out here?"
-
00:53:52
We left Cincinnati on the same
day and we couldn't believe that
-
00:53:56
we didn't know each other in Cincinnati
because we had a lot of
-
00:53:58
different mutual connections.
-
00:53:59
They invited me over for coffee.
-
00:54:01
They invited me over for dinner.
-
00:54:02
They invited me over for everything
and to do every little piece
-
00:54:05
of life with them
and with their family.
-
00:54:09
And we were in a mode of
trying to find people that were from
-
00:54:13
Cincinnati or part of the
Crossroads community that we're
-
00:54:14
living in and
around Orange County.
-
00:54:17
So we just kind of looked, okay,
who was on the map that's here?
-
00:54:21
I remember going online and
seeing who's this Meghan Pope
-
00:54:24
person?
-
00:54:25
So I think you might
have reached out or something.
-
00:54:27
But we just tried to
get connected with her.
-
00:54:29
We were invited to go to this
Young Life event on its their
-
00:54:32
annual fundraiser.
-
00:54:34
So a good friend of ours, a
guy named Dan Chambers said, "You
-
00:54:36
know, I was at an event and
there's a lady named Meghan that's
-
00:54:40
from Cincinnati, and
she's younger.
-
00:54:43
And she went to went to
a place called Crossroads or whatever.
-
00:54:47
"Wait a minute.
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00:54:48
Is that the same person that was
on the map that Dan knew?"
-
00:54:52
I think we instantly had
the excitement for Crossroads.
-
00:54:57
I think that
instantly connected us.
-
00:54:59
We want to protect her and take
care of her and check in on
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00:55:03
her.
-
00:55:04
And, yes, you know, she's
like family to us really.
-
00:55:07
Yes.
-
00:55:08
The first six months that I was
out here and really didn't have
-
00:55:10
a lot of stability yet,
my car got hit.
-
00:55:14
Without missing a beat, Steph
just tossed me her keys.
-
00:55:17
And I drove her car around to
work for two weeks until I could
-
00:55:21
get my stuff straightened out.
-
00:55:24
The first year I was out
here in California, I actually couldn't
-
00:55:27
go home for Thanksgiving.
-
00:55:29
So naturally I went
to the Byerly's.
-
00:55:31
I kind of joke with my friends
who were my peers, "Like my
-
00:55:34
California mom and dad.
-
00:55:36
I'm going to hang out my California
mom and dad, or I'm house
-
00:55:38
sitting for my
California family.".
-
00:55:40
"Or I'm watching the dog or
walking the dog from my California
-
00:55:43
family while they're
out of town."
-
00:55:44
I get the example of what it
looks like to be generous with your
-
00:55:47
money and what it looks like
to have a marriage that centered
-
00:55:49
on Jesus and what does look like
to be really faithful to your
-
00:55:52
career and to your family
at the same time.
-
00:55:55
Getting to be part of someone's
family, in someone's home, in
-
00:55:57
someone's life, it's so natural for me
to get to pick up on
-
00:56:00
these things and get to see
these things that they do.
-
00:56:03
We all need community.
-
00:56:05
I think the longer we've been
married and the longer we've had
-
00:56:08
kids, we've just realized that you
have to lean in to other
-
00:56:11
When we share our wounds and
our weaknesses, it's the best way
-
00:56:16
that people can connect with us.
-
00:56:18
And I think a lot of times
when you don't know people very well
-
00:56:22
and you're in a new situation,
it's really intimidating to just
-
00:56:27
invite strangers in your home
-
00:56:29
and not really know what --
how they're going to receive that.
-
00:56:33
But I think because we were growing
along the way, we just knew
-
00:56:37
that it was something that
was so meaningful to us.
-
00:56:40
Everyone should have the chance
to experience what I've had,
-
00:56:43
I've gotten to experience, which
is moving somewhere new, not
-
00:56:46
knowing anybody, but because of
my faith immediately having
-
00:56:49
community and having friends.
-
00:56:52
What I would say to somebody if
they're a part of the Crossroads
-
00:56:55
Community and they're watching online
and they're at home or
-
00:56:58
they're in a coffee shop
and they're by themselves.
-
00:57:01
I would just say be invitational
and ask somebody to to watch
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00:57:04
Whether it's in a coffee shop or
whether it's on your, you know,
-
00:57:07
hanging out on the couch because
people want to be invited to
-
00:57:11
They want to be -- They want
to feel a part of a community.
-
00:57:14
I found community through Crossroads
Anywhere and I'm so
-
00:57:17
thankful.
-
00:57:31
How encouraging is that? Man,
-
00:57:34
I'll tell you, if you ever get
to meet that family or those
-
00:57:37
people in person, you're going
to love them even more.
-
00:57:40
Well, two of the things that
you heard them mention in their
-
00:57:43
story are things that actually
you could do right now.
-
00:57:46
You could start thinking
about doing right now.
-
00:57:49
The first is they
mentioned a Journey.
-
00:57:51
This all church Journey for five
weeks that the whole church
-
00:57:55
does together where we get into
groups and we get to experience
-
00:57:59
church on a deeper
level with other people.
-
00:58:02
And so that's actually coming
up in the fall.
-
00:58:05
It's the Play
and Purpose Journey.
-
00:58:07
You can head
to Crossroads.net/journey
-
00:58:08
to check that out, but be
thinking about whether or not you
-
00:58:13
might want to lead a group for
the very first time, host The
-
00:58:17
journey in your home.
-
00:58:19
It could be a great way for
you to get connected to community
-
00:58:21
wherever you are.
-
00:58:23
Speaking of getting connected to
community, the other thing they
-
00:58:25
mentioned was the Connect Map.
-
00:58:27
And so maybe you are about
to move, you've just moved.
-
00:58:30
Maybe you've been in southeast Indiana
or South Dakota for a
-
00:58:35
long time, but you've not actually
met other people who are
-
00:58:39
part of the church there.
-
00:58:40
If you head
to Crossroads.net/connect,
-
00:58:43
you can put yourself on the
Connect Map, you can search for
-
00:58:46
people who are near you, groups
that are happening near you, ad
-
00:58:50
you can connect with other
people through that tool.
-
00:58:52
It's pretty sweet.
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00:58:54
Well, if you want your life
to matter, another way that you
-
00:58:57
could have meaning is you could
invest your money in meaningful
-
00:59:01
things and things that matter.
-
00:59:03
One of the things that my husband
and I invest our money in is
-
00:59:06
the church, because we believe that
the church is the best
-
00:59:10
rescue plan for all of humanity.
-
00:59:13
We believe that God's gonna do
amazing things in the church and
-
00:59:17
through the church.
-
00:59:18
We've seen it, we've experienced it,
and we want others to
-
00:59:21
experience it, too.
-
00:59:22
And so we invest our money here.
-
00:59:25
And so if you want to become a
giver, you can do that by heading
-
00:59:27
to Crossroads.net/give
-
00:59:30
and invest in something that has
purpose and meaning and might
-
00:59:34
just make your life matter
in a whole new way.
-
00:59:37
Next week we start a brand new
series called How to Hear from
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00:59:39
God.
-
00:59:40
And a new series is a great
opportunity for you to open up your
-
00:59:43
home and invite other people to
watch church with you, to
-
00:59:46
experience church with you.
-
00:59:48
So maybe you want to
start that next week.
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00:59:50
We'll see you back for week 1
of How to Hear from God.