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- Well, hey,
welcome to Crossroads.
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I'm so glad you're
joining us online today.
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Hey, my name is Andy,
the community pastor
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for Crossroads Anywhere,
which is
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a community of people
gathering for church
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in person and online
all over the globe.
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If you're new to Crossroads
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or watching us for
the first time, man,
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we would love to
get to know you.
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I would love to get to know you
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and help you get
connected and involved
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in the right ways
around Crossroads.
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You can do that
simply by texting
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the word "Anywhere" to 301301,
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and myself or
someone from my team
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will be in touch with you.
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Now, some things that you
can expect from our time today.
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First,
we're going to worship together.
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So join us by singing
along wherever you are
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or just listening.
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Second,
I'll be back in a little bit
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to let you know of
some of the specific ways
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that you can get
engaged with our church
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and grow with us this year.
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And then third,
we're going to hear from
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our senior pastor,
Brian Tome, as he helps us
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kick off the year
with our new series,
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Leave Lies Behind.
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As we worship
together right now I hope
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and I pray that
something in these songs
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moves you and brings
you closer to God.
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- This is a song of invitation.
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If you were here last week
with us you heard it then.
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If you're at Revival
with us a while back,
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you heard it then.
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This is a testimony
of a changed life,
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the anthem of
awakening right here.
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- This is our prayer,
stating a desire,
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taking a step towards hope,
a step towards God.
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- Lord,
we sing this promise again.
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- So, God, we say thank you.
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We say thank you for
giving us good things,
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good things that we don't
know are good things.
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God, we turn our eyes to You.
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We say thank You for the
very breath that we have.
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If we've never gotten
anything else, God,
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we woke up with
fresh air in our lungs.
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That's a miracle, God,
and I just say thank You.
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Thank You. We rest on You,
but we trust You.
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You're amazing. Thank you.
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In Jesus name, we pray.
We pray together. Amen.
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- We don't want more friends,
we want real friends.
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Friends who make
us feel like we belong.
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Imagine being
able to be yourself
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and still be accepted.
No judgments. No fine print.
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Groups are a safe
space to be who we are
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and grow together.
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Life is better together.
Join a group.
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- Well, last week,
if you tuned in,
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our senior pastor
Brian Tome talked about
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how to grow and
how to stay persistent
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with our goals and whatever
goals you might have
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for the year, whether
it's going to church more,
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reading your Bible,
whether it's financial
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or health or losing
weight or eating better,
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whatever,
I can guarantee that you will go
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much further with your goals
if you do them in community.
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And if you're new,
you might wonder,
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how could I ever get
to know other people
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at a church so big and
even online no less?
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Now, the reality is that
we've got so many groups
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for all ages and life
stages to help you connect.
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So if you're a man or a
woman or a mom or a dad,
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we've got a group for you.
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If you're a senior,
a young adult or a student,
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we've got a group for you.
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If you're a recovering
addict or in grief
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or newly married,
we've got groups for you
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and so many more.
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Now is the best
time to join them,
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so just check them all out at
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Crossroads.net/anywhere
and pay special attention
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to find an online
group that you can join
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no matter where you live.
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And hey,
a quick reminder as well.
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If you're in around
here and consider
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Crossroads your home,
you can be a part of
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fueling all of the
ministry that happens
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through this place
with your financial gift.
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You can be a part of
the team of faithful givers
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or you can just check
out what we believe
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about money by heading
to Crossroads.net/give.
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We, and I mean us,
are a generous church.
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Here's one of the ways that
showed up this past December.
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- The last time we spent
Christmas together was 2016.
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So it's -- it's
been a little while.
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I'm not really the type of guy
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that gets out of a
calendar and marks on --
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Circles the day and waits
and counts the seconds,
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but I did that for this.
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- 2021, because '22 I came here.
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So 2021 was the
last time I spent
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an actual Christmas with them.
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The thing I missed
the most about family
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is family time,
being around each other,
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having memories,
doing things together,
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cooking, laughing,
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listening to the typical
Christmas holiday music.
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Not being able to see
your family so often
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as you want in an open
environment like it was today.
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It takes something away.
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When you have this
type of environment
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and set up,
everything is just perfect.
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Me wrapping the gifts
I almost shed a tear
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because the memories
that it brought back,
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that was bittersweet,
but I loved it.
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To see them so excited
when they opened the gifts
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made it all worth it.
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I mean, even though I'm here,
it's -- it's --
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It's a blessing. I love it.
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- You know,
you look around these days
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and it can -- be it can be,
you know,
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depressing so you know,
to see people
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like yourselves
or anybody who --
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Who does a little something to,
like,
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you could change an
inmate's life because
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he comes down to
this room for this day,
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for this Christmas
and see his kid.
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The gift you saw me give
him today was quite special
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because in these visits
for the last so many years,
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they let us go out there
in that little yard area.
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We got this little ball and
we play football in the yard.
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And he's learned
to catch the ball,
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how the downs work and
he's watching football now.
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And it's, like, "This,
take it home.
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Put it in your room
because I'm coming
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and we're going to
do this in our yard."
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- For Crossroads to reach out
and do everything that they did.
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I think it's a
blessing from God.
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I wish all those people a
happy and Merry Christmas,
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and I hope that this
thing continues on
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and it grows bigger
because people need this,
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the families need it,
and us on the inside we need it.
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So when we all come together
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and it's because of you all,
it's -- it's amazing.
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If the rest of the
year was downhill,
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this finished my year
out at the top of the hill,
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at the top of the mountain.
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So it was lovely.
It was amazing.
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- This is my very last
Christmas in prison.
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I go home in a couple of months.
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I was fortunate enough to
be in this for the second year.
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To be able to sit there and say,
"Hey,
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that was already a year ago,
but there won't be a third."
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You know, so that was that
-- was what a cool one for me.
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- Oh, my gosh, it's so good.
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You know,
every time I'm in a prison
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visiting someone like that,
I always think,
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"You know, me on my
worst day could do something
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that would get me in there."
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You know,
like any of us, catch us
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on the wrong day
doing the wrong thing.
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And what hits me is the topic
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I'm going to look at tonight,
too,
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is it's just the grace of God,
the favor of God,
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the mercy of God,
the love of God,
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and the healing nature of God,
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which we're going to see if
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maybe you get a
dose of that today.
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Let's pray before
we go any further.
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God, I want everyone,
no matter what site we're in,
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no matter what coffee shop,
bar we're in,
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house we're in, wherever we are
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to get a taste of your goodness,
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of your healing
and of your grace.
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Help me to be clear, to be
compelling and to be accurate.
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And God,
thank you for being such a God
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that's so transcendent
and so beyond that
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it's hard to even
describe Your character
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and who You are.
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Help us to grasp it and
just maybe get healed today.
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And I pray these
things according to
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the character and identity
of Jesus. Amen. Amen.
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So grace, what is grace?
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Grace is one of those words
that very few people understand.
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Grace is not the prayer
that you say before a meal,
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although you may
call that grace.
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That's not the kind of grace
I'm talking about here today.
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Grace is not the way
you move with style
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and grace across a dance floor,
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though you might be graceful,
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but that's not the kind
of grace I'm talking about.
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I'm also not talking
about grace periods.
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You know,
if you've got a credit card,
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if you've got a house payment,
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if you've got a home
equity credit line,
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it's about everybody
has a grace period.
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I'm not talking
about that because
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that's really not grace.
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That's just a delaying
judgment period is what that is.
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You know,
you have a period of time
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where if you don't
get your payment in
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they're not going
to turn you into
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the bad credit bureau,
or you're not going to
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get punished too much,
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but interest is
still accumulating.
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And if you don't pay
it off at the end of that,
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boom, you know, you're
you're done, bad stuff happens.
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No, grace. Grace is is
this amazing gift from God
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that we don't earn,
we can't understand,
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and it is generous
and is overflowing.
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Maybe the most potent
message in the Bible,
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or the most potent
verse in the Bible
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that goes beyond the
fake or the real news,
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fake or real news, comes from
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the book of Ephesians 2.
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News. News that is
good is called gospel.
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Gospel is a word
that's in the Bible,
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but it actually wasn't
invented the Bible.
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The word gospel
is an ancient term.
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It existed for a long,
long time.
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It just meant good news.
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So, for instance,
at the Battle of Sardis,
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when Greece -- Excuse me,
the Battle of Marathon
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when Greece won that battle,
there was
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a messenger who was
going to bring good news.
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He was known as an evangelist,
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somebody who brings good news.
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He ran 26.2 miles back
to the Greece Council
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and proclaimed, "We have won.
We have won."
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And then he fell over dead.
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And that's the beginning
of the marathon,
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the very first marathon.
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But he came and he proclaimed
what was known as gospel,
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"Good news. Greece has
prevailed. We have won."
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So the gospel of
Jesus Christ is this:
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good news,
there's a God who loves you
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that's beyond you,
there's a God who can forgive
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all of your pains for
all of your sinfulness,
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all of your mistakes.
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There's a God who is for you
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and has abundant
treasures for you.
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This is good news.
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Let's read about it in
the book of Ephesians 2.
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It's a bit long.
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I think I'm going to go by
for ten verses here or so.
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But let me just read this
and then explain it to you.
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Here's what it says.
Chapter two, verse one.
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Here it goes.
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And you were dead in
the trespasses and sins,
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in which you once walked,
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following the
course of this world,
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following the prince
of the power of the air,
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the spirit that is now at work
in the sons of disobedience,
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among whom we all once lived
in the passions of our flesh,
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carrying out the desires
of the body and the mind,
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and were by nature
children of wrath,
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like the rest of mankind.
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But God, being rich in mercy,
because of
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the great love with
which He loved us,
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even when we were
dead in our trespasses,
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made us alive together
with Christ - By grace.
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(There's the word) By
grace you have been saved --
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And raised us up with
Him and seated us with Him
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in the heavenly
places in Christ Jesus,
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so that in the coming
ages he might show
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the immeasurable
riches of His grace
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in kindness toward
us in Christ Jesus
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for by grace you have
been saved through faith,
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and this is not of
your own doing.
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It's the gift of God,
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not a result of works
that no one can boast.
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For we are His workmanship,
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created in Christ
Jesus for good works,
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which God prepared beforehand,
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that we should walk in them.
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This is horse choking.
It's a lot. This is, man.
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This is if you had --
If you need 12 verses,
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12 verses to understand
the good news
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and get into the depths of it,
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this is probably the best
12 verses in the Bible
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in my opinion.
Let's take a look at it.
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First of all, he says,
all of us, here's the news,
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in our natural selves we
are dead in our trespasses.
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Dead.
None of us like to hear that.
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We go, "Oh, no, I'm a-- I'm
a very nice spiritual person."
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Maybe you are,
but naturally, in of yourself,
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you're dead in your trespasses.
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Our sinfulness
separates us from God.
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That may be why we have
as many maladies as we do.
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And it's not just you.
It's not just me.
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It's everybody
because we're following
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the course of this world.
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It's the course of the
world to go away from God.
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It's the course of the
world to denigrate ourselves
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and others and
be about ourselves.
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And it's not by accident either,
because
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in the world and
there's actually --
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There's an actual
organizing principle behind it.
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We have the prince
of the power of the air.
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This means that, and by the way,
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I'm not expecting you to believe
all of this right now.
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Some of it sounds really
weird and really crazy.
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But let me just ask you this,
wouldn't it make sense
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with all the problems we have,
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00:31:11
with all the illnesses we have,
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with all the mental health,
with all the anger we have,
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00:31:15
with all the angst,
with all the lack of peace,
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wouldn't it make
sense that there is
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a spiritual organization
that's behind it all?
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The Bible says that there is.
It's called demons.
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It's called principalities,
powers.
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Their CEO,
his name is Satan or Lucifer.\
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And we can't see these,
but we can see
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the effect of him, the prince,
the power of the air.
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And we are by nature
children of wrath.
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And here's the thing.
Here's the thing.
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Here's the best little but
you've ever seen right here,
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verse number four,
but -- but, all of this is true,
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but God. But God.
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We sit in the bad news.
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We sit in the way
that we are natural.
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And then it comes, but, but God.
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What about God? What about God?
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Well, He's rich in mercy.
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Rich because of the
great love that He has
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with which He has loved us,
even though
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we were sons and
daughters of disobedience,
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even though we
are outside His plan
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and doing our own thing
and dead in our trespasses,
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He loved us. Why?
Because it's grace.
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It's grace that's
caused us to sit with Him
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because he has immeasurable,
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immeasurable
riches of His grace.
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God's always got more for you.
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He's got more love for you.
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He's got more
forgiveness for you.
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He's got more mercy for you.
It's immeasurable.
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00:32:40
Some of us don't go
before God because
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we're trying to meter
it out and just save it.
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"Well,
I can't ask for too much stuff
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00:32:46
because I got to
save it for later on.
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Just -- just I got to.
I got to be
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so God's going, 'Oh, man.
There's my -- here's my man Ron.
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My man Ron's praying to me. Woo.
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I better listen because
Ron never prays to me.'"
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That's like thinking,
you're assuming
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the fake news
that God is limited
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00:33:04
and God is annoyed by you.
No, He loves you.
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And He doesn't lack resources.
Immeasurable.
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00:33:10
He might not give you and I,
-
00:33:12
He doesn't give you
and I all that we ask.
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00:33:14
But it's not because
He lacks the resources,
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00:33:16
immeasurable resources.
-
00:33:18
For by grace,
for by grace we've been saved,
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00:33:22
not our own efforts.
That's the --
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00:33:24
That's the fake news.
It's the false news.
-
00:33:27
Your own efforts, your morality,
your spirituality.
-
00:33:31
See this passage lines up,
lines up, lines up
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00:33:37
the difference
between death and life.
-
00:33:38
The whole first half is death.
-
00:33:40
This is spiritual death.
-
00:33:41
And I'm not talking here,
I'm not talking here
-
00:33:43
about when your heart
expires at the end of --
-
00:33:48
At the end of your life death.
-
00:33:50
I'm not even
talking about death,
-
00:33:53
like, eternally speaking.
-
00:33:55
I'm talking about
death that comes to us
-
00:33:56
with all of our issues,
with all of our stress points,
-
00:33:59
with all of our neuroses,
with all of our fears,
-
00:34:02
with all of our anxieties,
-
00:34:04
with all of our divorces,
with all of our --
-
00:34:07
Of our battles,
with all of our cynicism,
-
00:34:10
with all of our skepticism,
-
00:34:12
with all of our disjointedness,
-
00:34:14
just the whole cacophony
of sounds and discord
-
00:34:18
that we have in our culture.
-
00:34:19
It's a sign of the
death that's described.
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00:34:23
And if you want it,
you can step into
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00:34:27
the life that comes, but God,
-
00:34:31
you can step into that.
-
00:34:33
I wonder today how many of us
-
00:34:35
want to step into
something different?
-
00:34:37
How many of us want to
have something different?
-
00:34:40
How many of us -- How
many of us want a healing?
-
00:34:44
Now, I'm not just talking
about a physical healing,
-
00:34:47
though that happens.
-
00:34:48
I'm also talking about
a spiritual healing.
-
00:34:51
I'm talking about
a relational healing.
-
00:34:53
I'm talking about
a mental healing.
-
00:34:55
I'm talking about an
emotional healing.
-
00:34:57
Jesus is known as a Savior.
He comes to save.
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00:35:00
He's also known as healer
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00:35:02
and he heals all
of those things.
-
00:35:06
I don't know if you've
noticed this or not,
-
00:35:08
but I don't know who you are,
-
00:35:10
but I promise you,
you need healed.
-
00:35:13
I promise you,
because our natural self
-
00:35:15
is still broken to this day.
-
00:35:18
All of us need healing,
-
00:35:21
and those of us who
don't think that we do,
-
00:35:23
it's a sign that we're
actually spiritually dead.
-
00:35:26
We haven't come
up to the but God yet.
-
00:35:29
We haven't come
up to Him yet because
-
00:35:31
we're deluding ourselves with
-
00:35:33
our perceived grandeur
and goodness and spirituality.
-
00:35:38
All of us need some
form of spiritual healing
-
00:35:41
or physical healing,
and both require two things.
-
00:35:45
They require asking
and they require acting.
-
00:35:50
Asking and acting.
-
00:35:53
Now, when we talk about grace,
-
00:35:55
if you've been around
church for some bit of time,
-
00:35:57
you've come across some
preacher who's given you
-
00:35:59
the perfect acronym
for what grace is,
-
00:36:01
and I think it's a good one.
-
00:36:03
Grace is,
say it with me if you know it,
-
00:36:05
God's riches at
Christ's expense.
-
00:36:08
God's riches at
Christ's expense.
-
00:36:10
I like that. I think it's
accurate. That's true.
-
00:36:13
I mean, Jesus does things for us
-
00:36:15
that we can't do on our own.
-
00:36:16
And the funnel comes
through Jesus life and death.
-
00:36:20
God's riches for us,
immeasurable riches
-
00:36:23
at the expense of Christ.
-
00:36:25
But I think that also is needy
of a bit more explanation.
-
00:36:31
Grace can also be seen
as anything God can do
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00:36:36
that I can't do.
-
00:36:38
Anything God has
that I don't have.
-
00:36:42
Anything that God can resource,
-
00:36:45
that I can't resource.
-
00:36:47
Anything God can
love that I can't love.
-
00:36:50
Anything God can do,
anything that I don't have
-
00:36:54
the powers in and of myself.
-
00:36:57
Now, there is a
grace that comes to us
-
00:36:59
that we will not work for.
-
00:37:01
A lot of grace, in fact,
Grace comes to people
-
00:37:03
who are atheists and agnostics
-
00:37:04
and maybe still very
bitter towards God.
-
00:37:06
But God still,
as the Bible says,
-
00:37:08
caused the sun to
rise and the rain to fall
-
00:37:11
on the just and
the unjust alike.
-
00:37:13
This is grace.
-
00:37:15
So God will give you grace,
some form of grace
-
00:37:17
no matter what you do.
-
00:37:19
And if you want a
sort of healing grace,
-
00:37:21
if you want to
increase the likelihood
-
00:37:25
of you getting healed,
of your heart getting healed,
-
00:37:29
of your marriage getting healed,
-
00:37:30
of your relationship with
your kids getting healed,
-
00:37:32
of your relationship with
your best friend getting healed,
-
00:37:35
of your memories,
your memories of what happened
-
00:37:38
to you when you
were six years old
-
00:37:40
and you can't stop
thinking about it,
-
00:37:42
if you want that to be healed,
-
00:37:44
if you want to be
healed the pains
-
00:37:46
that people don't
have solutions towards,
-
00:37:49
you need to look for a grace,
a healing grace
-
00:37:55
that's beyond
human understanding.
-
00:37:59
Now, book of John chapter five.
-
00:38:02
You're going, "Brian,
you're going for a while here,
-
00:38:04
and you haven't even
given us any points yet."
-
00:38:06
I know. I'm going to give
you 3 pretty quick points.
-
00:38:09
I just got to hit this from
so many different angles
-
00:38:12
that there is a God
who wants to heal you,
-
00:38:15
any kind of healing,
and you've got
-
00:38:17
to get on the right path.
-
00:38:18
You've got to adhere
to the real news,
-
00:38:21
not the fake news of
this bland spirituality
-
00:38:24
that God helps those
who help themselves
-
00:38:27
or God is far and removed,
-
00:38:28
He doesn't really
care about little people
-
00:38:30
like you and I.
No, that's not true.
-
00:38:32
He's got immeasurable
grace for you.
-
00:38:34
We have to get this solidified
-
00:38:35
until I give you
three action points.
-
00:38:38
But let me share this
in the book of John 5
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00:38:40
we see one of Jesus's
amazing healings that He does.
-
00:38:44
He does a bunch of healings.
-
00:38:45
They're all -- they're
all really powerful.
-
00:38:47
This one.
I just continue to be stunned by
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00:38:52
and challenge myself with.
-
00:38:53
Here's what it says in
John 5:5 and following.
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00:38:59
By the way, before I get here,
okay, here's the background.
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00:39:02
I've been to this
place a bunch of times,
-
00:39:04
a bunch of times in Israel.
-
00:39:05
You can go to this
place and it's a pool.
-
00:39:08
It's called the
Pool of Bethesda.
-
00:39:10
And in this pool,
and it's still there.
-
00:39:12
They've excavated it down,
oh, I don't know, 30 feet.
-
00:39:14
You can crawl down.
-
00:39:15
You can actually
get to the water,
-
00:39:17
the original water level,
at least
-
00:39:19
where this was in Jesus's time.
-
00:39:20
They built it up
over the centuries
-
00:39:22
and all that sort of stuff.
-
00:39:23
But as the story goes,
as they believed,
-
00:39:26
there would be
paralyzed and blind
-
00:39:29
and people who
need physical healing
-
00:39:31
all around this thing.
-
00:39:34
And then every once in a while,
-
00:39:35
the water would bubble and stir.
-
00:39:38
And they believed
that it was an angel
-
00:39:40
that was coming down
and stirring the water.
-
00:39:42
And they believed that
the first man in God healed.
-
00:39:45
And so all these people
would hang around the outside.
-
00:39:48
Now, I do believe in angels.
-
00:39:50
I do believe in demons.
-
00:39:53
I do believe in all that.
-
00:39:54
I'm not sure that
this was going on.
-
00:39:56
This is what they believed.
-
00:39:57
They believed in angel did that.
-
00:40:00
Maybe. Maybe not.
-
00:40:02
Most likely,
it was an underwater spring
-
00:40:04
that out of nowhere,
every once in a while
-
00:40:05
would will bubble up
and people would say,
-
00:40:07
"Oh, it's an angel, this angel."
-
00:40:08
And maybe at some point
someone fell in accidentally
-
00:40:11
and said they got healed.
-
00:40:12
We don't know that,
but we do know is
-
00:40:14
there's a bunch of
people around this thing
-
00:40:16
wanting healing and Jesus
decides to go to this place.
-
00:40:22
Maybe he goes to this
place because he knows
-
00:40:25
there's people there who
are hungry and want it.
-
00:40:29
I should stop here right now.
-
00:40:31
You could sit here and listen to
-
00:40:33
everything else I have
to say from here on in
-
00:40:35
and you can look at this
as an academic exercise
-
00:40:37
of do I believe this?
Is he crazy? This is weird.
-
00:40:41
How is he parsing these verses?
How is he --
-
00:40:45
Is he some weird snake
handler up there? Is he?
-
00:40:47
You could do all those.
-
00:40:48
And there's a time and a place
-
00:40:50
to ask yourself all
those questions.
-
00:40:51
There really is.
-
00:40:53
But if your mind
is just going to be
-
00:40:54
on that versus this,
which is what you should be,
-
00:40:58
you have no chance of healing.
-
00:41:00
And where your mind
should be right now is,
-
00:41:03
do I want healed?
Do I want healed?
-
00:41:11
Do I have any level of belief
-
00:41:13
that today I could
get healed today?
-
00:41:18
Jesus talks about having
faith like a mustard seed.
-
00:41:21
Do I have a smidgen of belief
-
00:41:24
that maybe just today
I might get healed?
-
00:41:28
Maybe Jesus goes
to this place because
-
00:41:31
there's people there who
have a smidgen of belief,
-
00:41:34
even if it may be misplaced,
-
00:41:36
that they very well
could get a healing.
-
00:41:39
And here's what it says:
-
00:41:41
In these lay a
multitude of invalids,
-
00:41:45
blind, lame and paralyzed.
-
00:41:47
I love that word like invalid.
I don't know,
-
00:41:50
that's probably not
politically correct. Invalid.
-
00:41:53
It's like you and
I being invalid.
-
00:41:56
Some of us actually,
it's one of the ways
-
00:41:58
that we need to heal.
We feel invalid.
-
00:42:01
You feel like you're not
necessary before God.
-
00:42:04
You feel like you're not valued.
-
00:42:06
You feel like your life has
no meaning whatsoever,
-
00:42:12
that you're just a peon upon.
-
00:42:14
There's no special love
that God has for you.
-
00:42:17
Let me tell you what,
you need a healing.
-
00:42:20
You need a healing
not in your self esteem,
-
00:42:23
though that would be good too.
-
00:42:24
You need a healing
in the understanding
-
00:42:27
of your worth before God.
-
00:42:30
You are not invalid.
You are not.
-
00:42:33
You are a child of God,
-
00:42:35
whether you're walking in
it or not. Let's keep going.
-
00:42:43
Invalids. Invalids, blind,
lame and paralyzed.
-
00:43:11
It was like, I mean, he's lame.
He can't walk.
-
00:43:14
So maybe he just has
himself by the edge
-
00:43:16
and he's going
to try to roll in.
-
00:43:18
But somebody who needs,
you know, their arm healed,
-
00:43:21
they can do a full out sprint
-
00:43:22
and they keep beating him.
-
00:43:23
That's what he's saying here.
-
00:43:39
Now, this is a guy who,
at the beginning of which
-
00:43:43
has all kind of excuses.
-
00:43:45
"I can't do it.
Someone else beats me down.
-
00:43:47
I got this,
I got that, I can't."
-
00:43:50
He's got all these reasons
for why he can't do it.
-
00:43:54
Why, why he can't make it in,
why he --
-
00:43:56
It's not going to
happen for him that day.
-
00:43:59
And Jesus maybe is trying to see
-
00:44:01
are you just a victim,
always looking for reasons
-
00:44:05
why God may not
move in your life?
-
00:44:06
And He just asks him a
question that seemingly
-
00:44:09
is innocent, but at the
same time very insensitive.
-
00:44:13
"Do you want to be healed?"
-
00:44:15
It's the same question God
would ask you right now.
-
00:44:18
Do you want to be healed?
-
00:44:22
Some time ago,
I was at a wedding
-
00:44:25
and I was at this table.
-
00:44:27
And this woman who
I knew was starting
-
00:44:31
to tell me about her story.
-
00:44:33
And she started about
just the pain she had
-
00:44:37
experienced in
her family of origin
-
00:44:39
and going on and
on about these things.
-
00:44:40
My heart started to
go out towards her.
-
00:44:42
I thought, "Oh man, this is
horrible what's happened."
-
00:44:45
And then the more she talked,
the more I noticed
-
00:44:48
that there was, like,
a -- there was a cadence,
-
00:44:50
almost like she
had rehearsed this,
-
00:44:52
like the words flowed really,
really well.
-
00:44:58
And I realized she's
not just sharing with me
-
00:45:00
for the first time,
this is a part of her story.
-
00:45:04
This is like her identity.
-
00:45:06
This is who she is.
-
00:45:08
And she actually rehearses
this with people pretty often.
-
00:45:16
That's what we do. some
of us who don't want healing.
-
00:45:19
We just want to take
this on as our identity.
-
00:45:22
And when I say,
"Do you want healed?"
-
00:45:24
A lot of us just don't want
to be healed. We don't.
-
00:45:26
We are very happy with
where we are right now.
-
00:45:29
Very, very happy.
-
00:45:31
We're like a -- we're
like a little toddler
-
00:45:33
who's not potty trained yet
-
00:45:35
and sits in his poop all day.
-
00:45:37
We're like, "Well,
it stinks, but it's warm
-
00:45:38
and at least it's mine."
-
00:45:42
Our pains, our trauma,
I say like this, our trauma
-
00:45:46
because, you know,
trauma used to be reserved
-
00:45:48
for people who
went to the military
-
00:45:50
and lost their legs.
-
00:45:53
Now, if I got something
I can't get over,
-
00:45:56
it's called trauma,
and maybe it is.
-
00:45:58
I'm not going to fight
over the word at all.
-
00:46:00
But here's what
I'm going to say.
-
00:46:01
I'm going to say this:
Do you have the hope
-
00:46:04
and expectation
you can be healed
-
00:46:06
and move beyond that,
or is that your troll?
-
00:46:09
See,
if you don't want to get healed
-
00:46:10
and you actually like
the pain you have,
-
00:46:12
you couldn't separate
yourself from pain.
-
00:46:14
It's like a little troll
who's smelly and stinky,
-
00:46:17
but he's your little
toy and you pet him
-
00:46:19
and you pull him out,
"My own little troll.
-
00:46:21
I will love him and
hold him and tell him
-
00:46:23
my own little troll,
my own pet little pain,
-
00:46:25
my own pet little trauma."
This is --
-
00:46:28
And you have to
make the decision
-
00:46:30
whether or not you
want to get rid of that guy.
-
00:46:33
A lot of us,
truth be told, we don't
-
00:46:36
because it's a source
of warmth for us.
-
00:46:38
It's kind of who we are.
-
00:46:40
And so as this woman
was going on talking
-
00:46:42
about her thing
going on for a while,
-
00:46:44
I just read this verse,
I think earlier in the day
-
00:46:48
or at some point recently.
-
00:46:49
It was marinating on
my mind and I said to her,
-
00:46:52
I said,
"Do you want to be healed?"
-
00:46:56
In fact,
another translation says
-
00:46:57
what I actually said to her,
"Do you want to be well?
-
00:47:00
Do you want to be well?"
And she stopped.
-
00:47:02
And she she was just like
looking at me confused.
-
00:47:08
I said, "Do you want
to get to another place?"
-
00:47:13
And she said, "You offended me.
You offended me."
-
00:47:17
I said, "Oh, I'm sorry,
don't want to offend you.
-
00:47:19
I was just wondering,"
-
00:47:20
and I tried to
explain what I meant.
-
00:47:21
And she said, "You offended me."
-
00:47:23
I said, "Okay, I'm really sorry.
Could we --"
-
00:47:26
"You offended me.
You offend -- You offended me.
-
00:47:29
You offended me,
you offended me."
-
00:47:30
And basically what
she was saying was,
-
00:47:32
"No, I don't want to be well.
-
00:47:34
No, I don't want to be healed."
-
00:47:37
Friends, you have to
be very honest with this
-
00:47:39
because Jesus
asked this question:
-
00:47:41
Do you want to be healed?
-
00:47:44
Do you want to be
over your alcoholism?
-
00:47:47
Do you want to be
over your bitterness?
-
00:47:50
Do you want to be over
your substance abuse?
-
00:47:52
Do you want to be over your ex?
-
00:47:55
Do you want to be over
the bitterness you have
-
00:47:57
towards God because X
wasn't given to you by God?
-
00:48:01
Do you want to be over
the pains of your childhood?
-
00:48:04
Do you want to be -- Do
you want to be healed?
-
00:48:09
I hope so because if you don't,
you have no hope.
-
00:48:13
Boy, that sounds really
ugly and dark to say,
-
00:48:16
but if Jesus didn't
see some look
-
00:48:19
in this guy's eyes,
like, "Yeah, I want,
-
00:48:21
I do, I do, I do,"
He wouldn't have gone.
-
00:48:23
He needs to know
do you want healed?
-
00:48:27
In the New Yorker recently,
they said:
-
00:48:36
Meaning it's now our identity.
-
00:48:40
And this guy answers
his question with his eyes,
-
00:48:46
"Yes, I do."
He must have, because
-
00:48:48
Jesus looks at him and says,
"Rise,
-
00:48:50
take up your pallet,
take up your mat and walk."
-
00:48:53
So how do you get well?
-
00:48:55
How do you get healed,
whatever it is?
-
00:49:00
Three things.
Number one, name your problem.
-
00:49:04
Name it. Name your problem.
-
00:49:09
One time Jesus says to a guy,
he says,
-
00:49:12
"What is it you want
me to do for you?"
-
00:49:14
He wants to hear him name
I want my sight restored
-
00:49:18
or other reasons he did,
name it.
-
00:49:21
I'm not saying you have to go,
like,
-
00:49:23
"Okay, I generally
believe I need healing."
-
00:49:26
What is it you need healing for?
Name it right now.
-
00:49:32
Call it out. Put a name on it.
-
00:49:36
All of us, again, need healing
in some form or fashion.
-
00:49:41
All of us are broken.
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00:49:43
I am an unbelievably
selfish person.
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00:49:47
I am an unbelievably
self-centered person
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00:49:50
that I'm managing it well.
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00:49:51
I'm gradually getting better,
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00:49:54
and I do a really good
job enabling other people
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00:49:57
to think I'm not as
self-centered as I am.
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00:50:00
I need a healing in that area.
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00:50:01
I'll give you just
I'll give you stuff
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00:50:03
over the last three days.
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00:50:06
First,
I had a person who wanted me
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00:50:09
to hang a shelf for him
and I decided to do it.
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00:50:11
And I just had a bad
attitude the whole time.
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00:50:14
This was a horrible, like,
I didn't have the right tools.
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00:50:16
How come the person was
over here before didn't do it?
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00:50:18
I just and I knew as I
was thinking about this,
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00:50:20
I'm going,
"This should not be bothering me
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00:50:22
as much as this does.
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00:50:24
I know how to do this stuff
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00:50:25
and I could probably do it
twice as fast as most people."
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00:50:28
But yet I was [grumbles].
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00:50:29
And then the other day,
you know,
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00:50:31
we had the big snowstorm,
Snowmageddon.
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00:50:36
Snowmageddon came in,
an Arctic blast came up.
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00:50:39
You know all these
phrases that Kroger pays
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00:50:41
the local news
people to use so that
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00:50:44
we buy more eggs
and milk and batteries
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00:50:47
when we haven't even
touched our batteries
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00:50:48
from three snowmageddons ago.
You know?
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00:50:53
I went down to our neighborhood.
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00:50:55
We'd have to drop
our our garbage off
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00:50:57
into a dumpster and went down.
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00:50:59
And you got to open up these,
like,
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00:51:01
this wooden gate thing.
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00:51:02
And there's very,
very clear, like here,
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00:51:04
no parking arrow over here.
-
00:51:07
Very, very clear no
parking arrow over here
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00:51:09
between this spot
no parking because
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00:51:12
you got to open up
the thing to go in there
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00:51:13
and do the deal, right?
-
00:51:15
Of course, I got all my garbage.
I got to go.
-
00:51:18
I'm like, yeah, take that door.
-
00:51:20
And I'm like, just jamming up
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00:51:22
against that bumper
a couple times.
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00:51:24
I looked at it.
It didn't scratch it.
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00:51:26
Good,
but felt good doing it anyway.
-
00:51:28
I'm going, "Why did I
feel the need to do that?"
-
00:51:30
Like,
I'm really angry at somebody
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00:51:32
who isn't in our
neighborhood and just thought
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00:51:36
the rules didn't apply to them
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00:51:38
or maybe they didn't
see the signs, right?
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00:51:44
Yeah, yeah.
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00:51:45
It bothers me more than it
should, way more than it should.
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00:51:49
Name your problems.
What are your problems?
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00:51:54
And I'm not just talking
about physical stuff here.
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00:51:57
I'm talking about all stuff.
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00:51:59
I'm talking about,
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00:52:00
I'm not talking about
just emotional, spiritual.
-
00:52:02
I'm talking all stuff,
including physical stuff.
-
00:52:04
America's chronic
pain is off the charts.
-
00:52:08
I don't think we've
ever had a culture
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00:52:10
that has more chronic
physical pain than now,
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00:52:13
and I haven't lived
all that much longer
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00:52:16
than a lot of us.
-
00:52:17
I've only been
around for 59 years,
-
00:52:19
but it just seems
that there hasn't been
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00:52:21
as much chronic pain
as there is right now.
-
00:52:23
The Washington Post says this:
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00:52:42
Pain, massive pain.
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00:52:47
We have to name our problem.
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00:52:48
We have to name what it is.
-
00:52:53
One of my physical
pains is I have -
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00:52:55
I've had chronic tennis
elbow for over a year now
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00:52:59
and I never even play tennis.
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00:53:03
I don't even play wussy ball.
I mean, pickleball.
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00:53:06
I don't even -- I
don't even do that.
-
00:53:10
You know, you know,
pickleball, you know,
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00:53:12
the people play
a lot of pickleball,
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00:53:14
they're too lazy
even to say ball.
-
00:53:16
They just call it pickle.
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00:53:17
Come on. Just -- just
say the whole thing.
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00:53:20
I think pickleball is great.
It's wonderful.
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00:53:22
Maybe I'll do it someday.
I've done it before.
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00:53:24
It's very, very, very fun game.
-
00:53:25
But all I'm saying,
I don't -- I don't --
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00:53:27
I'm not doing that but
however reason it's there
-
00:53:30
and I -- just it's bothering me.
-
00:53:33
And I realize that I've
just been sitting around
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00:53:36
waiting for it to
magically get better.
-
00:53:38
Actually put on
the Crossroads app,
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00:53:39
had people pray for me.
-
00:53:40
I probably had hundreds,
thousands of people,
-
00:53:42
I don't know,
a lot of people praying for me.
-
00:53:44
Just thinking, just thinking
that's good enough.
-
00:53:46
But no, it's not.
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00:53:48
You got to do the second thing.
-
00:53:49
And that is you have
to step toward healing,
-
00:53:53
step toward healing,
go to a new place,
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00:54:00
do something different.
-
00:54:05
Jesus has 41
healings that I read
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00:54:09
in Matthew, Mark,
Luke, and John, 41.
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00:54:12
34 of them happen
only when someone
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00:54:16
moves towards Him and asks,
or a friend does.
-
00:54:19
As of the remaining seven,
as I count,
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00:54:22
about five of them,
He doesn't heal somebody
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00:54:25
unless they still
go do something,
-
00:54:26
like go wash their mud off,
-
00:54:28
wash their face off with
the mud that He put there
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00:54:31
down a little,
a little pool and do that.
-
00:54:34
Just this morning,
reading in my Bible reading plan
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00:54:37
in Matthew 9,
five things in a row. Boom.
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00:54:42
Paralyzed guy
brought by his friends
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00:54:43
when Jesus saw his faith.
-
00:54:45
Political ruler
asking for a healing
-
00:54:47
for his dead daughter.
-
00:54:49
A woman who is
menstruating for 12 years,
-
00:54:51
who reaches over
and basically dives
-
00:54:54
and touches the
hem of His garment.
-
00:54:56
And He stops and says,
"Who touched me?"
-
00:54:58
And a mute man who's
brought by friends.
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00:55:01
Boom, boom, boom, boom, boom.
-
00:55:02
He's looking to
see who wants it.
-
00:55:05
He's looking to see
who has enough faith
-
00:55:08
to move and to act
and step toward healing.
-
00:55:12
So I was wrestling with this.
I was like,
-
00:55:14
"Gosh, you know,
I've just been sitting around
-
00:55:18
just hoping and
expecting some miracle,
-
00:55:21
or just suck it up
the rest of my life."
-
00:55:23
And it could be,
I could suck it up
-
00:55:24
for the rest of my life
and God could heal me.
-
00:55:28
And I could go to YouTube
and I could research
-
00:55:33
what people do to
get over tennis elbow.
-
00:55:36
There are these basic exercises,
my gosh,
-
00:55:39
I did it for one day.
I was 20% better.
-
00:55:42
Like 20% better
after one day of,
-
00:55:45
like, doing this stuff
and soup can and crazy.
-
00:55:50
A lot of us, we want healing,
but we don't want do anything.
-
00:55:53
We don't want to go to anyone.
-
00:55:55
We want to ask
for anybody's help.
-
00:55:57
Hey,
you are a chosen child of God.
-
00:56:00
If you're in a
relationship with Jesus,
-
00:56:02
if you receive it,
if you haven't done that,
-
00:56:04
this is a great day to start.
-
00:56:05
It's a great day
to get more grace.
-
00:56:08
That is your identity, okay?
-
00:56:11
Your identity is not
where you went to school.
-
00:56:16
It's so weird.
I'm in Cincinnati.
-
00:56:18
Let me tell you, those of
you who aren't in Cincinnati.
-
00:56:20
Cincinnati is freaking weird.
-
00:56:22
Like,
you meet someone at a party,
-
00:56:24
"Like,
where'd you go to school?"
-
00:56:25
And you're thinking
they're trying to, like,
-
00:56:27
compare Ivy League
degrees or something like that.
-
00:56:30
No, they want to know
where you went to high school.
-
00:56:33
Or even worse, grammar school,
elementary school.
-
00:56:37
What is wrong with you people?
-
00:56:40
And it's because
somewhere along the line
-
00:56:43
they picked that up,
that was their identity,
-
00:56:45
that was in first place,
their identity of who they were.
-
00:56:51
One of my trolls
that I had around.
-
00:56:54
And if you have been around
Crossroads for decades,
-
00:56:56
you know I've talked about
stuff of my family of origin,
-
00:56:58
but if you've only been
around for five years,
-
00:57:00
you know I'm not really
talking about it anymore.
-
00:57:02
I've got a whole
history of things
-
00:57:04
that was bothering me and this.
-
00:57:06
And I realized, "Brian,
you can't keep reliving this,
-
00:57:09
even if you're you
think you're over it,
-
00:57:11
just bringing it out
and talking about it."
-
00:57:14
You're you're -- not you're
not walking away from it.
-
00:57:18
You're not.
You're not moving away.
-
00:57:19
You have to step
towards healing.
-
00:57:21
When I step towards Jesus,
when I step towards healing,
-
00:57:26
I'm at the same time
walking away from the past.
-
00:57:30
When I step
towards this speaker,
-
00:57:32
I'm walking away from the chair.
-
00:57:35
If I step towards the table,
-
00:57:37
I'm walking away
from the speaker.
-
00:57:41
This is what Philippians
3:13 speaks to:
-
00:58:00
I press on.
I forget what lies behind.
-
00:58:03
Friends,
if you want to be healing,
-
00:58:05
you got to press on
and you got to put behind
-
00:58:08
the crap people
have done to you,
-
00:58:09
the failures you've had,
that is behind.
-
00:58:12
And the longer you
stay there and look at it,
-
00:58:14
the farther you're going
to be away from healing
-
00:58:16
and oneness and a kind of grace
that you can't even fathom.
-
00:58:20
Am I ringing any bells,
or do you want --
-
00:58:23
Or do you just want what
all the children of wrath
-
00:58:26
do in our culture
by that passage?
-
00:58:28
Do you just want
to be under the rule
-
00:58:29
and under the dominion of
the minions of the evil one
-
00:58:33
who's got a structure
set up for you and I
-
00:58:35
to be the way we are?
-
00:58:36
It's not by accident
that we are all this way.
-
00:58:39
It's not.
There's a system at hand,
-
00:58:42
and you have to
choose whether or not
-
00:58:44
you want to rebel
against that system
-
00:58:46
that does not work,
and walk towards Jesus
-
00:58:49
and walk away from
that system of victimhood,
-
00:58:52
that system of I have no power,
-
00:58:54
that system that says
God doesn't care about you,
-
00:58:57
that says He doesn't love you,
-
00:58:58
He says that
you're not important,
-
00:59:00
He says he doesn't
have time for you.
-
00:59:02
That whole system
that says this won't work,
-
00:59:04
that God is always
talking about,
-
00:59:06
don't ask somebody for
prayer because it'll never work.
-
00:59:09
And if you want to
just stay where you are,
-
00:59:11
that's the 2025,
if you want to keep having
-
00:59:14
the things you have,
just stay believing
-
00:59:15
the things you're believing.
-
00:59:17
But if you want
something different,
-
00:59:18
you're going to have to
do something different.
-
00:59:20
And you're going to have
to think something different.
-
00:59:23
You're going to have to
move into a different place.
-
00:59:29
I interact with people who
are divorced all the time,
-
00:59:31
and I'm like, "Gosh,"
some of them I said,
-
00:59:33
"Geez, you've been
divorced a long time ago
-
00:59:37
and I know you,
you walk with God.
-
00:59:39
You made it right.
You had your problems,
-
00:59:41
you had your regrets,
and you repented.
-
00:59:43
You ask for forgiveness.
-
00:59:44
But why are you still living it?
-
00:59:46
Why are you still beating
yourself up over it?
-
00:59:48
Why do you still apologize?
-
00:59:49
You talk about, 'Oh,
I've been divorced.'
-
00:59:51
Why does your voice
go down like this?
-
00:59:53
Why is it going down? Why?
-
00:59:54
Why does shame immediately come?
-
00:59:55
We're talking 20 years ago.
-
00:59:58
Do you not know
that you are forgiven?
-
01:00:01
That there is an
immeasurable grace
-
01:00:03
that God doesn't
define you that way?"
-
01:00:08
We're all broken,
but we have to see
-
01:00:10
that Jesus restores and heals,
-
01:00:12
and I have to
embrace that identity
-
01:00:14
or keep living the old one.
-
01:00:16
For much of my
life I was a slacker.
-
01:00:18
That's why it took me so long
to get my four year degree.
-
01:00:21
It's why -- I was a slacker
for a long, long time.
-
01:00:23
And it was one
of the things that
-
01:00:25
God started changing
in me is my work ethic,
-
01:00:29
and that got handled sometime
-
01:00:30
before I came to Crossroads
to start Crossroads.
-
01:00:33
But once I came on,
I was for, gosh,
-
01:00:37
20 years in the office,
first one in, last one out.
-
01:00:41
Every day, first one in,
last one out.
-
01:00:42
And it wasn't because I
was the most productive.
-
01:00:44
It wasn't because there
was that much work to do
-
01:00:46
with all the evening meetings.
-
01:00:48
It was because I was
trying to prove to myself
-
01:00:51
and to others I'm not a slacker.
-
01:00:54
And what I was saying
to myself and to God
-
01:00:57
was I'm believing
that old narrative.
-
01:00:59
I'm not believing You.
-
01:01:02
And in the midst of so
much this stuff that I did,
-
01:01:04
I was just punching a card
-
01:01:06
and and make myself feel
good for how hard I was working,
-
01:01:09
but it wasn't
commensurate with fruit.
-
01:01:12
That wasn't happening,
but I kept being busy.
-
01:01:17
It was a sign of me
not walking away.
-
01:01:20
Third, and finally,
do something that Jesus does.
-
01:01:24
Do something that Jesus does.
-
01:01:28
It's a sign. It's a signal.
-
01:01:31
In John 5,
as a story goes on, there is
-
01:01:37
this guy gets ambushed
by all the religious people
-
01:01:40
because he's healed.
-
01:01:41
And they're saying,
"You got healed.
-
01:01:43
This was the Sabbath.
That was work.
-
01:01:44
You can't work in the Sabbath
even with something miraculous."
-
01:01:47
They're jealous of Jesus
so they're pouncing on him.
-
01:01:49
"Who did this to you?
Who broke the rules?"
-
01:01:51
All this stuff.
-
01:01:52
And this guy actually
makes an incredibly bold,
-
01:01:55
bold statement,
as you can imagine.
-
01:01:57
Like Jesus says,
"Just rise and go. Rise and go."
-
01:01:59
It's like he's got
to do something.
-
01:02:01
He rises, man, my gosh,
he's moving. It's amazing.
-
01:02:07
And here's what says in John 14:
-
01:02:14
You're well, see.
See, you're well.
-
01:02:16
Wouldn't it be great if Jesus
says that to you someday?
-
01:02:19
See, you're well. See?
-
01:02:22
You don't think about it
anymore, do you? See?
-
01:02:24
That thing isn't bothering
you anymore. See?
-
01:02:47
I too am working.
What does he do?
-
01:02:50
He starts being like Jesus.
-
01:02:52
He starts telling people.
-
01:02:54
He starts standing up
and risking being humiliated
-
01:02:58
and actually killed by saying,
-
01:02:59
"I align with that guy.
-
01:03:01
Yes,
He's the one who healed me."
-
01:03:03
He does something different.
-
01:03:05
He does something
Jesus would do.
-
01:03:07
And this what Jesus says here.
-
01:03:08
He says, "I always do
what My Father's doing."
-
01:03:10
If you want to know how to grow,
-
01:03:11
look and see what Jesus is doing
-
01:03:13
and then go be a part of it.
-
01:03:14
Take on His attitudes.
Take on His love.
-
01:03:17
Take on His actions.
Take on His faithfulness.
-
01:03:20
Take on His boldness.
-
01:03:21
And when you see it happening,
go and be a part of it.
-
01:03:28
We're going to have
at all of our sites,
-
01:03:32
we're going to have
people come forward
-
01:03:34
who are trained people in prayer
-
01:03:36
who are prayer ninjas.
-
01:03:37
They love to pray,
and they've got
-
01:03:39
a pretty high hit rate on it.
-
01:03:41
And if you want to be healed,
-
01:03:46
if you want to be healed,
-
01:03:48
we had I don't know
if you picked it up
-
01:03:49
last week in that video we had,
-
01:03:50
we had 200 and some
verified medical healings
-
01:03:54
in the last 12 months.
-
01:03:56
You know, the one I talked
about a couple weeks ago,
-
01:04:00
the guy restoring his,
you know, his saliva.
-
01:04:05
Went to another doctor,
doctor was like,
-
01:04:06
geez, another one.
-
01:04:07
The second one did a scoop like,
"Wow. Yeah, it's for real."
-
01:04:10
Now he's got a problem,
he's got his taste back
-
01:04:12
and he's eating so much,
-
01:04:13
now he's dealing
with poop issues
-
01:04:14
because he hasn't
had to poop for so long.
-
01:04:16
Now he's like,
so he's laughing about it.
-
01:04:17
He says,
"I'll take these problems.
-
01:04:19
I'll take these problems."
-
01:04:20
Hey, man. Hey, man,
let me tell you something.
-
01:04:22
It's real, it's real, it's real.
-
01:04:23
It doesn't mean it's
going to happen to you.
-
01:04:25
It's called a miracle.
It doesn't happen all the time.
-
01:04:27
There's no special formula.
-
01:04:29
But, man, I tell you,
you got to want it,
-
01:04:30
whatever it is,
you got to want it.
-
01:04:32
Do you want to be healed?
-
01:04:34
Do you want to get
over your bitterness?
-
01:04:36
Do you want to get
over your selfishness?
-
01:04:38
Do you want to get over
the pain and the heartache
-
01:04:42
and the cancer and
the tennis elbow?
-
01:04:44
Do you want to be healed?
-
01:04:47
Well, you're gonna have
to take a step forward.
-
01:04:49
You're going to have to come.
-
01:04:50
You're going to have to
put your back on leaving
-
01:04:52
and come forward and get prayer.
-
01:04:54
All of our sites, come on down.
-
01:04:56
Come on prayer people,
come forward right now.
-
01:04:59
Come on, right now,
online we will be praying
-
01:05:01
and chatting for you.
-
01:05:02
We have a whole bunch
of people who are trained
-
01:05:04
and are really good at it.
-
01:05:05
We are praying for you via chat.
-
01:05:08
And let me just pray right now
-
01:05:10
and then the rest
of the time is yours.
-
01:05:12
Come forward and
have an opportunity
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to get healed or something else,
it's up to you.
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Lord, I'm thankful that You
are a God that's beyond us
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and is amazing and is a lover
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of people with
immeasurable grace.
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God, I'm asking for
more grace to come
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on these prayers that
are going to be giving.
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I'm asking for something
mysterious and beautiful
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and powerful to happen
that can't be strong armed.
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Give these people
who are praying
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wisdom and the grace to
be wise and to be potent,
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and give us the humility
as we try to honor You.
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God, would you show yourself
to be healer this weekend?
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And I pray these things in
the name of Jesus. Amen.
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- We're so glad that you
joined us for church today.
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And before you go,
just know there are
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hundreds of people who are ready
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and would love to
pray for you right now,
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whether it's for physical
healing or for grief,
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or for something that
you're working through
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or processing,
or maybe you just need someone
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to pray for peace or
encouragement for you.
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The best way for
you to do this is simply
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head to crossroads.net
and click on the chat button.
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Whether you're
watching this in real time
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or weeks, months,
or even years later,
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we always love to pray for you.
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Our online prayer team is
available just about any time,
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and I'd actually love
to take a moment
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to pray for you right now.
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Father, You know what we need.
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You know what we need
even before we've said a word.
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God, thank You that
You know us completely
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and that you want to meet
us in the places of our need.
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Father,
I ask that You bring peace,
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that You bring comfort,
that You bring strength
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in just the way that we need it.
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In Your Name. Amen.
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Hey, thanks so much. We'll
see you back here next week.