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- And the specific practice
we're unpacking today
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is receiving teaching weekly.
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It's a core practice that
all of the followers of Jesus
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who have grown and
experience that abundant life
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that Jesus promised, they
have always prioritized.
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- Welcome to Crossroads and
welcome to the Grow Journey.
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I'm Brian, and
before we get started,
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just what exactly is
this Journey thing?
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Well, let me start
with the word grow.
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In the Bible, we see seven
practices that Jesus does.
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And when we unlock
these proven practices
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in our own lives, we
grow, we advance,
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we go to the next place,
we feel closer to God.
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Each week of this series,
we will be looking at
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a different one of the
seven proven practices
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and figuring out how to
apply to our individual lives.
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That's the grow part.
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The Journey part means
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that we're going on
a journey together,
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a bunch of people
going step by step
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through a process
of self discovery
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and sharpening one another
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and sensing God moment
by moment, week by week.
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As a church, we're all doing it,
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and we do it by
meeting in groups
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and going through the guidebook,
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as well as having
something to see online
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or in a building.
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We'll show you how to
do that later in the episode.
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I'm glad you're watching.
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And I believe if you engage,
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you're going to grow closer
to God in the next 20 minutes.
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Now let's get started.
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- If you want to treat a grow,
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to force it would be folly.
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You do not ask it:
What will you make?
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What will you produce?
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How high will you reach?
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How fast can you get there?
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If you want to treat a
grow, you simply resource it.
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You ask: What do you need?
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And you provide generously
the light to bask in,
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the water to drink in,
the fertile soil to root in,
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the holy space to take shape.
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God likens Himself
to all these things:
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the light of the world,
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a well overflowing,
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the very nutrients you need.
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If you are designed to grow,
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God doesn't force
it; He resources it.
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- But whose delight
is in the law of the Lord
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and who meditates on
his law day and night?
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That person is like a tree
planted by streams of water,
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which yields its fruit in season
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and whose leaf does not wither.
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Whatever they do prospers.
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- You were designed to
grow by simply receiving.
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They need to receive.
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What do you need?
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- So, a question
right out of the gate:
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who tries to teach you
about what's important in life?
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Like who you are,
what you're made for,
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how to live effectively
and hopefully joyfully,
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where to invest your
time and your energy?
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All the important stuff.
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Well, the answer is
everyone all the time.
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Or like the movie, everything
everywhere all the time.
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In 2007, the Yankelovich
research firm found that
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the average person
was exposed to
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5000 different messages
every day, which is insane.
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Only now that number
has doubled to 10,000.
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So, we've seen 5000
by lunch. It's crazy.
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In fact, I just checked
right before coming here,
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and Instagram wants me to
invest my time, my energy,
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my resources into working out.
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Not a bad idea.
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You Tube wants me to
invest my time, my energy,
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my resources in a master class.
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And Facebook, well,
Facebook I actually didn't check
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because it's
officially irrelevant,
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unless I have an old
mattress to sell on Marketplace.
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Sorry, Mark Zuckerberg.
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It's just -- it's just
what we're at now.
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Just where we're at.
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Did you know that the
digital advertising industry
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is worth $585 billion
a year? That's crazy.
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Why? Why is it worth that much?
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It's because it works.
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What they teach us to
want, to invest our time,
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our energy and resources
in is what we invest in.
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What they teach us to
want is what we want.
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Where they teach us to go
is where we end up going.
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And why does it work?
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It's because you and me
are very, very impressionable,
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or said more positively,
we're by nature very teachable.
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The problem is most of
those teachers in our lives,
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not the ones in classrooms,
they're not talking about that.
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I'm talking about Instagram
and Facebook and YouTube
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and all the messages
that we receive,
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all those teachers aren't
trying to give us more energy.
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They're not trying to
work towards our growth.
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They're trying to take
our time and our energy.
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But see this Journey,
this Grow Journey,
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it's about growing.
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It's about getting
to a better place.
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It's about investing
for a return.
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But their goal is the opposite:
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to take time, money,
energy, attention.
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Jesus promised to give us more.
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He said we could
grow and grow and grow
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until we have what He
called the abundant life.
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- Every week after
the service is over,
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we go see my mom
at the nursing home
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and she asks, "What's the --
what was the sermon about?"
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And we tell her.
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- I try to attend service
on the weekends.
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- Routine is huge for me.
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Receiving weekly teachings
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is something that
keeps me grounded
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and helps create spiritual
disciplines in my life.
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- I go to Crossroads
Uptown or I'll watch online.
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- How I receive weekly teaching
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looks like streaming
the services online.
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- Every week on Sunday
nights, my family and I
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get together and we
just talk about the Bible.
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- Receiving weekly
teacher really impacts my life
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in a way that reminds
me that I am a model.
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I'm a model to my wife,
my children, grandchildren,
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my mentees, and
even my employees.
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So, people who really want
to test the fruit of your walk,
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it's not just what you say,
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but it's the actions
that you show.
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- Jesus promised the
abundant life was possible
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in John 10:10 when He said,
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"I came that they may have life
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and have it abundantly."
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The question for you today is
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who's regularly teaching you
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how to have that kind of life,
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how to have life and
have it abundantly?
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Who's teaching you how to grow
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in the ways that
matter the most,
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to grow in peace
and hope and joy,
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and most of all, in
your understanding
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of the God who created you
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to enjoy all those
things and more?
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Because you won't
grow accidentally.
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You won't experience the
abundant life accidentally.
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The good news today, though, is
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you don't have to
guess how to grow.
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It's not, like, just
hope you get it right.
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In this Journey we're looking at
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the seven proven
practices that lead to growth.
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Every one of these
are time tested practices
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that date back 2000 years.
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And the specific practice
we're unpacking today
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is receiving teaching weekly.
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It's a core practice that
all of the followers of Jesus
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who have grown and
experience that abundant life
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that Jesus promised, they
have always prioritized.
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And I think given the
unprecedented amount of messages
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that we receive in the
world today, shouting at us,
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telling us what to value,
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telling us where
to aim our life at,
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I think it's never been a
more important practice
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than right now.
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See, receiving teaching
is giving attention.
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In his incredible book
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The Ruthless
Elimination of Hurry,
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the theologian John
Mark Comer said:
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That's a really
fancy way of saying
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you are what you eat.
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That's the same as these plants.
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If they consume good
nutrients, they grow good fruit.
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It's the same for you,
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what you eat, what you
give your attention to.
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Now, do you know who
knew the importance of
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carefully cultivating what
you give your attention to?
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Jesus.
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In just a minute
we're going to look at
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the very first action of
Jesus ever recorded,
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and spoiler alert,
it's about this,
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giving your attention
to receiving teaching.
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But check out the
first thing that happens
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after Jesus gets baptized,
which is considered
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to be the beginning
of His official ministry.
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He's taken straight
to the wilderness.
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He fast for 40 straight days.
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And then Satan
shows up to tempt Him.
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So, if you ever
thought the first 40 days
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of your new job are rough,
they have nothing on this.
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Check this out, Matthew 4:1:
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Now, I find it fascinating that
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the very first thing Jesus
faced in His ministry,
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most of which was teaching,
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was about receiving teaching.
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And here's something
critical to see in these words
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that I'm willing to bet
you've never seen before.
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See, Jesus was quoting
when he said, "It's written,"
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He was quoting Deuteronomy
8:3 with his answer,
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which says this:
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See, Jesus doubled
down on that message.
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He said, "You're not
made to be a self feeder."
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That's the temptation
that he was facing.
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"Feed yourself, Jesus.
Take care of it yourself.
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Do it, do a DIY spirituality."
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But it wasn't receiving
food from God.
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And Jesus was saying,
"I don't live by the wisdom
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that I can whip up on my own,
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my own bread that I can
make, I can feed myself.
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I live by God's wisdom
that I have to receive."
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These words hit
me like a shovel.
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They aimed at digging up
the rock in me called pride,
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because I'm a
grownup, I'm an adult.
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I'm not supposed to
need to learn anymore
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or receive teaching
from somebody else.
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I'm supposed to be able
to do it all myself, right?
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Isn't that what we're taught?
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I'm done with school.
I'm not a kid anymore.
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Okay, now let's talk
about the first thing
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the Bible ever
records Jesus doing.
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Do you know it's not
teaching, but being taught?
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Jesus was 12 years old.
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He went with His parents to
Jerusalem for the Passover.
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And they they left, and His
parents couldn't find Him.
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It says in Luke 2:46:
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Okay, so fix that
image in your mind.
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The child Jesus does what?
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He sits and He
listens to teachers
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and He asks them questions
so that He can learn.
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Do you remember
a time in your life
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when you asked
a million questions,
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even the unsafe ones,
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even the ones you're
not supposed to ask?
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Well, see what happens
for most of us as we age
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is that we learn the rules
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of asking questions
and learning.
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We learn which
questions are okay to ask,
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which ones we should skip.
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Eventually many of us stop
asking questions altogether.
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And the problem is,
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it's killing our
ability to be taught.
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A guy named Warren
Berger wrote a book about this.
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He said:
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You know, not
incidentally, there's a story
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where Jesus was talking about
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what type of person of
faith is the absolute greatest.
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His answer might surprise you.
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Matthew 18:3:
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I don't think that means change
and become little children.
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It doesn't mean be shallow
minded and naïve and silly.
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You know what a cruel
trick God would be playing
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if He wanted us to
be shallow minded,
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but our brains were
naturally growing and maturing
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and getting more logical.
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I don't think that's
what He means at all.
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What He means is: ask me
a million unfiltered questions,
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just like a kid.
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Have a hunger and
a curiosity to learn.
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Because if you want to
grow, you have to have
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that same hunger to grow
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just like you did
when you were a kid.
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This Journey hinges on one
thing: your hunger to grow.
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We prepared the soil,
we gathered the nutrients,
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we've got the water
all measured out,
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but it's up to you to dig in.
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And if you're up for it,
here's how the Journey works.
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- There are three
parts to the Journey.
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Step one: Attend the weekend
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and receive weekly
teaching at a site or online.
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Get inspired with the good news.
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Step two: Do your guide work.
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You get your very
own printed guide.
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It'll help you create a plan
of action to grow deeper.
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And step three:
meet with your group.
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During the Journey
we meet in groups
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to talk about what we're
learning, grow deeper together.
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Go here for more.
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Come Grow!
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- Well, hey, my
name is Andy Reider
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and hopefully that
video was helpful for you
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to understand
what it means to do
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this thing called the Journey.
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And actually, one of the
seven proven practices
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that we're going
to be leaning into
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is receive weekly teaching.
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Hey, well done. You did it.
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- Good job. Right here,
right now, you're doing it.
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- You did it right now.
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And that's just a
place to get started.
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If you're looking for more
tools that can help you,
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yeah, that's it, grow.
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Hey, just open up
your Crossroads App
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and we've got more
great stuff for you there.
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- That's exactly right.
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And one of those
proven practices
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that we'll talk
about a little bit later
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is through giving.
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You can also do that in the app.
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This is a pretty sweet app.
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And you know what?
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Our giving is fueling
life change everywhere.
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The simple thing to
do is click your profile
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at the bottom of the screen,
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then go ahead and
click that gear shift.
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And once you click it,
there's a simple option to give,
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it has a little
heart next to it.
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So let's hop into the
message right now.
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- Did you know Jesus is
the only major religious figure
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who says, "Ask me questions
so that I can teach you"?
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He said this in Luke 11.
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Jesus says, "Be like
me when I was a kid.
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I want to ask a
million questions."
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And who should
you ask? Teachers.
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See, Jesus was trying to learn
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and not only
willing to be taught,
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but He was running
away from His parents
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so He could be taught.
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Do you have that same
kind of hunger to be taught,
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to learn and to grow?
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Do you have time on your
calendar at least once a week
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to run away from
the rest of your life
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and prioritize receiving
teaching weekly
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as a core practice?
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By the way, there
isn't a one size fits all
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solution for teaching.
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We know that the
world has changed.
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It's going to
continue to change.
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And that's okay.
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We make these episodes
intentionally shorter
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and available on
demand because we want
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to give you options
that work for you.
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It's not about how
long you listen;
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it's about what you
do with what you learn.
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See receive doesn't
just mean consume.
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That's what we're
used to in today's world,
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we consume the information.
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Receive means apply.
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And my job as a
teacher is simply to
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help deliver the Word of
God to you that you need
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just like a farmhand might
walk around these plants
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and give them water and
fertilizer carefully prepared.
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That's the role of a teacher,
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and the word of God, it's
our activator for growth.
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Hebrews 4:12 says:
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For the Word of God
is alive and active.
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Do you want activity?
Do you want movement?
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Do you want growth?
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Then you must
get the Word of God
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by receiving teaching weekly.
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And by the way, you may notice
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how this practice builds on
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the first one that
we talked about,
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connecting with God daily.
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See, we do need time on our own
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to chew on the Word of God.
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And we need time when
it's carefully prepared
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and given and taught to us,
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because we don't
live on bread alone,
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but by every word from God.
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That means you're not
afraid, you're not angry,
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you're not bitter,
you're not hopeless,
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you're not stuck.
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You're hungry, and
what you need most
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is the food that matters
the most: The Word of God.
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See, more growth
is possible for you.
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It is, but only if
you make a habit
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of receiving teaching weekly.
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If you've got the
hunger to grow,
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we've got you this week.
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In your guide you're
going to do an exercise
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that's, I think, really cool.
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It will help you identify
what style of learner you are,
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how you receive
teaching the best.
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So, make sure you do
your guide this week.
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Make sure you go to your group.
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Let me pray for you
as you do those things.
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God, thank you for
everybody watching.
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Give us exactly what
we need to grow. Amen.
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- Hearing Kyle talk about
how the Word is alive,
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it's just invigorating.
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Because it can seem
a little dead on paper.
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But when you apply it,
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when you take it
out of the paper,
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out of the context,
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when you move
with it, it's powerful.
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- That's right.
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There's something
that happens when we,
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well, take God's
Word and make it alive
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by taking it with us
through the rest of our day.
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Right? Like something
special happens.
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So, I want to give
you two more tools,
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two more ways that
you can take that thing
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that happens with God's
word and extend it out
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through the other 127
hours of your week.
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Because we're not
just content, like,
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we don't just make stuff.
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- This can't be it.
- Right, this can't be it.
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That's a good way of saying it.
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Like we're a
community that you can
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fully belong to
wherever you are.
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So two things for you.
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One, we've got a thing
called online prayer night.
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I'm going to
tell you something,
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I'm going tell you it's on Zoom.
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And just don't -- just
listen to me. It's awesome.
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Like, it's great.
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We've seen God do amazing things
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and we've got time to
worship, time to pray,
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time to connect as
community coming up.
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I would love for you to join us.
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I'll be leading worship.
It's going to be a great time.
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Secondly, Kyle, who
you just heard from,
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he's got a podcast, a podcast
called A Better Answer,
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brand new, just dropped.
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That is a chance
for him to answer
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real world questions from a
20 something, and get, like,
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real world advice for how
to make God's word alive
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and active through
the rest of your day.
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- Well, you know what?
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We've got a sneak peek of
what's next on Crossroads,
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because this is
just the beginning.
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So, take a look right now.
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- You know what
would be really stupid
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is if you would take a light
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and put it under a
basket or a bushel.
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I wonder what's
under. Oh, a light.
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Yeah. It doesn't make any sense
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for a light to be
under a bushel.
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When stuff is going to grow
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because it's exposed to light.