Past the Point of No Return

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- Hey, welcome to Crossroads. I'm Andy.

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- And I'm Hannah.

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- Hey. And we are so glad that you're joining us today.

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Now, Crossroads is a church of people

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meeting all over the world,

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in coffee shops, bars, dorm rooms, homes,

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buildings just like this one

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and so, so, so much more.

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Hey, special call out to my friends in Florida.

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We got some staff coming to hang out

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with you guys just over the weekend.

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Can't wait to be with you.

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- It is week five of The Push.

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If it's your first time joining us in a while,

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we've been in this thing called the 10X Push,

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and if you've been here, you know that

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we are learning and growing in our faith,

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being pushed and challenged into what God

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might have for us over the next ten years.

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And I'll tell you what, I've not just been pushed

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and challenged to think about surrender

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or to think about what I'm putting on the table.

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I've also been encouraged, you know?

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I'm encouraged to think that

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God wants to partner with me,

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little old me and little old you,

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to change the literal world

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and the community around us

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and our families and our generations.

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And that's exciting stuff.

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- That's right. I know, for me at least, like,

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I am not at my best when I'm just comfortable

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and cozy and bingeing Netflix.

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Like, there's something good that happens

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when I'm pushed, when I'm stretched.

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And that is what's been happening,

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not just for us, like a community,

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like big scale thing, but like for me,

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not just like here, but here

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God's been pushing us and challenge us

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to go to a new places.

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It's been really, really good.

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- Speaking of new places, we have a story

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of a couple who decided to go to a new place,

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and it really changed the trajectory

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of their entire life.

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This is Judd and Dani's story. Catch it right now.

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- For the first ten years of our marriage

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we were looking for -- We were church hopping.

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I'd grown up in the church, Young Life,

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the whole thing, and so I was like,

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"We got to get into this."

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And so we visited, oh, my gosh, so many churches.

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And Judd really reacted negatively to church. Yeah.

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- I had a lot of objections.

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So church wasn't a part of my childhood at all.

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Childhood Judd was, I don't know,

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there's like drugs, violence, sex,

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just nothing in any way godly or holy at all.

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And so I'd go to church every now and then

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at Christmas with my grandmother, who was amazing,

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but I didn't really know who God was

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and what faith was all about.

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I just had this -- There was some sort of

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a connection in there rattling around

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inside of me that I couldn't really define.

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- We were living up in Lebanon,

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we moved to Hyde Park, and my sister

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was like trying to get us to come to Crossroads.

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Judd's like, "Well, what are you going to tell her?

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Because this place is weird."

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I was like, "We'll go this one time,

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and then after that I'll just be like,

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'Hey, you know what?

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This really isn't the church for us.

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We're going to keep looking, ' and just politely exit out."

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And we went to that service

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and I don't remember what was said,

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but both of us left there and we were like,

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"Was that speaking directly to you?"

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I was like, "Yeah. Was speaking directly to you?"

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He was like, "Yeah."

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I'm like, "Oh, we're coming back."

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He's like, "Yeah, we're definitely coming back."

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- It doesn't really feel like anybody's

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really worried about who else is there.

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Everybody's just kind of it felt

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like authentic community in the room.

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And so we come in 2006 and then Dani signs us up

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for a Journey group, and then we sign up --

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Then and then after the Journey group,

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we decide we should do a small group.

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Then we started volunteering at Go Cincinnati

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at the time, Thanksgiving Food Drive.

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And so it wasn't just Sunday.

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Sunday continued to be great,

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but it was this holistic part of my life.

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And then of course, like, if you

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just do the progression, "Oh yeah,

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now it's time for a Go Trip."

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My company at the time was in the tank,

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so I had plenty of free time.

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- It was right around the time

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when the housing market crashed.

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It was a really rough time. Yeah.

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- But we decided to go to New Orleans.

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- Yeah. So we go on this trip.

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Friendships develop out of our Go groups.

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- I got baptized.

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- Yeah, I feel like it was kind of a whirlwind.

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Like, it was almost like everything lit on fire

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and we were running and running fast

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and running hard toward Kingdom things.

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- One of the guys I met on the New Orleans trip,

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he was unemployed at the time.

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I'm employed but not taking a paycheck.

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And so somehow money came up and somehow he's like,

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"Hey, man, I'm just going to tell you,

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the only thing the whole Bible

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God tells you to test Him on is giving. That's it."

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I don't know what gave or I don't know what it was

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that his --made him so convincing.

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But I was like, "You know what? Great.

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I'm going to do that."

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Again, not taking a paycheck,

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but I thought, okay. - It was tight.

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It was tight, and interestingly enough,

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there became a certain point where

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I remember going, "I don't even notice that it's gone."

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It felt more like a just sort of fell into our rhythm.

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And it was also right before Game Change.

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Do you remember that?

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Game Change was the very first time we were

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ever asked to give above and beyond our normal giving.

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And I remember when they started talking

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about the different things

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that Game Change was going to support.

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And I remember thinking, "Oh my gosh, God's on the move."

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- It was super exciting to watch,

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to sit in a room full of people that

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were all getting calibrated towards

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these big, giant things that are going to try to do.

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And like, man, does that feel cool?

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Like, yeah, sure, you can go volunteer here.

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You can do that. It's all great stuff.

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But wow, we're all going to team together

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and go do a thing? - Yeah.

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- That was very cool.

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- We came up with our number to give

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and it felt like absolutely impossible.

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There was no way we were going to actually ever.

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Because again, we were still in this place

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where we didn't really have any money.

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We were like, "All right, well, God's moving.

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We went on this train. Let's go."

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- It felt challenging and exciting

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and we both felt a peace about it.

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- Yeah. And we also just kind of felt like

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if God's leading us this in giving us this number,

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we're trusting His story and what He's doing.

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And that trust is going to carry us through.

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And we'll figure it out." You know?

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During Game Change, we were able to experience

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God in a completely different way

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because in that experience, He showed up.

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He showed up with jobs,

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He showed up with friendships,

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He showed up with all kinds of things.

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- So as we kind of cruise in towards

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the third one of these that we've experienced

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and there's been more in those,

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um, it's really interesting how I'm struggling

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with what generosity looks like for The Push personally.

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And then I start thinking about Man Camp

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and camps specifically.

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I've said again and again and again

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I've watched it happen, God has consistently

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shown me how small my dreams are.

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Like, I think, "Man, it'd be great

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if this many guys showed up

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and this sort of a thing happened."

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And that sort of it's that you look back at

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what you thought would be great

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and you're like, "That's stupidly small."

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But I thought it was great at the time

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because I didn't know any better, you know?

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So I'm excited about it just for

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what it's going to be for us,

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what it's going to be for me, selfishly,

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what it could mean to Camps,

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what it can mean to Crossroads in general.

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And when I think about the thousands of people

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that weren't at Crossroads at the last one

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that are now at Crossroads, and I think,

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"You don't even know. I'm sure you're like,

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'Ah, what is it?' Yeah, but you don't even know

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the good stuff that's out there. You know?"

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You can't know it. How could you know it

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if you've never lived it at all? It's not just camp stuff.

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I mean, again, we get to come together

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as a collective group

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and put our meager resources collectively.

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It's way more than any one of us could ever do,

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and we get to all be a part of that

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and see the fruit of that and experience

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what that feels like inside and go,

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"Man, I made a commitment to maybe a little nervous."

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I'm a big fan of stuff that makes you a little nervous.

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Okay, there's one story that --

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I'm trying not to tear up while I tell this.

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If you've ever been to camp, there's

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a big, nasty cow pond that we use to baptize people,

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which is amazing.

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So I'm standing on the edge of that

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and I'm watching the baptisms,

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and I'm sitting there and there's shadow,

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just this shadow just falls over me.

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And I look over and there's this guy.

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I mean, this guy was six foot five,

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250, just corn fed. I'm looking at this guy.

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He's looking at me really intensely, and he says,

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"Hey, did you see my arm right here?"

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And I said, "Yeah." And he had these scabs

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on his arm that looked pretty fresh.

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I was like, yeah. He said, "So Monday,"

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this is Sunday. So Monday previous.

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"Monday I came home from work,

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caught my old lady in bed with my best friend.

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And Monday night I went out in the car in the garage,

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threw a rope over the rafter

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and I tied it around my neck and I hung myself."

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The rope snapped and he landed on

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a bunch of yard implements that he had in his garage.

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And that's what he cut his arm up.

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He's kind of bruised up and battered, and he said,

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"And the only reason I didn't get back up there

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and retie that rope is because I remembered

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I was coming here this weekend."

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And so, I mean, if that's the only reason --

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If that guy is the only reason we do camp

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and there's a bunch of those guys, so.

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- Welcome to Crossroads. We're in a Push.

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I don't know if you're seeking to understand

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who Jesus is, if you're a believer in Jesus,

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but we're trying to do is push us,

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push us to get closer to Him,

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push us to be more like Him,

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push us to have a peace that passes all understanding.

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So to do that, we're going to push ourselves

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to tell Him that He's pretty good.

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Tell him He's great.

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It's also known as worshiping.

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And why don't we stand up right now

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at all of our sites?

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If you're in a bar or you're in a --

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If you're in a coffee shop, might be a little odd,

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but go ahead and go for it with your earbuds in

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and let's just tell God that He is good

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and we're up for being pushed today.

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- Put your hands together.

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- I think you're catching on to that one.

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What do you say?

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When you say to Him, "Set my heart on fire,"

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you start to awaken to the awe,

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the wonder of who He is.

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Come on and sing together.

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- Hey, you may have heard

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we had a pretty big deal this last week.

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We have a new President Elect that's coming,

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and we talked about this a while ago.

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Here's the deal.

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If Kamala Harris won or Donald Trump won,

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either one was going to be my President.

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Either one.

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But only one person is ever going to be my King,

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and His name is Jesus. Only one person.

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I'm never going to lay my whole life down

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for any politician, any human being,

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other than maybe my wife.

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I'm not going to do that.

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But this song is a heart of reflection saying,

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"God, I want You and only You

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are worthy of getting all of me."

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Let's tell Him again. Come on. Let's do it.

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You know why?

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You know why we would back off of our microphones

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and not be the loudest thing in the room?

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So that you don't just use your mouths in that moment,

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you use your ears and hear that you are not the only one saying,

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"Jesus, You're my king."

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You're not the only one saying,

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"I will live for You, all my life for you."

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We're not alone.

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Using our voices together matters.

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Maybe this is the most unified space

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that we've experienced all week. It's sacred.

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It's sacred because of Him and Him alone.

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So, Jesus, I say to You, You can have my whole heart.

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Who else would I give it to?

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Who else would I want to hold it, to have it,

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to challenge it, to charge it?

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Who else would I want to revive it?

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Because no one else can but You.

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So I give You my whole heart.

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I pray all this because of you, Jesus.

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If you're in agreement with that, then you can say Amen.

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That's right. Yeah! Woo!

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I'm so glad you're in the room.

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Glad you're online with us.

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If you're in the room,

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why don't you turn to somebody and say,

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"I'm glad to be here with you," and have a seat.

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- We met at a UC football game.

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He was a cheerleader and I thought he was hot, so.

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- I had hair back then. I had a lot going on, so.

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- Tithing was a new concept when I met Joshua.

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I didn't really understand it.

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Like I'm giving Him 10%, like right off the top?

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Like, what do you mean? Like, I earned that.

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But once I started doing that more regularly,

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it was just like, okay, this is what we do.

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This is part of our life. I know we did, I mean.

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- It was a three year commitment

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right across this campaign.

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- That was like the end of beginning of 2017,

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I think is when it started.

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We both kind of went into service

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with different numbers in mind.

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So I was like, "All right, we'll give 20%.

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Like that's like double our tithe.

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Like, that seems like a normal realistic thing.

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Like we can do that and still go out

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and go on vacation and blah blah, blah, blah, blah."

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- We had separate cards.

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She had a card, I had a card.

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And we wrote down, you know, like a game show;

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- Showed each other.

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- Yeah. My number was larger

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than our combined gross salary. Yeah.

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It was like, I specifically remember this.

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And I'm like, "There is no flipping way

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that's going to happen.

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If you really think that's what God's saying,

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I guess we can do that."

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But I was really apprehensive about it.

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It's like, oh gosh, okay,

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I'm not sure what that's going to look like,

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but we'll do this.

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- And I didn't, and to be fair,

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I didn't know either, right?

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I didn't know how that was going to work.

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How can I give more than what I have?

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- Yeah. - Right? Like I can't.

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I don't know, that's why.

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But that's how God works. He gave me the number and.

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- We were like, "All right, let's do this."

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So we signed the commitment card

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and we took it up on the stage, put it in the box.

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I know we went out to dinner that night afterwards.

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I was like, "This is probably our last night

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of freedom for like three years.

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So let's order drinks and all the things."

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I'm a nurse, so I was working at a hospital,

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had part time hours. And right away,

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like within months of the campaign starting,

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I was offered a full time position.

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So I was like, "All right, this is awesome.

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Like, things are happening, we're getting more income."

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And then a few months later, he was --

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He got a different job

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making the most money he's ever made.

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So I'm like, "All right, we can do this.

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Like we can live off of yours.

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All of mine can go to I'm In,

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like, we can totally do this."

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So it was, "Oh, wow, we can actually make

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this commitment and still go to dinner and have drinks."

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- Yes.

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- And still actually go on a vacation?

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Yes. Right. So it was like, "Wow, awesome, God,

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like You showed up. Let's go."

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So that was a high.

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And then it was back down to my job

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that had the large raise.

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And the best job I've ever had

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was suddenly cut short through an acquisition.

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Now where I'm where am I going to go.

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What am I going to do?

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I transitioned from one career path into another,

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but it was also a very low income time.

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But we were committed to meeting that commitment.

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What that looked like was us moving

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out of our apartment and moving into her parents house.

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- Yeah.

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- And praise God that we were able to do that.

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But, you know, there was no way for us

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to make this commitment without

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making an extreme move like that.

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Yeah.

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- And the normal things in terms of

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like cutting back on expenses and.

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- That was the biggest expense was rent.

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So it was like it had to go.

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- Yeah. I don't really think we took vacations

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during that time. - No.

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So, yeah, like where we thought we were like,

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oh man, we're sailing.

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And it was like, yeah, I don't know.

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- Just kidding. - I really don't know.

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And even sold my motorcycle. - Yes.

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- So if anyone ever questions if I love God,

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know that I sold my motorcycle

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to help meet this commitment.

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We barely made it across the line,

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bloody and sweaty and everything else.

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- Teary eyed. - Exactly.

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And but what we did, through God we did.

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I'm happy to say that's not the end of the story.

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Right? Shortly, shortly after we committed

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or completed the commitment, then I went from

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another career shift into where that was

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a very low earning to the highest earning

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and percentages above where I was

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even before the commitments.

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- During that same time, we were also

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going through a fertility journey

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trying to get pregnant with our first child.

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So again, like highs, highs of like

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making the most money we've ever made,

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lows of having a miscarriage.

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And I specifically remember, like,

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just calling out to Him in the car

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and being like, "Lord, I can't, I don't know what to do anymore.

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Like it is all You."

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And like, boom, we got pregnant. Boom.

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Like just the gifts.

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All of our friends and family, coworkers,

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we had like five baby showers,

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like, insane just God's goodness

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and just His provision was just poured onto us

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during that season. All right.

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Like, we are doing this, like,

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we're giving so much, but He is blessing us with so much.

00:31:19

Just the abundance that we were feeling

00:31:21

at the time, so it was like, I can trust Him.

00:31:23

I can trust Him with my money.

00:31:24

I can trust Him with my family. I can trust Him.

00:31:27

That was the best lesson,

00:31:28

the biggest lesson from that whole season.

00:31:30

And it was -- I will hold that dear in my heart

00:31:33

from here out.

00:31:34

As I think about this Push, for me

00:31:37

what's been on my heart a lot this year:

00:31:39

How much do you really trust God?

00:31:44

Do you trust Him, in our prior example,

00:31:47

to that amount of commitment on a card?

00:31:50

And our actions prove where our trust is,

00:31:53

where we're putting our faith.

00:31:55

And if He's proved himself in the past

00:31:57

financially with us through the I'm In commitment,

00:31:59

if He's proved Himself through our career,

00:32:03

through our family, through the infertility

00:32:06

or fertility journe.

00:32:08

If He's proved Himself in so many ways

00:32:09

that I can see, just in the ways that I can see,

00:32:12

how do I not trust Him again?

00:32:14

For me, I pray that I am humble enough to say yes.

00:32:18

That it's never been about me.

00:32:22

It's -- It's -- It's always been about Christ.

00:32:35

It's always everything, everything for God's glory.

00:32:41

How much more could He do to show me that He loves me?

00:32:44

$100,000, I didn't say it earlier,

00:32:46

but $100,000 was the was the commitment.

00:32:51

What is that to God?

00:32:53

It crushes me that my own selfishness

00:32:58

keeps me from an even deeper relationship

00:33:00

with Christ when He's given so much.

00:33:03

I know these things. Will I do them?

00:33:05

That's -- That's my challenge.

00:33:10

- What's the key word there?

00:33:12

100%. 100%.

00:33:18

It's not the dollar amount.

00:33:20

It's the amount of our hearts that God has.

00:33:24

Hey, you might be brand new today,

00:33:26

may not be sure there's any difference

00:33:27

between Jesus and Buddha.

00:33:30

You may be a long time church goer,

00:33:33

but you got to know if you're here today,

00:33:35

it's because God wants to push you

00:33:37

and we're pushing each other to get us

00:33:39

to 100% Christ likeness.

00:33:43

And I'm pretty excited to talk to you

00:33:44

about what we're going to talk about today.

00:33:46

Believe it or not, you're going to love this.

00:33:48

Telling you right now.

00:33:49

Tell the person next to you, "I'm going to love this today,"

00:33:51

because I'm telling you right now,

00:33:53

you're going to leave here going, "That was so good."

00:33:55

That's what's going to happen today.

00:33:56

So be happy, right now I'm just telling you,

00:33:58

I'm projecting forward just be happy right now.

00:34:00

That's the way it is. So let me pray for us.

00:34:02

God, I thank You for the ability to talk about

00:34:05

things that are transcendent and that are fun,

00:34:07

and that are deep and that are challenging,

00:34:10

because that's all of who You are,

00:34:13

all of that and more.

00:34:14

Help me to accurately reflect You

00:34:16

and to communicate Your truth to Your people.

00:34:20

And I ask for Your help to be wise and clear.

00:34:24

And I pray these things according to

00:34:25

the character and identity of Jesus. Amen.

00:34:31

Totality. I've become somewhat of a geek, I guess.

00:34:38

I never would have thought myself being a geek,

00:34:41

but man, I love reading about NASA

00:34:46

and the early space program.

00:34:48

I've become a bit of an astronomer.

00:34:51

I love, but one of my favorite things

00:34:53

I've done in the last few years

00:34:54

have been to two eclipses. Oh my gosh. Amazing.

00:34:59

Like, I'm getting pretty geeky.

00:35:01

Like, I'm the kind of guy now that

00:35:03

I would have picked on myself in high school.

00:35:05

You know? Did a lot of things in high school

00:35:07

I'm not proud of. I probably would have

00:35:08

picked on the kid who had a pocket protector.

00:35:10

And I'm about ready to start wearing

00:35:11

a pocket protector with pens in it,

00:35:13

just so you know.

00:35:14

When I went and saw the last eclipse I did,

00:35:17

you could stay local where you were

00:35:20

if you were in the tri state area here in Ohio

00:35:23

or Indiana or Kentucky,

00:35:25

or you could make a bit of a ride

00:35:26

and you could get to where

00:35:28

it was going to be a total eclipse.

00:35:32

You might think, well, 99% is pretty good,

00:35:34

but it's really not 100.

00:35:36

This is what 99% looks like.

00:35:38

99% is, it's like a -- it's like a little,

00:35:41

oh, we've got a little crescent moon up there.

00:35:43

It's a little darker at 2:00 than it should be.

00:35:46

It's cool for sure. It's very, very cool.

00:35:49

But if you haven't been to a total eclipse,

00:35:51

it's nothing at all like 99. Nothing.

00:35:54

Because things go dark.

00:35:56

The birds get fooled, they go,

00:35:59

"Oh, I guess it's time to go to bed."

00:36:01

The crickets, they go, "Oh, night time already."

00:36:04

They start coming out.

00:36:06

It gets drops in temperature immediately.

00:36:08

It is crazy.

00:36:10

And this is the way it is with many of us

00:36:13

if we choose to follow of Christ,

00:36:14

we get pretty impressed with ourselves.

00:36:16

Like, man, I'm really good.

00:36:17

I'm better than the person who's 75.

00:36:20

I'm really awesome." Better, I don't know.

00:36:23

God doesn't love you more

00:36:24

because you're more than somebody else.

00:36:27

But I'll tell you when you get to 100,

00:36:30

and no one's ever going to get to 100

00:36:32

as far as being sin free, having no issues,

00:36:35

but 100 means well, we say,

00:36:38

"I lay my whole life down. I am Yours.

00:36:40

I am on a journey, God."

00:36:42

When you get to 100 is when things get changed,

00:36:45

not 99, 100.

00:36:47

And you say, "Everything that I have is Yours,

00:36:49

God, because You have given me everything,"

00:36:51

and it's a beautiful, profound thing.

00:36:54

Abraham Kuyper was the prime minister

00:36:58

of the Netherlands. And he said this. He says:

00:37:01

There is not a square inch in the whole domain

00:37:05

of our human existence over which Christ,

00:37:08

who is sovereign over all, does not cry, Mine!

00:37:13

Mine.

00:37:15

Everything I have, everything you have is God's.

00:37:18

He's entrusted all of it to us,

00:37:22

and He knows it's all His.

00:37:25

And I'm now talking just about your life.

00:37:27

I'm not even talking about our stuff

00:37:28

that we've talked about getting on the table.

00:37:30

I'm just talking about our life.

00:37:32

We have to come to surrender to the truth

00:37:35

that He says, I am His. He possesses me.

00:37:39

And as long as I try to tug myself away from Him

00:37:42

or maintain my own sovereign identity,

00:37:46

the longer I do that, the less peace

00:37:48

I'm going to have that passes all understanding.

00:37:51

The less fruit of the Spirit I'm going to have:

00:37:53

love, joy, peace, patience, kindness,

00:37:54

all those things.

00:37:57

Isaiah 54 has been a verse that

00:37:59

I've shared with a number of people.

00:38:01

I don't know if everyone heard it here.

00:38:02

I want to give some different angles on this.

00:38:04

This is a verse

00:38:05

that is basically our theme in this Push.

00:38:08

In this Push I'm pushing on you right now,

00:38:10

you're pushing on me, God's pushing on me.

00:38:13

We're saying, "Hey, do you want more of God?

00:38:15

Do you want more of His Spirit?

00:38:17

Do you want more of the plans that He has for your life?

00:38:20

Do you want the possibility of seeing

00:38:23

an awakening in your lifetime,

00:38:24

where the Spirit of God moves over land

00:38:27

and crazy things happen? Do you want that?"

00:38:29

We're pushing on that stuff.

00:38:31

And Isaiah 54 has been a clear, clear sign for us.

00:38:35

Here's what it says:

00:38:55

I want to give a few words and talk about these here.

00:38:58

One is right there, let's look at the first one here.

00:39:00

Oh! Excuse me. Go away from me.

00:39:02

There you go. Right here.

00:39:03

Enlarge, enlarge, enlarge. Going up there?

00:39:10

It looks really cool right here.

00:39:12

Really cool. Like there's a red circle that looks great.

00:39:21

Okay. It looks cool to me. I'm having fun.

00:39:26

All right, let's just talk about it.

00:39:28

Let's talk through this right here.

00:39:29

Enlarge the place of your tent.

00:39:32

I don't know what's wrong, what the problem is

00:39:35

with many of us who get really weird

00:39:37

if something gets bigger in the Kingdom of God.

00:39:40

Like, when something starts to grow, we go,

00:39:42

"Something weird is happening over there."

00:39:44

And now part of that is because large things

00:39:46

and large churches, there have been

00:39:48

some horrible scandals and stuff that's happened

00:39:50

in large things in large churches.

00:39:52

But understand, not more than smaller churches.

00:39:55

Actually, way more scandals happen in smaller churches.

00:39:58

I know a bit about this.

00:39:59

This is kind of my industry.

00:40:00

You just know about it in big churches

00:40:01

because that's what gets publicized

00:40:04

and it's horrible, it's awful.

00:40:06

But what's really awful is when God's people think

00:40:09

that when something is growing and getting bigger,

00:40:12

something is wrong. Let me ask you this.

00:40:13

When your savings are getting -- Are growing and getting bigger,

00:40:16

if that's happening with your paycheck

00:40:17

or your savings is that bad?

00:40:19

If your muscles are growing and getting bigger,

00:40:22

is that bad?

00:40:24

If your family, if you have a family,

00:40:25

is growing, getting bigger, is that bad?

00:40:27

I'll tell you what, man, every time

00:40:28

I see somebody Crossroads who adopts a child,

00:40:31

who fosters a child, and of course has their own child,

00:40:35

jeez, it is massive.

00:40:38

Like, wow, you are enlarging your life.

00:40:43

You're enlarging your heart.

00:40:45

You're looking for that to grow.

00:40:47

And here, Crossroads, we believe it's a good thing

00:40:50

to be a part of something that is getting larger,

00:40:52

because Jesus said that's the way it should happen.

00:40:54

He said, greater things will you do.

00:40:56

Greater, that means, includes larger.

00:40:58

He said, "Go into all the world,

00:41:00

baptizing in the name of the Father, Son."

00:41:02

The whole world. Why go the whole world?

00:41:03

Because He wants more people in His family, that's why.

00:41:07

The book of Acts says again and again

00:41:09

God added 3000 people to their number that day.

00:41:11

Why does it do that?

00:41:13

Because it's called a celebration.

00:41:15

Enlarging, getting large.

00:41:16

Your life, God having more of your life.

00:41:19

Do you want God to have your life

00:41:21

and your life to be enlarged?

00:41:22

Because that's what happens when a person goes 100% to God.

00:41:26

Your heart gets enlarged,

00:41:28

your compassion gets enlarged,

00:41:30

your actual resiliency gets enlarged,

00:41:33

your prayer life gets enlarged,

00:41:35

your ears to the voice of God gets enlarged.

00:41:39

Now the next one, enlarge the place of your --

00:41:41

Let's see if it works. Let's try it again.

00:41:43

I believe. Give me that slide again.

00:41:45

Give me that black slide up there.

00:41:46

Come on, come on, let's do this.

00:41:47


00:41:50

Ahh, okay. I'm circling tent, and nothing. Okay.

00:41:58


00:42:00

Your tent is your territory.

00:42:05

That's the place where you reside.

00:42:08

That's the thing that you are responsible for.

00:42:13

You have a tent, or as I'll call it,

00:42:16

a territory that is yours.

00:42:18

Your body is your territory.

00:42:20

You're responsible for your body.

00:42:22

You're responsible, if you have a family,

00:42:24

for your family. You're responsible before God.

00:42:26

It's God's family, but you're responsible for it.

00:42:29

If you have a business, if you have accounts

00:42:31

that you manage, that's your territory.

00:42:34

And the image here is enlarging.

00:42:36

God has always been enlarging His people.

00:42:38

He told Abraham, enlarge your territory.

00:42:41

Look at the stars up in the sky.

00:42:43

You're going to outnumber them.

00:42:46

We have a big tent at our base camp property.

00:42:51

And this last year we enlarged it

00:42:52

and it was a sign of this.

00:42:53

How do you enlarge the tent, that meeting tent?

00:42:56

Well, you go out there and you pull up the stakes,

00:42:59

you pull up the stakes,

00:43:01

you reconfigure the canvas and you stretch it out.

00:43:05

You stretch it out, and then you re-hammer it down.

00:43:08

You got to go through some disheveling

00:43:10

to pull things up and hammer it down.

00:43:12

We're doing disheveling here in our church right now.

00:43:16

We're changing things because we are expanding

00:43:20

the territory that God has given us.

00:43:22

In fact, He's made it our territory.

00:43:26

And you in your life, whenever you take new territory,

00:43:29

whenever you want to expand your life

00:43:31

or expand a sector in your life,

00:43:33

it's going to mean uprooting some tent pegs

00:43:36

that you thought before were just fine

00:43:38

and you didn't want to do it.

00:43:39

It's going to mean some change.

00:43:40

Another key word that we have in all of this

00:43:43

is your, stretch out place of your tent.

00:43:48

Stretch your tent curtains.

00:43:49

Do not hold back. Lengthen your cords.

00:43:51

Strengthen your stakes.

00:43:52

For you will spread out to the right and the left.

00:43:55

And your children will possess nations

00:43:56

and settle in desolate cities.

00:43:58

Six times your, your, your, your, your, your.

00:44:04

The idea is again your territory, your territory.

00:44:09

Our church, we have four territories,

00:44:12

four things that are our assignments,

00:44:14

that are our territories, that we have --

00:44:16

We believe we have

00:44:18

a responsibility before God to expand.

00:44:20

Now, they're not the kind of territories

00:44:22

that you might think they are.

00:44:23

Our territory is not teaching.

00:44:25

Our territory is not music.

00:44:27

There are some churches, their territory is music.

00:44:29

And they have like, you know,

00:44:32

gazillions of views of worship on YouTube.

00:44:34

We don't.

00:44:35

There's some people who have a territory

00:44:37

of teaching, and everyone and their brother

00:44:39

asks them to go speak at places and conferences,

00:44:41

and they get nice speaker fees and all that.

00:44:43

We don't get that. None of us get that here.

00:44:45

All of us would love to have that.

00:44:46

Maybe God'll do it someday,

00:44:48

but those things aren't our territories.

00:44:49

There's actually four things

00:44:50

where God has told us we believe.

00:44:52

And how do we say that?

00:44:53

We've heard it from Him in the results

00:44:55

that He's given us and the ideas He's given us,

00:44:57

and affirmation from prayer.

00:44:59

Four things that God has distinctly said,

00:45:03

"Crossroads this is your territory,

00:45:05

your contribution to the Kingdom.

00:45:06

You're supposed to have a disproportionat

00:45:08

e impact in these areas."

00:45:10

And God is asking us to enlarge it.

00:45:13

We've been talking about those the whole time.

00:45:15

The only one we'll talk about today is reach out.

00:45:19

Reach out, reach out is the things that we do

00:45:22

outside of our buildings,

00:45:23

outside our traditional ministries,

00:45:25

to help people who are hurting,

00:45:27

to help people who are a little bit on the outs,

00:45:29

to help people who have been given a bad hand,

00:45:31

to help people who are in poverty,

00:45:34

who are just in crisis mode,

00:45:37

and they need the hands and feet of Jesus

00:45:40

to come along and give a hand up

00:45:42

more than just a handout.

00:45:44

The body of Christ to come

00:45:47

and be the love of God with skin on.

00:45:51

And this is why the movement of Jesus is one of movement.

00:45:55

It's called a movement because we're meant to be moving.

00:45:58

We're not meant to be philosophers.

00:46:00

We're not meant to be debaters.

00:46:02

I know a lot of people who have

00:46:03

the Christian banner, who are philosophers and debaters.

00:46:07

We're here at Crossroads, we're not philosophers

00:46:09

and debaters, we're doers.

00:46:11

We get stuff done around here. We go.

00:46:14

We go after things because we believe this is

00:46:16

a core competency of God's people to be moving.

00:46:18

Right now, whether you know it or not,

00:46:20

you know right now you're moving right now.

00:46:22

You're like, "No, I'm not. I'm sitting in a nice chair."

00:46:24

No, you're moving. Right now the earth is spinning

00:46:28

and you're moving at 492,126 miles an hour.

00:46:33

Right now you're moving.

00:46:34

You just don't notice it because you're used to it.

00:46:37

As you spiritually mature and as God pushes you

00:46:39

into new territory, you will be stunned at

00:46:42

how you won't even notice how often

00:46:45

and frequently change happens because

00:46:46

you'll be used to it. You'll be acclimated.

00:46:48

But when you first start following Christ,

00:46:50

like the smallest thing, like, "Oh, my gosh,

00:46:52

starting a prayer time, I don't know how to do that.

00:46:54

It freaks me out."

00:46:55

The smallest thing, like, I want to maybe read

00:46:57

a chapter of the Bible a day. Oh my gosh."

00:46:59

But as you progress, as God starts to eclipse you

00:47:03

more and more and He starts to push you

00:47:05

and you start to feel the fruit of it,

00:47:07

you start naturally moving and doing things

00:47:09

that you would have never thought

00:47:11

you would have done before.

00:47:12

Jesus says, "My father is always moving

00:47:15

up into the present time and I too am moving."

00:47:18

We as a church, we move.

00:47:20

We don't philosophize, we don't debate.

00:47:23

We don't theorize, we move.

00:47:26

We move and we expand because

00:47:29

that's what the Bible says to do.

00:47:32

We enlarge and we uproot things because

00:47:34

we want a tent for more people to be under.

00:47:37

And all of us in here, every site,

00:47:40

someone before you made that decision

00:47:43

and what that to give us the opportunity to do that.

00:47:46

And then what happens is as we come in,

00:47:48

we have more capacity to bless

00:47:51

and help more hurting people.

00:47:54

By the way, we're doing everything we can

00:47:56

to push you in here. Everything.

00:47:58

And I'm, quite frankly, a bit stunned that

00:48:00

all of us aren't taking advantage of it.

00:48:02

Like the material, we poured a lot of money

00:48:04

into all the materials because we want to push you

00:48:07

to new spiritual depths.

00:48:08

And if you looked at them, you know

00:48:11

there isn't a single firm in New York City

00:48:15

we could have hired that would do better,

00:48:17

more powerful spiritual content than that.

00:48:20

The digital prayer experience is freaking amazing.

00:48:24

Am I right? Oh my gosh, I'm telling you,

00:48:28

do not, do not just sit there

00:48:30

and just come to a service

00:48:32

and allow this to pass you by.

00:48:34

God's moving and you need to get on, get in

00:48:38

and allow God to meet you exactly where you are.

00:48:41

One of the ways we've been moving for a long time

00:48:44

is by reaching people who have been

00:48:47

in the rape for profit industry in India.

00:48:51

It's the epicenter of the rape for profit industry,

00:48:56

of little girls are are kidnaped

00:48:59

and put in slavery, or as their parents

00:49:02

are deluded into thinking they can

00:49:03

let their their young daughter go with

00:49:05

the person who's going to take them to the big city

00:49:07

and get a stewardess job or some such thing.

00:49:10

And God has called us, and we've just been there

00:49:13

and in this, and we've been in it for a long time.

00:49:15

It's a territory of ours,

00:49:16

and we're going to expand it today,

00:49:18

and you're going to like this.

00:49:19

But first we're going to take a look at

00:49:21

one of our people who we have actually rescued

00:49:24

and her journey.

00:49:25

And you might have seen the first part of her journey,

00:49:28

but you haven't seen the most recent part.

00:49:29

Let me introduce you to Anjali.

00:53:30

- When we when we paid for her rescue,

00:53:32

and we enabled Anjali to have a place

00:53:35

to start healing up aftercare.

00:53:37

It takes a while.

00:53:38

You're talking about about little girls

00:53:40

that have been raped and giving blowjobs

00:53:43

20 times a day for years on end.

00:53:47

And I use very crass language intentionally

00:53:51

because we get numb when we hear these things.

00:53:55

And we have to have a broken heart

00:53:58

for the broken, the literal broken people.

00:54:01

And when she started having these dreams

00:54:04

of a school and we started to listen to her dreams,

00:54:07

we were told by people who knew better,

00:54:10

said, "Hey, she keeps talking about this school thing.

00:54:13

Just don't jump. Don't break up with her.

00:54:15

Don't ask her about it. Don't talk about it.

00:54:18

It's completely unrealistic. Just ignore it."

00:54:22

That's what we were told, and that's wrong. That's wrong.

00:54:28

There's things that God wants to do

00:54:30

maybe in you to enlarge your territory,

00:54:33

to enlarge your tents.

00:54:35

And when He gives us a dream and a vision,

00:54:38

we don't need people to squelch that.

00:54:40

We need people to fan life into that.

00:54:43

By the way, that doesn't mean it's going to happen.

00:54:46

It doesn't mean it's going to be easy,

00:54:48

and it definitely doesn't mean it's going to be immediate.

00:54:52

But it is biblical.

00:54:54

It is the gospel way of Jesus.

00:54:56

Jesus says in Matthew 19:26:

00:55:05

All things are possible, especially,

00:55:08

especially when there's a person

00:55:10

who's been eclipsed by 100%

00:55:13

and they've been pushed that way.

00:55:14

It's not possible if you play both sides of the fence,

00:55:16

it's not possible at all.

00:55:18

It's not possible if you just play

00:55:20

the Christian card to get your bus pass into heaven

00:55:24

if you get taken out by a bread truck.

00:55:27

That's not. No, no. Not possible. No. Not possible.

00:55:29

It's possible for people who are dependent on God,

00:55:32

put themselves in a place of being a 100% all in.

00:55:37

And God never gives up on anybody. Anybody.

00:55:43

He's never going to give up on you,

00:55:45

even if you're playing around with Him,

00:55:47

even if you're just checking the box.

00:55:48

I've got good news for you,

00:55:49

He's never going to give up on you.

00:55:52

He likes you where you are.

00:55:54

He wants to push you,

00:55:55

but He's thankful that you are here.

00:55:58

He's thankful that you want to hear from Him.

00:56:03

Man, Kyle last week said so many amazing things,

00:56:07

didn't he? Just, just, just amazing, amazing stuff.

00:56:12

Um, I don't know that I like Kyle talking about my age.

00:56:18

I don't like that he pulled out a carton of Depends

00:56:21

and implied that I need Depends in my ripe old age.

00:56:24

I don't know. You know, I mean, when's it going to stop?

00:56:27

I mean, that just seems really, really rude.

00:56:31

And I'm, so I'm just going to let Kyle

00:56:32

have the last, last word.

00:56:35

He's a good man.

00:56:37

I'm going to let him have the last word.

00:56:39

After all, I am the bigger man.

00:56:41

So I'm just going to let him,

00:56:42

let him have the last word.

00:56:45

But you know, but Kyle, Kyle said something

00:56:47

that was really profound, you know, he said,

00:56:49

"What's it going to take for you to trust your church?"

00:56:54

And if we can't trust our church,

00:56:56

we probably need to find one that we can trust.

00:56:59

And the good news is we have been proven trustworthy.

00:57:05

And I'm going to talk about that in a moment.

00:57:07

And it is really good and really powerful.

00:57:12

This is the trustworthiness

00:57:15

that we're going to step into

00:57:17

and then we're going to push ourselves into

00:57:19

and expand this territory.

00:57:21

Let's keep looking the rest of her story.

01:02:13

- For 19 years, Crossroads has been dedicated

01:02:15

to fighting human trafficking.

01:02:17

Our commitment continues with new support

01:02:19

for Anjali's school expanding its impact,

01:02:21

and now we're making an extraordinary leap forward,

01:02:25

A 220,000 square foot campus in Nepal with

01:02:28

the same partner who provided Anjali's aftercare

01:02:30

for eight years following her rescue.

01:02:33

This new facility will offer 100 beds for aftercare,

01:02:36

making room for up to 500 additional rescues each year.

01:02:41

It will also house a school

01:02:42

to help hundreds of rescued girls

01:02:44

and educate 500 children annually.

01:02:47

Additionally, new programs will serve young boys

01:02:50

working to prevent trafficking before it begins.

01:02:53

The land has been secured thanks to

01:02:56

the generosity of our community.

01:02:57

Now it's time to change the world

01:03:00

and show more girls that dreams

01:03:02

they once thought impossible are within reach.

01:03:06

And to our community across the world,

01:03:08

all the families who helped fund Anjali's rescue

01:03:11

and recovery, this is the message she wanted you to hear.

01:04:07

[applause]

01:04:11

- Wow.

01:04:13

The first time I went over to that area

01:04:15

of the world to see things for myself,

01:04:19

I was in a -- where a bunch of girls

01:04:23

had been rescued in this home, and there was one

01:04:26

was just in the corner on a chair,

01:04:28

just looking down, like a beaten dog, you know?

01:04:33

Just she wouldn't make any eye contact

01:04:35

because if she made eye contact she felt like

01:04:37

she was drawing attention to herself.

01:04:39

And in the brothel, every time

01:04:40

she drew attention to herself,

01:04:41

something horrible would happen to her.

01:04:44

And I heard a bit about her story.

01:04:46

And then as I got in the taxi cab

01:04:47

and we were going back to the hotel

01:04:49

and we were bouncing along, I was asking about

01:04:52

what needed to be done to do more.

01:04:54

Why couldn't more girls get out?

01:04:55

And we heard that from the experts there

01:04:57

that it was a lack of aftercare homes.

01:05:00

Why rescue if you can't put them in someplace, you know?

01:05:03

And that's when we said, "All right, we will,

01:05:06

we will show up for this.

01:05:08

We will we will show up for this."

01:05:10

And we've been showing up.

01:05:12

And that's a $3 million project,

01:05:15

and we want to do it all.

01:05:16

We want to wipe the whole thing.

01:05:18

We want to do a 220,000 square foot campus

01:05:22

that houses all the girls.

01:05:23

Do you want to do that? I want to do that.

01:05:27

You know why? Because that's our territory.

01:05:30

God's entrusted that to us.

01:05:32

We've been doing that more than any other entity

01:05:36

in America for the last 25 years.

01:05:38

We've been hitting the same nail over

01:05:40

and over and over and over again.

01:05:42

I don't know any other entity, any one I know,

01:05:44

let me put that that way.

01:05:45

And so we want to expand that.

01:05:48

And here's the thing, we talk about this.

01:05:50

You guys, this is kind of cool talking about this stuff

01:05:52

when we've been around as a church now for 28 years,

01:05:55

those of you who've been around for any length,

01:05:57

you know this. Let me just remind you of this.

01:05:59

Everything we've ever said we would do, we've done it.

01:06:04

Let me say it again.

01:06:06

Everything we've ever said we would do

01:06:09

we've done it 100%.

01:06:14

You can't identify anything we said

01:06:16

we were going to do that we didn't. We do.

01:06:18

Now some things we've done have been failures.

01:06:20

We built the largest privately funded

01:06:22

Aids hospital in South Africa.

01:06:23

That went for a while and then it failed.

01:06:25

We've got some failures,

01:06:27

but we're not blowing smoke up any of our rear ends

01:06:31

right here to try to motivate giving.

01:06:33

This is who we've been and these territories

01:06:36

we're expanding, we're not talking about

01:06:38

maintaining these territories.

01:06:39

You know, I've never been in a church,

01:06:43

and I've been in a number of them,

01:06:44

where when a roof goes out,

01:06:46

when an HVAC unit goes out, when pavement goes out,

01:06:50

when there's going to be new carpet

01:06:52

where there hasn't been some sort of campaign

01:06:54

or fundraising to buy the new roof.

01:06:57

And that's understandable and that's fine.

01:06:59

But, you know, we've never done that here.

01:07:01

We don't raise money to do basic maintenance.

01:07:05

We put that in our budget and we deal with it.

01:07:08

And it always sucks to write those bills,

01:07:10

but we do that.

01:07:12

And what that means is when we have

01:07:14

these unique opportunities, we actually get

01:07:17

to expand territory instead of just maintaining

01:07:19

the territory that we have right now.

01:07:22

It's really fun.

01:07:23

1 Corinthians 9:6-7 says this:

01:07:52

He loves a cheerful giver.

01:07:54

I love this: not reluctantly or under compulsion.

01:07:58

Part of how we're being pushed is to take on

01:08:02

the value system of Jesus,

01:08:04

and He is a sacrificial giver.

01:08:06

He sacrificed by laying His life down on a cross.

01:08:11

And when you come to the family of God,

01:08:13

you learn to adhere to the values

01:08:15

that are in our family, the family traditions.

01:08:18

And that includes, from time to time,

01:08:21

financial sacrifice.

01:08:23

And that's why it says here, not under --

01:08:26

Not reluctantly, because it never feels good,

01:08:29

but not reluctantly.

01:08:30

You realize, "Oh no, this kind of comes with the deal,

01:08:33

with following Jesus it comes with a deal."

01:08:34

And not under compulsion,

01:08:36

which is why we never tell anybody,

01:08:37

there's never any such thing as a fair share.

01:08:40

There's never any thermometer.

01:08:41

There's never any, like, brow beating.

01:08:43

There's never here's your number.

01:08:44

There's never anything like that.

01:08:46

That would be compulsion.

01:08:47

For God loves a cheerful giver.

01:08:49

A cheerful giver is somebody who understands

01:08:53

what they want to do before God,

01:08:54

in and of their own relationship with God.

01:08:57

Sometimes a cheerful giver is a freaked out giver.

01:09:00

We had event the other night where people

01:09:02

were able to make some commitments,

01:09:03

some leaders ahead of time,

01:09:04

and there was genuine tears with many.

01:09:07

And I was having hugs with them

01:09:09

and it was because it was daunting.

01:09:10

It's daunting to be like Jesus.

01:09:12

It is heavy and it is rich and it is beautiful.

01:09:17

This chapter says if you want to reap a bounty,

01:09:21

you must sow a lot of seed.

01:09:24

Holding back your seed doesn't give you more fruit.

01:09:27

You've got to sow that seed.

01:09:30

And so next week we're going to end this Journey,

01:09:33

we're going to end this Push with

01:09:36

a really cool seed throwing exercise.

01:09:40

You know what it's called.

01:09:42

It's called a commitment card, that's what it's called.

01:09:44

It's called a commitment.

01:09:45

Good old fashioned commitment card, that's what it is.

01:09:48

I just don't want to freak you out too much.

01:09:49

No surprises next week.

01:09:51

I know you are all amazing.

01:09:52

This is the history of Crossroads.

01:09:53

You're all going to show up next week.

01:09:55

We're probably going to have higher attendance

01:09:57

than we have this week,

01:09:58

because that's who God calls here.

01:09:59

Because that's who we are, because we're doers here.

01:10:01

Because we do hard things here,

01:10:04

because we want to sow seed in people's lives here.

01:10:06

And you're going to get this card next week.

01:10:08

And all you have to think about is this is,

01:10:11

man, what is it that God wants me

01:10:14

or that I want to tell God that I love Him,

01:10:17

to give above and beyond my regular giving?

01:10:20

Regular giving is going to support

01:10:22

all the things that we're doing,

01:10:23

all the amazing ministries we all get to benefit,

01:10:25

all the infrastructure for Thanksgiving Food Drive,

01:10:28

all the utilities, all the carpeting,

01:10:30

all the salaries of the people who disciple you

01:10:32

and build into you, all of

01:10:33

the natural missions giving that we give

01:10:36

on all kind of stuff that's really,

01:10:38

all of the kids programs, all that stuff.

01:10:41

But we're going to give us ourselves the ability

01:10:44

to expand our territory, the territory

01:10:46

that God has given us and He wants us to expand

01:10:48

because it's ours, because He's entrusted it to us.

01:10:52

And I only had the opportunity

01:10:54

to talk about one reach out thing today.

01:10:55

I hope you read that brochure we had last week,

01:10:57

and you're going to see how we're going

01:10:59

to reach every single person

01:11:00

in every prison in the entire United States.

01:11:03

Yes, yes, God has given us big visions

01:11:08

and we have hope to believe and trust in Him.

01:11:12

Isn't that fun? Isn't that fun to get beyond normal?

01:11:15

Isn't it fun to stand in the path

01:11:19

of the greats who have gone before us and go,

01:11:21

"Man, I'm not just going to church,

01:11:22

I'm being the church.

01:11:24

I am creating and part of a movement that God is doing."

01:11:28

And we all get to do that,

01:11:30

and we all get to be equal

01:11:32

because we all get to sow our seed.

01:11:34

I'm going to pray for us

01:11:37

and then I'm going to have Justin

01:11:39

or the worship leader at your site

01:11:41

who's just going to lead us

01:11:42

in a little meditative moment,

01:11:45

and then we're going to be done.

01:11:46

God, thank You for big visions, great visions,

01:11:51

they're daunting, they're hoarse choking.

01:11:55

I normally don't like them on the front end

01:11:57

because I feel responsibility, but man,

01:12:00

does it push me to a deeper place with You,

01:12:03

which is so good and so rich.

01:12:05

Father, would You prepare us

01:12:09

for what You want from us next week

01:12:11

and what You want for us next week?

01:12:16

We lay our life down before You.

01:14:01

- Man, such such an amazing message.

01:14:05

Like, there's something about this that, like,

01:14:08

it's, like, uncomfortable in the best possible way.

01:14:11

It's like it's not easy.

01:14:12

There's something about being stretched,

01:14:14

something about being pushed, I think,

01:14:16

because, like, it gives you a different vision

01:14:18

for the future of what's possible in you,

01:14:20

for you and through you.

01:14:23

So thanks for being on this Journey with us.

01:14:25

Thanks for being willing to be pushed.

01:14:27

And I just want to let you know, like,

01:14:28

this whole thing is about seeing heaven come to earth.

01:14:32

And in some ways that's a big things

01:14:33

over the next decade and in other ways

01:14:35

that is like right now,

01:14:37

ways you can bless somebody,

01:14:38

serve somebody right near you.

01:14:40

Thanksgiving Food Drive is coming up.

01:14:42

If you are near one of our buildings,

01:14:44

you can pick it up next week, get a box, fill it,

01:14:46

and make sure someone who otherwise

01:14:48

would not have a Thanksgiving meal

01:14:50

can have an incredible meal this year.

01:14:52

If you're online, you can go to Crossroads.net/TFD

01:14:54

and there's a link right there.

01:14:56

We'll actually ship you a box that you can fill

01:14:58

and give to a needy family in your area.

01:15:01

- That's right. And you know what?

01:15:03

We've got lots going on.

01:15:04

And if you've been in The Push, you know that

01:15:06

we've got maybe just one more week.

01:15:09

And so I want to encourage you to finish strong.

01:15:11

If you've been doing a group,

01:15:12

if you've been in your guide book,

01:15:14

just stay in there, stay with it.

01:15:15

And if you've not, this is your first week,

01:15:17

we do have guide books,

01:15:19

but you can figure out how to get that.

01:15:20

This is something for everyone.

01:15:22

It's called the Making Space Experience

01:15:24

and it is truly in our Crossroads app,

01:15:27

so that means you can access it

01:15:28

whether you've been on this Journey

01:15:30

or you just want to start today.

01:15:31

You can get apps, wherever you get your apps,

01:15:33

you can get the Crossroads app.

01:15:34

This Making Space Experience, I went through it

01:15:36

and it truly was a moment with God.

01:15:38

And how many times do we have a creative,

01:15:41

something that immerses us in a space

01:15:43

where we just go, "Lord, I just want to

01:15:45

see what You might have to say to me."

01:15:47

So, hey, we want to encourage you to do that.

01:15:49

And also, more than anything, come back next week,

01:15:52

join us next week,

01:15:53

watch next week for Commitment Weekend.

01:15:55

We have something incredible to share

01:15:57

and we just believe God is going to do

01:16:00

immeasurably more than we can imagine,

01:16:02

as He's been doing, some might say 10X.

01:16:05

- That's right. - Anyways, it's been amazing.

01:16:07

Thank you so much for watching.

01:16:08

We'll catch you next time on Crossroads.

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